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PrintableUncleJam said: If you're just talking about sex, the guy will never get bored...as long as the woman does what he wants her to and allows him to do whatever he wants. Ok, I'm not a guy and I'm not hetero, but to me, what you've described sounds like it could get very boring. From a personal standpoint, if I was with a woman or man who just caved to every sexual desire I had, I wouldn't want to stay in that relationship. No matter how much I wanted to do a certain thing, if my partner didn't want to do it, then we wouldn't do it. I couldn't enjoy it knowing they don't like it. And that works both ways. Whatever about being bored, I'd rather be with someone I love and respect rather than someone who was good in bed. | |
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You don't know the power of the penis. Sometimes it has a mind of its own.
Look at history and the crazy shit men have done just to get the "good stuff". | |
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EmmaMcG said: I couldn't enjoy it knowing they don't like it. ..That's a thrill 4 certain individuals. "We just let people talk & say whatever they want 2 say. 9 times out of 10, trust me, what's out there now, I wouldn't give nary one of these folks the time of day. That's why I don't say anything back, because there's so much that's wrong" - P, Dec '15 | |
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uPtoWnNY said:
Look at history and the crazy shit men have done just to get the "good stuff". ..."sometimes it has a mind of it's own"... Yeah in history & the present...sticking it in women, men, children, animals, the dead... Thankfully not all people are slaves to their lower selves. [Edited 11/25/15 16:11pm] "We just let people talk & say whatever they want 2 say. 9 times out of 10, trust me, what's out there now, I wouldn't give nary one of these folks the time of day. That's why I don't say anything back, because there's so much that's wrong" - P, Dec '15 | |
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SeventeenDayze said:
Good advice there. I've heard about a lot of women who claim they do "everything" to keep their husbands happy, even with stuff outside of the bedroom but they still get cheated on anyway. Cheated on, discarded etc...yes, I've observed the same thing. "We just let people talk & say whatever they want 2 say. 9 times out of 10, trust me, what's out there now, I wouldn't give nary one of these folks the time of day. That's why I don't say anything back, because there's so much that's wrong" - P, Dec '15 | |
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dJJ said: I get bored after two months in a relationship. If the guy will treat me good and does not take me for granted, I will fare better.
If the guy is solely inspired by porn movies, I get bored very quickly. If he knows how to seduce me and create sensual tension, I will not get bored. Damn right it's a two way street. "We just let people talk & say whatever they want 2 say. 9 times out of 10, trust me, what's out there now, I wouldn't give nary one of these folks the time of day. That's why I don't say anything back, because there's so much that's wrong" - P, Dec '15 | |
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Yeah it seems like there are some guys out there that are just selfish and it seems foolish to think that you can do "everything" to keep a person from cheating on you. I guess you just have to love yourself no matter what because relationships come and go rather easily it seems. Trolls be gone! | |
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Yeah it seems like there are some guys out there that are just selfish and it seems foolish to think that you can do "everything" to keep a person from cheating on you. I guess you just have to love yourself no matter what because relationships come and go rather easily it seems. A lot of twisted perverse mentality's, esp in the so called 1st world, with its disconnect frm nature & spirit. And what are u left with after it's over? after you've sold yourself 4 cheap down the market? Don't get me wrong, there's a lot of bizarre females around now days too. "We just let people talk & say whatever they want 2 say. 9 times out of 10, trust me, what's out there now, I wouldn't give nary one of these folks the time of day. That's why I don't say anything back, because there's so much that's wrong" - P, Dec '15 | |
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Thanks to the internet, sex is pretty cheap, just like fame is cheap these days. Everyone is an "instant celebrity" it seems... Trolls be gone! | |
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Well, I suppose everyone is at a different stage in their evolution & vibrating on diff frequencies. Good luck to them. I'll stay over here, away from groupthink/mind control/social engineering as much as i poss can. "We just let people talk & say whatever they want 2 say. 9 times out of 10, trust me, what's out there now, I wouldn't give nary one of these folks the time of day. That's why I don't say anything back, because there's so much that's wrong" - P, Dec '15 | |
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"Never let nasty stalkers disrespect you. They start shit, you finish it. Go down to their level, that's the only way they'll understand. You have to handle things yourself." | |
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Your comment reminds me of a news story I saw on Nancy Grace earlier this year of an elderly man who was jailed for having sex with his wife while she was in a nursing home (she was an Alzheimer's patient). The jury found him not guilty of any charges but the poor guy spent nearly two years in jail waiting for his trial. He missed his wife and that situation was more than about just sex. He probably just missed her altogether. Trolls be gone! | |
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You're 100% right about not HAVING to do anything ... but if you're both in love, wouldn't you WANT to please them? Even if it means doing something of which you're not particularly fond?
Now absolutely hating something is a whole 'nother thing, if a girl absolutely hates the idea of giving Becky then I wouldn't want her to do it anyway. [Edited 11/25/15 17:44pm] "Never let nasty stalkers disrespect you. They start shit, you finish it. Go down to their level, that's the only way they'll understand. You have to handle things yourself." | |
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Now see when I was around 12 I asked my Mum & Aunt about certain sexual acts, my question was "Am I going to have to do that when I get older & have a boyfriend?"...The reply was a very confident & unanimous "NO! you don't HAVE to do ANYTHING you don't WANT to do"...& I went happily on my way. Over the last 20+ years I have heard NUFF horror stories from traumatized & disturbed grown & young women who unfortunately were never given the same direction. Do u have a daughter? Would u tell her that? (What u said)...coz there's some sick fucks out there, a lot of them who come across as cool to their friends & fam. Different story when you're a female in their bed. [Edited 11/25/15 0:21am]Pokeno4Money said:
You're 100% right about not HAVING to do anything ... but if you're both in love, wouldn't you WANT to please them? Even if it means doing something of which you're not particularly fond?
Now absolutely hating something is a whole 'nother thing, if a girl absolutely hates the idea of giving Becky then I wouldn't want her to do it anyway. [Edited 11/25/15 17:44pm] Yes, in a loving relationship u both want to please the other, there's always compromise in & out of the bed. I have no problem saying No when need be tho. [Edited 11/25/15 19:08pm] "We just let people talk & say whatever they want 2 say. 9 times out of 10, trust me, what's out there now, I wouldn't give nary one of these folks the time of day. That's why I don't say anything back, because there's so much that's wrong" - P, Dec '15 | |
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BobGeorge909 said: For a period I ked a fairly adventurous sex life. I'm not IN a relationship now but I've been in them. Soooo many girls r just plain Jane's and have a routine thay want your to follow. These women I typically get along well with socially and with day to day issues. The women I find sexually adventurous to my liking, I don't get along well with socially. They typically wear their kink on their sleeve. I keep my kink in the closet and enjoy projecting the idea of typical.
So quite often I get bored after a while when the routine gets old or too embarrassed by their freak flag flying. Or the third option, I try to incorporate some 'interesting' things and get shot down. I'm thirty seven....this shits getting old. I think at this point I should just primarily tune out my closet kink and only bring it out on the occasional holiday. Maybe too much sugar in my coffee is making it nasty. But to answer the ? more directly, boredom lies in the mind, not the body. There's excellent aspect of almost any body type one can use or exploit sexually. It's the mind that uses or doesn't use them. [Edited 11/25/15 9:44am] Catch 22 hey? Yeah, I'm very acquainted with Catch 22 :/ Sorry Bob, don't wanna judge, but that bit at the end about using & exploiting kinda rubs me up the wrong way. Spose i better say 'no pun intended' edit  [Edited 11/25/15 19:06pm] "We just let people talk & say whatever they want 2 say. 9 times out of 10, trust me, what's out there now, I wouldn't give nary one of these folks the time of day. That's why I don't say anything back, because there's so much that's wrong" - P, Dec '15 | |
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NinaB said: BobGeorge909 said: For a period I ked a fairly adventurous sex life. I'm not IN a relationship now but I've been in them. Soooo many girls r just plain Jane's and have a routine thay want your to follow. These women I typically get along well with socially and with day to day issues. The women I find sexually adventurous to my liking, I don't get along well with socially. They typically wear their kink on their sleeve. I keep my kink in the closet and enjoy projecting the idea of typical.
So quite often I get bored after a while when the routine gets old or too embarrassed by their freak flag flying. Or the third option, I try to incorporate some 'interesting' things and get shot down. I'm thirty seven....this shits getting old. I think at this point I should just primarily tune out my closet kink and only bring it out on the occasional holiday. Maybe too much sugar in my coffee is making it nasty. But to answer the ? more directly, boredom lies in the mind, not the body. There's excellent aspect of almost any body type one can use or exploit sexually. It's the mind that uses or doesn't use them. [Edited 11/25/15 9:44am] Catch 22 hey? Yeah, I'm very acquainted with Catch 22 :/ Sorry Bob, don't wanna judge, but that bit at the end about using & exploiting kinda rubs me up the wrong way. Spose i better say 'no pun intended' edit
[Edited 11/25/15 19:06pm] Lemme clear it up...it might rub u down instead of up. I was speaking, first person? As to one exploiting and using their own body, not somebody exploiting someone else's body. I intentionally used exploit because it is a charged word. But if a girl has a nice smooth, pimple-less back, she could wear a nice backless dress and 'exploit' that fact. If a girls boobies are small...but also quite perky cuz they're small, she could 'exploit' that situation if she is so inclined and go braless in a T-Shirt. Self exploitation is kinda fun and sexy imo. Or maybe sexually exploit your own naive nature... I can see though, with how I said what I said, how it would rub u the wrong way. I didn't say it very clearly. Edit:damn...sorry about all the typos. My auto correct fux my shit up sometimes. [Edited 11/26/15 11:46am] | |
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BobGeorge909 said: NinaB said: Catch 22 hey? Yeah, I'm very acquainted with Catch 22 :/ Sorry Bob, don't wanna judge, but that bit at the end about using & exploiting kinda rubs me up the wrong way. Spose i better say 'no pun intended' edit
[Edited 11/25/15 19:06pm] Lemme clear it up...it might rub u down instead of up. I was speaking, first person? As to one exciting and using their own body, not somebody exciting someone else's body. I intentionally used exploit because it is a charged word. But if a girl has a nice smooth, pimple-less back, she could wear a nice backless dress and 'exploit' that fact. If a girls boobies are small...but also quite perky cuz they're small, she could 'exploit' that situation if she is so inclined and go braless in a T-Shirt. Self exploitation is kinda fun and sexy imo. Or maybe sexually exploit your own naive nature... I can see though, with how I said what I said, how are t would rub u the wrong way. I didn't say it very clearly. Oh I get it! Yes, I know what u mean. U kno, all my life people have confided in me, I don't just mean friends, fam & acquaintances, I mean random people (esp women) at bus stops/in public bathrooms/in waiting rooms etc etc. I've a few ideas why, but that's along story. I say all that to say this - there's a lot of women who are 'freaks' on the low out there. There's more variations in character than Total square/Raving freak. Good luck in finding your other half of the orange, I'm sure she's out there, I've met plenty who fit the bill. [Edited 11/26/15 11:40am] "We just let people talk & say whatever they want 2 say. 9 times out of 10, trust me, what's out there now, I wouldn't give nary one of these folks the time of day. That's why I don't say anything back, because there's so much that's wrong" - P, Dec '15 | |
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I think you're right. I think when I walk down the street and certain guys try to flirt it's because I think on the surface I look like a librarian or something. I think some guys have a fixation with nerdy girls. Otherwise, it boggles my mind why guys talk to me when I'm very dressed down and have glasses on. Trolls be gone! | |
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"We just let people talk & say whatever they want 2 say. 9 times out of 10, trust me, what's out there now, I wouldn't give nary one of these folks the time of day. That's why I don't say anything back, because there's so much that's wrong" - P, Dec '15 | |
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Before I click on that, tell me what it's about Trolls be gone! | |
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I don't want any surprises lolNinaB said: BobGeorge909 said: Lemme clear it up...it might rub u down instead of up. I was speaking, first person? As to one exciting and using their own body, not somebody exciting someone else's body. I intentionally used exploit because it is a charged word. But if a girl has a nice smooth, pimple-less back, she could wear a nice backless dress and 'exploit' that fact. If a girls boobies are small...but also quite perky cuz they're small, she could 'exploit' that situation if she is so inclined and go braless in a T-Shirt. Self exploitation is kinda fun and sexy imo. Or maybe sexually exploit your own naive nature... I can see though, with how I said what I said, how are t would rub u the wrong way. I didn't say it very clearly. Oh I get it! Yes, I know what u mean. U kno, all my life people have confided in me, I don't just mean friends, fam & acquaintances, I mean random people (esp women) at bus stops/in public bathrooms/in waiting rooms etc etc. I've a few ideas why, but that's along story. I say all that to say this - there's a lot of women who are 'freaks' on the low out there. There's more variations in character than Total square/Raving freak. Good luck in finding your other half of the orange, I'm sure she's out there, I've met plenty who fit the bill. [Edited 11/26/15 11:40am] Yeah...u r correct. Women come in countless variations. I had vastly over simplified. Someone's out there. I just need to look harder and stop leaving my heart up on a shelf to avoid damage....lol. I need to stop being so shy and in some respects, childish. To reverse the question, how quickly do women get bored of men? What are some of the most boring aspects of a typical male. [Edited 11/26/15 12:00pm] | |
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SeventeenDayze said:
Before I click on that, tell me what it's about J Gill. | |
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Haha! No worries SeventeenDayze, i wouldn't do that! Lord knows it's been done 2 me, click on some shit and 😨 "We just let people talk & say whatever they want 2 say. 9 times out of 10, trust me, what's out there now, I wouldn't give nary one of these folks the time of day. That's why I don't say anything back, because there's so much that's wrong" - P, Dec '15 | |
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SeventeenDayze said:
I think you're right. I think when I walk down the street and certain guys try to flirt it's because I think on the surface I look like a librarian or something. I think some guys have a fixation with nerdy girls. Otherwise, it boggles my mind why guys talk to me when I'm very dressed down and have glasses on. I so hear u! Men have checked me even when I was in overalls covered in paint etc. I think some are less likely 2 approach when you've got your shit on 'fleek' as the youts say  Or it's more likely Alpha males will try it at those 'fleek' times. Also maybe certain guys have a thing 4 librarians/painters & decorators  "We just let people talk & say whatever they want 2 say. 9 times out of 10, trust me, what's out there now, I wouldn't give nary one of these folks the time of day. That's why I don't say anything back, because there's so much that's wrong" - P, Dec '15 | |
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BobGeorge909 said: NinaB said: Oh I get it! Yes, I know what u mean. U kno, all my life people have confided in me, I don't just mean friends, fam & acquaintances, I mean random people (esp women) at bus stops/in public bathrooms/in waiting rooms etc etc. I've a few ideas why, but that's along story. I say all that to say this - there's a lot of women who are 'freaks' on the low out there. There's more variations in character than Total square/Raving freak. Good luck in finding your other half of the orange, I'm sure she's out there, I've met plenty who fit the bill. [Edited 11/26/15 11:40am] Yeah...u r correct. Women come in countless variations. I had vastly over simplified. Someone's out there. I just need to look harder and stop leaving my heart up on a shelf to avoid damage....lol. I need to stop being so shy and in some respects, childish. To reverse the question, how quickly do women get bored of men? What are some of the most boring aspects of a typical male. [Edited 11/26/15 12:00pm] I can't speak 4 other women on that but I don't get bored that easily in life in general. I did have one boyfriend tho who when it came round to our one year 'anniversary' i had finish it. I used 2 wanna put some dynamite under his arse or something. Just had no oomph/passion about him in any part of his life. 4 me a lack of creativity, humanity & having 2 dumb myself down in order to converse are big turn offs. ..There's more but those are the top ones 2 spring 2 mind at the mo. [Edited 11/26/15 12:54pm] "We just let people talk & say whatever they want 2 say. 9 times out of 10, trust me, what's out there now, I wouldn't give nary one of these folks the time of day. That's why I don't say anything back, because there's so much that's wrong" - P, Dec '15 | |
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...and Bob get your heart down off that shelf, dust it off, put your big boy pants on & your best foot forward & get out there! [Edited 11/26/15 12:42pm] "We just let people talk & say whatever they want 2 say. 9 times out of 10, trust me, what's out there now, I wouldn't give nary one of these folks the time of day. That's why I don't say anything back, because there's so much that's wrong" - P, Dec '15 | |
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Okie Dokie, I'll click on it then Trolls be gone! | |
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Yes, I think some guys like the librarian thing as well Trolls be gone! | |
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SeventeenDayze said:
I think you're right. I think when I walk down the street and certain guys try to flirt it's because I think on the surface I look like a librarian or something. I think some guys have a fixation with nerdy girls. Otherwise, it boggles my mind why guys talk to me when I'm very dressed down and have glasses on. Or maybe you're just better looking than you give yourself credit for? | |
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