JustErin said:

Funkcreep said:

Personal experience? Let's see, i've been married for 20 years this past October, I know what a women likes. She likes to feel appreciated, protected. She wants somebody who would lay their life on the line for her.

Difficult?? Yes, it should almost be impossible to have sex with a women who is NOT your wife. I know thats not going to happen and never has happened but as a society we do need standards.

They have lowered standards. Explanation: They (feminist, liberals, athiests etc...) lowered the standards. The standard used to be that in order to have a sexual relationship with a women you would have to marry her. That is NO longer the standard. The standard used to be that around a women you watch you language, you treat her with respect, you treat her as you would want somebody to treat your mother. That is NO longer the standard.

I hope I'm not coming off as condescending but this stuff is elementary. Like my other posts states, it's really irritating when somebody says "whatever that means" when they damn right what it means.

You know what your wife wants...and that's where your experience ends.

Thank goodness standards have been lowered then! Other than treating others with respect (which is what everyone should be doing anyway), it was a delusional standard to begin with.

You found someone that is super old school like you and that's awesome. I wouldn't concern yourself too much about how others are living their lives, especially if you're in something that is perfect for you.

I'm not concerned how others are living their lives. I'm just stating my beliefs on the topic of "Is This True". I hope you respect and tolerate my beliefs. Wait up, you said your into judging (which is a good thing) so maybe you don't respect and tolerate my beliefs on the matter at hand.

Funkcreep said:

JustErin said:

Ok.

"To get women to have sex with them"? I don't know about other women, but I don't have sex with men because they 'got me' to have sex with them.

If I fuck them it's because *I* wanted to fuck them.

the language your purposely using, your trying to come off as women are just like men sexually. I won't repeat it, obviously it's right there. You using that language is another example of lowered standards. 50 years ago no self respecting women would be caught dead talking like that, but today it's totally acceptable.

Guess you don't read many of my posts because this is the way I always talk. I'm not purposely doing anything in this thread.

50 years ago, no self respecting woman would ever even consider leaving her husband even though he beat the shit out of her.

Many things have changed for the better.

And you're implying that women don't want to have sex because they just want it, that women have to be wooed or convinced to have sex, that they give it up because he wants it or has worked for it and it's his reward. You do realize that 50 years ago women were conditioned to think that way, right?

There are differences between men and women when it comes to sex, but that's not one of them.

This thread...

It's not politics. It's not religion. But it's got that good old P&R feel, y'know?

FauxReal said:

This thread...

It's not politics. It's not religion. But it's got that good old P&R feel, y'know?

Dude... I tried to not post anything... (kicks rocks with hands in pockets) .....

It's cool, I contributed too so I have a hand in this.

I realized yesterday that I am the youngest in the Late Night Crew.

FauxReal said:

It's cool, I contributed too so I have a hand in this.

I realized yesterday that I am the youngest in the Late Night Crew.

Oh can it.

JustErin said:

FauxReal said:

It's cool, I contributed too so I have a hand in this.

I realized yesterday that I am the youngest in the Late Night Crew.

Oh can it.

Dude. You're not treating Erin like a lady, mentioning age like that.

Cerebus said:

JustErin said:

Oh can it.

Dude. You're not treating Erin like a lady, mentioning age like that.

Umm...with age comes wisdom and beauty or something.

Here you go (Erin)

(Psst how was that?)

Cerebus said:

JustErin said:

Oh can it.

Dude. You're not treating Erin like a lady, mentioning age like that.

Isn't there an expression that says, " a lady never tells her age"?

JustErin said:

Funkcreep said:

the language your purposely using, your trying to come off as women are just like men sexually. I won't repeat it, obviously it's right there. You using that language is another example of lowered standards. 50 years ago no self respecting women would be caught dead talking like that, but today it's totally acceptable.

Guess you don't read many of my posts because this is the way I always talk. I'm not purposely doing anything in this thread.

50 years ago, no self respecting woman would ever even consider leaving her husband even though he beat the shit out of her.

Many things have changed for the better.

And you're implying that women don't want to have sex because they just want it, that women have to be wooed or convinced to have sex, that they give it up because he wants it or has worked for it and it's his reward. You do realize that 50 years ago women were conditioned to think that way, right?

There are differences between men and women when it comes to sex, but that's not one of them.

The difference between men and women sexually:

Tell 5 single men that they can go to the local club, and they can pick out 50 women to have sex with tonight and over the next month. What would their responses be?

A) Hell yeah, when can we start?

B) I don't know, let me think about it.

C) No, it's ok.

D) No way in hell. Get away from me you sicko pervert!

Now, tell 5 single women they can go to the local club, and they can pick out 50 men to have sex with tonight and over the next month. What would their responses be?

A) Hell yeah, when can we start?

B) I don't know, let me think about it.

C) No, it's ok.

D) No way in hell. Get away from me you sicko pervert!

Do you think we would have more of Answer A) Hell yeah, when can we start? from the men or the women?

Be honest.

JustErin said:

kewlschool said:

JustErin, let me put this in a nut shell: If he says may I please choke you why shagging and you say, "Yes, please." That's acting like a lady.

Are you kidding me? Real men don't ask.

it's actually a turn off to be asked anything about sex, I hate being put on the spot like that! just DO IT!!!

FauxReal said:

Cerebus said:

Dude. You're not treating Erin like a lady, mentioning age like that.

Umm...with age comes wisdom and beauty or something.

Here you go (Erin)

(Psst how was that?)

(Very nice. Hopefully she won't think you're being a chauvinistic pig for trying to confuse her with compliment and flowers. )

JustErin said:

Cerebus said:

Dude. You're not treating Erin like a lady, mentioning age like that.

Isn't there an expression that says, " a lady never tells her age"?

If there is I'd guess you'd probably wonder what the fuck that even means.

ZombieKitten said:

JustErin said:

Are you kidding me? Real men don't ask.

it's actually a turn off to be asked anything about sex, I hate being put on the spot like that! just DO IT!!!

I agree with that from the male point of view as well, although I could be in a minority there. But umm, "do you like that baby"? Uhh, "is my dick hard?!" Clearly, I like it! I've never understood asking about performance afterwords, either... but that may be a different thread.

FauxReal said:

JustErin said:

Isn't there an expression that says, " a lady never tells her age"?

If there is I'd guess you'd probably wonder what the fuck that even means.

who invented being lady like? Those standards were imposed on women so they would be faithful and not stray. Double standards that were (and still are) accepted and endorsed basically to prevent women from enjoying sex, because if they did, they might realise the one they married was a dud, and god help him if anyone found out! That doesn't hold now. Words like slut have been invented to SHAME women into being ladylike. There is nothing worse than a slut, a whore, a woman of loose morals. Being a slut is the lowest of the low, ask certain muslim women, who would agree to have their daughter stoned to death rather than be called the mother of a whore.

Anyway

Cerebus said:

ZombieKitten said:

it's actually a turn off to be asked anything about sex, I hate being put on the spot like that! just DO IT!!!

I agree with that from the male point of view as well, although I could be in a minority there. But umm, "do you like that baby"? Uhh, "is my dick hard?!" Clearly, I like it! I've never understood asking about performance afterwords, either... but that may be a different thread.

Funkcreep said:

JustErin said:

Guy, seriously. How can anyone reply unless they speak from personal experience?

So what you're saying is that it's supposed to be difficult to have sex with a woman?

I'm trying to understand what it means when you say that they have lower standards.

Personal experience? Let's see, i've been married for 20 years this past October, I know what a women likes. She likes to feel appreciated, protected. She wants somebody who would lay their life on the line for her.

Difficult?? Yes, it should almost be impossible to have sex with a women who is NOT your wife. I know thats not going to happen and never has happened but as a society we do need standards.

They have lowered standards. Explanation: They (feminist, liberals, athiests etc...) lowered the standards. The standard used to be that in order to have a sexual relationship with a women you would have to marry her. That is NO longer the standard. The standard used to be that around a women you watch you language, you treat her with respect, you treat her as you would want somebody to treat your mother. That is NO longer the standard.

I hope I'm not coming off as condescending but this stuff is elementary. Like my other posts states, it's really irritating when somebody says "whatever that means" when they damn right what it means.

I consider myself a feminist and there are multiple meanings to being one in today's world, so please look up third wave feminism. However, my standards are like your old fashioned definition, I value someone who respects me and respects females, starting with his mother, if not female family members.

Funkcreep said:

JustErin said:

Guess you don't read many of my posts because this is the way I always talk. I'm not purposely doing anything in this thread.

50 years ago, no self respecting woman would ever even consider leaving her husband even though he beat the shit out of her.

Many things have changed for the better.

And you're implying that women don't want to have sex because they just want it, that women have to be wooed or convinced to have sex, that they give it up because he wants it or has worked for it and it's his reward. You do realize that 50 years ago women were conditioned to think that way, right?

There are differences between men and women when it comes to sex, but that's not one of them.

The difference between men and women sexually:

Tell 5 single men that they can go to the local club, and they can pick out 50 women to have sex with tonight and over the next month. What would their responses be?

A) Hell yeah, when can we start?

B) I don't know, let me think about it.

C) No, it's ok.

D) No way in hell. Get away from me you sicko pervert!

Now, tell 5 single women they can go to the local club, and they can pick out 50 men to have sex with tonight and over the next month. What would their responses be?

A) Hell yeah, when can we start?

B) I don't know, let me think about it.

C) No, it's ok.

D) No way in hell. Get away from me you sicko pervert!

Do you think we would have more of Answer A) Hell yeah, when can we start? from the men or the women?

Be honest.

are they hot?

Funkcreep said:

JustErin said:

Guess you don't read many of my posts because this is the way I always talk. I'm not purposely doing anything in this thread.

50 years ago, no self respecting woman would ever even consider leaving her husband even though he beat the shit out of her.

Many things have changed for the better.

And you're implying that women don't want to have sex because they just want it, that women have to be wooed or convinced to have sex, that they give it up because he wants it or has worked for it and it's his reward. You do realize that 50 years ago women were conditioned to think that way, right?

There are differences between men and women when it comes to sex, but that's not one of them.

The difference between men and women sexually:

Tell 5 single men that they can go to the local club, and they can pick out 50 women to have sex with tonight and over the next month. What would their responses be?

A) Hell yeah, when can we start?

B) I don't know, let me think about it.

C) No, it's ok.

D) No way in hell. Get away from me you sicko pervert!

Now, tell 5 single women they can go to the local club, and they can pick out 50 men to have sex with tonight and over the next month. What would their responses be?

A) Hell yeah, when can we start?

B) I don't know, let me think about it.

C) No, it's ok.

D) No way in hell. Get away from me you sicko pervert!

Do you think we would have more of Answer A) Hell yeah, when can we start? from the men or the women?

Be honest.

Wait a second, this has nothing to do with what we were talking about. As I said several times, there are differences between men and women and this may be one of them...but that has nothing to do with women having sex because they simply want to have sex.

Women may be more selective when it comes to who we sleep with, but again, that doesn't mean that we don't sleep with a man simply to satisfy our sexual needs. We do.

I wouldn't personally say yes because I have zero interest in sleeping with a stranger, it's too risky. But I do have sex-only relationships with people I know well. It serves no other purpose for me but to get me off, there is no emotional connection. I don't need that to be intimate. Does that make me more like a man? I dunno, maybe....I don't care what it makes me to be honest.

I just do what makes me feel comfortable and what works best for me.

Should I finish this cup of coffee, or are most of y'all gonna disappear about now like most nights?

FauxReal said:

JustErin said:

Isn't there an expression that says, " a lady never tells her age"?

If there is I'd guess you'd probably wonder what the fuck that even means.

Actually, I don't think that's the right expression. I think it's "a lady never kisses and tells".

Cerebus said:

Should I finish this cup of coffee, or are most of y'all gonna disappear about now like most nights?

I'll be here for about 20 more minutes, or until I think of something to cook for dinner

I have 2 dozen eggs

Drink the coffee.

ZombieKitten said:

JustErin said:

Are you kidding me? Real men don't ask.

it's actually a turn off to be asked anything about sex, I hate being put on the spot like that! just DO IT!!!

I agree for the most part. I was emphasizing a point for comedy reasons. The just do it policy maybe okay for the most part, but on the negative or plus side (depends on how you look at it) that's how the living room lamp brakes off in your bum or golden showers happen.

JustErin said:

FauxReal said:

If there is I'd guess you'd probably wonder what the fuck that even means.

Actually, I don't think that's the right expression. I think it's "a lady never kisses and tells".

Or a lady never tells her weight. Three things you don't ask a woman. Her age. Her weight. Who's she fucking.

JustErin said:

FauxReal said:

If there is I'd guess you'd probably wonder what the fuck that even means.

Actually, I don't think that's the right expression. I think it's "a lady never kisses and tells".

They're both old, well used sayings. I think "never kiss and tell" has more to do with being discrete about your sex life. "A lady never tells" relates to age. Kinda like always turning 29.

kewlschool said:

ZombieKitten said:

it's actually a turn off to be asked anything about sex, I hate being put on the spot like that! just DO IT!!!

I agree for the most part. I was emphasizing a point for comedy reasons. The just do it policy maybe okay for the most part, but on the negative or plus side (depends on how you look at it) that's how the living room lamp brakes off in your bum or golden showers happen.

that's probably overestimating most folks sex lives by a LOT

kewlschool said:

ZombieKitten said:

it's actually a turn off to be asked anything about sex, I hate being put on the spot like that! just DO IT!!!

I agree for the most part. I was emphasizing a point for comedy reasons. The just do it policy maybe okay for the most part, but on the negative or plus side (depends on how you look at it) that's how the living room lamp brakes off in your bum or golden showers happen.

Or you end up drugged and arrested with a mouse up your ass like this guy...

http://www.live5news.com/Global/story.asp?S=13465624

FauxReal said:

Drink the coffee.

I did. Slammed it. I'm so far behind y'all time wise (other than Zombie, who lives in the future) that it doesn't really matter. I'll be up for another four of five hours whether anybody else is around or not.