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PrintableArbi said: Spats said: What's an orgnote?
Orgnote is basically a private message. Beneath the title there is a subsection called: Orgnotes. If you received one, there should be some blinking star.  Maybe mine didn't go through.
I basically wanted advice on how to improve our conversations. Due to some traveling with family and friends on Friday, I couldn't come to work to tell him that if he he likes me, he should be more active and take me out somewhere. I called him three times and left two messages. One of them said that if he calls back, he should leave a message. He returned two of my calls and one of them(on Friday) with a message saying that I should get back to him. It's Monday now and I feel shy to call him back. Do I tell him over the phone that he should take me out to places and open up to me? Previously, when I did speak to him on the phone it was bascially to tell him that my parents found out about the relationship, their reaction and what coworkers are saying. I do not want our phone coversation to be like: "Hi. How are you? I am fine. School was stressing. Exams coming up. Work could have been more fun. The manager was a jerk." <A 2 minute conversation :/. [Edited 11/7/05 9:46am] I'm not really sure if you should ask Spats about relationships. You might want to ask someone like Byron or Fauxie. You'd get much better advice. | |
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Just ask him out. What's with women and the whole "Sould i tell him to be more active and take me places." Don't wait for him to take you places. Take charge of your situation instead of waiting. If he says no or does not respond then move on.
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gemini13 said:[quote] Arbi said: I'm not really sure if you should ask Spats about relationships. You might want to ask someone like Byron or Fauxie. You'd get much better advice. I've orgnoted both of them. | |
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What I need is :
- understanding guy, wise and funny - someone I think he's sexy, with charisma - good sex, and often - at least one hug a day - respectful for my art I got all that with my current boyfriend. He's cooking, washing dishes, and can do everything I can do. Our relationship brings me love, respect, pleasure, tenderness. We've been working hard on it cuz we are both quite strong and odd. | |
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brownsugar said: i look for someone who can be patient with me. i know i'm a handfull.
just someone who is on the same level as i am in life. a person who doesn't play mindgames and says whats on their minds. exactly 
when i read it i thought 'hey? did i write that?'  | |
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My advice of telling her to take charge of the situation is wrong??? Yes, why don't we enforce the gender roles and have her wait until he takes her out to dinner or something. JUst have her sit back and wait and let him do all the work. She already believes in that with the whole "Why doesn't he just take me out somewhere?" line. | |
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Spats said: My advice of telling her to take charge of the situation is wrong??? Yes, why don't we enforce the gender roles and have her wait until he takes her out to dinner or something. JUst have her sit back and wait and let him do all the work. She already believes in that with the whole "Why doesn't he just take me out somewhere?" line.
ummm... i feel u  if i'm in2 a person i don't have a problem sayin' so...
deep breath Spats | |
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