Genesia said: johnart said: Ideally we ALL want to fuck without condoms. I get that. However... My partner has been blissfully fuckin the shit out of me (with condoms) for 12 years and remains neg. I got "the news" (poz, not herpes) only a few months into our relationship. I know it's a very personal choice, but I don't understand how folk will not take a chance on a protected relationship with someone they know to be positive (of whatever) but will then turn around and take the BIGGEST chance by going unprotected because it's a "committed" relationship. Seriously? And he doesn't make you ring a bell and shout, "Unclean! Unclean!" as you walk down the street? SHit!!! Is THAT what that bell is for???? FUCKERRRRR! | |
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Imago said: Vendetta1 said: Sorry but not being able to give someone head without a rubber bums me out.
That would actually give me an excuse not to have to give head. Does eating ass have an HIV risk? That could be a deal breaker for me. You are a legend!!! "I know that living with u baby, was sometimes hard...but I'm willing 2 give it another try.
Cause nothing compares....nothing compares 2 u!" | |
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this thread makes me go | |
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sinisterpentatonic said: this thread makes me go
come party with me at the convent..... Going to church doesn’t make you a Christian, any more than standing in a garage makes you a car. | |
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sinisterpentatonic said: this thread makes me go
It shouldn't. Cheer up. It should just make you work around things. There's lots of hotness to be had. Most anything REAL will make you go if you let it. | |
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StillGotIt said: sinisterpentatonic said: this thread makes me go
come party with me at the convent..... actually, i'd probably have better chances at getting laid there than finding someone on the street. | |
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johnart said: sinisterpentatonic said: this thread makes me go
It shouldn't. Cheer up. It should just make you work around things. There's lots of hotness to be had. Most anything REAL will make you go if you let it. And this is true. Thx for the pep talk. | |
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I don't know about herpes? I'm not sure if herpes is affliated with any type of cancers is it?
I was talking to a doctor about the HPV vaccine, and did you all know that 80% of sexually active people have been exposed to the HPV virus? And in fact, the strains affliated with cervical cancer cause no symptoms? Apparently, once exposed the virus can lie dormant for decades, but become active when one's immune system is down or something? I might be wrong, but that's what I think I understood? I also recall that the HPV strains not causing cervical cancer are the ones that produce warts? I just think it pays to be careful. | |
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johnart said: Imago said: I hate condoms too. Bliss is fucking the living shit out of somebody... I mean a good, hard, long pounding without a condom. I mean, I'm romantic that way. Ideally we ALL want to fuck without condoms. I get that. However... My partner has been blissfully fuckin the shit out of me (with condoms) for 12 years and remains neg. I got "the news" (poz, not herpes) only a few months into our relationship. I know it's a very personal choice, but I don't understand how folk will not take a chance on a protected relationship with someone they know to be positive (of whatever) but will then turn around and take the BIGGEST chance by going unprotected because it's a "committed" relationship. I am celibate and have been for 2 years now. I have an unhealthy outlook when it comes to relationships right now. I don't believe in committed relationships, not because I am afraid to contract something but because I don't believe people in general are faithful. | |
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lascantas said: I don't know about herpes? I'm not sure if herpes is affliated with any type of cancers is it?
I was talking to a doctor about the HPV vaccine, and did you all know that 80% of sexually active people have been exposed to the HPV virus? And in fact, the strains affliated with cervical cancer cause no symptoms? Apparently, once exposed the virus can lie dormant for decades, but become active when one's immune system is down or something? I might be wrong, but that's what I think I understood? I also recall that the HPV strains not causing cervical cancer are the ones that produce warts? I just think it pays to be careful. Nov. 5, 2002 -- Genital herpes increases the risk of cervical cancer -- which kills thousands of women every year -- by acting as an "accomplice" to another common virus that commonly causes this cancer. Herpes simplex virus-2, the cause of genital herpes, was detected in nearly half of women with invasive cervical cancer -- nearly twice as often as in women without signs of cancer, researches report in a study published in the Nov. 6 issue of the Journal of the National Cancer Institute. http://www.webmd.com/geni...cal-cancer | |
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Vendetta1 said: johnart said: Ideally we ALL want to fuck without condoms. I get that. However... My partner has been blissfully fuckin the shit out of me (with condoms) for 12 years and remains neg. I got "the news" (poz, not herpes) only a few months into our relationship. I know it's a very personal choice, but I don't understand how folk will not take a chance on a protected relationship with someone they know to be positive (of whatever) but will then turn around and take the BIGGEST chance by going unprotected because it's a "committed" relationship. I am celibate and have been for 2 years now. I have an unhealthy outlook when it comes to relationships right now. I don't believe in committed relationships, not because I am afraid to contract something but because I don't believe people in general are faithful. While I appreciate that, you should know that you should never have to "think" about what you say around me. I'm a big boy. But I know your consideration comes from love so . And I don't much disagree with your outlook on faithfulness. There are way too many degrees, angles and variables on the word alone. | |
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johnart said: Genesia said: Seriously? And he doesn't make you ring a bell and shout, "Unclean! Unclean!" as you walk down the street? SHit!!! Is THAT what that bell is for???? FUCKERRRRR! We don’t mourn artists because we knew them. We mourn them because they helped us know ourselves. | |
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myfavorite said: mcmeekle said: Speaking as a herpephile, I actively look for herpes ridden partners!
u'r such a retard... Well thank you, you smooth-talker you! | |
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johnart said: Vendetta1 said: I thought long and hard about my answer on this thread specifically because of you.
I am celibate and have been for 2 years now. I have an unhealthy outlook when it comes to relationships right now. I don't believe in committed relationships, not because I am afraid to contract something but because I don't believe people in general are faithful. While I appreciate that, you should know that you should never have to "think" about what you say around me. I'm a big boy. But I know your consideration comes from love so . And I don't much disagree with your outlook on faithfulness. There are way too many degrees, angles and variables on the word alone. this is true | |
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Neophyte said: Imago said: That would actually give me an excuse not to have to give head. Does eating ass have an HIV risk? That could be a deal breaker for me. You are a legend!!! just like the chupacabra. | |
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Anxiety said: Neophyte said: You are a legend!!! just like the chupacabra. Both suckers??? | |
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Best way to tell someone you have herpes is after sex. That way if that get upset you can call them a hypocrite, because after all they have it now to. | |
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I like to think I'm an open minded person but until they invent biker short condoms, I'm gonna pass.
My best friend and I used to read the personals for shits and giggles. We were looking at the Men Seeking Women part of it. One dude was like "SWM, looking for SWF, athletic, non smoking. I'm kind hearted and looking for someone to spend the rest of my life with. HERPES," We were both like . And we both decided that people with herpes have to date too. Shake it til ya make it | |
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jockeyb4u said: Best way to tell someone you have herpes is after sex. That way if that get upset you can call them a hypocrite, because after all they have it now to.
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jockeyb4u said: Best way to tell someone you have herpes is after sex. That way if that get upset you can call them a hypocrite, because after all they have it now to.
Going to church doesn’t make you a Christian, any more than standing in a garage makes you a car. | |
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Well, yeah, no point in letting herpes slow you down ... it's too damn late. | |
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JuliePurplehead said: I like to think I'm an open minded person but until they invent biker short condoms, I'm gonna pass.
My best friend and I used to read the personals for shits and giggles. We were looking at the Men Seeking Women part of it. One dude was like "SWM, looking for SWF, athletic, non smoking. I'm kind hearted and looking for someone to spend the rest of my life with. HERPES," We were both like . And we both decided that people with herpes have to date too. Going to church doesn’t make you a Christian, any more than standing in a garage makes you a car. | |
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JuliePurplehead said: I like to think I'm an open minded person but until they invent biker short condoms, I'm gonna pass.
My best friend and I used to read the personals for shits and giggles. We were looking at the Men Seeking Women part of it. One dude was like "SWM, looking for SWF, athletic, non smoking. I'm kind hearted and looking for someone to spend the rest of my life with. HERPES," We were both like . And we both decided that people with herpes have to date too. | |
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JuliePurplehead said: I like to think I'm an open minded person but until they invent biker short condoms, I'm gonna pass.
My best friend and I used to read the personals for shits and giggles. We were looking at the Men Seeking Women part of it. One dude was like "SWM, looking for SWF, athletic, non smoking. I'm kind hearted and looking for someone to spend the rest of my life with. HERPES," We were both like . And we both decided that people with herpes have to date too. I know a couple, married with kids now, who met on a dating site specifically for people with herpes. [Edited 5/12/09 7:06am] Ὅσον ζῇς φαίνου
μηδὲν ὅλως σὺ λυποῦ πρὸς ὀλίγον ἐστὶ τὸ ζῆν τὸ τέλος ὁ χρόνος ἀπαιτεῖ.” | |
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Lammastide said: JuliePurplehead said: I like to think I'm an open minded person but until they invent biker short condoms, I'm gonna pass.
My best friend and I used to read the personals for shits and giggles. We were looking at the Men Seeking Women part of it. One dude was like "SWM, looking for SWF, athletic, non smoking. I'm kind hearted and looking for someone to spend the rest of my life with. HERPES," We were both like . And we both decided that people with herpes have to date too. I know a couple, married with kids now, who met on a dating site specifically for people with herpes. [Edited 5/12/09 7:06am] Forgive my ignorance, but does herpes get spread to the child during birth? | |
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jockeyb4u said: Lammastide said: I know a couple, married with kids now, who met on a dating site specifically for people with herpes. [Edited 5/12/09 7:06am] Forgive my ignorance, but does herpes get spread to the child during birth? It can be a risk during vaginal delivery. Many babies born to women with the virus are delivered by caesarian. In the case of the couple I know, I think the doctors were confident the risk of transmission was low. Their baby was delivered vaginally. Ὅσον ζῇς φαίνου
μηδὲν ὅλως σὺ λυποῦ πρὸς ὀλίγον ἐστὶ τὸ ζῆν τὸ τέλος ὁ χρόνος ἀπαιτεῖ.” | |
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Lammastide said: jockeyb4u said: Forgive my ignorance, but does herpes get spread to the child during birth? It can be a risk during vaginal delivery. Many babies born to women with the virus are delivered by caesarian. In the case of the couple I know, I think the doctors were confident the risk of transmission was low. Their baby was delivered vaginally. Thanks. uhm...a friend of mine wanted to know. | |
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SCNDLS said: Amen. | |
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