duccichucka said:
kibbles said:
what a fucking stupid thing to say. i hope when your mother dies, no one has anything kind to say about her, about what she meant to your family, about she made life better just by her being here. no, let them say nothing about that but just point out what a silly ho she was. now how would you like that?
and who the fuck cares about what they're doing in other countries? this board skews north american and europe, and 'news' is what ever anyone is interested in talking about. again, what stupid fucking thing to say. i notice you're here posting, aren't you?
I don't think it was a stupid thing to say: eulogies are notorious for painting an incomplete
picture in honor of the dead. I'm saying let's realize that our celebrity-centric culture is bogus;
we honor the dead and refuse to view their lives in perspective. Houston was a drug addict;
the message here, regardless of whether or not her death is the result of drugs, should be a
cautionary tale. Let's not forget that she squandered her talent and her life because she
was a drug addict.
But because she was famous, and we treat our famous citizens differently, we'll go on and on
about how wonderful she was. I'm not dissing her - I'm saying that there's a deeper meaning
behind her death other than she was a great singer who died too soon. She was a singer; she
didn't know me and I didn't know her intimately. So that bit of yours about my mother dying is
irrelevant.
And second of all, your comment about what is happening in other countries (like Syria, for
example) only implies that you are one person with whom having a genteel and intelligent
conversation with remains an impossibility.
isn't that the point of a eulogy or do you not understand the meaning of the word?
you certainly never saw me post or anyone else you've chosen to direct your condescension and animus toward that whitney didn't have issues with drugs or that she wasn't struggling to get her life back on track. we are simply expressing our sadness at her death. i have seen posters make threads about their family members who've died, and other posters - perfect strangers that don't know that poster intimately - come to post their sympathies. it doesn't matter that i don't know whitney or anyone else on this board whose family member may have died. it's about giving support, expressing your thoughts, providing comfort - you know? being a compassionate human being, which you obviously know nothing about from that high up perch you're sitting on where you get to pass judgment on everyone else.
since you're so happy to hand out recriminations about whitney's and mj's respective falls from grace, why don't you remember that we all fall short of the glory at times, and it isn't about when we fall, it's all about when we have the grace to get back up. at the time of his death, mj had sold out 50 concert dates. whitney was producing and starring in a movie. i'm sorry but i don't choose to have your arrogant, nasty, protologist's view of either of these people.
how the fuck can anyone have a genteel and intelligent conversation with you when you're the farthest thing from both of those words? this thread isn't about syria, idiot, it's about whitney houston, therefore that's the only topic i need be concerned about. i mean, really. completely irrelevant.
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