I mean since you've been sexually active. So, I haven't had sex in 5 months and that's quite a while. Going to be at least 4 more months until the next time. Spent 14 months in prison without sex before this too, and have only had sex less than 10 times in the last 19 months. To be honest I've kinda shut down thinking about it by now, so it's not really bothering me. I'd rather be having it but I don't find it so tough going without after all this time. I've spent only 7 days out of the last 19 months with my wife and to be honest I have more on my mind than tapping that ass. I'm stressed to fuck but trying to push things out of my mind for now.

So anyway, what aboutchoo?

i haven't had sex since jan 1993. deal with that

two years, if you consider 22-24 an adult. I hardly felt like an adult at that point. But I missed out on some prime boner years, I know. I missed companionship more than sex at that point. So fucking lonely!

I am going on over a month now, we'll see if I can break any records. But I have been sick off and on and I that makes it easy. I don't feel sexy in the slightest.

Fauxie said:

Spent 14 months in prison without sex

Perhaps that is something to be grateful for!

It's strange for me because I can now go months without thinking about it as far as needing it. But this has only been since about 2010 or so that I kind of settled on not needing intamacy.

From 1995ish to 2010, I probably didn't go more than three weeks without it. I had to spend months without someone I was supposedly with, but we were cheating on each other anyway, so sex was still on the table then.

Now, it's just not that important to me. If it happens, whatever. But, I'm not willing to compromise peace of mind just to get some ass. Plus, as I age, it becomes less easy to just hookup--and, I'm ok with that.

But my gawd, other than my mom who seemed completely uninterested in anything remotely intimate all of her life, I couldn't ever picture a Thai person going without it for more than a few weeks. They're not sluts or anything, but aside from a very conservative outward appearance of sexual behavior, they're quite playful about it privately. I guess that might be why even when I'm not actively pursueing sex, I am always in the mood to receive a good blowjob.

The one week i spent at Paisley Park with no sexy time for the celly.

About 3 months when my husband was in basic training and then during his schooling for his MOS... That was 25 years ago

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Probably about 4 months, when I was participating in a TV show and had to spend my whole time in their "building" along with the other candidates (who weren't that attractive, so...).


The moment I got kicked out, though...

Depends on what age we are considering ourselves an adult.

It's two years and counting. Don't miss it.

kiasheri said:

i haven't had sex since jan 1993. deal with that

Ive been waiting for someone to post an abstinence date that's been longer than mine....

I haven't had sex since October 2002. Ive rubbed a bunch off since then but no warm bodies.

I'm kinda getting to the point unless a dude falls out of the sky or whatever, I don't even bother anymore. I don't know if it's laziness or wisdom setting in. But, I think I'm at the point now where I have a general lack of interest in the whole "getting to know you" bullshit. I either feel like dude is my soulmate or I'm left alone. I'm too lazy for the casual stuff and not the most emotionally available person at times, so that's a combination for celibacy aint it? LOL

More interesting, Fauxie, would be some recap all all the stuff that has/is happening in your life right now. Wow. I get bits and pieces, but can't quite figure out how to put them all together.

Fauxie said:

I mean since you've been sexually active. So, I haven't had sex in 5 months and that's quite a while. Going to be at least 4 more months until the next time. Spent 14 months in prison without sex before this too, and have only had sex less than 10 times in the last 19 months. To be honest I've kinda shut down thinking about it by now, so it's not really bothering me. I'd rather be having it but I don't find it so tough going without after all this time. I've spent only 7 days out of the last 19 months with my wife and to be honest I have more on my mind than tapping that ass. I'm stressed to fuck but trying to push things out of my mind for now.

So anyway, what aboutchoo?

Fauxie..You claim Intimacy is not on your mind but you created this thread wanting to discuss it..Doesnt that tell you that you need to Check yourself and sit down with the Wifey and talk?

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Do you still Love your Wife? There is a reason why making Love to her is the last thing on your mind.

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The longest I went without was about 2 years. I'm currently going on 7 months. I was going crazy about it at first since I was getting it on the regular for several years before, but I've gotten used to it

JoeyC said:

kiasheri said:

i haven't had sex since jan 1993. deal with that

Ive been waiting for someone to post an abstinence date that's been longer than mine....

I haven't had sex since October 2002. Ive rubbed a bunch off since then but no warm bodies.

I'm not joking here, but don't you have a big penis?

NDRU said:

Fauxie said:

Spent 14 months in prison without sex

Perhaps that is something to be grateful for!

Chancellor said:

Fauxie said:

I mean since you've been sexually active. So, I haven't had sex in 5 months and that's quite a while. Going to be at least 4 more months until the next time. Spent 14 months in prison without sex before this too, and have only had sex less than 10 times in the last 19 months. To be honest I've kinda shut down thinking about it by now, so it's not really bothering me. I'd rather be having it but I don't find it so tough going without after all this time. I've spent only 7 days out of the last 19 months with my wife and to be honest I have more on my mind than tapping that ass. I'm stressed to fuck but trying to push things out of my mind for now.

So anyway, what aboutchoo?

Fauxie..You claim Intimacy is not on your mind but you created this thread wanting to discuss it..Doesnt that tell you that you need to Check yourself and sit down with the Wifey and talk?

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Do you still Love your Wife? There is a reason why making Love to her is the last thing on your mind.

[Edited 5/27/13 4:45am]

Sorry, maybe I wasn't clear. Right now I'm 9,000km away from my wife. If I get to thinking about it, sure, when I'm next with the missus I'll probably almost kill her but since I know I won't be with her for at least 4 more months I've just shut down that part of my mind. I was in prison for 14 months and did the same thing. I love sex, I love my wife and I love sex with my wife, but my being able to return to being with my wife is not 100% certain just yet so there are other things more important to me right now. I miss other aspects of our relationship more than sex.

Lammastide said:

More interesting, Fauxie, would be some recap all all the stuff that has/is happening in your life right now. Wow. I get bits and pieces, but can't quite figure out how to put them all together.

It's all very simple really. We sold steroids, went to prison for 14 months, came out, I luckily didn't get picked up by cops and taken to immigration to be deported on the grounds of criminal conviction, but instead was able to turn myself in and pay a fine for visa overstay and get deported for that (a much better outcome - no blacklisting), and now I'm back in the UK and my wife's still in Thailand. I plan to get my visa in 3 months and fly back in 4 and live happily ever after with my wife without any more drama forever and ever and ever. We'll see if that happens tho'.

Fauxie said:

Lammastide said:

More interesting, Fauxie, would be some recap all all the stuff that has/is happening in your life right now. Wow. I get bits and pieces, but can't quite figure out how to put them all together.

It's all very simple really. We sold steroids, went to prison for 14 months, came out, I luckily didn't get picked up by cops and taken to immigration to be deported on the grounds of criminal conviction, but instead was able to turn myself in and pay a fine for visa overstay and get deported for that (a much better outcome - no blacklisting), and now I'm back in the UK and my wife's still in Thailand. I plan to get my visa in 3 months and fly back in 4 and live happily ever after with my wife without any more drama forever and ever and ever. We'll see if that happens tho'.

Wow. I wish you well.

Question: In the meantime, could your wife not travel to the UK so that you can be together until you both return to Thailand?

Fauxie said:

Lammastide said:

More interesting, Fauxie, would be some recap all all the stuff that has/is happening in your life right now. Wow. I get bits and pieces, but can't quite figure out how to put them all together.

It's all very simple really. We sold steroids, went to prison for 14 months, came out, I luckily didn't get picked up by cops and taken to immigration to be deported on the grounds of criminal conviction, but instead was able to turn myself in and pay a fine for visa overstay and get deported for that (a much better outcome - no blacklisting), and now I'm back in the UK and my wife's still in Thailand. I plan to get my visa in 3 months and fly back in 4 and live happily ever after with my wife without any more drama forever and ever and ever. We'll see if that happens tho'.

Good luck on those endeavors... I am sure all things will work out for the best in the end.

imago said:

JoeyC said:

Ive been waiting for someone to post an abstinence date that's been longer than mine....

I haven't had sex since October 2002. Ive rubbed a bunch off since then but no warm bodies.

I'm not joking here, but don't you have a big penis?

I had to check Kiasheri's profile to she if she was a man or woman. She's a woman so i guess the question is for me.

I'm hiding behind a computer screen so i can be honest....Its a good size length but its also kinda skinny.

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Hard luckers here

Im curious WHY? loss libido.No one here has been specific.

2ish years, maybe 3. It was no biggie at all.

I'm happy it's in my life when it is but I can do just fine without too.

JoeyC said:

imago said:

I'm not joking here, but don't you have a big penis?

I had to check Kiasheri's profile to she if she was a man or woman. She's a woman so i guess the question is for me.

I'm hiding behind a computer screen so i can be honest....Its a good size length but its also kinda skinny.

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The reason why I asked is I remember you starting a thread many years ago about it being large, uncut, and proudly hanging or something like that.

And, one thing I noticed from hung men is that they are much more confident than other men, or more apt to get laid. So the long abstinance is unusual from my point of view, and I would imagine is of your own volitian. Hung guys get it when they want it. (for the most part)