Another point I wish to make was that zaza never had a problem with Australians, or Europeans, or Africans, Asians or South Americans. The only people he had issues with were North Americans. Even more specifically people from the mostly North eastern region of the continent, not the Southern or Western parts. This is exactly the region that I am from and we do tend to be very confrontational IMO compared to other parts of the world but we don't mean any malice by it. If he had come to our upcoming New England Gathering in April he would have had a chance to meet us and see that we really were not as hateful as we often come off in print. This fan gathering is open to all orgers and I hope to meet many of you there!

JerseyKRS said:

Hey Jers!

mochalox said:

JerseyKRS said:

Hey Jers!

Don't encourage him.

How are you, mochalox? I hope you're well. Um... you have a very nice face. It's pleasant. Pleasing. You have a pleasing face. To me. How are you?

Graycap23 said:

johnart said:

So folk who are trying to rile up and stir up bullshit know that this is so MF lame and cowardly.

If I left this place every time some dweeb started some nonsense...............I'd never be here.

It's NOT that serious.

oh YEAH?!!!! this website is TOO a matter of life and death!!!! don't you know lives and fortunes are made and broken here??????

Deadflow3r said:

whistle said:

We can't openly flame each other John...least we're not supposed to.

I was out of the loop when this whole drama happened because I had said something to zaza on the secret santa thread that hurt his feelings and he was ignoring me. I should have put it more gently I guess. Sorry.

Anyway you're right we can't flame and I am glad about that because there would be flaming happening all over these threads and all of them would eventually get annoying.

I am all about talking about people in orgnotes; I think it is a matter of how it is done.

One time PunkMistress pissed me off in a thread. I didn't want to flame her so instead I org noted her friend and mine Acrylic and asked Acrylic "what the hell is up her ass". Anyway a couple of orgnotes passed, Acrylic showed me a different way to look at it and I never needed to go any further. I did not consult with more then one orger.

I use to do this all the time with DesireeNevermind when someone on the org was lame or a moron or just a complete unholy ass in my opinion. I would rant and rave for several paragraphs and hit the send button. Only Dez would get it though, never needed to send it to anyone else or call a mod. After venting I was calmer. The only one I called a mod on was mzkqueen03 and that was because her posts gave me a headache.

I just never took anything on the ORG as serious. So, how can another's opinion make me mad?It's there opinion (right or wrong), I am mature enough (I know, I said mature without laughing. cough *arrested development* cough) to handle it. This one time a made a joke at Johnart's expense and though the intention was to be funny, the joke was received differently. I apologized in orgnote and in the thread with the joke. Johnart and I are still cool with one another.

Point #1 I wanna add this lil comment about people who take whatis said on facebook and paste it over on an org note for the org to see and vice versa..........

that is the dirtiest thing ever to do.......... and even more hurtful if the person sees it...over and over again and has no doubt its about them... !!!

Point #2..I know without a doubt i piss people off, and i hate that about myself even. I share all the time just for whoever is lookingat me like what the fuck is wrong with that bitch and i try to gleen from people i think may have a lil more knowledge than me............But know that I have been talke to like dirt and a triflin dog for years and i have become frikkin sensative bout that shyt...not to the point where i would launch a chicken shyt ass attack behind your back, but to the point as i heard another say, ignore you, or take a lil jab on one of your notes...as i feel you have done me and in a lot of cases...worse!!! And to be honest sometimes i dont know what to say on some of yalls notes, cause i just dont be feeling ya!!! Not that i wont come back and try to get with the conversation, but sometimes....sheesh!!!

...i know we are supposed to forgive and the law of eye for and eye is supposed to be obsolete...but some people who i really admire, care for, would love to be friends with, enjoy their point of view, just have some personal ways i cant agree with. so rather then tell them they are wrong, or side with them against my own standard........idk...just stay to myself...

and I'll say this.... people may know about you but does that say they really know you? no dammit! i know we all love each other in some sort of way, but ultimately people love themselves.....all im saying is know who you really are them criticism isnt hard to take......

not that i have all my shyt together, i cry regularly, put on a facade whatever. I wish i was where some of you are in life but damm!!! if you aint gonna back the fuck up off me then adios, 86. ciao bella, lata fo ya!

and damn! even if i attempt to be funny or friendly and people get pissed, then hell! fuck at that game...

Vendetta1 said:

It bolis down to this for me: Most, if not all, the folks know that I am not fond of them. I make no secret of it. I saw in threads. I say it to them in org notes and I would say it to their faces. I am reminded many times that the org is not real life. In real life, I get to choose the people I conversate with. The challenge becomes tolerating those who I do not like (and I do believe those I cannot stand here show enough of themselves for me to know we would not get along outside of this place either). Also, the bullying that goes on in this place is freaking ridiculous along with the judgment. I wonder who in the fuck do some of you think you are? For the most part, I just ignore their posts even when I have a legitimate issue with what they say here because I do not want it construed any other way. Yes, I have taken part of "saying things behind someone's back" but none of it is untrue and posting some of the things I say in org notes would get me banned. The people I enjoy immensely here make it worth hanging around this place. Sometimes I have been fortunate to work through my issues with people like JustErin, Dani and myfavorite. It does happen.

...but you like me, right?

Fauxie said:

mochalox said:

Hey Jers!

Don't encourage him.

How are you, mochalox? I hope you're well. Um... you have a very nice face. It's pleasant. Pleasing. You have a pleasing face. To me. How are you?

I'm doing great. I've been over @ OKP holding things down. I only come over here to lurk and ckeck in you all of my Org sweeties. How have you been?

bboy87 said:

Vendetta1 said:

It bolis down to this for me: Most, if not all, the folks know that I am not fond of them. I make no secret of it. I saw in threads. I say it to them in org notes and I would say it to their faces. I am reminded many times that the org is not real life. In real life, I get to choose the people I conversate with. The challenge becomes tolerating those who I do not like (and I do believe those I cannot stand here show enough of themselves for me to know we would not get along outside of this place either). Also, the bullying that goes on in this place is freaking ridiculous along with the judgment. I wonder who in the fuck do some of you think you are? For the most part, I just ignore their posts even when I have a legitimate issue with what they say here because I do not want it construed any other way. Yes, I have taken part of "saying things behind someone's back" but none of it is untrue and posting some of the things I say in org notes would get me banned. The people I enjoy immensely here make it worth hanging around this place. Sometimes I have been fortunate to work through my issues with people like JustErin, Dani and myfavorite. It does happen.

...but you like me, right?

Of course I do. Believe it or not, I have no issue with most of the people here but those who do work my nerve...oooh lawdy.

mochalox said:

Fauxie said:

Don't encourage him.

How are you, mochalox? I hope you're well. Um... you have a very nice face. It's pleasant. Pleasing. You have a pleasing face. To me. How are you?

I'm doing great. I've been over @ OKP holding things down. I only come over here to lurk and ckeck in you all of my Org sweeties. How have you been?

I'm very well, thanks. What's OKP? I hope you continue to lurk at least and post once in a while here.

Oh, okayplayer? I should really join that place being such a big Roots fan. Did you like that Questlove celebrity stories thing?

Fauxie said:

mochalox said:

I'm doing great. I've been over @ OKP holding things down. I only come over here to lurk and ckeck in you all of my Org sweeties. How have you been?

I'm very well, thanks. What's OKP? I hope you continue to lurk at least and post once in a while here.

Oh, okayplayer? I should really join that place being such a big Roots fan. Did you like that Questlove celebrity stories thing?

yeah, you got it

once that celeb stories post went past 2-3 pages, I got bored with it and stopped reading it.

actually the org pushed me over thereabout 6-8 years ago

I noticed that people were always posting up links from there, and the newbies were killing me, so I decided to jump shark

so when I come back and see the same 'ol same 'ol going on it confirms my decision

but I always give props to the org. I still luhhh y'all

Deadflow3r said:

Another point I wish to make was that zaza never had a problem with Australians, or Europeans, or Africans, Asians or South Americans. The only people he had issues with were North Americans. Even more specifically people from the mostly North eastern region of the continent, not the Southern or Western parts. This is exactly the region that I am from and we do tend to be very confrontational IMO compared to other parts of the world but we don't mean any malice by it. If he had come to our upcoming New England Gathering in April he would have had a chance to meet us and see that we really were not as hateful as we often come off in print. This fan gathering is open to all orgers and I hope to meet many of you there!

ok so tell me what you think about ... ...hillarious!! .. ...

vendetta - i will stillcome and bite your damn neck... ..

drag me if you will!!! ...

mochalox said:

Fauxie said:

I'm very well, thanks. What's OKP? I hope you continue to lurk at least and post once in a while here.

Oh, okayplayer? I should really join that place being such a big Roots fan. Did you like that Questlove celebrity stories thing?

yeah, you got it

once that celeb stories post went past 2-3 pages, I got bored with it and stopped reading it.

actually the org pushed me over thereabout 6-8 years ago

I noticed that people were always posting up links from there, and the newbies were killing me, so I decided to jump shark

so when I come back and see the same 'ol same 'ol going on it confirms my decision

but I always give props to the org. I still luhhh y'all

I've been posting there too

bboy87 said:

mochalox said:

yeah, you got it

once that celeb stories post went past 2-3 pages, I got bored with it and stopped reading it.

actually the org pushed me over thereabout 6-8 years ago

I noticed that people were always posting up links from there, and the newbies were killing me, so I decided to jump shark

so when I come back and see the same 'ol same 'ol going on it confirms my decision

but I always give props to the org. I still luhhh y'all

I've been posting there too

omg, i'd be a small fish in a big pond.

mochalox said:

JerseyKRS said:

Hey Jers!

what's up old school!

and eff ole bboy and fauxie too...needy people makes me nervous....... ole bastards...

ole buddy wanna do me, an ole boy round the corner, he aint gonna pimp that....bitch ass llooking ass...

myfavorite said:

and eff ole bboy and fauxie too...needy people makes me nervous....... ole bastards...

ole buddy wanna do me, an ole boy round the corner, he aint gonna pimp that....bitch ass llooking ass...

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