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How Many Sex Partners is Too Many When it comes to learning the sexual history of others, do you have a number that you just cannot deal with--that would just make your jaw drop to the floor. Is it possible that someone could have had too many sexual partners in their past that makes an otherwise attractive looking person unappealing? If you met a 30 year old, is there a magic number that would make you hesitate and maybe think the person is just a disgusting whore. Would that number be different if they were age 20 or 40? And if your really brave......share your historical number....... (and I'm not just talking penetration here.....oral sex IS included) [Edited 4/20/12 22:54pm] Going to church doesn’t make you a Christian, any more than standing in a garage makes you a car. | |
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I guess I'm in the minority, but I don't ask. I've never cared. Not saying I've never discussed it with a woman, I have. But only as part of regular conversations, not as a decision making, pre-requisite to going further in a relationship. The best, longest relationship I ever had was with a woman several friends warned me slept around too much (and we're still best friends, twenty years later).
However, these days (and for quite a while now) I'm not having sex with someone who can't provide a clean test result (I mean, shit, they're free all over the place and people should know those things about themselves). And even then I'm still keepin' shit on a latex lockdown. | |
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I don't care. Hell, we both knew before we got married we weren't virgins. | |
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I would like to know just out of curiosity, wouldn't look any different to a person.
Although when a 35 year old guy told he had 2 partners is whole life, I would think there's something wrong with him | |
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i think its age related!!
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at 20 - 40 would b toooooooooooo much
but at 60 - 40 would not b so bad!
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For me, it really depends on the person, not so much on the number of people. I have more respect for someone like, for instance, pornstar Belladonna or Sasha Grey than for some chick who got randomly banged by random dudes in an average way every other week. It´s all about the attitude, personality, brain and character. " I´d rather be a stank ass hoe because I´m not stupid. Oh my goodness! I got more drugs! I´m always funny dude...I´m hilarious! Are we gonna smoke?" | |
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I don't want to know unless it's less than or equal to the number of partners I've had a whore in sheep's clothing | |
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I don't care. | |
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If he found true love early and had one or two very long committed relationships what would be wrong about him ?
For me it all depends on the circumstances. If he can give me a proper reason why he had the number of sex partners he had whether it is 500 or zero I am okay with that. And of course as long as I am the only one for him now. [Edited 4/21/12 5:55am] With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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Its all relative... if a person was married for ever and only had a few sex partners then that shouldn't be compared to a person the same age that was never married.
If a recent divorcee who was married since 20 years of age and only had 4 sex partners his entire life then he shouldn't flinch at me when I say I fucked 20 guys.
So a better factor is to figure out what lifestyle the person leads. Do they want marriage? Its better to ask about dating habits more than sex partners, this way its easier to gage if they are a ho or not.
"How many people do you date/fuck in a year on average?"
This number should be expected to be higher if the person is a sexy single person who isn't attached. A married person is "off the radar" because they should only be fucking that spouse they have. --- The better question is how long can you fuck and technique should be more of a concern.
Numbers do not make me leary at all since I know most men fuck at least 3 women a year if they are single. That's how I look at it. The older you get the numbers do decrease but at 30, heck I expect sex to be a regular thing in a person's life and its different if you are NOT looking for marriage.
Now a celebrity or porn star that gets to fuck 1-2 women per week? That's roughly 100 women a year... hell fucks no, I don't wanna fuck you or anyone that's fucked the people you fucked. | |
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This. | |
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Not saying seriously wrong (that's why i put a smiley behind it), but I don't think it would be my kind of guy.
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I don't think there is a number that bothers me. I adore a woman who has no problem goin out to get theirs. I like that and its quite a turn-on. Sexually aggressive and adventurous women do for me for some strange and peverted reasons. | |
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Yeah I noticed the smiley, but I still saw your post as judgemental. But I get what you mean with saying that it would be not your kind of guy. With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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if you in your 20s you may wanna cap it @ 250 i am KING BAD!!!
you are NOT... STOP ME IF YOU HEARD THIS BEFORE... | |
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This is an interesting topic . And i admit i waffle back and forth on relevance .
On one hand , I have not had alot of sexual partners .. and i regret alot of gals who i thought were great gals or wanted to have sex - and I chose NOT to ....(so I wish i had more partners)
I had a male roommate in college who swore you gotta have as many sexual partners as you are age (so 25 at age 25 .... and 35 at age 35) ....
and then again .... I also think ... if u meet someone that is hot , sexy as hell ... and just seems all that ... and she tells you a very high number .... i think I would be like "hmmm what is wrong with this gal " ...
(admittedly ... I am not sure if anything is wrong with her in that example) ... just maybe wrong for me ... and my issues .... Colonel Angus may be smelly. colonel angus may be a little rough . but deep down ... Colonel angus is very sweet. | |
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It used to bother me, but doesn't really bother me anymore. I suppose 10-15 partners per year isn't an awful lot these days, but that number will add up to quite a frightening figure if you just continue to do it year after year.
I don't find it odd that a woman that likes sex and looks sexy has had the opportunity to sleep with a lot of guys. There's something about women that spend every weekend in a bar drinking and hooking up with guys that starts showing on their faces quite soon though.
Okay, now I know. If you can't remember the faces of the people you've had sex with then you've had sex with too many people. Or you might need glasses, or something. | |
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Yeah... also, too many is when you don't know names or remember the people you slept with.
I think a person (man or woman) should at least remember all the first names of all their lovers. Otherwise, yous a ho.
One night stands are just no good... but averaging a relationship and one lover a year seems fair.
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I have to admit....when I've heard a number that was too high, inside I'm like . I am not a casual sex person, so I preferred the type who like monogamy and long term relationships. I tend to think there is no way they have been careful every single time they were banging those 250 women, and then I wonder when the hell was the last time they got tested for stuff. Crabs, herpies, scabies etc. oh hell naw....Condoms dont protect you from everything.... Going to church doesn’t make you a Christian, any more than standing in a garage makes you a car. | |
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oh...and there have been times where if I found out a dude humped a certain girl--like a girl who humped the whole neighborhood......he got completely dropped off my list. [Edited 4/21/12 13:12pm] Going to church doesn’t make you a Christian, any more than standing in a garage makes you a car. | |
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Hell, I can't remember what I did twenty minutes ago, how and the world to you expect me to remember everyone I've bedded or vice versa.
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Who here has been asked their "number" and lied about it? Going to church doesn’t make you a Christian, any more than standing in a garage makes you a car. | |
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Supposedly everyone lies about it. I've lied about mine in the past, but I wouldn't now. My "number" is more than reasonable for a male my age who has never been married. | |
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My husband lied about his number before we married.......LOL. **punk ass** He said he knew I wouldn't have married him.
I just asked 2 teens the same question (age 16 and 17) They both said they wouldn't date somebody who has slept with 2 people.... Going to church doesn’t make you a Christian, any more than standing in a garage makes you a car. | |
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Oh, hell no. That's about as ridiculous as lying about coming... "faking it." What is the point?
What's the belief, women lower their number while men inflate their number on how many sex partners they've had. | |
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By St. Boogar and all the saints at the backside door of Purgatory! | |
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You know That sentence is a real tongue twister, try to say it fast 3 times.
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Well...I confess....I have faked it just so that it would end sooner......sometimes you just get tired of a dude trying and failing..... Lied about my number....naw. Going to church doesn’t make you a Christian, any more than standing in a garage makes you a car. | |
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I guess I used to 'care' when I was a lot younger and flipping insecure. But now I don't care, nor do I think it's any of my business. | |
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