dJJ said:
statistically men are better of in a relationship. Yes Single men are the most depressed, matched only by married women. Married men are happiest as are single women. I'm the mistake you wanna make | |
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Yes. And married men need to keep their happy behinds away from single women. Jus' sayin'... | |
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Perhaps... | |
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I love being single. Maybe too much. Maybe later I will change my mind, but for the time being, single with no kids is F A N T A S T I C ! ! | |
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I told her to have a nice day. ....and you do the same. | |
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I'm better off being single and don't feel wired for a relationship, but have serious daddy issues that have caused emotional problems for me whether I'm in a relationship or not. | |
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In your dreams. | |
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dJJ said:
statistically men are better of in a relationship. [Edited 9/29/13 6:35am] | |
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i almost didn't respond to seventeendayz' thread because her threads are usually about relationships and that's not my strong suit. * however, on this point i have data. short answer to the main question: yes. statistically, married women incur a very stressful lifestyle including: full time job, plus the 'second shift' of raising children, housework for the family, shopping for the family, laundry for the family, and etc. * there are exceptions to this general rule, and gender role reversals are becoming more common, but by far it is mostly true. even today in enlightened america the distribution of household chores is not equal *
http://economix.blogs.nyt...nder/?_r=0 | |
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The only way I'd do the whole "housewife" thing is if I had a nanny and a housekeeper and a job that paid big bucks that didn't require me to work in an office. If it's not like that then I won't do it.
I usually feel optimistic about marriage one day, that is until I watch those shows about people who marry crazy ass spouses then write a book about it Trolls be gone! | |
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I've been single most my life. I truly think it's a matter of karma and being soul-ready for such a thing, and sometimes this lifetime is too soon. I respect where I am and know there's a cosmic reason why I am here and am still working all these things out in due process. I am 46, so beyond childbearing age and unmarried. It's actually a relief that the childbearing choice is over so I don't have to think about it, and pressures to conform lighten up as you get older too. I'm fine with not being married or a parent. My life is very full and crafted in a unique way. On the other hand, I am increasingly interested in relationships and feeling ready for some more depth in that area. This quest is turning out to be a beautiful, difficult and magnificent spiritual journey. I am heading inevitably into LOVE by a force I cannot pretend to resist. Marriage and children are irrelevant, those are different paths and may not always be connected to love, but rather a need for place and role in society. I am more interested in the sacred path of the heart, wherever that brings me. | |
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surviving on the thought of loving you, it's just like the water
I ain't felt this way in years... | |
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For me, being single is a selfish thing. I look back at my own family and see all the WORK that raising a family takes (though I know for parents it's not really work) | |
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True, but I was thinking of marriage. Having a bf or gf here and there I still consider it being single | |
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I don't see any difference between a marriage and a serious relationship without getting married apart from that contract that you can end anytime anyway With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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99% of my posts are ironic. Maybe this post sides with the other 1%. | |
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living together is a clincher. I peresonally would find it hard to live with someone right now, I enjoy my own place too much. | |
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99% of my posts are ironic. Maybe this post sides with the other 1%. | |
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I miss JustErin in this thread. 99% of my posts are ironic. Maybe this post sides with the other 1%. | |
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Djj, * Adoption is always an option. *
[Edited 9/30/13 14:38pm] | |
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it is NOT easy being a single parent (nor being the child in a single parent household). i know it can be accomplished but it take two to make a baby for a reason. not denigrating any single parent out there -- i am one and did a pretty good job of it -- but there have been many, many times in life where having a father figure in the home for my son would have been preferable. it's a decision to ponder very carefully. | |
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Having kids is not to be taken lightly. Yes they are cute whe they are little but that's where the fun ends. I'm the mistake you wanna make | |
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