Cuddles said:

JustErin said:

I always think the person who is so absolute in their answer about NOT cheating and the most judgemental with others who say otherwise is more likely to cheat or be hiding a cheating past.

You know, the whole "doth protest too much" thing.

yeah, that what I ment.

I think many assumptions have gone into these comments.

I answered 10. I have never cheated. I will never cheat. As I mentioned before, cheating did so much damage to my family. I saw it cause so much pain.

I'm not hiding anything. I don't judge people who do. Everyone has their own path to take and choices to make.

I'm not protesting too much. I'm just not down with it, for me.

I believe those who say "I'd/'ll never cheat"

just because they could get divorced (or break up a relationship) and start a new sexual/romantic relationship with somene else DOESN'T mean they would cheat first

the best reply so far has been this one : " i'd leave, not cheat"

JoeTyler said:

I believe those who say "I'd/'ll never cheat"

just because they could get divorced (or break up a relationship) and start a new sexual/romantic relationship with somene else DOESN'T mean they would cheat first

the best reply so far has been this one : " i'd leave, not cheat"

Yeah, that's the whole point.

If you're in a committed, monogamous relationship, then if you "check out" emotionally, you owe it to your partner to walk away BEFORE tapping another ass.

When I say "owe" I mean you have an obligation to maintain the trust and respect that your partner deserves.

What's really a shame is that in this day & age it seems almost "unbelievable" to some people to even think that someone could actually have enough moral standards to consciously keep from straying.