She's my mom, so I do want this to work, but my first mistake was, well the whole idea, but, I should have waited several more years. The thought of this going on for 5, 10, 15 years plus... Lord help me.

Then, I had it in my mind that if I took the stress off my mom, no rent, no utility bills etc, she feel free to travel and have more fun in her life.

Yeah, not happening.

So again, thanks so much for the hugs. I love you guys. * *