Sorry i am so late to comment

Let me say this... i used to believe for awhile that love is love & people did what feels right. Then i felt for the longest time i never could feel guys being totally BI. Girls.. i know tons of girls straight, bi & gay that makeout with women , but i never ever see any of my straight friend's curious to do this kind of thing.

Recently i started living with 3 other guys over by UCLA for those who know that school in Cali. And man what an eye opener , my roommate just last night told me he is somewhat bi-curious. And i mean this dude is woman crazy and going out for girls every other night But it's not as black & white as just ''oh i'm bi-curious'' He has told me he has thought guys where attracted before, and that he has been in 3-somes where there is a guy doing the girl and he thought it was hot.

But i don't think he wants to really have sex with a guy, but he admires them and there bodies & such

And there have been other guys out here who are totally cool with me being gay & ask pretty personal questions cause they generally want to know about ''gay sex'' or whatever. It's been a real eye-opener cause it seems gay guys quickly dismiss anyone that is bi-curious as just a ''homo in the closet''

You know what I find interesting is that whether we know it or not, we do put ourselves into these little boxes of why we're "supposedly different". Even in how we have sex. Like really what is so different with sex with a woman and a man when the only difference is if you're having sex with a man and you're also a man is that you share the same body types that the only way you could "fuck that person" is through the one thing that's open. Whereas with women, they have two distinct parts that you could come in and out of. Also the comments about having sex with women but then claiming you know you're gay. It sounds more like confusion than someone who has sex with men and women and claims they're bisexual and not just doing it for "secret down low purposes". Sexualities get a bad rap because of the labels it's forced into, therefore making the link between heterosexuality, homosexuality and bisexuality real confusing.

I personally identify as gay, but I'm not exactly out of the closet yet so I have play the part in front of family. I will say that I know an attractive woman when I see one. Sometimes I even say shit like "I would fuck the shit out of her if I were straight."

And Timmy I think that sexual orientation isn't this black and white subject that everybody makes it out to be. There's HUGE grey area, but sadly we live in a society that believes if you're not straight, then you're gay and that's that. That's why there's an entire "down low" culture. And the wives of these men have no idea their husbands are giving the business to some guy.

If you ever go to a gay club or or sauna, you'll see several "homo-thugs." It makes me lol because EVERYBODY knows the reason they are there, stop frontin.

I messed around with a guy who was married with 4 kids. He kept saying it was our "little secret" and to not tell anybody. I'm not one to out people, but to this day I can't believe that guy. I know I'm not out, but there's no way in hell I'm getting married and having kids with no woman, its just not happening.

Terrib3Towel said:

I personally identify as gay, but I'm not exactly out of the closet yet so I have play the part in front of family. I will say that I know an attractive woman when I see one. Sometimes I even say shit like "I would fuck the shit out of her if I were straight."

And Timmy I think that sexual orientation isn't this black and white subject that everybody makes it out to be. There's HUGE grey area, but sadly we live in a society that believes if you're not straight, then you're gay and that's that. That's why there's an entire "down low" culture. And the wives of these men have no idea their husbands are giving the business to some guy.

If you ever go to a gay club or or sauna, you'll see several "homo-thugs." It makes me lol because EVERYBODY knows the reason they are there, stop frontin.

I messed around with a guy who was married with 4 kids. He kept saying it was our "little secret" and to not tell anybody. I'm not one to out people, but to this day I can't believe that guy. I know I'm not out, but there's no way in hell I'm getting married and having kids with no woman, its just not happening.

I agree. That's why this world is as fucked up as it is.

Terrib3Towel said:

I messed around with a guy who was married with 4 kids.

Man, you can't say shit bout no Frank Ocean!

I wonder how many of you bi people here are truly bisexual. I dated bi girls who were really straight and only wanted an "experience." They were not interested in a real relationship and it pissed me the fuck off With that said, I'm a a happy lesbian, but my girfriend used to be a man, so I don't know what that makes me right now, cuz she has her moments

[Edited 7/6/12 21:48pm]

^ Maybe y'all just human.

smoothcriminal12 said:

Terrib3Towel said:

I messed around with a guy who was married with 4 kids.

Man, you can't say shit bout no Frank Ocean!

I just remember his post about Frank!

I can't call myself bi 'cause I'm not willing to pubically walk her around even tho no one would care and that has always caused issues in the relationship.

Clearly I swing both ways..I've had relationships with both men and women, (I'm a bottom and a top), and I'd love to have a go with a pre-op transexual ---tits AND a dick would make my day and I'd out myself for the right one!!

Oh a girl can wish!!! But right now I'm stictly dickly..... And happy with it..

[Edited 7/6/12 20:33pm]

Timmy84 said:

smoothcriminal12 said:

Man, you can't say shit bout no Frank Ocean!

I just remember his post about Frank!

I mean damn, he just took it to another level.

smoothcriminal12 said:

Timmy84 said:

I just remember his post about Frank!

I mean damn, he just took it to another level.

Damn... a dude with FOUR KIDS! I wouldn't have even touch it. If a man or woman had four kids, I'd be like "nice kids" and ease on down the road with that shit. Damn Terrib3, were you THAT desperate?

Timmy84 said:

smoothcriminal12 said:

I mean damn, he just took it to another level.

Damn... a dude with FOUR KIDS! I wouldn't have even touch it. If a man or woman had four kids, I'd be like "nice kids" and ease on down the road with that shit. Damn Terrib3, were you THAT desperate?

Guy had a family and errthang, but needed some dick on the DL? Nikka is you dumb? Just tell your wife how you feel and run free. Or you shouldn't have married in the first place.

smoothcriminal12 said:

Timmy84 said:

Damn... a dude with FOUR KIDS! I wouldn't have even touch it. If a man or woman had four kids, I'd be like "nice kids" and ease on down the road with that shit. Damn Terrib3, were you THAT desperate?

Guy had a family and errthang, but needed some dick on the DL? Nikka is you dumb? Just tell your wife how you feel and run free. Or you shouldn't have married in the first place.

I agree, why even go and marry someone if you actually wanted to be with men, now I can't fuck with anybody like that. That dude (the husband) took L's.

Timmy84 said:

smoothcriminal12 said:

Guy had a family and errthang, but needed some dick on the DL? Nikka is you dumb? Just tell your wife how you feel and run free. Or you shouldn't have married in the first place.

I agree, why even go and marry someone if you actually wanted to be with men, now I can't fuck with anybody like that. That dude (the husband) took L's.

He took five L's (one for every member in his family). How the hell can you force yourself to fuck someone everyday when you ain't even feeling them that way?

smoothcriminal12 said:

Timmy84 said:

I agree, why even go and marry someone if you actually wanted to be with men, now I can't fuck with anybody like that. That dude (the husband) took L's.

He took five L's (one for every member in his family). How the hell can you force yourself to fuck someone everyday when you ain't even feeling them that way?

I agree. What a shame...

Terrib3Towel said:

Hey now! I l don't have a girlfriend like Frank Ocean's boo. And its not like I know this guy personally or anything, we were just making small talk and he was like he had kids and I was like oh how many. Yes, I am extremely desperate. If you're decent looking and I'm horny then its a go.

Terrib3 takes an L.

Timmy84 said:

^ Maybe y'all just human.

nammie said:

I can't call myself bi 'cause I'm not willing to pubically walk her around even tho no one would care and that has always caused issues in the relationship.

Clearly I swing both ways..I've had relationships with both men and women, (I'm a bottom and a top), and I'd love to have a go with a pre-op transexual ---tits AND a dick would make my day and I'd out myself for the right one!!

Oh a girl can wish!!! But right now I'm stictly dickly..... And happy with it..

[Edited 7/6/12 20:33pm]

We need to talk

ThickeGirl said:

nammie said:

I can't call myself bi 'cause I'm not willing to pubically walk her around even tho no one would care and that has always caused issues in the relationship.

Clearly I swing both ways..I've had relationships with both men and women, (I'm a bottom and a top), and I'd love to have a go with a pre-op transexual ---tits AND a dick would make my day and I'd out myself for the right one!!

Oh a girl can wish!!! But right now I'm stictly dickly..... And happy with it..

[Edited 7/6/12 20:33pm]

We need to talk

PM me ANY time

I wrote pubic not public LOL what a Freudian slip edit

[Edited 7/7/12 18:58pm]

Shanti0608 said:

I have had sex with both sexes. I don't do labels.

They start to fray after a while and can get lost inside of you.

Cloudbuster said:

Shanti0608 said:

I have had sex with both sexes. I don't do labels.

They start to fray after a while and can get lost inside of you.

Yes, I prefer a nice hard dick inside of me anyways.

Shanti0608 said:

Cloudbuster said:

They start to fray after a while and can get lost inside of you.

Yes, I prefer a nice hard dick inside of me anyways.

Hi there

Gunsnhalen said:

Shanti0608 said:

Yes, I prefer a nice hard dick inside of me anyways.

Hi there

Can I join?

aardvark15 said:

Gunsnhalen said:

Hi there

Can I join?

For a dolla i'll make your pickel holla

Shanti0608 said:

Cloudbuster said:

They start to fray after a while and can get lost inside of you.

Yes, I prefer a nice hard dick inside of me anyways.

[Edited 7/9/12 5:56am]