Now that I think about it...I think most guys are probably intimidated by you and immediately assume that if they ask you out you'll shoot them down, or that you're already taken.

Honestly, I really can't say enough how much of a piss-poor idea looking for a date online, is. I've never, ever, ever seen it really work out, unless the people were already friends first and knew the other person wasn't fucking psychotic.

Why don't you just ask Cerebus out, or vice versa?

*wonders why I have to be the one to mention the best, most obvious idea*

armpit said:

Now that I think about it...I think most guys are probably intimidated by you and immediately assume that if they ask you out you'll shoot them down, or that you're already taken.

Honestly, I really can't say enough how much of a piss-poor idea looking for a date online, is. I've never, ever, ever seen it really work out, unless the people were already friends first and knew the other person wasn't fucking psychotic.

Why don't you just ask Cerebus out, or vice versa?

*wonders why I have to be the one to mention the best, most obvious idea*

because he hates people and lives in another country on the other side of the continent?

ZombieKitten said:

armpit said:

Now that I think about it...I think most guys are probably intimidated by you and immediately assume that if they ask you out you'll shoot them down, or that you're already taken.

Honestly, I really can't say enough how much of a piss-poor idea looking for a date online, is. I've never, ever, ever seen it really work out, unless the people were already friends first and knew the other person wasn't fucking psychotic.

Why don't you just ask Cerebus out, or vice versa?

*wonders why I have to be the one to mention the best, most obvious idea*

because he hates people and lives in another country on the other side of the continent?

Hahahaha....yeah.

That and I think he would end up punching me in the face within the first day of knowing me.

JustErin said:

ZombieKitten said:

because he hates people and lives in another country on the other side of the continent?

Hahahaha....yeah.

That and I think he would end up punching me in the face within the first day of knowing me.

But I thought you hated being punched in the face. But being choked on the other hand....

JustErin said:

ZombieKitten said:

because he hates people and lives in another country on the other side of the continent?

Hahahaha....yeah.

That and I think he would end up punching me in the face within the first day of knowing me.

he loves cheese, do you like cheese? you could go cheese tasting together!

728huey said:

JustErin said:

Hahahaha....yeah.

That and I think he would end up punching me in the face within the first day of knowing me.

But I thought you hated being punched in the face. But being choked on the other hand....

I do hate it, that's why I said it...I meant nothing sexual. Just that I would drive him so nuts he would punch me out.

ZombieKitten said:

JustErin said:

Hahahaha....yeah.

That and I think he would end up punching me in the face within the first day of knowing me.

he loves cheese, do you like cheese? you could go cheese tasting together!

I do love Cheese...he's actually in my sig!

JustErin said:

ZombieKitten said:

he loves cheese, do you like cheese? you could go cheese tasting together!

I do love Cheese...he's actually in my sig!

cheese is a he?

ZombieKitten said:

JustErin said:

I do love Cheese...he's actually in my sig!

cheese is a he?

he's a mozzerella!

ZombieKitten said:

he's a mozzerella!

JustErin said:

ZombieKitten said:

cheese is a he?

Ok im a tad freaked out now!

.

Hun, U HAVE to get out more!! Before you sink further into strangeness!!

JustErin said:

ZombieKitten said:

he's a mozzerella!

I freakin' ADORE Cheese!!!

Ok, so I always ignore the messages sent by dudes with no picture, but now I realize that some of them keep pics private and can send them to you privately.

Got one tonight by a guy I had ignored earlier but he this time included his pic and he is fucking hot. So I wrote back...

however, probably should have read his profile first.

It was filthier than Imago's underwear.

Oops.

JustErin said:

Ok, so I always ignore the messages sent by dudes with no picture, but now I realize that some of them keep pics private and can send them to you privately.

Got one tonight by a guy I had ignored earlier but he this time included his pic and he is fucking hot. So I wrote back...

however, probably should have read his profile first.

It was filthier than Imago's underwear.

Oops.

please supply us with excerpt

ZombieKitten said:

JustErin said:

Ok, so I always ignore the messages sent by dudes with no picture, but now I realize that some of them keep pics private and can send them to you privately.

Got one tonight by a guy I had ignored earlier but he this time included his pic and he is fucking hot. So I wrote back...

however, probably should have read his profile first.

It was filthier than Imago's underwear.

Oops.

please supply us with excerpt

Oh, you know...the usual romantic stuff...

He's in a relationship but is looking for someone to fuck on the side, he wants a girl that loves anal, yada yada yada...

Did I mention he is hot?

JustErin said:

ZombieKitten said:

please supply us with excerpt

Oh, you know...the usual romantic stuff...

He's in a relationship but is looking for someone to fuck on the side, he wants a girl that loves anal, yada yada yada...

Did I mention he is hot?

Otherwise, does he mention anything about choking?

JustErin said:

Cerebus said:

JustErin said:

Oh, you know...the usual romantic stuff...

He's in a relationship but is looking for someone to fuck on the side, he wants a girl that loves anal, yada yada yada...

Did I mention he is hot?

There is the theory of the Moebius, a twist in the fabric of space where time becomes a loop. When we reach that point, whatever happened will happen again.

Otherwise, does he mention anything about choking?

I suddenly feel like Dani.

No, no mention of choking.

ZombieKitten said:

JustErin said:

Oh, you know...the usual romantic stuff...

He's in a relationship but is looking for someone to fuck on the side, he wants a girl that loves anal, yada yada yada...

Did I mention he is hot?

Oh I thought he actually wrote something really filthy

Actually, he did.

JustErin said:

Cerebus said:

There is the theory of the Moebius, a twist in the fabric of space where time becomes a loop. When we reach that point, whatever happened will happen again.

Otherwise, does he mention anything about choking?

I suddenly feel like Dani.

No, no mention of choking.

Haven't you already gone down this (married) road?

Oh, well that sucks.

Cerebus said:

JustErin said:

I suddenly feel like Dani.

No, no mention of choking.

Haven't you already gone down this (married) road?

Oh, well that sucks.

Ok. Let me set this straight.

I've only been with one married man and it was my ex (of 10 years), and it was also only one time. It never happened again and it never will.

The other guys were separated when we hooked up, and they are now divorced.

Sure, I've been the sidepiece here and there, but not with a married dude.

Anyway, I have no interest in getting with a new dude that is in any kind of relationship.

I answered someone on okcupid who had no pic when I was in a good mood.

Then they replied and said some really nice things and added "most people wouldn't reply to someone with no pic in their profile".

I read that again, and was like "you can't have a profile without a pic forever" and encouraged them to fill out the profile.

They replied again, I forget what they said - I deleted it.

JustErin said:

Cerebus said:

Haven't you already gone down this (married) road?

Oh, well that sucks.

Ok. Let me set this straight.

I've only been with one married man and it was my ex (of 10 years), and it was also only one time. It never happened again and it never will.

The other guys were separated when we hooked up, and they are now divorced.

Sure, I've been the sidepiece here and there, but not with a married dude.

Anyway, I have no interest in getting with a new dude that is in any kind of relationship.

Fauxie said:

JustErin said:

Ok. Let me set this straight.

I've only been with one married man and it was my ex (of 10 years), and it was also only one time. It never happened again and it never will.

The other guys were separated when we hooked up, and they are now divorced.

Sure, I've been the sidepiece here and there, but not with a married dude.

Anyway, I have no interest in getting with a new dude that is in any kind of relationship.

I was just going to let it go. I mean, shit, she actually gave me, like, bullet point sentences and stuff. She's never done that before.

Nothin' but love, though, Erin. I'm not judgin'.

Cerebus said:

Fauxie said:

I was just going to let it go. I mean, shit, she actually gave me, like, bullet point sentences and stuff. She's never done that before.

Nothin' but love, though, Erin. I'm not judgin'.

What's so funny.

I had nothing to do with that shit.

JustErin said:

Cerebus said:

I was just going to let it go. I mean, shit, she actually gave me, like, bullet point sentences and stuff. She's never done that before.

Nothin' but love, though, Erin. I'm not judgin'.

What's so funny.

I had nothing to do with that shit.

Your response was funny. To me, anyway. And evidently Fauxie, too.

Like I said, I'm not judging. I've done plenty of shit that I don't even talk about here because I don't care to hear people's self righteous bs responses. From the first post, with the Star Trek quote (yes, it was a Star Trek quote ) I was just givin' you a hard time, like I normaly do.

Cerebus said:

JustErin said:

What's so funny.

I had nothing to do with that shit.

Your response was funny. To me, anyway. And evidently Fauxie, too.

Like I said, I'm not judging. I've done plenty of shit that I don't even talk about here because I don't care to hear people's self righteous bs responses. From the first post, with the Star Trek quote (yes, it was a Star Trek quote ) I was just givin' you a hard time, like I normaly do.

I know, I just like playing the sad victim every now and then.

JustErin said:

Cerebus said:

Your response was funny. To me, anyway. And evidently Fauxie, too.

Like I said, I'm not judging. I've done plenty of shit that I don't even talk about here because I don't care to hear people's self righteous bs responses. From the first post, with the Star Trek quote (yes, it was a Star Trek quote ) I was just givin' you a hard time, like I normaly do.

I know, I just like playing the sad victim every now and then.

*shocked inhale* Nuh-uh! Not you! I find that very hard to believe.

*uhum*

I thought I'd join in on the discussion - I know that a lot of people have met and stayed together after meeting on dating sites - and even on things like IRC - but I haven't had any luck with them.

I've tried one dating site that "everyone" seems to be on in my region - though I could have been more active in sending out messages. I've sent out several messages, not lately though, but didn't get any responses. I've had a few girls sending messages to me first, mostly chubby or overweight girls - (also one overweight stoner chick and one "escort girl"), there were two that I liked and tried to chat to - one of them I even added to my MSN chat but after a few days it seemed like she wasn't interested or maybe I wasn't interested enough....

The second one I only exchanged PMs with and after one PM that I sent her where I tried to get more deep about who I am (by her request) I've never got a response - I checked her profile a week after I sent the message and it was gone.

A real pity as her profile picture looked really nice...

The other dating site thing I've tried is not really a dating site but a site within Facebook for singles in my area. I've sent out pokes to many, MANY girls from there without any success, if you exclude at least one girl who turned out to be a fake account.

I did get pokes back from one girl that I remember and she even accepted my friend request - a blonde girl with big boobs and a curvy behind - she has a few extra pounds but nothing extreme.

She seemed to be a fun girl with a sense of humor and we exchanged a few pokes and I flirted with her a bit on her wall but soon I noticed that she seemed to add a lot of the creepy looking guys from the FB dating site, guys who would make very pervy comments on her cleavage-heavy profile pics - then I tried to send her a long PM about how she seemed smart and independent and not just good looking and that I wanted to meet her, got no results - then I posted a flirty, slightly pervy comment on one of her pics, immediately got a "like" from her.

Then one Saturday night when I was downtown with friends I noticed her walking the same street with probably a friend of hers. I walked up to her and asked her if she remembered me - she said "No" with a blank stare - I asked again "Really?" - "No" "From Facebook, remember?" - "Yeah" and she walked away. I soon deleted her from my FB friends list as I was pretty pissed off about her ignoring me - the weird thing is that she poked me the day after I met her and deleted her from my FB friend list after she didn't recognize me!

So basically I haven't had good experience with online dating sites - I don't know if I attract weird girls or if I'm just not exciting enough for the more "normal" girls on those sites...

[Edited 8/18/11 17:12pm]