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Prince & Larry I can't help it, my gut tells me Larry Graham wasn't a positive influence on Prince's life. I feel he exploited vulnerabilities in Prince, and acting as a defacto father figure of sorts, he manipulated and smothered him, ultimately robbing Prince of his own personal power. I can't help feeling Larry led Prince down a path toward self destruction. Ultimately Prince was responsible for his own life but Larry poisoned the well so to speak. [Edited 5/16/16 3:33am] | |
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I don't blame Larry (Seems like a lovely guy)... but it's what organised religion does. It seems clear Prince needed something to hang on to after Mayte and the death of their child, and rather than drink and drugs he went the other way... maybe too far the other way!?
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I've always loved their relationship. As soon as I heard about Prince pain. I thought of Larry straight away | |
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Junglehop said: I can't help it, my gut tells me Larry Graham wasn't a positive influence on Prince's life. I feel he exploited vulnerabilities in Prince, and acting as a defacto father figure of sorts, he manipulated and smothered him, ultimately robbing Prince of his own personal power. I can't help feeling Larry led Prince down a path toward self destruction. Ultimately Prince was responsible for his own life but Larry poisoned the well so speak. I'm not going to judge the relationship between two people that I don't know personally. What's happening here is that Prince went in a direction that a lot of his fans didn't like. And then they start looking for someone to blame. | |
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I can't help it, my guts tell me your post is over hysterically judgmental since it lays almost criminal blame at an individual when you are just going by your "guts". Prince chose his faith the same way he chose everything in his life: he did what he wanted to do, listened to whom he wanted to listen to. He was not only a grown up man, he was master of his domain, a legend, an icon, and very stubborn. | |
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Yes, because no stubborn, grown up man, legend, icon, master of his domain has EVER in the history of time, chosen the wrong path, listened to the wrong people, nor did something that would ultimately cost them everything because they wanted to. I knew from the start that I loved you with all my heart. | |
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Blaming Larry Graham for Prince choosing to become a Jehovah Witness is insulting to Prince as a man. It makes it seem like Prince could not make life decisions for himself and needed someone to hold his hand for him. Prince found a place of worship (Kingdom Hall) and Jehovah Witness as a faith that he chose for his life. Regardless of whether folks like or dislike the religion, Larry mentored Prince like an older brother, shared how his life was with Prince before being baptized in the religion and how it give his life structure. Also, Prince genuinely found happiness recording with Larry Graham and jamming with him at Paisley Park and on the road with Chaka Khan up until the gig they did together with 3RDEYEGIRL. Lastly, Prince was a creative genius that worked 24/7 with many different creative pursuits that will take a toll on your body-writing and recording songs, rehearsing and recording with different bands concurrently, playing Hit And Run style concerts and working on an autobiography. It may have been too much to take on at 57. Prince's commitment to a faith that demands humility and patience is a testament to Prince and Larry did his job as a church elder. Just leave it at that. 3121 #1 THIS YEAR | |
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Sorry, it's the Hodgkin's talking. | |
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I don't get how anyone could blame Larry for Prince's adult decision to become a JW. As many times as fans have heard stories that Prince controlled all that he did, why would they think Larry had some special powers to force him into becoming a JW? It has been rumored that it was George Benson that Prince had a discussion about the JW faith, long before those discussions took place with Larry. Besides Prince's mother was a JW, and I read several times from folks on this site over the years that before she passed, she wanted him to become a JW. | |
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Larry is too nice and good man 4 speculate about him affecting Prince life in a bad way. I personally aways had a problem 2 deal with the fact how JW's represent the biggest mess up in theology and practice in whole christinity, and i think i'll never get over it. But, Prince had that spirit 2 draw out the best even from JW community... so that give me solace what a genius he was. Btw, i somehow always saw Prince in some more traditionaly rooted and thelogicaly reliable communites like eastern christianity or something like that. [Edited 5/16/16 7:45am] | |
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i believe prince himself characterized his conversion as taking place after "a two year argument" with lg. sounds like prince had many questions and challenged lg to explain the biblical reasons for believing what he did. and since prince was then baptized, it seems he got satisfactory answers to his questions. it does not sound like he jumped in willy nilly, but after long and careful consideration. whatever we think of his chosen faith, it sounds like it was a discerned, measured decision. he also said at an award ceremony (i think) with lg next to him that true mentors care about you as much as they care about themselves and that they are not interested in money or what they can get from you. i am glad he found happiness with his faith and trusted larry and felt Larry was giving to him rather than the many who were probably just opportunistic takers. "If u love somebody, your life won't be in vain
And there's always a rainbow, at the end of every rain."--peace and love, dear prince..... | |
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I hope most of these Christain ministers are wrong for Prince's mama sake and maybe Prince too. The majority say JWs don't make it upstairs for their wrong scripture twisting and going against what Jesus actually preached. | |
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I'm with you Junglehop, my gut tells me if P could come back he would whoop Larry's arse! | |
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Prince, in you I found a kindred spirit...Rest In Paradise. | |
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My personal opinion is that Larry filled a "father"-type void in Prince as well. | |
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I hear ya HatrinaH! [Edited 5/16/16 10:42am] | |
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Larry did not poison anything. If anything I feel he was a true and valued friend for Prince. I have met Larry and he is one of the kindest and sweetest people I have ever met! He signed my checkbook "Ur one in a million" at Paisley Park Celebration "Rainbow Children" in 2001. I am greatful Prince had a true friend in him in his life. He needed that. Always with a smile on his face. He has a positive energy and light. I am so greatful Prince had a brother/father figure of sorts. [Edited 5/16/16 10:51am] [Edited 5/16/16 10:52am] [Edited 5/16/16 10:53am] | |
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I have always felt like that about Larry. One fan put it like that:"He kidnapped our sexy Prince and turned him into a tamed sheep". I could not agree more. Larry´s career had been over before he met Prince. He somehow kdnapped him while he was the most vulnerable after that Baby/Mayte mess. | |
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Prince, in you I found a kindred spirit...Rest In Paradise. | |
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Larry was his close friend. Prince loved him and Larry felt the same love for Prince. That's all that matters. Larry is a spiritual man. Who can knock that? | |
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There's more to the whole Larry/prince thing than people know.. They were like spiritual souls but as much as I loved Prince I can't say I love Larry. I agree something was 'amiss'. [Edited 5/16/16 17:46pm] | |
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While I wasn't a fan of the influence that being a Jehovah's Witness had on his music, I don't think he was under the control of some kinda cultist Svengali. | |
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Astasheiks said:
I hope most of these Christain ministers are wrong for Prince's mama sake and maybe Prince too. The majority say JWs don't make it upstairs for their wrong scripture twisting and going against what Jesus actually preached. Everything you just said is wrong witnesses don't twist the scriptures if anything they stick to it. interesting the scripture says do not use God's name in vain ( or in a worthless way) your very username has jah in it which of course is a short abbreviated version of Jehovah. but you probably knew that already and choose to ignore it | |
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I'm tired of seeing negativity about Larry. Prince made the choice to be a Jehovah Witness of HIS OWN FREE WILL. Larry is a very righteous spirtual individual who holds no malice against anybody | |
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Junglehop said: I can't help it, my gut tells me Larry Graham wasn't a positive influence on Prince's life. I feel he exploited vulnerabilities in Prince, and acting as a defacto father figure of sorts, he manipulated and smothered him, ultimately robbing Prince of his own personal power. I can't help feeling Larry led Prince down a path toward self destruction. Ultimately Prince was responsible for his own life but Larry poisoned the well so to speak. [Edited 5/16/16 3:33am] What God Put together (Prince and Mayte) let no man put asunder. That's all I gotta say about that! No matter the ©️, Paisley Park "official can never ™️ . He gave that to us verbally on Oprah in 1996. You can't take away from us, corporate. I mean O ( + > | |
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I never had a problem with Larry. I think he came into Prince's life at a time he needed a friend and to understand bad things that happened ie chips death. Prince being someone who doesn't do anything halfway took it and ran with it. I think later as opposed to earlier in his faith he found his balance. What I didn't like was Prince being judgemental when it came to cussing, sexuality in lyrics and the way people lived their lives. It took him a long time to mature to the place he got to in the end and people allowed him that space to do that. I don't think he gave others that much grace IMO. | |
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organised religion is the ultimate issue here. It controls, it manifests in ways others cant understand or relate to, and soon a person can be completely overun and blindsided by a belief - and if those surrounding you are also engaged, it becomes almost impossible to see outside of this (or break free). Prince always had a spiritiual demeanour, but that never meant he had to suppress anything or restrict expression - then his faith got the better of him and he shunned large chunks of his past as this belief no longer supported or embraced it - sad. e.g. Erotic City being pulled from the ultimate Prince release - from what i understand this decision was all about his belief not supporting this move - bizarre! | |
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You they certainly do twist the scriptures. Thats why they have their own Bible, thats why they don't take blood transfusions, they think Jesus was just a man, Michael the archangel sent to earth, they don't believe in the trinity, they think only they sect will be saved, etc. etc. Do some research!
"Question: "Is the New World Translation a valid version of the Bible?"
http://www.gotquestions.org/New-World-Translation.html
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