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Thread started 02/03/11 6:37am

johnart

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A MF ORG PSA

The recent zaza thread brings to a head something that I've been kind of grossed out about for a bit now. Having talked to him directly I know now that at least one instance of behind the scenes orgnoting led (even if just in part) to what eventually escalated to his leaving. I know that I myself get lots of orgnotes from this and that about that and the other. All this behind the scenes orgnoting by folk about other orgers needs to stop (though I doubt it will). I know some folk write others as if they're just letting feelings out, but it really most often comes off as gossip and childish. I was already in high school once. lol

If you have a problem with another orger, call their ass out and deal with it or ignore them altogether.


If the other orger is spreading shit about you, don't go and do the same damn thing by orgnoting every damn person you know to rally troops. It brings you down to their level. DO NOT ENGAGE.

So folk who are trying to rile up and stir up bullshit know that this is so MF lame and cowardly.

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Reply #1 posted 02/03/11 6:41am

whistle

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We can't openly flame each other John...least we're not supposed to.
everyone's a fruit & nut case
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Reply #2 posted 02/03/11 6:43am

johnart

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whistle said:

We can't openly flame each other John...least we're not supposed to.

I'm not talking about flaming. I'm talkin confronting someone you have a problem with then and there. If you post some shitty thing to me, or I to you, let each other know at that point in time and on that thread instead of us going to our corners and seeing how many orgers we can get against one another via orgnote.

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Reply #3 posted 02/03/11 6:52am

Genesia

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Having been (I believe) the "beneficiary" of this sort of treatment, myself... clapping

Fortunately, I have a hide like an elephant, so nana to those who thought they'd get rid of me that easily.

lol

We don’t mourn artists because we knew them. We mourn them because they helped us know ourselves.
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Reply #4 posted 02/03/11 6:53am

paintedlady

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Amuthafukkenmen!!!!

I understand the frustration when people do not understand you and are just downright mean... but seriously, if a person doesn't say something to you directly then its not worth even spending one second thinking about it.

Let alone considering the issue an actual problem. wink

On the threads, people say shit and accuse and bait. Its debate and it can be fun, but again its just a website.

Gossip will get caught in its own mouth-trap, so let the gossips lead themselves down their own destructive path. Don't worry about gossips... worry about being honest with yourself.

That's all... hug

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Reply #5 posted 02/03/11 6:55am

paintedlady

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Genesia said:

Having been (I believe) the "beneficiary" of this sort of treatment, myself... clapping

Fortunately, I have a hide like an elephant, so nana to those who thought they'd get rid of me that easily.

lol

hug

You should use more lotion for that...

tease lol

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Reply #6 posted 02/03/11 6:56am

Genesia

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paintedlady said:

Genesia said:

Having been (I believe) the "beneficiary" of this sort of treatment, myself... clapping

Fortunately, I have a hide like an elephant, so nana to those who thought they'd get rid of me that easily.

lol

hug

You should use more lotion for that...

tease lol

Thank gawd, I don't have to worry about phimosis. shake

lol

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Reply #7 posted 02/03/11 6:58am

paintedlady

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Genesia said:

paintedlady said:

hug

You should use more lotion for that...

tease lol

Thank gawd, I don't have to worry about phimosis. shake

lol

Or coochie confetti! nod

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Reply #8 posted 02/03/11 6:58am

johnart

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Nasty dick joke in 6 posts. lol

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Reply #9 posted 02/03/11 7:02am

Genesia

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johnart said:

Nasty dick joke in 6 posts. lol

Sowwy... redface

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Reply #10 posted 02/03/11 7:03am

johnart

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Of course, I might not get any more of this kind of orgnote after this thread. lol

Orgnotes are great for a lot of other things.
-Sharing stuff (not gossip) with close friends that you might not post on open forum.

-Planning get-togethers. mushy

-Sending me nekkid pics. biggrin

-Being fun and catty (again, not gossip, more like WTF is she/he wearing in that pic??eek razz) with your gal-pals mushy rather than be mean on open forum (it's good manners hmph!)

-Sending me nekkid pics. biggrin

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Reply #11 posted 02/03/11 7:05am

NMuzakNSoul

No John I ain't sending your more nekkid pics.

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Reply #12 posted 02/03/11 7:05am

Genesia

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johnart said:

Of course, I might not get any more of this kind of orgnote after this thread. lol

Orgnotes are great for a lot of other things.
-Sharing stuff (not gossip) with close friends that you might not post on open forum.

-Planning get-togethers. mushy

-Sending me nekkid pics. biggrin

-Being fun and catty (again, not gossip, more like WTF is she/he wearing in that pic??eek razz) with your gal-pals mushy rather than be mean on open forum (it's good manners hmph!)

-Sending me nekkid pics. biggrin

Orgnote...what? lurking

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Reply #13 posted 02/03/11 7:06am

johnart

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Genesia said:

johnart said:

Of course, I might not get any more of this kind of orgnote after this thread. lol

Orgnotes are great for a lot of other things.
-Sharing stuff (not gossip) with close friends that you might not post on open forum.

-Planning get-togethers. mushy

-Sending me nekkid pics. biggrin

-Being fun and catty (again, not gossip, more like WTF is she/he wearing in that pic??eek razz) with your gal-pals mushy rather than be mean on open forum (it's good manners hmph!)

-Sending me nekkid pics. biggrin

Orgnote...what? lurking

That was just a for-instance, of course. I'm never catty. innocent

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Reply #14 posted 02/03/11 7:06am

Poiple

I for one don't take the Org seriously. I'm not about to come on here and spill my guts to a bunch of people I don't know and will most likely never meet. This place is getting more and more like a damn soap opera, and it ain't real life, people. But it's still fun to come here. biggrin

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Reply #15 posted 02/03/11 7:10am

johnart

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Poiple said:

I for one don't take the Org seriously. I'm not about to come on here and spill my guts to a bunch of people I don't know and will most likely never meet. This place is getting more and more like a damn soap opera, and it ain't real life, people. But it's still fun to come here. biggrin

Some of us are friends in real life tho and get together whenever possible. mushy

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Reply #16 posted 02/03/11 7:11am

Genesia

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johnart said:

Genesia said:

Orgnote...what? lurking

That was just a for-instance, of course. I'm never catty. innocent

Of course not. Nor am I. hmph!


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Reply #17 posted 02/03/11 7:12am

johnart

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Genesia said:

johnart said:

That was just a for-instance, of course. I'm never catty. innocent

Of course not. Nor am I. hmph!


We are good good people. hug

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Reply #18 posted 02/03/11 7:13am

Poiple

johnart said:

Poiple said:

I for one don't take the Org seriously. I'm not about to come on here and spill my guts to a bunch of people I don't know and will most likely never meet. This place is getting more and more like a damn soap opera, and it ain't real life, people. But it's still fun to come here. biggrin

Some of us are friends in real life tho and get together whenever possible. mushy

And that's cool. My point was there are many many many more people here that each of us don't know than we do know. It's all those people I/we don't know that I wouldn't want to let in on the intimate details of my life.

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Reply #19 posted 02/03/11 7:14am

Genesia

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johnart said:

Genesia said:

Of course not. Nor am I. hmph!


We are good good people. hug

Well, duh. hug

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Reply #20 posted 02/03/11 7:21am

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Poiple said:

johnart said:

Some of us are friends in real life tho and get together whenever possible. mushy

And that's cool. My point was there are many many many more people here that each of us don't know than we do know. It's all those people I/we don't know that I wouldn't want to let in on the intimate details of my life.

I totally get that. cool

Unfortunately I'm an open book most of the time. Start talkin to me at the line at the 7-11 and you'll probably find out something about me you had no desire to. redface

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Reply #21 posted 02/03/11 7:22am

Genesia

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johnart said:

Poiple said:

And that's cool. My point was there are many many many more people here that each of us don't know than we do know. It's all those people I/we don't know that I wouldn't want to let in on the intimate details of my life.

I totally get that. cool

Unfortunately I'm an open book most of the time. Start talkin to me at the line at the 7-11 and you'll probably find out something about me you had no desire to. redface

I can attest to this. wave

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Reply #22 posted 02/03/11 7:51am

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There are only a couple people who orgnote me, so I guess I'm not in the loop at all. But I swear, I am PISSED OFF to hear this is going on and I'm not included. I don't care how nasty it is, I want in. I can handle it like the adult I am. So make me happy and send me those forbidden orgnotes.

I'm talking about the nekkid pictures, of course. Screw the gossiping about people behind their backs. I don't want any part of that.

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Reply #23 posted 02/03/11 8:07am

Lisa10

clapping Well said, John.

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Reply #24 posted 02/03/11 8:15am

JerseyKRS

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this place is like high school.

without the cool drinking and fucking.

rolleyes



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Reply #25 posted 02/03/11 8:16am

sextonseven

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Photobucket always deletes my nekkid pics before I can orgnote them to people. pout

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Reply #26 posted 02/03/11 8:36am

Serious

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sextonseven said:

Photobucket always deletes my nekkid pics before I can orgnote them to people. pout

pout wink

With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A....
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Reply #27 posted 02/03/11 9:06am

orger

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JerseyKRS said:

this place is like high school.

without the cool drinking and fucking.

rolleyes

fixed

How is it you feel?
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Reply #28 posted 02/03/11 9:12am

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Efan said:

There are only a couple people who orgnote me, so I guess I'm not in the loop at all. But I swear, I am PISSED OFF to hear this is going on and I'm not included. I don't care how nasty it is, I want in. I can handle it like the adult I am. So make me happy and send me those forbidden orgnotes.

I'm talking about the nekkid pictures, of course. Screw the gossiping about people behind their backs. I don't want any part of that.

lol

Well, I'm totally out of the loop as well when it comes to all this behind the scenes noting about other orgers. My inbox (and outbox) stays pretty much empty.

"Spreading shit about you"?? lol

Chris is right, this place is like high school...no wait, more like grade school.

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Reply #29 posted 02/03/11 9:17am

Mach

JerseyKRS said:

this place is like high school.

without the cool drinking and fucking.

rolleyes

lol Pretty much !

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