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WHAT ARE THE SIGNS OF COMPATABILITY WITH SOMEONE? what should you look for in a relationship that are good signs that it will work long term?....get on well with each other?....good sex?.....physically attractive?.....shared interests?....good personality?.....what are the things you should look for? | |
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blackbob said: get on well with each other?....good sex?.....physically attractive?.....shared interests?....good personality?.....
All them shits... And they have to make me laugh, we gotta get each other's sense of humor. (which I guess is "get on well w/ each other" huh? ) Honesty & ambition are important to me too... Be passionate about something that doesn't make me wanna smack you | |
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I have a friend who teaches marriage education (classes for those intending to marry in the catholic church). She says 3 main things tend to break up marriages:
1. issues about money 2. issueas about each other's families (a good example: where will Christmas be celebrated?) 3. differences in parenting styles In a casual relationship, or in the early stages, these may not seem relevant. But warning bells should go off if: your new partner hates your mum, spends too much when you are a penny-pincher, doesn't want kids EVER while you are simply dying to have a baby. | |
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all those things you said really.
Its sounds cheesey but sometimes you just click with someone and the rest falls into place. I was with my ex for 7 yrs, engaged, mortgage and she ended it and it was the end of the world at the time. proper gutted. But I met my current bird 15 months ago and i've never been happier. straight we away got on, we'd had similar experiences with our ex's so we were a bit cautious with eachother at first, so fingers crossed. But in my experience you've got to keep in mind any bird you get will be hard work (no offence to the ladies as I know it works both ways). you could be with anna kournakova and she'd wreck your head sometimes. pros and cons of a relationship. bob, i saw a thread you done about your relationship problems a week or 2 ago, i hope you got it sorted one way or another | |
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dodger said: all those things you said really.
Its sounds cheesey but sometimes you just click with someone and the rest falls into place. I was with my ex for 7 yrs, engaged, mortgage and she ended it and it was the end of the world at the time. proper gutted. But I met my current bird 15 months ago and i've never been happier. straight we away got on, we'd had similar experiences with our ex's so we were a bit cautious with eachother at first, so fingers crossed. But in my experience you've got to keep in mind any bird you get will be hard work (no offence to the ladies as I know it works both ways). you could be with anna kournakova and she'd wreck your head sometimes. pros and cons of a relationship. bob, i saw a thread you done about your relationship problems a week or 2 ago, i hope you got it sorted one way or another its still ongoing, dont want to say anymore just now, if it all ends well, i will let everybody here know | |
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charlottegelin said: I have a friend who teaches marriage education (classes for those intending to marry in the catholic church). She says 3 main things tend to break up marriages:
1. issues about money 2. issueas about each other's families (a good example: where will Christmas be celebrated?) 3. differences in parenting styles In a casual relationship, or in the early stages, these may not seem relevant. But warning bells should go off if: your new partner hates your mum, spends too much when you are a penny-pincher, doesn't want kids EVER while you are simply dying to have a baby. Domestic violence breaks up a marriage too. Ohh purple joy oh purple bliss oh purple rapture! REAL MUSIC by REAL MUSICIANS - Prince "I kind of wish there was a reason for Prince to make the site crash more" ~~ Ben |
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Ask Spats, he's an expert. | |
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gemini13 said: Ask Spats, he's an expert.
NO!!! DON'T!!!!! | |
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SammiJ said: gemini13 said: Ask Spats, he's an expert.
NO!!! DON'T!!!!! I'm interested to know what he thinks....I'm bored and need some light entertainment. | |
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gemini13 said: SammiJ said: NO!!! DON'T!!!!! I'm interested to know what he thinks....I'm bored and need some light entertainment. but i already have a migraine i can't take it anymore!!! !!! | |
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SammiJ said: gemini13 said: I'm interested to know what he thinks....I'm bored and need some light entertainment. but i already have a migraine i can't take it anymore!!! !!! Hey, where'd that other idiot go? that queen lady? | |
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For me signs that it will last are...
1.She is good in bed. 2.We get along good and she does not do stuff that annoys the hell out me. (I have listed what annoys me) 3.And she has the physical attributes that rev my motor. That's all i am asking for. | |
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Hmmm deep! | |
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Spats said: For me signs that it will last are...
1.She is good in bed. 2.We get along good and she does not do stuff that annoys the hell out me. (I have listed what annoys me) 3.And she has the physical attributes that rev my motor. That's all i am asking for. hahahaha I knew you wouldn't disappoint. Tell me something? SHE has to be good in bed for it to last, but what about you? What if your little willy doesn't work anymore later on in your relationship? Then what? | |
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gemini13 said: Spats said: For me signs that it will last are...
1.She is good in bed. 2.We get along good and she does not do stuff that annoys the hell out me. (I have listed what annoys me) 3.And she has the physical attributes that rev my motor. That's all i am asking for. hahahaha I knew you wouldn't disappoint. Tell me something? SHE has to be good in bed for it to last, but what about you? What if your little willy doesn't work anymore later on in your relationship? Then what? OOOh.... got u there. do tell do tell | |
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For the most part they have never had complaints. The only complaints i have had from them are that i don't like to lie in our own sweat amd talk about crap afterwards and them getting annoyed that i don't like to go downtown. If they told me that unless i changed my outlook on those things they would leave, then they would have to tell their story walkin' because i not into that stuff.
If i could not perform in bed and they left then i wouldn't be able to blame them because the sex life is important. If the sex life is not working the relationship will not last. | |
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They have also got annoyed because i like to be on the bottom and they have also liked to be on the bottom. So they complained about that. | |
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that i haven't felt the need to throw anything that ain't tied down at the chick.
...yeah. that about covers it for me. | |
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Spats said: For the most part they have never had complaints. The only complaints i have had from them are that i don't like to lie in our own sweat amd talk about crap afterwards and them getting annoyed that i don't like to go downtown. If they told me that unless i changed my outlook on those things they would leave, then they would have to tell their story walkin' because i not into that stuff.
If i could not perform in bed and they left then i wouldn't be able to blame them because the sex life is important. If the sex life is not working the relationship will not last. I LOVE the fact that you require the woman to be "good in bed" yet yo ass won't even go down or EVER get on top Yea Spats, I'm sure you're a GREAT lover | |
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For me, things like honesty, trustworthiness, a balance of devotion and independence and some compatible spiritual inclinations are paramount. I also would be a liar if I said a certain physical attractiveness didn't matter to me. (Although my idea of what's attractive doesn't always jibe with the "norm.") And if you and a person can be comfortably silent for an extended period, I've found that's usually a good sign. Ὅσον ζῇς φαίνου
μηδὲν ὅλως σὺ λυποῦ πρὸς ὀλίγον ἐστὶ τὸ ζῆν τὸ τέλος ὁ χρόνος ἀπαιτεῖ.” | |
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CalhounSq said: Spats said: For the most part they have never had complaints. The only complaints i have had from them are that i don't like to lie in our own sweat amd talk about crap afterwards and them getting annoyed that i don't like to go downtown. If they told me that unless i changed my outlook on those things they would leave, then they would have to tell their story walkin' because i not into that stuff.
If i could not perform in bed and they left then i wouldn't be able to blame them because the sex life is important. If the sex life is not working the relationship will not last. I LOVE the fact that you require the woman to be "good in bed" yet yo ass won't even go down or EVER get on top Yea Spats, I'm sure you're a GREAT lover | |
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I think going downtown is gross. I can't help it. If that's my only "fault" then i am doing pretty good. Same thing with being on the bottom. It is too uncomfortable on top. It's a big turn on for me to be on the bottom and it's more comfortable. But that has been a smaller complaint. | |
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Spats said: I think going downtown is gross. I can't help it. If that's my only "fault" then i am doing pretty good.
Of course you do, all great lovers think oral sex is disgusting. I hope you don't let women perform that horrible act on YOU Same thing with being on the bottom. It is too uncomfortable on top. It's a big turn on for me to be on the bottom and it's more comfortable. But that has been a smaller complaint.
Yea, the top is too uncomfortable for YOU but perfectly natural for her. She should have zero complaints about being on top ALL THE TIME Oh wait, that's assuming you fuck her more than once I hope you at least move for the girl & not just lay there like a lazy fucking log. Good Lord Do you even give half a shit about what turns a woman on? I'd really love to know | |
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CalhounSq said: Spats said: I think going downtown is gross. I can't help it. If that's my only "fault" then i am doing pretty good.
Of course you do, all great lovers think oral sex is disgusting. I hope you don't let women perform that horrible act on YOU Same thing with being on the bottom. It is too uncomfortable on top. It's a big turn on for me to be on the bottom and it's more comfortable. But that has been a smaller complaint.
Yea, the top is too uncomfortable for YOU but perfectly natural for her. She should have zero complaints about being on top ALL THE TIME Oh wait, that's assuming you fuck her more than once I hope you at least move for the girl & not just lay there like a lazy fucking log. Good Lord Do you even give half a shit about what turns a woman on? I'd really love to know i wouldn't bother inquiring, his answer might infuriate u more | |
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SammiJ said: CalhounSq said: Yea, the top is too uncomfortable for YOU but perfectly natural for her. She should have zero complaints about being on top ALL THE TIME Oh wait, that's assuming you fuck her more than once I hope you at least move for the girl & not just lay there like a lazy fucking log. Good Lord Do you even give half a shit about what turns a woman on? I'd really love to know i wouldn't bother inquiring, his answer might infuriate u more He must be one of those dudes who's watched WAY too much porn & simply forgotten (or never knew) how to relate to a REAL WOMAN. Then again, there are probably enough complete airheaded chicks out there to keep his bullshit standards alive & well. It's really amazing to me that he has no idea how he comes across | |
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CalhounSq said: SammiJ said: i wouldn't bother inquiring, his answer might infuriate u more He must be one of those dudes who's watched WAY too much porn & simply forgotten (or never knew) how to relate to a REAL WOMAN. Then again, there are probably enough complete airheaded chicks out there to keep his bullshit standards alive & well. It's really amazing to me that he has no idea how he comes across i know living proof that some men actually only think with what's between their legs rather than what's between their ears really sad... (luckily i got my a good man ) | |
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I don't watch porn and i know what a real woman is. For some reason you don't think the women i am into are what you consider real women. I have specific tastes. I am not the only one.
I don't ask them to do anything they don't want to do so they should not ask me either. And no i don't expect them to go downtown even though they have said they would have no problem doing it If I wanted it. I think that's gross too and i would not enjoy kissing her if she did that. | |
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Handclapsfingasnapz said: that i haven't felt the need to throw anything that ain't tied down at the chick.
...yeah. that about covers it for me. Oh please, let me find this! | |
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Spats said: I don't watch porn and i know what a real woman is. For some reason you don't think the women i am into are what you consider real women. I have specific tastes. I am not the only one.
I don't ask them to do anything they don't want to do so they should not ask me either. And no i don't expect them to go downtown even though they have said they would have no problem doing it If I wanted it. I think that's gross too and i would not enjoy kissing her if she did that. Oh Lordy!! How old are you? Seriouus question. | |
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