Genesia said:

JustErin said:

Good lord, I know that it's a choice. I didn't mean that literally.

Sorry. Didn't realize I'd stumbled into Romy and Michele's High School Reunion.

Ba doom tis.

I know its easier said than done and its been said a million times in this thread already but the best thing really is to move on. If you really let it go you will see that he's just dust in the wind

...And in the long run its never about looks.

Heybaby said:

I know its easier said than done and its been said a million times in this thread already but the best thing really is to move on. If you really let it go you will see that he's just dust in the wind

Yup, that's what I'm doing - just letting it go.

I guess I needed to vent and whine a little bit first and I was quite tipsy when I made this thread.

Heybaby said:

...And in the long run its never about looks.

What do you mean?

JustErin said:

Heybaby said:

...And in the long run its never about looks.

What do you mean?

Heybaby said:

JustErin said:

What do you mean?

You said you always envisioned your ex with someone very attractive. It maybe about looks in the beginning but who you date has nothing to do with looks in the end. (but I'm sure you know that already lol). I've had some very handsome boyfriends and some that were not so attractive

Yeah, I know that's true.

I'm just a weirdo.

I'm probably hotter than that guy anyway...

JoeTyler said:

I'm probably hotter than that guy anyway...

Oh ya? Let's see your picture/.

JustErin said:

JoeTyler said:

I'm probably hotter than that guy anyway...

Oh ya? Let's see your picture/.

NDRU said:

JustErin said:

Oh ya? Let's see your picture/.

Isn't that him in his avatar?

JustErin said:

I have a hard time understanding some (like I'm the only one).

I like boy. Boy tells me he always liked me. Boy sees me and says he's a little taken back that I'm not all huggy and shit with him. I ask boy to do something, boy says he's outta town for a month or so but we'll go out when he's back. Boy and I talk once online. Goes fine but after that, seems totally uninterested in talking again. Boy comes back in town and we see each other out. Boy isn't friendly with me at all so I just back off - I mean, wouldn't you? Next thing I know I'm being told to "get my head out of my ass" when I try to talk to him. I'm confused and also drunk so I think maybe I did do something wrong. Boy then goes out of his way to tell people close to me that he told me off. I call boy this week to get together for coffee to try and straighten things out. He's says he will call me, and of course, he doesn't. I see boy tonight and again, I am totally ignored, can't even make eye contact and of course says nothing about us getting together. Everyone notices. And once again before I got there, he went on about how I wasn't all friendly with him last week to people close to me.

So, boy hates my guts or WHAT???

Yes, I'm drunk right now.

Mmkay, why you still dealing with 'boy's and you're a 36yr old woman ???

JustErin said:

I guess I needed to vent and whine a little bit first and I was quite tipsy when I made this thread.

You'r at the right place for that

Don't worry honey, you'r a great girl. That's obvious from all your comments on threads. And it's not about your weight, you'r as sexy as you feel! You are sexy when the man makes you feel sexy and loved. You know that love isn't depending on a few kilo's more or less. It's about sharing the same values, interests, humour, communication style and having fun. Not about playing games.

*That just reminds me to call my laywer tomorrow *

You'll be fine with or without a man. Untill then, just get a little lovin' and carin' from your fellow orgers.

NDRU said:

JustErin said:

Oh ya? Let's see your picture/.

Isn't that him in his avatar?

Clint Eastwood?

PurpleLove7 said:

JustErin said:

I have a hard time understanding some (like I'm the only one).

I like boy. Boy tells me he always liked me. Boy sees me and says he's a little taken back that I'm not all huggy and shit with him. I ask boy to do something, boy says he's outta town for a month or so but we'll go out when he's back. Boy and I talk once online. Goes fine but after that, seems totally uninterested in talking again. Boy comes back in town and we see each other out. Boy isn't friendly with me at all so I just back off - I mean, wouldn't you? Next thing I know I'm being told to "get my head out of my ass" when I try to talk to him. I'm confused and also drunk so I think maybe I did do something wrong. Boy then goes out of his way to tell people close to me that he told me off. I call boy this week to get together for coffee to try and straighten things out. He's says he will call me, and of course, he doesn't. I see boy tonight and again, I am totally ignored, can't even make eye contact and of course says nothing about us getting together. Everyone notices. And once again before I got there, he went on about how I wasn't all friendly with him last week to people close to me.

So, boy hates my guts or WHAT???

Yes, I'm drunk right now.

Mmkay, why you still dealing with 'boy's and you're a 36yr old woman ???

Um...because I am around him in the first place due to circumstance.

look at you! you got a flaming folder thread!!!!

you should post more things while drunk!

BlackAdder7 said:

look at you! you got a flaming folder thread!!!!

you should post more things while drunk!

No, Luv4u deletes my drunk threads...not anyone else's...just mine. I'm shocked this one wasn't deleted with the quickness.

JustErin said:

BlackAdder7 said:

look at you! you got a flaming folder thread!!!!

you should post more things while drunk!

No, Luv4u deletes my drunk threads...not anyone else's...just mine. I'm shocked this one wasn't deleted with the quickness.

probably because you were coherent and rubbed out his face and name in the pics you posted?

ZombieKitten said:

JustErin said:

No, Luv4u deletes my drunk threads...not anyone else's...just mine. I'm shocked this one wasn't deleted with the quickness.

probably because you were coherent and rubbed out his face and name in the pics you posted?

No, more like she just wasn't online at the time.

JustErin said:

ZombieKitten said:

probably because you were coherent and rubbed out his face and name in the pics you posted?

No, more like she just wasn't online at the time.

JustErin said:

Shit, I still have the old facebook conversation in my inbox.

I don't really appreciate you posting that here, Erin.

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Fauxie said:

JustErin said:

Shit, I still have the old facebook conversation in my inbox.

I don't really appreciate you posting that here, Erin.

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[Edited 4/11/11 20:50

Hahahaha!!!

You idiot.

JustErin said:

Fauxie said:

I don't really appreciate you posting that here, Erin.

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[Edited 4/11/11 20:50

Hahahaha!!!

You idiot.

Fauxie said:

JustErin said:

Shit, I still have the old facebook conversation in my inbox.

I don't really appreciate you posting that here, Erin.

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[Edited 4/11/11 20:50pm]

that looks like she is talking to Alien!

Damn, I so late to this thread. The responses are good thjough, and I am pretty much of the same opinion of heybaby, paintedlady, lammastide, and cerebrus. Beyond that...

girl.

girl, girl, girl.

Let this joker go. I know you say it's slim pickins' out in this new joint where you're living- but this dude has you obsessing over him, and for what? Because he's cute? Because you need a shag? Chile please; there ain't that much cute in the world or a penis thick enough in the world to warrant this type of angst. You are not yourself right now, Erin, and it's over a dude who's dogging you out? Ummm, no.

I say you need to push up those t**ties and flip that fabulous hair in another person's direction, somebody worthy of your time, Girlfriend. Get to steppin' away from this kid- life is too precious and too short to put up with the bullsh*t...unless of course, that's what you happen to be in the mood for to spice up life at the moment, and that's a different story for a different day. But in all sincerity if you're not in want or need of the drama, then don't entertain it, period. You have work and a kid to worry about, life is complicated (for anyone) enough. You'd better get your tail out to some places where you can meet some more people, and don't look back. Oh and while it's clear you have a hard on for Old Boy big time, if he can't respect you from point one and communicate like a rational adult you might just need to take a metaphorical cold shower- but by all means, Babydoll, keep it movin'.

I haven't read any responses, just your post and here's what I think:

Boy is an immature douchebag with some issues. Girl needs to find someone worth her time.

CarrieLee said:

I haven't read any responses, just your post and here's what I think:

Boy is an immature douchebag with some issues. Girl needs to find someone worth her time.

Fix & fertig. The end.