It's so easy to call up your best nympho and hooker

when your significant other isn't around

I wonder if those who answered "Yes" in this thread would also cheat on other stuff. You know, like cheating on their taxes, or cheating at golf, or cheating the other guy in a business deal.

Let me put it this way - no one trusts a cheater. It doesn't matter what you're cheating on.

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PurpleJedi said:

AndrePatrone said:

people are as faithful as their options

Nah...SOME people are as faithful as their options...others are as faithful as their conscience would allow.

starting to think this is BS too.I use to believe in that faithful as options bullshit.

RodeoSchro said:

I wonder if those who answered "Yes" in this thread would also cheat on other stuff. You know, like cheating on their taxes, or cheating at golf, or cheating at poker.

Let me put it this way - no one trusts a cheater. It doesn't matter what you're cheating on.

I cheated taxpayers employess government

Ima known cheat

iaminparties said:

RodeoSchro said:

I wonder if those who answered "Yes" in this thread would also cheat on other stuff. You know, like cheating on their taxes, or cheating at golf, or cheating at poker.

Let me put it this way - no one trusts a cheater. It doesn't matter what you're cheating on.

I cheated taxpayers employess government

Ima known cheat

Yeah, reading the thread it looks like you're really the only one that said you'd cheat.

But then again, you're a troll so who really knows?

RodeoSchro said:

iaminparties said:

I cheated taxpayers employess government

Ima known cheat

Yeah, reading the thread it looks like you're really the only one that said you'd cheat.

But then again, you're a troll so who really knows?

Ima cut you

I was gonna tell a good story but Rodeoschro and everyone thinks Im a troll.

So forget it.Encourage me to tell it.

DELETE

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iaminparties said:

PurpleJedi said:

Nah...SOME people are as faithful as their options...others are as faithful as their conscience would allow.

starting to think this is BS too.I use to believe in that faithful as options bullshit.

Eventually the hurt goes away.

There are faithful people out there...but they are few and far between... You can never really take that for granted in someone... And sometimes even faithful people can screw up without really intending to... It's all part of being a fallible human being...

iaminparties said:

In my mind there's really no excuse for physical cheating(sex). Now having an emotional attachment towards someone that wasn't my significant other ? That's a little more understandable...and complicated.

I'm not naive, i realise things do happen. If i was in a situation where i was thinking about cheating? First i would have a open and honest talk with my significant other. I would let them know that there were problems in our relationship and if those problems can't be fixed then we should go our separate ways. If it had gotten to the point where i had lost all feelings for the person then i would end it right then and there. For me it would have to be about a lack of emotional attraction rather than a lack of sex. I could deal with a lack of sex longer than i could deal with being in a relationship with someone i don't love.

I know that having kids can complicates the situation. The only thing i can say about that is I don't have any kids but I do know a few people that are married(or in a relationship) and have kids and are somewhat miserable and cheat. Some of them stay in the relationship because of the kids but their whole family seems to suffer.

As far as the person i was thinking about cheating with. I would tell them how i feel but i would also let them know that it wouldn't be smart to betray the trust of the people we were in relationships with(if she was in one also).

I know all this shit is easier said than done.

The only thing i can say is the cheating is probably not worth the hassles it can cause.

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JoeyC said:

In my mind there's really no excuse for physical cheating(sex). Now having an emotional attachment towards someone that wasn't my significant other ? That's a little more understandable...and complicated.

I'm not naive, i realise things do happen. If i was in a situation where i was thinking about cheating? First i would have a open and honest talk with my significant other. I would let them know that there were problems in our relationship and if those problems can't be fixed then we should go our separate ways. If it had gotten to the point where i had lost all feelings for the person then i would end it right then and there. For me it would have to be about a lack of emotional attraction rather than a lack of sex. I could deal with a lack of sex longer than i could deal with being in a relationship with someone i don't love.

I know that having kids can complicates the situation. The only thing i can say about that is I don't have any kids but I do know a few people that are married(or in a relationship) and have kids and are somewhat miserable and cheat. Some of them stay in the relationship because of the kids but their whole family seems to suffer.

As far as the person i was thinking about cheating with. I would tell them how i feel but i would also let them know that it wouldn't be smart to betray the trust of the people we were in relationships with(if she was in one also).

I know all this shit is easier said than done.

The only thing i can say is the cheating is probably not worth the hassles it can cause.

That's the key right there.

End it. Walk away. Be a f*cking adult.

So what if you lose the house and the car and the white picket fence? Honesty and integrity are worth more than your pocketbook.

10. I can say and know I will not cheat.

I have told my bf if he cheats on me he's that's it, it's over. That by taking that action he's telling me he's already decided it's over as I know, for me, there's no coming back from it.

I cheated at the end of my marriage, HUGE lesson learned!

nammie said:

I cheated at the end of my marriage, HUGE lesson learned!

Yup, it's always best to end something...before you begin something else...

10

I'd never cheat.

I would establish an open relationship from the begining. that's just me

RodeoSchro said:

I wonder if those who answered "Yes" in this thread would also cheat on other stuff. You know, like cheating on their taxes, or cheating at golf, or cheating the other guy in a business deal.

Let me put it this way - no one trusts a cheater. It doesn't matter what you're cheating on.

that would be quite an assumption

like saying all gypsies might be/are thieves because they have a reputation for it

I don't condone cheating, but I also don't condone generalisation

ZombieKitten said:

RodeoSchro said:

I wonder if those who answered "Yes" in this thread would also cheat on other stuff. You know, like cheating on their taxes, or cheating at golf, or cheating the other guy in a business deal.

Let me put it this way - no one trusts a cheater. It doesn't matter what you're cheating on.

that would be quite an assumption

like saying all gypsies might be/are thieves because they have a reputation for it

I don't condone cheating, but I also don't condone generalisation

It's no assumption or generalization at all. If someone cheated at something as important as their marriage (or another form of committed relationship), why would anyone trust them to be honest at anything?

In other words, if the person that is the closest to them, and means the most to them, can't trust them, how could anyone else?

AndrePatrone said:

people are as faithful as their options

That's pretty honest.

Cuddles said:

AndrePatrone said:

people are as faithful as their options

That's pretty honest.

I disagree.

RodeoSchro said:

ZombieKitten said:

that would be quite an assumption

like saying all gypsies might be/are thieves because they have a reputation for it

I don't condone cheating, but I also don't condone generalisation

It's no assumption or generalization at all. If someone cheated at something as important as their marriage (or another form of committed relationship), why would anyone trust them to be honest at anything?

In other words, if the person that is the closest to them, and means the most to them, can't trust them, how could anyone else?

not all marriages are that great

RodeoSchro said:

Cuddles said:

That's pretty honest.

I disagree.

I always think the person doing the cheating is the one who has the hang up about it.

Cuddles said:

RodeoSchro said:

I disagree.

I always think the person doing the cheating is the one who has the hang up about it.

Huh?

Cuddles said:

RodeoSchro said:

I disagree.

I always think the person doing the cheating is the one who has the hang up about it.

I always think the person who is so absolute in their answer about NOT cheating and the most judgemental with others who say otherwise is more likely to cheat or be hiding a cheating past.

You know, the whole "doth protest too much" thing.

JustErin said:

Cuddles said:

I always think the person doing the cheating is the one who has the hang up about it.

I always think the person who is so absolute in their answer about NOT cheating and the most judgemental with others who say otherwise is more likely to cheat or be hiding a cheating past.

You know, the whole "doth protest too much" thing.

yeah, that what I ment.

and I think you all think too much

Nope. Never.

Never have, never done, never will.