It's been a while since we had Jan Terri in a babble thread.

I tried to do it but ever since the org took on ths funky new input thing I don't know how

Drinking this is not as bad as what I'll drink on Sunday.

Really thirsty all of a sudden. And annoyed. i need a new blog home. Xanga is acting a mess. Speaking of that, I ha no idea it was so popular years ago. I just picked it out because it was nice back in 2006. Meh. It's been home to me for ages, but it looks like I really do need a better space for my work.

FauxReal said:

Deadflow3r said:

I wish you lived next store to me 'cause I would stomp right over to your house and kick your nice little ass.

You do NOT, I REPEAT NOT, owe every relative mucho $$$$$$$ because you make more money then the do. Mind you this advice is not coming from an stingy woman. I have a daughter and the two of us live on less than $17,000.00 a year and I don't expect anything from anyone. Of all the relatives to help out, it's the ones that come up to you and DEMAND IT that you should help the LAST.

Next, NEVER, and let me repeat that, NEVER, lend money to people without a written contract stating that you EXPECT the money back and you EXPECT it back by a certain date. Example, this family member will pay you 100 dollars a month from November 2010 to April 2010.

Okay well I sent her $600 today, told her I'd give her $600 when I see her Friday, but won't be doing the full $1800.

And it's my sister catching up on rent and whatnot. Not the most promising situation if I want my money back, but I don't really care to have my nieces evicted either.

I am glad that you care about your family members of course. However what will happen if and when you don't have it? She isn't learning anything here. She needs to live within her means and not within YOUR means. Sometimes "helping" isn't helping.

I am not suggesting that you let the bus of life drive right over her. I am just suggesting that you may want to give her a bit of tough love in the form of a schedule so she doesn't keep finding herself under the bus often.

wildgoldenhoney said:

Drinking this is not as bad as what I'll drink on Sunday.

To prep for the gall bladder cleanse I had to drink apple juice or cider.

Decided to make my own thing so I boiled cassia bark to flavor the Braggs organic apple cider vinegar. The first drink I took was unbelievable sour , I had to dilute it with cold water...

Deadflow3r said:

wildgoldenhoney said:

I remember it now...

The random thoughts threads...

The random thoughts threads were seperate. They were usually short and sweet quips about a simple thought.

The babble threads, (and this is really the 7th) are hilarious because people can just go off in any direction, angry rant, silly ass posts, nagging thoughts, weird ass videos, it is whatever you want it to be and you may get someone to pick up on that thought or you may not. They may infact pic up on it a few days later.

The very first one was started by connorhawke and lasted over 19 pages. It is fun to watch them go all over the place and it is also were I have made the best org friends. Because orgers can post on whatever is really on their mind and not be forced to stay on subject you get a peek at who they really are and what they truly worry and think about.

The idea for this sounds better. And it's better than twitter, you can only type 140 characters there.

Can someone post Jan Terri videos please?

I went to a club with my brothers and some random chick I do not know grabbed me by my tie (we had a wedding and reception earlier that day) as I was just walking by, and tried to pull me to her to dance. I hate shit like that. One, because I do not dance and two, because I don't like being touched by people I don't know in that manner, especially.

So I told her I don't dance, then I pulled my tie back and half turned so the most she could do was hump my leg as I tried to back away. Then she throws her arms up on my shoulders sort of around my head, sort of trying to turn me back toward her. I back away more and say again, "No, I don't dance". So I guess because she was slightly embarrassed or rejected or whatever, she gives me a light slap to sort of save face, I guess. I shrugged and walked away. Probably should've kicked her in the vagina, but I'm a gentleman.

FauxReal said:

I went to a club with my brothers and some random chick I do not know grabbed me by my tie (we had a wedding and reception earlier that day) as I was just walking by, and tried to pull me to her to dance. I hate shit like that. One, because I do not dance and two, because I don't like being touched by people I don't know in that manner, especially.

So I told her I don't dance, then I pulled my tie back and half turned so the most she could do was hump my leg as I tried to back away. Then she throws her arms up on my shoulders sort of around my head, sort of trying to turn me back toward her. I back away more and say again, "No, I don't dance". So I guess because she was slightly embarrassed or rejected or whatever, she gives me a light slap to sort of save face, I guess. I shrugged and walked away. Probably should've kicked her in the vagina, but I'm a gentleman.

I agree. You should have kicked her in the petwina

VULVA!!!!!!!!!

connorhawke said:

FauxReal said:

I went to a club with my brothers and some random chick I do not know grabbed me by my tie (we had a wedding and reception earlier that day) as I was just walking by, and tried to pull me to her to dance. I hate shit like that. One, because I do not dance and two, because I don't like being touched by people I don't know in that manner, especially.

So I told her I don't dance, then I pulled my tie back and half turned so the most she could do was hump my leg as I tried to back away. Then she throws her arms up on my shoulders sort of around my head, sort of trying to turn me back toward her. I back away more and say again, "No, I don't dance". So I guess because she was slightly embarrassed or rejected or whatever, she gives me a light slap to sort of save face, I guess. I shrugged and walked away. Probably should've kicked her in the vagina, but I'm a gentleman.

I agree. You should have kicked her in the petwina

You know I thought I had deleted that last sentence before submitting the reply, but I guess I didn't

ZombieKitten said:

VULVA!!!!!!!!!

I think my cousin drives one of those!!!

connorhawke said:

ZombieKitten said:

VULVA!!!!!!!!!

I think my cousin drives one of those!!!

...i dont understand why she did what she did...i guess ill never understand...is it really worth crying over??...prolly not...if she doesnt care, then why should i??

...tired of hurting...tired of crying...tired of being lied 2...tired of games...just tired...

darlinkia said:

...i dont understand why she did what she did...i guess ill never understand...is it really worth crying over??...prolly not...if she doesnt care, then why should i??

...tired of hurting...tired of crying...tired of being lied 2...tired of games...just tired...

darlinkia said:

...i dont understand why she did what she did...i guess ill never understand...is it really worth crying over??...prolly not...if she doesnt care, then why should i??

...tired of hurting...tired of crying...tired of being lied 2...tired of games...just tired...

connorhawke said:

darlinkia said:

...i dont understand why she did what she did...i guess ill never understand...is it really worth crying over??...prolly not...if she doesnt care, then why should i??

...tired of hurting...tired of crying...tired of being lied 2...tired of games...just tired...

CONNIE!!!

I'm going to a hospital appointment tomorrow and I'm really not looking forward to it...this is why I am not going to bed. Trying to delay it as much as possible.

JustErin said:

I'm going to a hospital appointment tomorrow and I'm really not looking forward to it...this is why I am not going to bed. Trying to delay it as much as possible.

Ugh... yesterday's cleanse didn't work out, doing it again.

One reason I hate it, drinking epsom salt; another - very strict diet for the day. So two days in a row I ate only once basmati rice and steam veges.

wildgoldenhoney said:

Ugh... yesterday's cleanse didn't work out, doing it again.

One reason I hate it, drinking epsom salt; another - very strict diet for the day. So two days in a row I ate only once basmati rice and steam veges.

I just had a full body cleanse last Weds night. Stomach bug. I still cannot eat more than a few bites of toast.

Not really the way that I wanted to get everything out of my body.

Drinking epsom salt does not sound good.

ScarletScandal said:

connorhawke said:

CONNIE!!!

Helllooooooooooooo you!!!!!!

About an hour ago I thought my brother in law was dead when he stopped breathing. His eyes just rolled back and then he started dribbling a bit. I thought he was having a fit or a stroke or something and my father in law was frantically sticking a spoon or something down his throat to try to force open his throat to get him breathing, and pounding away on his chest and slapping him (probably not the correct first aid, but I didn't know what to do either ). Mae was crying and my nephew was running around all over the place and I was trying to call a taxi to come to the house. He started breathing again and he's gone to hospital and now it feels weird just going back to the day as I was spending it before that 10 minutes of desperation, but the truth is this can happen any day and one day it really will be it for him and that'll be that and in one sense it wouldn't be anything like a surprise. On the other hand I get scared and sad thinking about it because he's always just there, lying in his bed, dead but not, and life has to go on around him. It's easy to take for granted that he'll just be there, that he'll have these scary moments, but he'll keep going. I don't want to think about, and then I do because I don't want to be an asshole, and then I don't again.

Fauxie said:

About an hour ago I thought my brother in law was dead when he stopped breathing. His eyes just rolled back and then he started dribbling a bit. I thought he was having a fit or a stroke or something and my father in law was frantically sticking a spoon or something down his throat to try to force open his throat to get him breathing, and pounding away on his chest and slapping him (probably not the correct first aid, but I didn't know what to do either ). Mae was crying and my nephew was running around all over the place and I was trying to call a taxi to come to the house. He started breathing again and he's gone to hospital and now it feels weird just going back to the day as I was spending it before that 10 minutes of desperation, but the truth is this can happen any day and one day it really will be it for him and that'll be that and in one sense it wouldn't be anything like a surprise. On the other hand I get scared and sad thinking about it because he's always just there, lying in his bed, dead but not, and life has to go on around him. It's easy to take for granted that he'll just be there, that he'll have these scary moments, but he'll keep going. I don't want to think about, and then I do because I don't want to be an asshole, and then I don't again.

Awwww how horrible for all of you.

Do they know what is wrong with him?

Shanti0608 said:

Fauxie said:

About an hour ago I thought my brother in law was dead when he stopped breathing. His eyes just rolled back and then he started dribbling a bit. I thought he was having a fit or a stroke or something and my father in law was frantically sticking a spoon or something down his throat to try to force open his throat to get him breathing, and pounding away on his chest and slapping him (probably not the correct first aid, but I didn't know what to do either ). Mae was crying and my nephew was running around all over the place and I was trying to call a taxi to come to the house. He started breathing again and he's gone to hospital and now it feels weird just going back to the day as I was spending it before that 10 minutes of desperation, but the truth is this can happen any day and one day it really will be it for him and that'll be that and in one sense it wouldn't be anything like a surprise. On the other hand I get scared and sad thinking about it because he's always just there, lying in his bed, dead but not, and life has to go on around him. It's easy to take for granted that he'll just be there, that he'll have these scary moments, but he'll keep going. I don't want to think about, and then I do because I don't want to be an asshole, and then I don't again.

Awwww how horrible for all of you.

Do they know what is wrong with him?

Well, he's paralysed almost entirely, with only some very limited use of his arms, hands, fingers and face (though he can't talk), so he has a whole host of problems lying in his bed every day as he does. Problems with breathing and infections in his organs and outside on his skin from bed sores. Problems with his bladder. Just a whole lot of problems as you'd expect seeing as we take care of him here at home and he only visits the hospital once or twice a month or if something serious happens like today. Never did get the compensation money as after nearly 10 years of bureaucracy and those responsible dragging things out the lawyers ate it all up. It's a bit of cloud hanging over us (not sure if that's the right way to put it), sad to say, because we don't want him to die, of course, but it's obvious that life would be much easier for Mae and Phaw, who are both in poor health themselves, if they didn't have the strain it brings looking after him and worrying about him. He may even himself wish that he could die (actually, he's mouthed it on several occasions), but we try to keep him going and he does keep on going. When it does happen I think I'll be ok with it, because of how much he suffers, but I worry what it will do to Mae. She may not be able to handle it.

Anyway, life has to go on as normal, and for right or wrong, it does just that. Picking up another of our nephews on Friday so then we'll have two here. Should be fun! (and a handful)

ZombieKitten said:

connorhawke said:

I think my cousin drives one of those!!!

I did not know connorhawke and Prince were cousins , they look absolutely nothing alike!

Shanti0608 said:

wildgoldenhoney said:

Ugh... yesterday's cleanse didn't work out, doing it again.

One reason I hate it, drinking epsom salt; another - very strict diet for the day. So two days in a row I ate only once basmati rice and steam veges.

I just had a full body cleanse last Weds night. Stomach bug. I still cannot eat more than a few bites of toast.

Not really the way that I wanted to get everything out of my body.

Drinking epsom salt does not sound good.

How long did your cleanse last?

The cleanse that I'm doing is more of a deep cleanse concentrating on the liver and gall bladder, and flushes out gall stones.

Before I started this cleanse I did a weeks colon cleanse and afterwards doing a lymphatic cleanse (not as awful tasting- mostly juicing vegetables and fruit, but still don't get to eat much ).

wildgoldenhoney said:

Shanti0608 said:

I just had a full body cleanse last Weds night. Stomach bug. I still cannot eat more than a few bites of toast.

Not really the way that I wanted to get everything out of my body.

Drinking epsom salt does not sound good.

How long did your cleanse last?

The cleanse that I'm doing is more of a deep cleanse concentrating on the liver and gall bladder, and flushes out gall stones.

Before I started this cleanse I did a weeks colon cleanse and afterwards doing a lymphatic cleanse (not as awful tasting- mostly juicing vegetables and fruit, but still don't get to eat much ).

Oh mine was only because I got a stomach bug. It was not by choice.