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Ugh, what a wretched thread... Think I'll go listen to some Prince music to get the bad tast out of my mouth. "Music gives a soul to the universe, wings to the mind, flight to the imagination and life to everything." --Plato
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He is well understood. He calls Mayte's memoir, 'The Most Beautiful Girl in the World'. And puts Kim Berry's account next to Mayte's because apparently Kim needs to rubber stamp all content regarding Prince and Mayte's life. According to Neal she was Prince's hairdresser for '30 years', which is also BS. [Edited 10/11/20 23:19pm] | |
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Margot said: I'd like to place a bet...I bet at least 75% of you groaners have not read the book.
Actually it WAS The Sopranos. Maybe you need to read the book yourself. "Five years after that, Prince was watching a rerun of The Sopranos, one of the many shows he binge-watched. He brought up Amiir again after describing the episode he’d just seen, when the young son of psychotic Mafia capo Ralphie Cifaretto is seriously injured by an errant arrow shot by another little kid. Ralphie, who seemed to kill for pleasure as much as business, breaks down in the episode, sure his boy is being punished for his sins. “I’m Ralphie,” Prince said, hanging up, after briefly describing the episode." Maybe do, just not like did before | |
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This was true in the 1980s and 1990s but that began to slowly change around the time Prince became a Jehovah's witness...or as Neal said, around the time Prince turned 40. The people I know or met who worked for Prince after 2004ish, actually liked him a lot, and likewise, public opinion began to shift. Th adjative most used to describe Prince changed from "dick" to "sweet". Folks from Neal's and P generation (i.e. over 60 years old) probably still didn't care for him but folks from my generation (I'm in my 40s) and younger, were either nuetral, liked, loved, or adored Prince. Neal is very much speaking for his generation and older in this book. | |
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I enjoyed Neal's perception that Prince had "alot of time to be a genius" in his younger years. I am paraphrasing, but he mentioned that as a result of Prince's early experiences, he had fairly strong narcissistic traits. This gave him the space and focus he needed to rise without too much concern about pain he might be causing others. Per Neal, at around 40-ish, he started to try harder with people, "remembering their names, some hugging etc" As a younger person, you may have seen the kinder and gentler Prince.
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Margot said:
I enjoyed Neal's perception that Prince had "alot of time to be a genius" in his younger years. I am paraphrasing, but he mentioned that as a result of Prince's early experiences, he had fairly strong narcissistic traits. This gave him the space and focus he needed to rise without too much concern about pain he might be causing others. Per Neal, at around 40-ish, he started to try harder with people, "remembering their names, some hugging etc" As a younger person, you may have seen the kinder and gentler Prince.
... Having a lot of time to be a genius in truth is working one's ass off - 20 hours a day by many accounts. That's what it takes to be a Picasso. . I'm not sure what world you and Neal live in, but guys tend to hug their girlfriends. Prince was running a business and I've never met a CEO who goes around 'hugging' and spilling their guts to staff. Neal seems to be bitter that he was not as successful as Prince... but he's working hard to change all that. Neal Karlen never was, and never will be Prince. But I hope you will put your money where your mouth is, and replace all your Prince stuff with Karlen's books. Nobody deserves to have Prince's music and chastise him for taking the time to make it. Same for his live performances... [Edited 10/12/20 11:37am] | |
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It's well-known that Prince treated a number of people poorly when he was younger. That is well-documented by many. He even apologized for it. He did what it took to get there. And, to your comment about CEO's...many of them are narcissistic. I'm not criticizing Prince, just keeping it real.
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And all the nameless fonts on the forum are a peach...what if we wrote a book on your life? And Prince and Picasso weren't the only ones working their asses off. | |
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You will likely be here all day playing defense...I would dial it down. becoming obvious. | |
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Here is what Morris was like on the set of Purple Rain: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZuxEYzHk62c&t=1s . "The character Prince created could not be bothered to pay attention to the shooting schedule. Alan: Morris was being very uncooperative during the making of Purple Rain. There were days where he wouldn't show up. It's not that he couldn't, he just was being an asshole. And of course Prince was having a fit, but he's trying to make a movie so he's sending me. Prince: Go find Morris. What's wrong with him? Alan: So Craig Rice, the AD, and I, we would have to actually go out and find him. Craig: We had to get in a car, then back track to where he last was, and I would call someone else and they'd say 'he was at this house last night'. So we'd go there first and find out where he went and who he went with. Then we'd go to the next place, and then the next place, and then the next place. And once we finally found out where he was at, we literally had to physically get him up and get him into the car. . On any other set Morris would have been fired - just keeping it real. . And I mean what I say, give your Prince stuff to someone else if he bothers you so much, and follow someone else. Prince put his whole life into his craft.
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I respect what Prince said about his mom in his own memoir. Neal may have met Mattie -- but he didn't grow up with or live with her. And Prince was also living with the Andersons... but he spent more time with Mattie than Neal did. And people present their best faces in public... that is a given. I would even consider that Prince may have paid for her education -- because getting a master's degree ain't cheap. Prince was paying for the house she and Hayward lived in. . But Neal also diminishes Mayte's account of her life, and can't even bother getting the name of her memoir correct.
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Yes, and as much as we'd like to believe the cool, nice stories... I can't take those much seriously given all the rest. Chris Moon also shared about where the 'purple' came from. He worked in advertising, and claims he helped Prince come up with a concept, which included purple. I don't know if I believe that much either, considering Prince rolled out a different color scheme with each album, and Purple Rain was 1984. But Chris did teach Prince studio-craft, helped him with his 1st demo and Prince did work for him -- those facts are true. In the same way, Prince did do a few articles with Neal, so had a 'relationship'. But knowing what we know, do I think Prince was calling up a journalist to pour out the depths of his heart... no.
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Would you say it's a good companion to The Beautiful Ones and worth purchasing or should I wait until my local library has a copy? [Edited 10/12/20 14:11pm] | |
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MoodyBlumes said:
Yes, and as much as we'd like to believe the cool, nice stories... I can't take those much seriously given all the rest. Chris Moon also shared about where the 'purple' came from. He worked in advertising, and claims he helped Prince come up with a concept, which included purple. I don't know if I believe that much either, considering Prince rolled out a different color scheme with each album, and Purple Rain was 1984. But Chris did teach Prince studio-craft, helped him with his 1st demo and Prince did work for him -- those facts are true. In the same way, Prince did do a few articles with Neal, so had a 'relationship'. But knowing what we know, do I think Prince was calling up a journalist to pour out the depths of his heart... no.
[Edited 10/12/20 12:57pm] It’s tough, too, because some of the quotes/descriptions/stories reflect more nicely on one associate than another, more nicely on one family member than another, etc. What’s nice in some ways can be not-so-nice in another. But that doesn’t go for every part of everything that’s written. Honestly, some of my favorite things to read have been about fans, where the fans are talking about how they found Prince’s music, how they’ve loved it over the years, if they’ve introduced friends/ family to favorite songs, etc. | |
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I enjoy reading those types of things from fans too. Duff McKagan's article below speaks to me too... Prince's music hit me on levels that go beyond a cool groove. And that's what great art is all about. I mentioned Picasso because he is another artist I love for many many reasons. We need artists in this world... Nice people are aplenty. . Duff: https://www.seattleweekly...lumn-on-3/
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I enjoy reading those types of things from fans too. Duff McKagan's article below speaks to me too... Prince's music hit me on levels that go beyond a cool groove. And that's what great art is all about. I mentioned Picasso because he is another artist I love for many many reasons. We need artists in this world... Nice people are aplenty. . Duff: https://www.seattleweekly...lumn-on-3/
Thanks! Happy to be able to check out very soon. Less than an hour to go in work day. | |
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I have one of Duff's books where he mentions Prince a lot. It's called "It's So Easy" and is pretty well written. He seems like the only cool member of GnR. | |
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Literally every angle covered in these comments - all very valid actually & a lot of truth. For me it's just Neal ...seems like a creep.
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He's just out to make money on this book.OPINIONS ARE LIKE ASSHOLES, EVEYRBODY'S GOT ONE AND SOMETIMES THEY STINK. Like this does. | |
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Neal gave credit to Prince for opening up and maturing but I agree that though he worked really hard, he also ran over some people who helped him and did not acknowledge their assist. He was not as fair in his younger days. I agree with Neal's assessment of Prince's younger self. | |
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PURPLEIZED3121 said: Literally every angle covered in these comments - all very valid actually & a lot of truth. For me it's just Neal ...seems like a creep.
Purpleized — it seems like the reaction here on the Org often depends a lot on just what family member or associate nice stuff is written about, and I’m talking about stuff written with all levels of substantiation/evidence. Reactions seem often to come down to who is being handed some respect. I appreciated respectful things written in this book. Was I present to verify? No. That’s true of everything I read about the purple world. Respect paid to purple world people is often applauded here by folks who, like me, can’t 100 percent verify if the basis for the respect is true. It’s like authors have to report on the approved “nice things,” not the unapproved “nice things.” With approval little related to verifiability, but instead related to not giving a nod to those you aren’t supposed to give a nod to. Maybe I’ll post some of the respect and appreciation shown by the book at hand for someone important to Prince tomorrow. Got done with work later than expected today and just want to read right now. P.S. The concept of narcissism is far from some perfect idea from on high, but it might nonetheless be worth mentioning that this very imperfect construct involves the idea that people with strong traits often suffer greatly and in the case of genuine high achievement, have very likely overcome huge obstacles. Narcissism absolutely does not equate to nonimpressiveness, and the idea is contrary to an easy, unwounded life. All that said, some clinicians, including my cousin, refuse to use constructs to include narcissism, borderline, etc. traits because of problems with these ideas. | |
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