More than three.

StillGotIt said:

Who here has been asked their "number" and lied about it?

Never.

I personally never thought my number was really all that high, but the last person I was seeing raised his eyebrow when I told him. I know he thought it was high because he brought the number up a few times...albeit in a joking way, like, "Oh, I bet you want that dude to be number 21, eh?".

Thing is, even after answering his question about it, I never asked him how many people he had slept with.

Oh God... I havent cared for, damn, over 27 years... So i really dont even know why I am here..

There's no such thing as too many. I've had probably around 200 in my lifetime and I've been a slow whore. A lot of folks I know have had much more.

tinaz said:

Oh God... I havent cared for, damn, over 27 years... So i really dont even know why I am here..

my prolum is I NEVER KNEW I WAS SUPOSE TO KEEP COUNT

so i kinda never got into the numbers except for #1 and 2 and maybe 3

i had to have 'braggin rights' when i was a kid

When that number of people requires a zip code.

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What does it mean that I don't even know my number?

Seriously I have absolutely no idea.

nevermind

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1

I don't care and don't want to know. I guess I am at that age where it doesn't matter.

I have never lied and will tell the truth if ask. I'm 36 and still in the single digits so I don't feel too bad telling.

AsherFierce said:

1

are you saying 1 is too many or 1 is your number?

CallMeCarrie said:

What does it mean that I don't even know my number?

Seriously I have absolutely no idea.

aint nobody judging you......but I better not see you on the maury show...... Seriously tho...I'm sure if you thought hard enough, you would remember their first names.

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KingBAD said:

if you in your 20s you may wanna cap it @ 250

All my friends, especially gay, thought I was the biggest prude.

I thought I was going to burn in hell for just what I was thinking, let alone ever did.

StillGotIt said:

Who here has been asked their "number" and lied about it?

I lowered it. I don't really know a number. I never counted. i remember the majority of faces though because I prefer relationships, although I've had some memorable hookups.

StillGotIt said:

My husband lied about his number before we married.......LOL. **punk ass** He said he knew I wouldn't have married him.

I just asked 2 teens the same question (age 16 and 17) They both said they wouldn't date somebody who has slept with 2 people....

They're still virgins . . . .

SUPRMAN said:

KingBAD said:

if you in your 20s you may wanna cap it @ 250

All my friends, especially gay, thought I was the biggest prude.

I thought I was going to burn in hell for just what I was thinking, let alone ever did.

it was a bit hard to be prudish in my fam and around my hoods

we were groomed at a young age (uncles and cousins bein older but still young)

it was an outright manditory 'right of passage' that reflected on how cool they were.

"my llil neph get mo pussy than you..." that kind of thing at first.

sexyone said:

I don't care and don't want to know. I guess I am at that age where it doesn't matter.

I have never lied and will tell the truth if ask. I'm 36 and still in the single digits so I don't feel too bad telling.

I want to know . I expect my partner not to have any secrets.

I've never cared and never asked. I've had sex with 16 men I started when was 15 and I'm over 40 now. I remember each and every one of them, some better than others .

StillGotIt said:

When it comes to learning the sexual history of others, do you have a number that you just cannot deal with--that would just make your jaw drop to the floor. Is it possible that someone could have had too many sexual partners in their past that makes an otherwise attractive looking person unappealing? If you met a 30 year old, is there a magic number that would make you hesitate and maybe think the person is just a disgusting whore. Would that number be different if they were age 20 or 40? And if your really brave......share your historical number....... (and I'm not just talking penetration here.....oral sex IS included)

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I'll answer THIS^ question with a question:

Is you current lover a former adult film actor/actress?

StillGotIt said:

CallMeCarrie said:

What does it mean that I don't even know my number?

Seriously I have absolutely no idea.

aint nobody judging you......but I better not see you on the maury show...... Seriously tho...I'm sure if you thought hard enough, you would remember their first names.

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you made me laugh...

IDK - I bet I've completely forgotten a few. I remember the first few and I remember the last few, but it's all the ones in the middle.... and we are including oral sex, too! Giving and receiving??

Yeah - I definitely don't know. I don't feel like it's been "too many" though. I feel like it has been "not enough." Maybe because I'm single, but I can't give up now!!

I guess one more than the bed will hold. Unless you have one of those sex trapezes or something.

I don't give a fuck about how many people you've fucked unless the number is 0 or 1 and you think

we need to have a serious talk about your ability to perform.

Show me a clean bill of sales and if everything else plays out, we can make it happen.

If you ask me, I will ask you. I just think you should be willing to share the same information you're

asking someone else to share.

If we are trying to do the lets-get-married dance I won't ask how many there have been, but I will

want to know how serious you are about me being your last.

I've dated all over the place, from someone who did porn for a living to someone who was

dedicated to saving it until marriage. I have been a first, I've been asked to be a last, I've been

shown new things and I've shown new things.

What i did before you helps make up the woman you want, you can't handle the history

you are free to go because i LIVED before I met you and will continue to do so after you have gone.

When I was younger I lied about how many, I had my vcard but acted like I didn't.

I've made out with WAY more people than I've fucked.

good question. I guess its not only age related but speaks to emotional maturity. If you are single and say 40 or 50 then I'd expect the number to be high and by high I mean the number of partners would equal half your age assuming you had a different lover each year since becoming an adult. If you indeed had a different lover for every year of your adulthood e.g. you are 36 and you've had 18 lovers in 18 years then I'd wonder about your emotional maturity and stability. Why have you not taken a break and tried to make a committment?

NOw we could flip this around. What if you had 15 sex partners in a weekend but were pretty much celibate throughout most of your life? There are soooo many ways to look at this.

Asking how many sex partners is too many is basically asking what makes a person a whore.

2,766

XxAxX said:

2,766

my kinda gurl!!!

XxAxX said:

2,766

Thats a nice even number

LadyCasanova said:

XxAxX said:

2,766

Thats a nice even number

2,767 is WAY too many partners

XxAxX said:

LadyCasanova said:

Thats a nice even number

2,767 is WAY too many partners

2766 is a perfect number!

I would of had to call you a whore if you had 2767..

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KingBAD said:

it was a bit hard to be prudish in my fam and around my hoods we were groomed at a young age (uncles and cousins bein older but still young) it was an outright manditory 'right of passage' that reflected on how cool they were. "my llil neph get mo pussy than you..." that kind of thing at first.

King...you aint never lied!!!!! Only it wasnt my uncles and cousins, it was my older brothers and their friends (they were all 6 and 7 years older than me).

I had double digit partners. Thing is, I did all my pimping/and whoring before I was 19 (that's when my wife and I got together). I'm actually writing out my high school years right now...kind of a ghetto "Wonder Years." I'm at the start of junior year and I'm on sexual conquest #11.

And it doesnt matter how many partners my wife had...the real problem I have is that I happen to know one of the cats on that list. He tried to steal a few of my chicks over the years and always failed. But when I got with my wife, I found out that she was doing him on the downlow a few months prior.

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