SeventeenDayze said:

databank said:

I don't remember ever getting bored of a girl's body per se.

However I have sometimes known from the start that I wouldn't stay forever with a girl because I didn't fancy her body enough.

Another thing is after some months I got sexually bored with each of the 4 girls I tried living with in the past, and 2 of those were Hollywood class so I was pretty puzzled because they just couldn't have been hotter. So that, among several other reasons, have decided me not to ever share an appartment with a GF, ever.

That's interesting...seems like most of the guys on here said the opposite of what you said. Perhaps you'll never settle down then with a woman and have a traditional marriage then right?

U mean they said living with a woman makes their sexuality better?

usually after the 6 month mark. On the other hand, the women I was most attracted to physically I had the shortest relationships with.So, maybe it would have been longer with those.....but IDK

usually after the 6 month mark. On the other hand, the women I was most attracted to physically I had the shortest relationships with.So, maybe it would have been longer with those.....but IDK

databank said:

SeventeenDayze said:

That's interesting...seems like most of the guys on here said the opposite of what you said. Perhaps you'll never settle down then with a woman and have a traditional marriage then right?

U mean they said living with a woman makes their sexuality better?

Well it did seem that there were a few guys in long-term relationships that weren't bored. I assumed some of them lived with their partners based on how long they were together.

databank said:

SeventeenDayze said:

That's interesting...seems like most of the guys on here said the opposite of what you said. Perhaps you'll never settle down then with a woman and have a traditional marriage then right?

No I definitely won't.

That's funny Further proof that most Prince fans are not the conventional types

SeventeenDayze said:

databank said:

No I definitely won't.

That's funny Further proof that most Prince fans are not the conventional types

I guess they ain't

He's not exactly a conventional artist, and still most artists are not conventional people, so being unconventiaonal among the unconventional calls for an unconventional fanbase

Thinking back to my dating years, I don't think I ever got tired of the particular girls I was with, they were all pretty hot. But in a couple of the longer lasting relationships I found I missed the thrill of the pursuit, putting myself out there & seeing if she'd go for it or not. There's just an inherent drama that goes with seduction... probably like the attraction to gambling. So, like having a gambling problem, somebody who is really, really into that thrill of pursuing someone new, could get bored after a time no matter who he's with or how fine she is. The movie Don Jon is partly about this... the guy leaves freakin' Scarlett Johannon alone in bed so he can go wank to internet porn, which he loves because he never has to "be with" the same girl twice.

I've been with my wife faithfully for 17 years now & don't see that changing anytime soon.

SeventeenDayze said:

Yeah I guess if a relationship is just based on the physical stuff too soon then it would be nearly impossible to have an established relationship.

Not impossible... sometimes you get lucky (twice!) and find yourself falling into bed with someone who's a great match in other ways.

But if it's mainly based on sex after the first week or so, you could maybe overlook some red flags in the relationship and go forward with it even though it's obvious it won't work out long term.