myfavorite said:

...did he feel like you were chasing him...they hate that...DONT FOLLOW BEHIND ME...is what i hear.... xoxoxo

Did you just give me hugs and kisses?

Cerebus said:

NDRU said:

I think that is what you are doing wrong

I TOTALLY agree. If he can't TELL YOU what (if anything) you've done that offended him then its nothing but some lame ass high school drama and that shit is beneath you. Let it go.

But....but...he's kinda cute and I need...you know...attention...out here.

JustErin said:

Lammastide said:

Do you really need this crap, Erin? Screw him.

...And is this all in Ottawa? If so, aren't you moving away from there, anyway? (Of have you already?)

No, no no...this is hickville, dude.

Ah... where everyone is all up in your business, eh?

Still, you don't need this guy. Know what this sounds like? Sounds like he does like you, but feels entirely out of your league and somehow resents you for it. So he not only sabotages himself, but publicly makes you out to be the villain. He sounds like some psycho grade school kid with a crush.

Timmy84 said:

NDRU said:

I think that is what you are doing wrong

Yeah it's all HIS fault.

[Edited 4/9/11 22:50pm]

I have to keep telling myself that.

JustErin said:

Cerebus said:

I TOTALLY agree. If he can't TELL YOU what (if anything) you've done that offended him then its nothing but some lame ass high school drama and that shit is beneath you. Let it go.

But....but...he's kinda cute and I need...you know...attention...out here.

but Daniela, you just got married and had a kid!

Lammastide said:

JustErin said:

No, no no...this is hickville, dude.

Ah... where everyone is all up in your business, eh?

Still, you don't need this guy. Know what this sounds like? Sounds like he does like you, but feels entirely out of your league and somehow resents you for it. So he not only sabotages himself, but publicly makes you out to be the villain. He sounds like some psycho grade school kid with a crush.

Yes, small town shenanigans.

Could be, or maybe he's just really not interested and for some reason feels the need to make it out that I am the villain to justify why he's not interested.

Either way, it's fucked up.

NDRU said:

JustErin said:

But....but...he's kinda cute and I need...you know...attention...out here.

but Daniela, you just got married and had a kid!

Fuck you.

Lammastide said:

JustErin said:

No, no no...this is hickville, dude.

Ah... where everyone is all up in your business, eh?

Still, you don't need this guy. Know what this sounds like? Sounds like he does like you, but feels entirely out of your league and somehow resents you for it. So he not only sabotages himself, but publicly makes you out to be the villain. He sounds like some psycho grade school kid with a crush.

Wait a sec here, I just really thought about this...

So when he found out I was moving here, we were talking online. We used to hang out years ago and I was interested in him back then...but always felt like he was blowing me off. Well, I asked him about it.

Shit, I still have the old facebook conversation in my inbox.

Let him go. He spelled "a lot" as one word.

Cerebus said:

Let him go. He spelled "a lot" as one word.

"actualy" he spelled it "alote"

NDRU said:

Cerebus said:

Let him go. He spelled "a lot" as one word.

"actualy" he spelled it "alote"

Trew.

JustErin said:

Lammastide said:

Ah... where everyone is all up in your business, eh?

Still, you don't need this guy. Know what this sounds like? Sounds like he does like you, but feels entirely out of your league and somehow resents you for it. So he not only sabotages himself, but publicly makes you out to be the villain. He sounds like some psycho grade school kid with a crush.

Wait a sec here, I just really thought about this...

So when he found out I was moving here, we were talking online. We used to hang out years ago and I was interested in him back then...but always felt like he was blowing me off. Well, I asked him about it.

Shit, I still have the old facebook conversation in my inbox.

"Alote". Dump the loser. Can't even spell "a lot" and "actually" right.

[Edited 4/9/11 23:20pm]

Hahaha. English is not his first language, so that's not so bad to me.

JustErin said:

Hahaha. English is not his first language, so that's not so bad to me.

I was kind of kidding, I would not hold bad spelling against a good person. But the drama is hard to get past this early in a relationship.

And is he with a woman in that photo?

NDRU said:

JustErin said:

Hahaha. English is not his first language, so that's not so bad to me.

I was kind of kidding, I would not hold bad spelling against a good person. But the drama is hard to get past this early in a relationship.

And is he with a woman in that photo?

No, I swirled his head.

JustErin said:

NDRU said:

I was kind of kidding, I would not hold bad spelling against a good person. But the drama is hard to get past this early in a relationship.

And is he with a woman in that photo?

No, I swirled his head.

ah, ok, it looked like maybe there was a blond woman to the side of him

NDRU said:

JustErin said:

No, I swirled his head.

ah, ok, it looked like maybe there was a blond woman to the side of him

It totally does, but no...it's just his stupid head.

JustErin said:

NDRU said:

ah, ok, it looked like maybe there was a blond woman to the side of him

It totally does, but no...it's just his stupid head.

Why can't you just find a nice married man to settle down with?

NDRU said:

JustErin said:

It totally does, but no...it's just his stupid head.

Why can't you just find a nice married man to settle down with?

YOU ARE SUCH A JERK!

btw, he IS married....well, separated on the road to divorcetown.

Wait.... is this still that same guy?! Woman. You need to let this fool go and pay attention to what else is going on around you. He ain't worth it and it sure as hell shouldn't be hard for you to find somebody better.

Cerebus said:

Wait.... is this still that same guy?! Woman. You need to let this fool go and pay attention to what else is going on around you. He ain't worth it and it sure as hell shouldn't be hard for you to find somebody better.

Dude, it's slim pickings out here!!!!!!

JustErin said:

Cerebus said:

Wait.... is this still that same guy?! Woman. You need to let this fool go and pay attention to what else is going on around you. He ain't worth it and it sure as hell shouldn't be hard for you to find somebody better.

Dude, it's slim pickings out here!!!!!!

No pickings would be better than settling for an immature drama machine. After what you've dealt with already what do you think a day in, day out relationship would be like with dude? Is that really what you're looking for? What you want your youngin' to be around? If all you want to do is get laid it AIN'T that hard. If you're lookin' for a relationship, I don't think this is the one. It sounds like this guy needs to finalize his divorce and do a few (or ten) years of growing up.

Edit: Because I should have proofread that mess.

[Edited 4/9/11 23:56pm]

Ever heard of the saying "I can do bad all by myself". You might want to think about it...

[Edited 4/9/11 23:55pm]

Cerebus said:

Wait.... is this still that same guy?! Woman. You need to let this fool go and pay attention to what else is going on around you. He ain't worth it and it sure as hell shouldn't be hard for you to find somebody better.

Go out have fun test the waters and don't be so desperate. Slim pickings be damned. If you have to choke your self while taking care of business so be it.

I am pretty sure we've talked about said boy a while back and I suggested maybe you should see where it leads and all. Knowing now that he's basically boasting about telling you off while acting like an ass, I would like to take that suggestion back. I'd say don't bother with him.

JustErin said:

Cerebus said:

Wait.... is this still that same guy?! Woman. You need to let this fool go and pay attention to what else is going on around you. He ain't worth it and it sure as hell shouldn't be hard for you to find somebody better.

Dude, it's slim pickings out here!!!!!!

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i will be over next week...without the fleshlight...

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this doesnt sound like you ?...you always come over as a strong , confident woman who doesnt take any shit...i would personally either tell him to f**K off or ...at the very least...tell him to leave you alone until he sorts himself out....and he sounds very immature for his age...

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their might be slim pickings but you are an attractive woman...whatever there is there...you should be able to get the cream...instead of putting up with this shit...

NDRU said:

Cerebus said:

Let him go. He spelled "a lot" as one word.

"actualy" he spelled it "alote"

is that canadian?

some guys r worth waiting 4

esp when u know they r different to the shit u have been putting up with for years and years, and esp when u connect....

its easy to meet guys but hard to meet guys that u find attractie and that u get along with who make u happy and make u laugh and make u feel all

Vicky Waiting

but not 4 ever.... there is a limit.... eventually u need to move on

[Edited 4/10/11 3:16am]

JustErin said:

I have a hard time understanding some (like I'm the only one).

I like boy. Boy tells me he always liked me. Boy sees me and says he's a little taken back that I'm not all huggy and shit with him. I ask boy to do something, boy says he's outta town for a month or so but we'll go out when he's back. Boy and I talk once online. Goes fine but after that, seems totally uninterested in talking again. Boy comes back in town and we see each other out. Boy isn't friendly with me at all so I just back off - I mean, wouldn't you? Next thing I know I'm being told to "get my head out of my ass" when I try to talk to him. I'm confused and also drunk so I think maybe I did do something wrong. Boy then goes out of his way to tell people close to me that he told me off. I call boy this week to get together for coffee to try and straighten things out. He's says he will call me, and of course, he doesn't. I see boy tonight and again, I am totally ignored, can't even make eye contact and of course says nothing about us getting together. Everyone notices. And once again before I got there, he went on about how I wasn't all friendly with him last week to people close to me.

So, boy hates my guts or WHAT???

Yes, I'm drunk right now.

You've done nothing wrong, he has no right to be treating you that way. I hate guys like this, they're great when it comes to fucking with your mind .. but that's about it.

If I were you I wouldn't have anything to do with the guy from now. You've tried, there's only so long you can put up with his shit - Personally, I think it's time for you to hit the road, no matter how hard it'll be - it'll only benefit you in the long run