Alej said:
You're amessing He's saying it better than I ever could . With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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Serious said: Alej said:
You're amessing He's saying it better than I ever could . :falloff: | |
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I think it's just my personality.
Funny thing; I read an article in "Psychology Today" about Introverts...supposedly one of the differences between us is that Introverts place a low priority on the pursuit of happiness, while Extroverts make it a very high priority.
I enjoy making people happy. I enjoy giving more than getting. It actually shames me to accept a gift most of the time. I am the office "feeder" (always running out to get breakfast & lunch). Accepting a drink from a buddy at a bar is something I had to get used to.
So giving is in my nature and it just seemed the most natural thing to do. My dad dedicated his life to providing for our family, and I simply followed suit. I love(d) her and assumed she did as well. Now that the truth is out, I am having a hard time being the "bad guy" (as you already know). In fact, even now, it took everything I had to stand firm and not pay her cell phone bill (she can't afford to pay the old bill and the new phone that she bought on the down-low to text her lover).
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Interesting question!
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I'm proud that you didn't pay her bill. Don't let her manipulate you that much!
I'm the same. However, nowadays I only care for people whom I know for certain that they don't use me. My nurturing character has been favoring a lot of people. However, not myself.
I still love to nurture and give. However, I also started to take and take care of myself. Life became much better. Now that I'm getting more independent, it's getting better. My tendency to avoid my own life by taking care of others is still very much present. I'm working on it though. So, in the future I can be nurturing without the emotional blackmail behind it. 99% of my posts are ironic. Maybe this post sides with the other 1%. | |
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It either makes us all very interesting or sadly pathetic. I can't decide which.
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CallMeCarrie said:
It either makes us all very interesting or sadly pathetic. I can't decide which.
With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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It makes me more interesting for others when I'm not rambling on about Prince all the time. Therefore, the org is a good place to channel that hobby
Unfortunetaly it turned into an addiction. I have very low impulse control. 99% of my posts are ironic. Maybe this post sides with the other 1%. | |
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Thanks to you...! By St. Boogar and all the saints at the backside door of Purgatory! | |
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...maybe a little bit of BOTH? By St. Boogar and all the saints at the backside door of Purgatory! | |
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She's a bitch.
You're a great person and plenty of people are extremely interested in a devoted father and husband. I'm sure she was too until she got bored, which happened because she's a bitch - not because you're boring. | |
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100% agree on this
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Your wife I think went a little overboard (and no offense, but it sounds like she's maybe getting a little mid-life crisis-y).
You should do stuff that makes you feel happy and fulfilled, and just try new things that have always interested you. It's okay to be a little selfish, but for God's sake, PLEASE don't start forcing yourself to like something (like sports) just cause you feel like you should. That is lame.
As for me... Well I'm the most interesting person in the world! If you will, so will I | |
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Exactly.
And thanks for saying that so succinctly. I'm also less interesting for being so damned long-winded. Ὅσον ζῇς φαίνου
μηδὲν ὅλως σὺ λυποῦ πρὸς ὀλίγον ἐστὶ τὸ ζῆν τὸ τέλος ὁ χρόνος ἀπαιτεῖ.” | |
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Your wife was cruel in how she said it, but I can understand how someone can feel that way.
A lot of people lose their individual identity when they get into a relationship. Sure, you can say an identity can change to what a person now thinks is most important, but I can definitely understand how one can be annoyed or be bitter with their partner when they expect you to be their "everything" (not saying that was the case with you). I personally think that having no "outside" interests is not healthy.
But...
I don't think it makes you an uninteresting person because as was mentioned already, everyone is interesting in one way or another.
Obviously, you both were not on the same page when it came to your relationship...I wish you happiness in whatever road you travel down next. | |
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That's very honorable of you, you're clearly a good man. Unfortunately, people don't usually "get it" until that moment you're completely done with them. At least when (or if) you get to that point, you'll know you tried your best (...and so will she, albeit too late). | |
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She has every right to feel a certain way, but the way she expressed it lacked any kind of tact or respect, and we also know her opinion is coloured by her own boredom with everything in contrast to the excitement she has been feeling with Mr New.
So although I applaud PJ for taking it as a much needed kick in the ass to get his life full of life again, I'm also of the opinion he shouldn't take what she said 100% personally.
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Im a very interesting person but ultimately im just dust!!! Gen 3:19 Dave Is Nuttier Than A Can Of Planters Peanuts...(Ottensen) | |
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no
i am 2 normal 2 b interesting
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So what exactly makes you the most interesting person in the world? DO TELL... By St. Boogar and all the saints at the backside door of Purgatory! | |
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BTW - the dynamic between you & Fauxie is MOST interesting! By St. Boogar and all the saints at the backside door of Purgatory! | |
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How can that NOT be taken personally?
Doesn't matter in the grand scheme of things. Maybe this angst is making me more of an interesting person in & of itself?!
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Dave...I think that with you, "interesting" is an understatement!
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Normal by whose standards? That could be a source of interest! By St. Boogar and all the saints at the backside door of Purgatory! | |
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For your wife to say you were boring shows a lack of creativity on her part. Even in the most mudane situations, fun can happen... small experiences that can be well, quite memorable. That's the beauty of life... that journey that you decide to take with someone can get well, like a routine... but its the creativity in our own minds that can put some umph in things and keep stuff interesting... usually the umph tends to be stress (like losing a job, and injury, sickness... or other bad crap that can happen) that makes you glad for the more "boring" days.
But why does the routing have to be a bad thing? I am the kind of person that finds joy in the "little things in life" since I am so bogged down being a mom, I have little energy to focus on me right now... but there is a season for everything and focusing on me is not the priority right now. I am still enjoying the role of mom.... now I still get my groove on in little spurts from time to time, but I will feel guilty if I spend too much time away from my kids.
So I do things that we all enjoy... together... and that is quite nice.
Keep being you and life you how ever you like to... do what makes YOU happy. If someone thinks you should do otherwise, tell the bitch to fuck off.
Here's to your own brand of happiness cheers!
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¡Salud!
¡Dinero!
y ¡Amor! By St. Boogar and all the saints at the backside door of Purgatory! | |
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I dunno if I'm interesting, but I'm unique! In both good ways and bad. My art book: http://www.lulu.com/spotl...ecomicskid
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