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Thread started 11/24/15 5:10pm

SeventeenDayze

Question for Hetero Guys: How Long Until You Get Bored Sexually?

Okay, so I have a question for guys who are hetero and in a relationship (or have previously been in a long-term relationship). How many times do you think you have sex with a woman before you kind of get "bored" with seeing her body. I see how guys lust after Nicki Minaj because of her body but I'm sure Meek Mill has probably seen it all 1,000 times by now. Is it likely that he's tired of her? I've always wondered about this. Reminds me of those Totsie Pop commercials...so, how many times do you have sex before it gets old?

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Reply #1 posted 11/24/15 5:20pm

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depends on which video it is

lol lol lol lol lol lol lol

i am KING BAD!!!
you are NOT...
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Reply #2 posted 11/24/15 5:53pm

SeventeenDayze

KingBAD said:

depends on which video it is

lol lol lol lol lol lol lol

Please don't jack this thread. You KNOW I am talking about REAL relationships...sometimes comedy ain't always funny...don't make this thread go off topic please!

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Reply #3 posted 11/24/15 5:55pm

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depends on which video it is

lol lol lol lol lol lol lol

lol

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Reply #4 posted 11/24/15 6:11pm

SeventeenDayze

HuMpThAnG said:

KingBAD said:

depends on which video it is

lol lol lol lol lol lol lol

lol

Please don't encourage him!

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Reply #5 posted 11/24/15 6:23pm

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Reply #6 posted 11/24/15 6:47pm

SeventeenDayze

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couch popcorn blunt

Yeah this thread will be legendary smile

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Reply #7 posted 11/24/15 7:10pm

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SeventeenDayze said:

Okay, so I have a question for guys who are hetero and in a relationship (or have previously been in a long-term relationship). How many times do you think you have sex with a woman before you kind of get "bored" with seeing her body. I see how guys lust after Nicki Minaj because of her body but I'm sure Meek Mill has probably seen it all 1,000 times by now. Is it likely that he's tired of her? I've always wondered about this. Reminds me of those Totsie Pop commercials...so, how many times do you have sex before it gets old?

I'd never get bored hitting a body like Nicki's, in every orifice. If she starts letting herself go, then we have a problem.

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Reply #8 posted 11/24/15 7:18pm

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not the body ..its the girl herself who will (or hopefully not) make u lose interest

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Reply #9 posted 11/24/15 7:35pm

SeventeenDayze

uPtoWnNY said:

SeventeenDayze said:

Okay, so I have a question for guys who are hetero and in a relationship (or have previously been in a long-term relationship). How many times do you think you have sex with a woman before you kind of get "bored" with seeing her body. I see how guys lust after Nicki Minaj because of her body but I'm sure Meek Mill has probably seen it all 1,000 times by now. Is it likely that he's tired of her? I've always wondered about this. Reminds me of those Totsie Pop commercials...so, how many times do you have sex before it gets old?

I'd never get bored hitting a body like Nicki's, in every orifice. If she starts letting herself go, then we have a problem.

For some reason, I find this hard to believe smile I mean, didn't Wiz Khalifa cheat on Amber Rose at one point? LOL

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Reply #10 posted 11/24/15 7:36pm

SeventeenDayze

luvsexy4all said:

not the body ..its the girl herself who will (or hopefully not) make u lose interest

So, is THIS why Halle Berry's been married and divorced so many times?? LOL

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Reply #11 posted 11/24/15 7:54pm

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SeventeenDayze said:

Okay, so I have a question for guys who are hetero and in a relationship (or have previously been in a long-term relationship). How many times do you think you have sex with a woman before you kind of get "bored" with seeing her body. I see how guys lust after Nicki Minaj because of her body but I'm sure Meek Mill has probably seen it all 1,000 times by now. Is it likely that he's tired of her? I've always wondered about this. Reminds me of those Totsie Pop commercials...so, how many times do you have sex before it gets old?


Less excited? Probably after 5 or so times.

Bored? It's never happened to me. Like others have already said, if you no longer get turned on by her body then it's most likely because something else about her is turning you off.

"Never let nasty stalkers disrespect you. They start shit, you finish it. Go down to their level, that's the only way they'll understand. You have to handle things yourself."
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Reply #12 posted 11/24/15 9:42pm

SeventeenDayze

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SeventeenDayze said:

Okay, so I have a question for guys who are hetero and in a relationship (or have previously been in a long-term relationship). How many times do you think you have sex with a woman before you kind of get "bored" with seeing her body. I see how guys lust after Nicki Minaj because of her body but I'm sure Meek Mill has probably seen it all 1,000 times by now. Is it likely that he's tired of her? I've always wondered about this. Reminds me of those Totsie Pop commercials...so, how many times do you have sex before it gets old?


Less excited? Probably after 5 or so times.

Bored? It's never happened to me. Like others have already said, if you no longer get turned on by her body then it's most likely because something else about her is turning you off.

Wow, this is mind-blowing. I thought dudes got bored sexually pretty fast. So, you're saying this isn't true? LOL

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Reply #13 posted 11/24/15 10:25pm

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You are forgetting love. Guys are really not only about the body in a relationship.

If a guy is in love he could have sex with someone a million times and not get bored!

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Reply #14 posted 11/24/15 10:37pm

SeventeenDayze

nextedition said:

You are forgetting love. Guys are really not only about the body in a relationship.

If a guy is in love he could have sex with someone a million times and not get bored!

Okay, I need to re-think something here...perhaps all male, hetero Prince fans are an anamoly, an exception to the rule if you will smile Fits right into the trajectory of your average (yet atypical) Prince fan who happens to be male smile

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Reply #15 posted 11/24/15 11:30pm

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SeventeenDayze said:

KingBAD said:

depends on which video it is

lol lol lol lol lol lol lol

Please don't jack this thread. You KNOW I am talking about REAL relationships...sometimes comedy ain't always funny...don't make this thread go off topic please!

see, that's just what i'm talkin about...

jackin anything is really really borin.

if i was gonna be bored with anyone

i wouldn't even bother...

bordom is the same level thing as loneiness.

bein with somebody that bores you is like

bein lonely with somebody who's there...

now me...

i was almost bored today

BUT THIN I SAW THIS THREAD AND BAM!!!

lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol

if you keep incouragin me by accusin me of stuff

you'll always have my attention batting eyes

i am KING BAD!!!
you are NOT...
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Reply #16 posted 11/24/15 11:54pm

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If you're just talking about sex, the guy will never get bored...as long as the woman does what he wants her to and allows him to do whatever he wants.

Make it so, Number One...
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Reply #17 posted 11/25/15 12:18am

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UncleJam said:

If you're just talking about sex, the guy will never get bored...as long as the woman does what he wants her to and allows him to do whatever he wants.


eek Now see when I was around 12 I asked my Mum & Aunt about certain sexual acts, my question was "Am I going to have to do that when I get older & have a boyfriend?"...The reply was a very confident & unanimous "NO! you don't HAVE to do ANYTHING you don't WANT to do"...& I went happily on my way.

Over the last 20+ years I have heard NUFF horror stories from traumatized & disturbed grown & young women who unfortunately were never given the same direction.

Do u have a daughter? Would u tell her that? (What u said)...coz there's some sick fucks out there, a lot of them who come across as cool to their friends & fam. Different story when you're a female in their bed.
[Edited 11/25/15 0:21am]
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Reply #18 posted 11/25/15 12:21am

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Whoa...I wasnt talking about myself, just the fact that most men will go elsewhere to get what's not being offered at home. As cold and ugly as that is, it's the truth.

Make it so, Number One...
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Reply #19 posted 11/25/15 12:34am

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UncleJam said:

Whoa...I wasnt talking about myself, just the fact that most men will go elsewhere to get what's not being offered at home. As cold and ugly as that is, it's the truth.


I misunderstood, my apologies. Anyway some young girl who needs to see what I said just might see it, so I won't delete.
I don't know if that is most men in the whole world, but maybe it is.
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Reply #20 posted 11/25/15 12:56am

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https://en.wikipedia.org/...dge_effect

In biology and psychology, the Coolidge effect is a phenomenon seen in mammalian species whereby males (and to a lesser extent females) exhibit renewed sexual interest if introduced to new receptive sexual partners,[1][2][3][4] even after cessation of sex with prior but still available sexual partners. The evolutionary benefit to this phenomenon is that a male can fertilize multiple females. The male may be reinvigorated repeatedly for successful insemination of multiple females.[5]

Origin of the term[edit]

Behavioral endocrinologist Frank A. Beach first mentioned the term "Coolidge effect" in publication in 1955, crediting one of his students with suggesting the term at a psychology conference.[6] He attributed the neologism to:[6]

… an old joke about Calvin Coolidge when he was President … The President and Mrs. Coolidge were being shown [separately] around an experimental government farm. When [Mrs. Coolidge] came to the chicken yard she noticed that a rooster was mating very frequently. She asked the attendant how often that happened and was told, "Dozens of times each day." Mrs. Coolidge said, "Tell that to the President when he comes by." Upon being told, the President asked, "Same hen every time?" The reply was, "Oh, no, Mr. President, a different hen every time." President: "Tell that to Mrs. Coolidge."

The joke appears in a 1978 book (A New Look at Love, by Elaine Hatfield and G. William Walster, p. 75), citing an earlier source (footnote 19, Chapter 5).[7]

Empirical evidence[edit]

The original experiments with rats applied the following protocol:[8] A male rat was placed into an enclosed large box with four or five female rats in heat. He immediately began to mate with all the female rats again and again until eventually he became exhausted. The females continued nudging and licking him, yet he did not respond. When a novel female was introduced into the box, he became alert and began to mate once again with the new female. This phenomenon is not limited to common rats.[9] The Coolidge effect is attributed to an increase in dopamine levels and the subsequent effect upon an animal's limbic system.[10]

While the Coolidge effect is usually seen demonstrated by males—that is, males displaying renewed excitement with a novel female—Lester and Gorzalka developed a model to determine whether or not the Coolidge effect also occurs in females. Their experiment, which used hamsters instead of rats, found that it does occur to a lesser degree in females, where the evolutionary advantage of mating with multiple partners is less straightforward.[3][4]

On simultaneous hermaphrodites[edit]

A 2007 study focusing on the Coolidge effect in simultaneously hermaphroditic species confirmed the validity of the Coolidge effect in freshwater snail Lymnaea stagnalis.[11]Biomphalaria glabrata, another simultaneous hermaphrodite freshwater snail, does not exhibit sex-specific effects of partner novelty, and thus there is either no Coolidge effect in the species or no difference between the degrees to which the effect is expressed in the respective sexes.[12]

I guess it all depends on the woman. Not just her looks but how you communicate with each other, the way she is, the way she treats you, how open minded she is and so on .

It can take pretty long, sometimes years, but sometimes it can happen very fast if she´s annoying.

" I´d rather be a stank ass hoe because I´m not stupid. Oh my goodness! I got more drugs! I´m always funny dude...I´m hilarious! Are we gonna smoke?"
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Reply #21 posted 11/25/15 6:48am

SeventeenDayze

NinaB said:

UncleJam said:

If you're just talking about sex, the guy will never get bored...as long as the woman does what he wants her to and allows him to do whatever he wants.

eek Now see when I was around 12 I asked my Mum & Aunt about certain sexual acts, my question was "Am I going to have to do that when I get older & have a boyfriend?"...The reply was a very confident & unanimous "NO! you don't HAVE to do ANYTHING you don't WANT to do"...& I went happily on my way. Over the last 20+ years I have heard NUFF horror stories from traumatized & disturbed grown & young women who unfortunately were never given the same direction. Do u have a daughter? Would u tell her that? (What u said)...coz there's some sick fucks out there, a lot of them who come across as cool to their friends & fam. Different story when you're a female in their bed. [Edited 11/25/15 0:21am]

Good advice there. I've heard about a lot of women who claim they do "everything" to keep their husbands happy, even with stuff outside of the bedroom but they still get cheated on anyway. So, this feedback from the guys so far has me really puzzled.

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Reply #22 posted 11/25/15 7:10am

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SeventeenDayze said:

luvsexy4all said:

not the body ..its the girl herself who will (or hopefully not) make u lose interest

So, is THIS why Halle Berry's been married and divorced so many times?? LOL

could be..maybe she's a wacko

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Reply #23 posted 11/25/15 7:59am

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If she stimulates your MIND............that doesn't matter as much.

If she doesn't.........and has skills, it will take quite a while.

If she doesn't and has no skills............twice and she's done.

[Edited 11/25/15 8:58am]

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Reply #24 posted 11/25/15 8:57am

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about 3 mins?

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Reply #25 posted 11/25/15 9:32am

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I get bored after two months in a relationship. If the guy will treat me good and does not take me for granted, I will fare better.


Your question seems to imply that the female is responsible to make sure her boyfriend does not get bored with her.

Why?

Isn't that a two-way-street?

If the guy is solely inspired by porn movies, I get bored very quickly. If he knows how to seduce me and create sensual tension, I will not get bored.


So, if he's boring, I will become boring too.

99% of my posts are ironic. Maybe this post sides with the other 1%.
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Reply #26 posted 11/25/15 9:37am

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For a period I ked a fairly adventurous sex life. I'm not IN a relationship now but I've been in them. Soooo many girls r just plain Jane's and have a routine thay want your to follow. These women I typically get along well with socially and with day to day issues. The women I find sexually adventurous to my liking, I don't get along well with socially. They typically wear their kink on their sleeve. I keep my kink in the closet and enjoy projecting the idea of typical.

So quite often I get bored after a while when the routine gets old or too embarrassed by their freak flag flying. Or the third option, I try to incorporate some 'interesting' things and get shot down.

I'm thirty seven....this shits getting old. I think at this point I should just primarily tune out my closet kink and only bring it out on the occasional holiday. Maybe too much sugar in my coffee is making it nasty.


But to answer the ? more directly, boredom lies in the mind, not the body. There's excellent aspect of almost any body type one can use or exploit sexually. It's the mind that uses or doesn't use them.
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Reply #27 posted 11/25/15 9:44am

SeventeenDayze

Graycap23 said:

If she stimulates your MIND............that doesn't matter as much.

If she doesn't.........and has skills, it will take quite a while.

If she doesn't and has no skills............twice and she's done.

[Edited 11/25/15 8:58am]

I just love your comments Graycap! LOL

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SeventeenDayze said:



NinaB said:


UncleJam said:

If you're just talking about sex, the guy will never get bored...as long as the woman does what he wants her to and allows him to do whatever he wants.



eek Now see when I was around 12 I asked my Mum & Aunt about certain sexual acts, my question was "Am I going to have to do that when I get older & have a boyfriend?"...The reply was a very confident & unanimous "NO! you don't HAVE to do ANYTHING you don't WANT to do"...& I went happily on my way. Over the last 20+ years I have heard NUFF horror stories from traumatized & disturbed grown & young women who unfortunately were never given the same direction. Do u have a daughter? Would u tell her that? (What u said)...coz there's some sick fucks out there, a lot of them who come across as cool to their friends & fam. Different story when you're a female in their bed. [Edited 11/25/15 0:21am]

Good advice there. I've heard about a lot of women who claim they do "everything" to keep their husbands happy, even with stuff outside of the bedroom but they still get cheated on anyway. So, this feedback from the guys so far has me really puzzled.


Can't tell u how many times I've given thanks 4 it, & grieved 4 those who never got it.
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UncleJam said:

If you're just talking about sex, the guy will never get bored...as long as the woman does what he wants her to and allows him to do whatever he wants.


From every dude I've known this is the most honest answer. Yeah, yeah, guys say, "only if she keeps her body up" and all that crap...but really, even if she didn't and it was like stated above most are still down - even if the physical attraction is waning.

I know guys like to act like endless opportunities to hook up with willing smoking hot women is just a wink away for them but...that's just not reality.

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