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Reply #60 posted 12/21/21 2:04pm

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One thing though, wasn't the P&R forum created in the first place to rid the other forums of all that toxic bullshit and give it a place to go for people who didn't want to read that stuff and basically keep it from shitting up the other forums?

My concern now is that the usual suspects will pollute other threads with baiting comments about people being too woke, links to stories about Antifa burning down orphanages and bitching about George Soros that the "liberal" media won't tell you about.


Here's the deal: If P&R stays closed (which, I sorta think it should at least for a good year's time), then the folks who want to drop their religious and/or political baloney are just going to have to find somewhere else to do it. The internet is endless. There are other places to get into a debate, a conversation, or spew propaganda.

While a "Prince fan community" is a community of people who also happen to like Prince among other things, it's not a Political Fan Community or Religion Fan Community exclusively. It's one thing to mention "I wish the President would just listen to 'Dear Mr. Man,'" or "I think Jesus would've loved 'God (Instrumental)'," injecting the mere metion of a figurehead. It's the dirty part, the ad hominem that some are ignorant enough to sink into, is what will have to go elsewhere.

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Reply #61 posted 12/21/21 2:37pm

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I'll miss the P&R forum. To be honest I didn't think it was that bad in terms of personal attacks - I've seen a lot worse on other sites. Compared to that the org is all fluffy bunnies and rainbows.

Yes it got flooded with same old same old at times, and the modding was biased, and some threads just drifted into predictable 'my semantics are bigger than your semantics' point-scoring, but in general, it wasn't that bad.

But often admins on any site have to deal with a lot of crap behind the scenes we don't know about.

[Edited 12/20/21 8:22am]

I agree. It was very tame compared to other sites I've been to in the past. Just a bunch of keyboard warriors who'd never talk that shit to someone's face out in the street.

To quote our great former orger Harlepolis, "the internet lets the mice pretend they're men".

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Reply #62 posted 12/21/21 4:10pm

herb4

TrivialPursuit said:

herb4 said:


One thing though, wasn't the P&R forum created in the first place to rid the other forums of all that toxic bullshit and give it a place to go for people who didn't want to read that stuff and basically keep it from shitting up the other forums?

My concern now is that the usual suspects will pollute other threads with baiting comments about people being too woke, links to stories about Antifa burning down orphanages and bitching about George Soros that the "liberal" media won't tell you about.


Here's the deal: If P&R stays closed (which, I sorta think it should at least for a good year's time), then the folks who want to drop their religious and/or political baloney are just going to have to find somewhere else to do it. The internet is endless. There are other places to get into a debate, a conversation, or spew propaganda.

While a "Prince fan community" is a community of people who also happen to like Prince among other things, it's not a Political Fan Community or Religion Fan Community exclusively. It's one thing to mention "I wish the President would just listen to 'Dear Mr. Man,'" or "I think Jesus would've loved 'God (Instrumental)'," injecting the mere metion of a figurehead. It's the dirty part, the ad hominem that some are ignorant enough to sink into, is what will have to go elsewhere.


Well, I guess we'll find out and see. Not much we can do about it. P&R has been a complete shit show the last 3, 4 or 5 years I've poked my head in there and, as others have pointed out, was dominated by right wing discourse. To this day, I find it utterly bizarre on a god damned Prince message board of all places that there's a place for anyone who thinks Donald Trump is a patriot or anything. I can't for the life of me understand anyone taking away Prince's central message and conflating it with any sort of right wing ideology in any way whatsoever (beyond the JW leanings).

I know Prince had his conservative moments here and there, especialy as he aged, but my main take away from what he offered ME at least was Peace, And B Wild! He taught me how to challenge and face my sexuality, be free, celebrate being an individual, dress how I wanted to dress, get funky, transcend race and be totally open about who I was and celebrate my sense of self as I loved others.

I'm totally and completely unable to conflate what I learned from Prince and his art with anything I might hear from Alex Jones, Bill O'Reilly, Trump, Rush Limbaugh or anything in the GOP platform. Maybe I learned the wrong lessons. Time will tell I suppose.


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Reply #63 posted 12/21/21 4:34pm

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Ok so let me get this straight for 4 years when Trump was in office the org had endless garbage posts spewing hatred and non stop attacks to those that dared speak the TRUTH but as soon as the BRANDON ADMINISTRATION TURNS OUT TO BE A COMPLETE SHITSHOW then this is the time to turn off P&R???

I admire BEN for all he’s done to create this unique space but find it completely HYPOCRITICAL to have not done this 4 years ago.
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Reply #64 posted 12/21/21 5:36pm

herb4

TruthBomb said:

Ok so let me get this straight for 4 years when Trump was in office the org had endless garbage posts spewing hatred and non stop attacks to those that dared speak the TRUTH but as soon as the BRANDON ADMINISTRATION TURNS OUT TO BE A COMPLETE SHITSHOW then this is the time to turn off P&R??? I admire BEN for all he’s done to create this unique space but find it completely HYPOCRITICAL to have not done this 4 years ago.

Well, Ben decided to do it now and it's his board so deal with it I guess.

Hardcore types can take their shit to reddit and spam Facebook I suppose.

Guess we'll all have to suck it up and be right/wrong about politics somewhere else other than Prince.org.


That forum has been utter shit for a good long while now. I think even right leaning types would agree with that if they're being honest about it.

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Reply #65 posted 12/21/21 6:00pm

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herb4 said:


To this day, I find it utterly bizarre on a god damned Prince message board of all places that there's a place for anyone who thinks Donald Trump is a patriot or anything.

yeahthat

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Reply #66 posted 12/21/21 6:09pm

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TruthBomb said:

Ok so let me get this straight for 4 years when Trump was in office the org had endless garbage posts spewing hatred and non stop attacks to those that dared speak the TRUTH but as soon as the BRANDON ADMINISTRATION TURNS OUT TO BE A COMPLETE SHITSHOW then this is the time to turn off P&R??? I admire BEN for all he’s done to create this unique space but find it completely HYPOCRITICAL to have not done this 4 years ago.


Exhibit A: Why the forum is closed ^ ^ ^ ^ ^

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Reply #67 posted 12/21/21 7:06pm

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eek whofarted Wow, P&R must have turned into a bloodbath since the last time I was there! razz lol Please don't let it bleed into the remaining forums! razz dead

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Reply #68 posted 12/22/21 1:13am

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uPtoWnNY said:



herb4 said:







To this day, I find it utterly bizarre on a god damned Prince message board of all places that there's a place for anyone who thinks Donald Trump is a patriot or anything.




yeahthat


That's funny because the majority of the forum consisted of Trump haters. Even suggesting that Donald Trump may not be the most evil man that ever lived was enough to make them go mad chainsaw
If you take any of this seriously, you're a bigger fool than I am.
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Reply #69 posted 12/22/21 5:16am

Empress

TrivialPursuit said:

TruthBomb said:

Ok so let me get this straight for 4 years when Trump was in office the org had endless garbage posts spewing hatred and non stop attacks to those that dared speak the TRUTH but as soon as the BRANDON ADMINISTRATION TURNS OUT TO BE A COMPLETE SHITSHOW then this is the time to turn off P&R??? I admire BEN for all he’s done to create this unique space but find it completely HYPOCRITICAL to have not done this 4 years ago.


Exhibit A: Why the forum is closed ^ ^ ^ ^ ^

Not only is this exhibit A, but it's exhibit B-Z as well.

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Reply #70 posted 12/22/21 7:21am

TruthBomb

uPtoWnNY said:



herb4 said:







To this day, I find it utterly bizarre on a god damned Prince message board of all places that there's a place for anyone who thinks Donald Trump is a patriot or anything.




yeahthat


To this day, I find it utterly bizarre on a damned Prince message board of all places that there's a place for anyone who thinks NOBAMA did anything but damage this country with his RACIST agenda or that HOUSEPLANT BIDEN and his WOKE ADMINISTRATION is doing everything they can to DESTROY AMERICA.
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EVERYTHING WOKE TURNS TO SHIT
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Reply #71 posted 12/22/21 7:40am

RichardS

TruthBomb said:

uPtoWnNY said:

yeahthat

To this day, I find it utterly bizarre on a damned Prince message board of all places that there's a place for anyone who thinks NOBAMA did anything but damage this country with his RACIST agenda or that HOUSEPLANT BIDEN and his WOKE ADMINISTRATION is doing everything they can to DESTROY AMERICA. . . . EVERYTHING WOKE TURNS TO SHIT

If only we had a P&R forum to discuss such matters in such a calm, thoughtful and nuanced way.

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Reply #72 posted 12/22/21 8:14am

herb4

I'm immediately suspicous of anyone calling themselves "truthbomb" LOL.

Maybe we should just use this thread as a catch all for P&R disussion for people who are so inclined?


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Reply #73 posted 12/22/21 8:29am

herb4

Also, strongly disliking Trump does not automatically imply a fierce love for Barrack Obama or Joe Biden. Hope that helps.

I'm not wild about either of them but I also do not regret voting for them given the circumstances/choices.

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Reply #74 posted 12/22/21 8:49am

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herb4 said:

I'm immediately suspicous of anyone calling themselves "truthbomb" LOL.

Maybe we should just use this thread as a catch all for P&R disussion for people who are so inclined?


Asking for trouble! biggrin

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Reply #75 posted 12/22/21 8:53am

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If you refer to him as BombTruth instead makes so much more sense. Overton window issues.


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Reply #76 posted 12/22/21 9:07am

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I think a change of almost all the moderators on this site would be most welcome. Out with the old and in with the new.
I also think that PM&M being split into two forums is long overdue. One for discussion of the actual music, and another for everything else. If it's easy to take a forum away, then it must be easy to add or change another.

[Edited 12/22/21 9:09am]

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Reply #77 posted 12/22/21 9:14am

herb4

mb71 said:

I think a change of almost all the moderators on this site would be most welcome. Out with the old and in with the new.
I also think that PM&M being split into two forums is long overdue. One for discussion of the actual music, and another for everything else. If it's easy to take a forum away, then it must be easy to add or change another.

[Edited 12/22/21 9:09am]


I guess but Ben, the mod and the people who keep thisplace running aren't getting paid and do it as a labor of love in their spare time. It's easy to criticize how things are done and get handled, and I'm guilty of it myself on occasion, but none of these people working to keep this board alive owe us anything, really.

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Reply #78 posted 12/22/21 9:29am

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herb4 said:

mb71 said:

I think a change of almost all the moderators on this site would be most welcome. Out with the old and in with the new.
I also think that PM&M being split into two forums is long overdue. One for discussion of the actual music, and another for everything else. If it's easy to take a forum away, then it must be easy to add or change another.

[Edited 12/22/21 9:09am]


I guess but Ben, the mod and the people who keep thisplace running aren't getting paid and do it as a labor of love in their spare time. It's easy to criticize how things are done and get handled, and I'm guilty of it myself on occasion, but none of these people working to keep this board alive owe us anything, really.

I know they don't get paid, I didn't criticize how things are done and I never said anyone owes us anything. I merely made a comment on the subject of moderation and made a suggestion regarding the PM&M forum.

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Reply #79 posted 12/22/21 9:44am

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R.I.P. P&R

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Reply #80 posted 12/22/21 10:40am

herb4

mb71 said:

herb4 said:


I guess but Ben, the mod and the people who keep thisplace running aren't getting paid and do it as a labor of love in their spare time. It's easy to criticize how things are done and get handled, and I'm guilty of it myself on occasion, but none of these people working to keep this board alive owe us anything, really.

I know they don't get paid, I didn't criticize how things are done and I never said anyone owes us anything. I merely made a comment on the subject of moderation and made a suggestion regarding the PM&M forum.


Ok, settle down please.

I (somehow crazily) read "change the mods it's long overdue", "out with the old and in with the new" and "splitting the forums needs to be done" as some sort of critique on how the board is run.

I wasn't calling you out, shitting on you directly or anything like that so much as deferring to the people that run this place so there's no reason to be so defensive I don't think. If I offended you somehow though, I apologize.

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Reply #81 posted 12/22/21 10:55am

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fortuneandserendipity said:

If you refer to him as BombTruth instead makes so much more sense. Overton window issues.


Racist Troll is more like it.

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Reply #82 posted 12/22/21 11:24am

mb71

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herb4 said:

mb71 said:

I know they don't get paid, I didn't criticize how things are done and I never said anyone owes us anything. I merely made a comment on the subject of moderation and made a suggestion regarding the PM&M forum.


Ok, settle down please.

I (somehow crazily) read "change the mods it's long overdue", "out with the old and in with the new" and "splitting the forums needs to be done" as some sort of critique on how the board is run.

I wasn't calling you out, shitting on you directly or anything like that so much as deferring to the people that run this place so there's no reason to be so defensive I don't think. If I offended you somehow though, I apologize.

We're cool. Thanks.

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Reply #83 posted 12/22/21 11:38am

Empress

uPtoWnNY said:

fortuneandserendipity said:

If you refer to him as BombTruth instead makes so much more sense. Overton window issues.


Racist Troll is more like it.

No question about that!

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Reply #84 posted 12/22/21 11:39am

herb4

Mods, please change my name to one of the following so that everyone will know how correct all of my hot takes are.

Reality Blast
Love Left/Loathe Right
M.A.G.A. D.O.A
2Gay4CNN
BarrackADelica
FOX Hunter
EveryoneListen2Me
Eye Know
Bill O Really
Logic Hammer
MSNB SEE

TIA

*tips hat*

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Reply #85 posted 12/22/21 12:07pm

IanRG

mb71 said:

I think a change of almost all the moderators on this site would be most welcome. Out with the old and in with the new.
I also think that PM&M being split into two forums is long overdue. One for discussion of the actual music, and another for everything else. If it's easy to take a forum away, then it must be easy to add or change another.

[Edited 12/22/21 9:09am]

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I recently made a similar suggestion to Ben - with a slight difference:

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We add a Prince 101 forum because the Wiki section is empty. This would be a forum where instead of responding to visitors with "google it" instead of answering them, or attacking people for not liking only the right era, genre, style or song. We could provide a welcoming, informative and educational forum on Prince and his music that would not see people scared away - I have seen more new people briefly post and then disappear from PM&M than new people do the same in P&R. It could have links to good discography sites, sticky and ordered posts on releases and reviews and alike.

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It would be place where we can discuss SDEs and not Tony M (or former presidents). A place that can become a destination for those who want to be woke to Prince and why we (at least most of us) are here.

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Reply #86 posted 12/22/21 12:36pm

herb4

IanRG said:

mb71 said:

I think a change of almost all the moderators on this site would be most welcome. Out with the old and in with the new.
I also think that PM&M being split into two forums is long overdue. One for discussion of the actual music, and another for everything else. If it's easy to take a forum away, then it must be easy to add or change another.

[Edited 12/22/21 9:09am]

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instead of responding to visitors with "google it" instead of answering them, or attacking people for not liking only the right era, genre, style or song.

Who here EVER does anything like that?


something something (rhymes with "fart")

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Reply #87 posted 12/22/21 1:25pm

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^ More pretzel twisting. We already have princevault.com for a wiki style page. Just direct them there. Everything else on the Prince Music forum should be opinion and fact where appropriate. In other words no change.


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Reply #88 posted 12/23/21 4:14pm

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TruthBomb said:

Ok so let me get this straight for 4 years when Trump was in office the org had endless garbage posts spewing hatred and non stop attacks to those that dared speak the TRUTH but as soon as the BRANDON ADMINISTRATION TURNS OUT TO BE A COMPLETE SHITSHOW then this is the time to turn off P&R???

I admire BEN for all he’s done to create this unique space but find it completely HYPOCRITICAL to have not done this 4 years ago.


Ty, how long are you going to keep using fake names to post bullshit ? I thought you were toast....
#SOCIETYDEFINESU
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Reply #89 posted 12/23/21 5:26pm

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lol

jjhunsecker said:

TruthBomb said:
Ok so let me get this straight for 4 years when Trump was in office the org had endless garbage posts spewing hatred and non stop attacks to those that dared speak the TRUTH but as soon as the BRANDON ADMINISTRATION TURNS OUT TO BE A COMPLETE SHITSHOW then this is the time to turn off P&R??? I admire BEN for all he’s done to create this unique space but find it completely HYPOCRITICAL to have not done this 4 years ago.
Ty, how long are you going to keep using fake names to post bullshit ? I thought you were toast....

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