tinaz said:

XxAxX said:

2,767 is WAY too many partners

2766 is a perfect number!

I would of had to call you a whore if you had 2767..

Two goes into seven three times with a remainder of 1

3

Seven goes into sixteen twice with a remainder of 2

32

Six goes into twenty six four times with a remainder of 2

324.2

Yep. 2766 is definitely the perfect number.

When you are broke or diseased to the point you can't function properly

HotGritz said:

good question. I guess its not only age related but speaks to emotional maturity. If you are single and say 40 or 50 then I'd expect the number to be high and by high I mean the number of partners would equal half your age assuming you had a different lover each year since becoming an adult. If you indeed had a different lover for every year of your adulthood e.g. you are 36 and you've had 18 lovers in 18 years then I'd wonder about your emotional maturity and stability. Why have you not taken a break and tried to make a committment?

NOw we could flip this around. What if you had 15 sex partners in a weekend but were pretty much celibate throughout most of your life? There are soooo many ways to look at this.

Asking how many sex partners is too many is basically asking what makes a person a whore.

The only year I counted the men was when I first came out of the closet at age 22. I had 23 that year alone (one number higher than my age at the time). Each year after that, I had more and more until a dry spell in the late 1990s. In the 2000s when I had lost a lot of weight, I made up for lost time and started having threesomes, foursomes, and sometimes even fivesomes. Hell, I stopped even asking their name and if they tried to tell me, I'd tell them..."Your name ain't what I'm interested in". That went on until around 2007 and now I'm back in a dry spell again. But I have been an absolute whore and have loved every minute of it.

I know a lot of people say it doesn't matter to them but to me it definitely does and it's a definite deal breaker.

I think how many people you've slept with, says something about how much you value yourself and the sexual act as well.

I wouldn't want to be with someone that looks at it as, "It's just fucking".

No fuckin' way.

A sex partner would be nice!

tinaz said:

XxAxX said:

2,767 is WAY too many partners

2766 is a perfect number!

I would of had to call you a whore if you had 2767..

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then i'm glad i didn't step foot across that line 2,766 is where i take a stand and don't back down

Cerebus said:

tinaz said:

2766 is a perfect number!

I would of had to call you a whore if you had 2767..

Two goes into seven three times with a remainder of 1

3

Seven goes into sixteen twice with a remainder of 2

32

Six goes into twenty six four times with a remainder of 2

324.2

Yep. 2766 is definitely the perfect number.

yep. a person has to draw the line somewhere. although, truth be told, i wasn't sure whether the question encompassed past and/or present and/or future lifetimes such as are contemplated in the buddhist worldview. in that case we'd have to work pretty hard on coming up with an entirely new number

SoLiDiFy said:

When you are broke or diseased to the point you can't function properly

IT ONLY TAKES ONE!!!

vainandy said:

HotGritz said:

good question. I guess its not only age related but speaks to emotional maturity. If you are single and say 40 or 50 then I'd expect the number to be high and by high I mean the number of partners would equal half your age assuming you had a different lover each year since becoming an adult. If you indeed had a different lover for every year of your adulthood e.g. you are 36 and you've had 18 lovers in 18 years then I'd wonder about your emotional maturity and stability. Why have you not taken a break and tried to make a committment?

NOw we could flip this around. What if you had 15 sex partners in a weekend but were pretty much celibate throughout most of your life? There are soooo many ways to look at this.

Asking how many sex partners is too many is basically asking what makes a person a whore.

The only year I counted the men was when I first came out of the closet at age 22. I had 23 that year alone (one number higher than my age at the time). Each year after that, I had more and more until a dry spell in the late 1990s. In the 2000s when I had lost a lot of weight, I made up for lost time and started having threesomes, foursomes, and sometimes even fivesomes. Hell, I stopped even asking their name and if they tried to tell me, I'd tell them..."Your name ain't what I'm interested in". That went on until around 2007 and now I'm back in a dry spell again. But I have been an absolute whore and have loved every minute of it.

still tryna wrap my head around these dry spells....so called.

it's the circumstances.

there are people who for various reasons whore themselves. A lot of it is loneliness, needing affection the wrong way, trying to prove something, sexual addictions commitment fears and issues and some people are just plain nasty etc

Like some have said, it depends on the age.

People in my opinion who have lots of random sex, in my opinion don't respect their bodies and they don't respect sex.

HotGritz said:

vainandy said:

The only year I counted the men was when I first came out of the closet at age 22. I had 23 that year alone (one number higher than my age at the time). Each year after that, I had more and more until a dry spell in the late 1990s. In the 2000s when I had lost a lot of weight, I made up for lost time and started having threesomes, foursomes, and sometimes even fivesomes. Hell, I stopped even asking their name and if they tried to tell me, I'd tell them..."Your name ain't what I'm interested in". That went on until around 2007 and now I'm back in a dry spell again. But I have been an absolute whore and have loved every minute of it.

still tryna wrap my head around these dry spells....so called.

The first dry spell was adjusting from working a night shift for nine years to working a day shift and not being able to stay out at all hours of the night because I wouldn't be able to wake up the next morning. Plus I was tired of the whole scene in the black club due to shit hop and it's dull presence.

I lost a lot of weight in the year 2001 and started feeling my oats again. A friend told me that all the older black gay people and black gay people that had even an ounce of class, no longer went to the black gay club anymore and they went to the white gay club which played trance (which was horrible but it was at least tolerable) and no shit hop which had driven everyone out of the black gay club and all that remained was little youngsters that looked like thugged out Romper Roomers. Well, shit hop has now just about taken over the white gay club also and combine that with the rediculous new law that you can no longer smoke cigarettes in nightclubs, it's just as dull in the white club also. Hell, I simply stay at home on weekends now and play some good music. However, you don't get no dick by staying home. Why do you think I hate and despise shit hop as much as I do. It's not just because it sounds horrible, you can't get no dick these days because of it unless you want to sit there and be in the same room with the bullshit and I just can't stand being in the same room with it.

Here's some footage from one of the black gay clubs (we have two of them now)....

Oh wait until this big heffer gets warmed.

It makes for great comedy but just imagine a whole evening of bullshit music that sounds like this.

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[Edited 4/24/12 10:41am]

Dren5 said:

I know a lot of people say it doesn't matter to them but to me it definitely does and it's a definite deal breaker.

I think how many people you've slept with, says something about how much you value yourself and the sexual act as well.

I wouldn't want to be with someone that looks at it as, "It's just fucking".

No fuckin' way.

wow, you and I said the same thing in almost the same words

OldFriends4Sale said:

it's the circumstances.

there are people who for various reasons whore themselves. A lot of it is loneliness, needing affection the wrong way, trying to prove something, sexual addictions commitment fears and issues and some people are just plain nasty etc

Like some have said, it depends on the age.

People in my opinion who have lots of random sex, in my opinion don't respect their bodies and they don't respect sex.

It's funny (TO ME) reading your opinion and then seeing your signature.

...We don't let society tell us our we're supposed to be...

There are people now and throughout history who would've said the opposite. That if allowing yourself to enjoy a healthy physical relationship with someone else then that is the ultimate respect for their bodies and themselves.

Of course maturity and emotional health are key in a healthy physical relationship. And consent, too. But other than that do we need to define how long you need to know somebody before it is morally acceptible to have sex. And if sex happens soon in a relationship and then that relationship ends soon, then the number of sexual partners can build up over the years! It doesn't necessarily mean there is something wrong that person.

Just to be clear... you aren't saying that just because a person has had a lot of sex that they are whoring themselves, right? And you aren't saying that just because a person has had a lot of sex that means that it was just "random" sex, right?

I don't know if it is because I've been out of the US for so long, but there are more posts on this thread than I thought there would be that smack of old-fashioned, repressed, Puritanism views on sex. Especially for a Prince website!

vainandy said:

HotGritz said:

still tryna wrap my head around these dry spells....so called.

The first dry spell was adjusting from working a night shift for nine years to working a day shift and not being able to stay out at all hours of the night because I wouldn't be able to wake up the next morning. Plus I was tired of the whole scene in the black club due to shit hop and it's dull presence.

I lost a lot of weight in the year 2001 and started feeling my oats again. A friend told me that all the older black gay people and black gay people that had even an ounce of class, no longer went to the black gay club anymore and they went to the white gay club which played trance (which was horrible but it was at least tolerable) and no shit hop which had driven everyone out of the black gay club and all that remained was little youngsters that looked like thugged out Romper Roomers. Well, shit hop has now just about taken over the white gay club also and combine that with the rediculous new law that you can no longer smoke cigarettes in nightclubs, it's just as dull in the white club also. Hell, I simply stay at home on weekends now and play some good music. However, you don't get no dick by staying home. Why do you think I hate and despise shit hop as much as I do. It's not just because it sounds horrible, you can't get no dick these days because of it unless you want to sit there and be in the same room with the bullshit and I just can't stand being in the same room with it.

Here's some footage from one of the black gay clubs (we have two of them now)....

Oh wait until this big heffer gets warmed.

It makes for great comedy but just imagine a whole evening of bullshit music that sounds like this.

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.

[Edited 4/24/12 10:41am]

I dont even know what to say to that video..

tinaz said:

vainandy said:

The first dry spell was adjusting from working a night shift for nine years to working a day shift and not being able to stay out at all hours of the night because I wouldn't be able to wake up the next morning. Plus I was tired of the whole scene in the black club due to shit hop and it's dull presence.

I lost a lot of weight in the year 2001 and started feeling my oats again. A friend told me that all the older black gay people and black gay people that had even an ounce of class, no longer went to the black gay club anymore and they went to the white gay club which played trance (which was horrible but it was at least tolerable) and no shit hop which had driven everyone out of the black gay club and all that remained was little youngsters that looked like thugged out Romper Roomers. Well, shit hop has now just about taken over the white gay club also and combine that with the rediculous new law that you can no longer smoke cigarettes in nightclubs, it's just as dull in the white club also. Hell, I simply stay at home on weekends now and play some good music. However, you don't get no dick by staying home. Why do you think I hate and despise shit hop as much as I do. It's not just because it sounds horrible, you can't get no dick these days because of it unless you want to sit there and be in the same room with the bullshit and I just can't stand being in the same room with it.

Here's some footage from one of the black gay clubs (we have two of them now)....

Oh wait until this big heffer gets warmed.

It makes for great comedy but just imagine a whole evening of bullshit music that sounds like this.

.

.

.

[Edited 4/24/12 10:41am]

I dont even know what to say to that video..

For Real!

Dren5 said:

I know a lot of people say it doesn't matter to them but to me it definitely does and it's a definite deal breaker.

I think how many people you've slept with, says something about how much you value yourself and the sexual act as well.

I wouldn't want to be with someone that looks at it as, "It's just fucking".

No fuckin' way.

Practice makes perfect and I'm sure Micheal Jordan didn't use the same ball everytime...

I never ask and I've rarely ever been asked. I've also only been in one really serious relationship.

LadyCasanova said:

Dren5 said:

I know a lot of people say it doesn't matter to them but to me it definitely does and it's a definite deal breaker.

I think how many people you've slept with, says something about how much you value yourself and the sexual act as well.

I wouldn't want to be with someone that looks at it as, "It's just fucking".

No fuckin' way.

Practice makes perfect and I'm sure Micheal Jordan didn't use the same ball everytime...

bwhahahahahaha!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Didn't use the same basket either and that's why his ass is divorced!

HotGritz said:

LadyCasanova said:

Practice makes perfect and I'm sure Micheal Jordan didn't use the same ball everytime...

bwhahahahahaha!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Didn't use the same basket either and that's why his ass is divorced!

You know thats right!

I think more than four is far too many for me. How can I please any more ladies at once when one of then is ridin me pony style , one is stiing on my face , and my hands are poking inside a couple of pussies?

Oh, wait. You mean over a lifetime? It's hard to say, but I think I really can't judge someone's sexual past unless it's currently creeping up on them. So what if the woman I'm with was only with five guys or 500 if all of that was years in the past and she is being exclusive with me now? As long as she doesn't have AIDS or herpes or some other sexually transmitted disease that's permanent, she's be okay with me as long as we click together.

Deadcake said:

A sex partner would be nice!

Better none than the wrong one.

Or an STD.

OldFriends4Sale said:

Dren5 said:

I know a lot of people say it doesn't matter to them but to me it definitely does and it's a definite deal breaker.

I think how many people you've slept with, says something about how much you value yourself and the sexual act as well.

I wouldn't want to be with someone that looks at it as, "It's just fucking".

No fuckin' way.

wow, you and I said the same thing in almost the same words

Yeah, I noticed that; we're 'here' on this one.

*gestures wildly*

728huey said:

I think more than four is far too many for me. How can I please any more ladies at once when one of then is ridin me pony style , one is stiing on my face , and my hands are poking inside a couple of pussies?

Oh, wait. You mean over a lifetime? It's hard to say, but I think I really can't judge someone's sexual past unless it's currently creeping up on them. So what if the woman I'm with was only with five guys or 500 if all of that was years in the past and she is being exclusive with me now? As long as she doesn't have AIDS or herpes or some other sexually transmitted disease that's permanent, she's be okay with me as long as we click together.

I think, the possibility of being in the same place/space where other ex lovers are would be difficult.

And if she is still friends, that would be bothersome.

I know people who have people they slept with maybe once or dated or were sexual partners and they are no (just friends) I wouldn't like that.

how many sex partners was too many for Prince? I think he should have stopped at 9,783 and that one random tall chick.

HotGritz said:

how many sex partners was too many for Prince? I think he should have stopped at 9,783 and that one random tall chick.

HotGritz said:

how many sex partners was too many for Prince? I think he should have stopped at 9,783 and that one random tall chick.

Wasnt that a guy?

tinaz said:

HotGritz said:

how many sex partners was too many for Prince? I think he should have stopped at 9,783 and that one random tall chick.

Wasnt that a guy?

Trans, but will a woman

LadyCasanova said:

tinaz said:

Wasnt that a guy?

Trans, but will a woman

CallMeCarrie said:

OldFriends4Sale said:

it's the circumstances.

there are people who for various reasons whore themselves. A lot of it is loneliness, needing affection the wrong way, trying to prove something, sexual addictions commitment fears and issues and some people are just plain nasty etc

Like some have said, it depends on the age.

People in my opinion who have lots of random sex, in my opinion don't respect their bodies and they don't respect sex.

It's funny (TO ME) reading your opinion and then seeing your signature.

...We don't let society tell us our we're supposed to be...

There are people now and throughout history who would've said the opposite. That if allowing yourself to enjoy a healthy physical relationship with someone else then that is the ultimate respect for their bodies and themselves.

Of course maturity and emotional health are key in a healthy physical relationship. And consent, too. But other than that do we need to define how long you need to know somebody before it is morally acceptible to have sex. And if sex happens soon in a relationship and then that relationship ends soon, then the number of sexual partners can build up over the years! It doesn't necessarily mean there is something wrong that person.

Just to be clear... you aren't saying that just because a person has had a lot of sex that they are whoring themselves, right? And you aren't saying that just because a person has had a lot of sex that means that it was just "random" sex, right?

I don't know if it is because I've been out of the US for so long, but there are more posts on this thread than I thought there would be that smack of old-fashioned, repressed, Puritanism views on sex. Especially for a Prince website!

lol yeah I know, but that signature isn't about sex. Even though sex may have have a part. It's about character and expressing yourself. That's why as a 14yr old who wasn't having sex yet that line always spoke to me, it spoke to me as an artist and a son who was raised by a father that taught us a multiracial identity and to be individuals and not go with the flow of what's in.(that last one was hard sometimes, especially when it came to buying clothes) He'd always say "you could be the person that starts a fashion trend" when he didn't want to by my that pair of suede adidas

I'm define myself as a bohemian. I LOVE pleasure, but I'm also responsible and informed: Sex food drink sleep music art conversation and any combination.

Careless and a lot of random sex has put a lot of people in the grave the poor house or just jaded. I agree with your 2nd paragraph. I love to totally go 100% with another person. Real honest sex focuses you on the other person. You could spend a lifetime expoloring sex with someone. I'll be 40 June 5th and I've learned the Quality will always outweigh Quantity. You can never really focus on 10 people, most people have a problem with 2.

I would say if a person has a pattern of having sex too soon and it ends and that is a regular thing, then that person does have a problem. I have a female friend who is 41 this year never married and 1 child. Beautiful Latina/Black woman intelligent etc but she is going thru a hard emotional time because she does want a LTR, she wants to be married. But she has that problem of introducing sex way too soon. And it happens over and over. I'm not even saying she is having 10 partners a year. But I believe it show a lack of respect for her body (and child) and the men even though they may go there, their breaking it off shows they don't 'respect her' as well. It does show a lack of maturity.

I think a lot of people aren't mentally and emotionally ready for sex. Most people seem to have the idea of jumping in there and hopefully everything else will catch up.

No I don't think if a person is having a lot of sex they are whoring themselves BUT that has a lot to do with who/why/where etc There are people who drop standards to get some, people who lie to get some, people who cheat to get some and only a few who are honest about it.

Random sex is sex with someone you don't know. That to me is on the lines of whoring.

Hook-Up websites, sex adds, Craigslist, anonymous sex.

There are a lot of things people don't consider when they are horny. STDs & HIV rates are not going down. Way too many people are having abortions or having babys because they don't approach sex respectfully which in turn means they are not respecting their bodies.

I think even people 'assume' because it's Prince that he's having a lot of sex all the time. I think he had more sex/sex offers at certain times, and I also think (and he said it in an interview in 1984/85) he's not doing all that people think he is. Everytime we see Prince with a woman we think they are banging. I don't believe 100% that Prince & Misty were having sex.

LadyCasanova said:

Dren5 said:

I know a lot of people say it doesn't matter to them but to me it definitely does and it's a definite deal breaker.

I think how many people you've slept with, says something about how much you value yourself and the sexual act as well.

I wouldn't want to be with someone that looks at it as, "It's just fucking".

No fuckin' way.

Practice makes perfect and I'm sure Micheal Jordan didn't use the same ball everytime...

wow your comparing a woman to a basketball?

Just the easy way you did that, shows a lack of respect for sex