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I get what you're saying. I'm just assuming everyone is being open and honest about everything. If you tell someone sex isn't on the table but you wanna makeout and whatnot, that's not being a tease. That's doing what you feel comfortable doing. |
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CarrieMpls said: tinaz said: CarrieMpls said: tinaz said: Im with LadyC here.. What is the point of making out and getting yourselves all worked up if you know you wont be going any further.. Thats called a tease... Are you for real? You think every time a teenager makes out they're being a tease if they don't put out? You shouldn't bother kissing someone if you don't want to go all the way?I love making out just for the sake of making out still at age 38. Of course it doesn't happen as often as when I was younger or when I first started dating my man, but it's still fun now and again. We are talking about grown ass people here Carrie..not teenagers experimenting... And the Difference with you making out and her making out is you have already put out... your man knows at some point he will get it again... I get what you're saying. I'm just assuming everyone is being open and honest about everything. If you tell someone sex isn't on the table but you wanna makeout and whatnot, that's not being a tease. That's doing what you feel comfortable doing.Being a tease to me is more about playing with someone's emotions. Dangling bait in front of someone you know they're never gonna get to get your own way. I assume that's not what the OP is doing but if she's not being upfront about things, then yes, that's a problem. ..........................................She didnt really say if he knew..  But thats exactly what Im talking about, HOPEFULLY she is letting them know in advance...~~~~~ Oh that voice...incredible....there should be a musical instrument called George Michael... ~~~~~ | |
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This makes me think or the episode of "Girls" where the high strung virgin is trying to get laid...tells dude she's a virgin as he's eating and about to transfer to actual intercourse....he hears that, puts his pants on and runs for the hills.
Im knda in that camp. The womans placed far to much importance on something...i unno..basic maybe?...but then, inevitably it doesnt live up to expectation, partly due to inexperience...then resentments build and ...BOOM! Divorce. Sex is like food....it works many ways. ...but u really dig it in a few certain manners...the select recipes if u will. If u dont find out u cant get the select recipies untill after the fact...ure stuck with chef boyardee when theres a Bucca DeBeppos out there somewhere for you. [Edited 7/11/13 19:40pm] | |
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Only if I was planning on getting married and maybe not even then. I was never interested in being the first. | |
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In my situation ... the guy knows that I'm saving myself for marriage . I've told him that from the get-go . i have twitter .... just ask for it . | |
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if you're not putting out then you can be guaranteed that your man is either seeing prostitutes or he's hammering the porn. just saying like Hamburger, Hot Dog, Root Beer, Pussy | |
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