LadyCasanova said:

aardvark15 said:

LadyCasanova said:

I've dated a man, a woman, a hermaphrodite, someone who did not identify, etc

I do not date based on race, gender, sexual orientation, socioeconomic status, or sex. I made this

decision in HS and I've stuck by it every since.

That's pansexuality actually :nerd:

I've seen a LOT of porn! But I can say with complete confidence that I've never seen anyone use a pan.....................................

Me . But its all so confusing so now i want to label myself as a sexual . I would rather masturbate than get involved in any relationship with man or woman

Cerebus said:

eyewishuheaven said:

I dabbled, and had a nice time, but it only strengthened my suspicion that I'm just not really into guys.

WOW, this is simular to me.

I LIVED IN PROVINCETOWN, MASSachusetts in the 80's and I was envious of the gay girls; no threat of pregnancy or disease and nooo pressure to get married. I was in my twenties at the time and their more layed back life style appealed to me.

Truth is that as much as I would have loved to be gay or bi, and I truly enjoy the company of other women, I sexually can not get into it.

My inability to choose my own sexual preference confirmed to me more than anything else that you can not "will" yourself straight, gay or bi. I know because I tried.

Let's have it all.

Lammastide said:

It's pretty much a sexual one drop rule.

Took me a long ass time to get that!

Ya'll nasty

Cerebus said:

LaMmmastide said:

It's pretty much a sexual one drop rule.

Took me a long ass time to get that!

LOL, me too and that is what made it even funnier!!!

I myself have that problem. I can't really relate to one peer group... because to me it just has to do with personal feelings. It's great to always discover other things because it reveals a lot about who you are and even when you say you're sure of who you are, sometimes you're not really.

hmm. I think of myself as more of like Bigender, perhaps. I remember mostly being attracted to the same sex, i am a slightly curious of the opposite sex. i don't know if that makes me bi or not.

Rococo said:

aardvark15 said:

Rococo said:

hmm. I think of myself as more of like Bigender, perhaps. I remember mostly being attracted to the same sex, i am a slightly curious of the opposite sex. i don't know if that makes me bi or not.

Everyone gets curious. According to studies most people have had a gay experience and most of them liked it

agreed.

Personally, i like the label or the term "Queer". I think it fits me better. Even though some people find that term to be rather offensive. I dont.

Rococo said:

aardvark15 said:

Rococo said: Everyone gets curious. According to studies most people have had a gay experience and most of them liked it

agreed.

Personally, i like the label or the term "Queer". I think it fits me better. Even though some people find that term to be rather offensive. I dont.

There has been a growing collection of folks who people identify as either bi or gay that rather be called "queer", some actually hate to be called "gay". This has been gradual since like the early '90s with groups like Queer Nation (I think that's the name). But I understand how that would seem offensive still to some because that used to be a real nasty slur.

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Deadflow3r said:

eyewishuheaven said:

I dabbled, and had a nice time, but it only strengthened my suspicion that I'm just not really into guys.

WOW, this is simular to me.

I LIVED IN PROVINCETOWN, MASSachusetts in the 80's and I was envious of the gay girls; no threat of pregnancy or disease and nooo pressure to get married. I was in my twenties at the time and their more layed back life style appealed to me.

Truth is that as much as I would have loved to be gay or bi, and I truly enjoy the company of other women, I sexually can not get into it.

My inability to choose my own sexual preference confirmed to me more than anything else that you can not "will" yourself straight, gay or bi. I know because I tried.

Sex with all is a threat of disease.

WRAP IT UP!!!!!

My bi experiences:

-When I was in a goth club in the late 90's some weird ass goth kid bit me on my neck.

-At some rave in the late 90's/early 00's some guy took advantage of how fucked up I was and tongue kissed me (I was literally so fucked up I couldn't move..)

-I woke up semi-naked in the bed with my roommate when I was in college really really realy fucked up and I woke up with him trying to spoon me..

Cerebus said:

that looks kind of like my father in law

i may b in the minority here ~ but i'm str8

When I was a teen my big sister would sneak steal my shirts and hang them back in my closet without washing them then I would wear the blouse the stench would rise up while I wore the shirt and I would smell my sisters funky pits on me. Made me throw out two blouses in the trash and walk around with just a bra and jacket until I got home. My sister's chemistry cheese bombs turned me off from having any curiosity about being close enough to sniff any other girl's pits let alone dive in a dug out. :cough:

I don't mind my smell and taste on a guy though....

I like to sniff shweddy ballz.

lezama said:

My bi experiences:

-When I was in a goth club in the late 90's some weird ass goth kid bit me on my neck.

-At some rave in the late 90's/early 00's some guy took advantage of how fucked up I was and tongue kissed me (I was literally so fucked up I couldn't move..)

-I woke up semi-naked in the bed with my roommate when I was in college really really realy fucked up and I woke up with him trying to spoon me..

i like elton john

and FOXY's song

Timmy84 said:

Rococo said:

agreed.

Personally, i like the label or the term "Queer". I think it fits me better. Even though some people find that term to be rather offensive. I dont.

There has been a growing collection of folks who people identify as either bi or gay that rather be called "queer", some actually hate to be called "gay". This has been gradual since like the early '90s with groups like Queer Nation (I think that's the name). But I understand how that would seem offensive still to some because that used to be a real nasty slur.

I hate that word worse than any of the other slurs. That's the rednecks' favorite slur to use, or as they pronounce it...."kwurr". I absolutely hate that word.

In Mississippi, the word "punk" is used as a homophobic slur by a lot of black people. I've never heard it used as a slur by white people and I've never heard used as a slur by any other black people except the ones in Mississippi. Out of all the slurs, "punk" bothers me the least because when I think of punk, I think of how it's used on TV referring to a hoodlum or someone to be feared so I'm fine with the word punk because if someone messes with me, they better fear me.

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vainandy said:

to my understanding, the term Queer has been used no, mostly within the "punk" community has a been of uniting, those sexual minorities, that exist even within both LGBT and straight world. e.g. Trans, Gay, Les, femme, non heteronormative straights, Bi, etc. i guess its kinda of an umbrella term.

aardvark15 said:

vainandy said:

I hate that word worse than any of the other slurs. That's the rednecks' favorite slur to use, or as they pronounce it...."kwurr". I absolutely hate that word.

In Mississippi, the word "punk" is used as a homophobic slur by a lot of black people. I've never heard it used as a slur by white people and I've never heard used as a slur by any other black people except the ones in Mississippi. Out of all the slurs, "punk" bothers me the least because when I think of punk, I think of how it's used on TV referring to a hoodlum or someone to be feared so I'm fine with the word punk because if someone messes with me, they better fear me.

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The one I hate is homo. They call you it even when you don't indentify as gay. Fag I hate even more. I don't know why but that one just hurts me.

Oh, I've heard even the word "gay" used as a slur. It's just according to what context it's being used in and the tone in someone's voice when they use it. One that pisses me off more than anything is "sweet" or having "sugar in the tank". When I hear people say this, I want to show them that I am pure evil rattlesnake venom that will absolutely take pleasure in scheming and fucking their life up so bad they'll never recover from it and that "sweet" is the last thing I am. I grew up admiring the villans such as JR Ewing and Alexis. Fuck a Mary Poppins.

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I'm totally gay. Lots of girls are pretty and sexy but they just don't turn me on in any way. I love seeing a girl with a nice rack but I don't want to touch it...ewwww!

Rococo said:

to my understanding, the term Queer has been used no, mostly within the "punk" community has a been of uniting, those sexual minorities, that exist even within both LGBT and straight world. e.g. Trans, Gay, Les, femme, non heteronormative straights, Bi, etc. i guess its kinda of an umbrella term.

That's how I took it too.

with the right man, at the right time, I guess I could say I'm BI, yes...

I have had sex with both sexes. I don't do labels.