JustErin said:

Vendetta1 said:

A series of strong contractions, lasting from about fifteen seconds to two minutes. My second orgasm is stronger than the first with subsequent orgasms having less strong ripplings but still very pleasurable.

That's it. That's exactly what the female orgasm is. Her cervix is contracting to scoop up your semen (whether it's there or not) - that is an orgasm. All that other stuff is an individual response to the pleasure...it's not the orgasm. If you're not feeling that contraction but getting all the other bells and whistles, she's faking.

I do find it interesting that not one dude explained this as his proof that he is getting her off.

I do think this is what Trem meant when he said "pound". I imagine a jackhammer like sensation when he says it.

Vendetta1 said:

JustErin said:

That's it. That's exactly what the female orgasm is. Her cervix is contracting to scoop up your semen (whether it's there or not) - that is an orgasm. All that other stuff is an individual response to the pleasure...it's not the orgasm. If you're not feeling that contraction but getting all the other bells and whistles, she's faking.

I do find it interesting that not one dude explained this as his proof that he is getting her off.

I do think this is what Trem meant when he said "pound". I imagine a jackhammer like sensation when he says it.

good lawd... you ladies really need a reading class

Key word in my post was SQUEEZE (or "contract" but I am a lawyer so I immediately think of other things when I use that word).

You know, as a guy, when the pussy starts to squeeze uncontrollably, so hard that it makes YOU cum too, you know what time it is. It's just that some women (no I dont know who they are or anything) also start to POUND their pussies REAL hard on the dick at that point. because they like their orgasm like that. Makes the "contractions"more intens ya know....

Tremolina said:

Vendetta1 said:

I do think this is what Trem meant when he said "pound". I imagine a jackhammer like sensation when he says it.

good lawd... you ladies really need a reading class

Key word in my post was SQUEEZE (or "contract" but I am a lawyer so I immediately think of other things when I use that word).

You know, as a guy, when the pussy starts to squeeze uncontrollably, so hard that it makes YOU cum too, you know what time it is. It's just that some women (no I dont know who they are or anything) also start to POUND their pussies REAL hard on the dick at that point. because they like their orgasm like that. Makes the "contractions"more intens ya know....

You need a class on women.

Yes, a pussy can squeeze when it is orgasming. Squeezing and contracting are not the same thing, in my opinion. If you meant contractions, then that's what you should have said.

I can squeeze your dick without having an orgasm. I can't fake a pulsing contraction.

Vendetta1 said:

JustErin said:

That's it. That's exactly what the female orgasm is. Her cervix is contracting to scoop up your semen (whether it's there or not) - that is an orgasm. All that other stuff is an individual response to the pleasure...it's not the orgasm. If you're not feeling that contraction but getting all the other bells and whistles, she's faking.

I do find it interesting that not one dude explained this as his proof that he is getting her off.

I do think this is what Trem meant when he said "pound". I imagine a jackhammer like sensation when he says it.

I haven't read the entire thread, because Ivy's fist comment cracked me the hell up and I couldn't really take it seriously. I could say a whole bunch, but I think I've already said plenty in the last couple weeks. In short, I can tell when a woman is faking, and not just orgasms. Its pretty obvious when most women aren't interested (or as interested as when you're having a really good mutual get-off). Their muscles aren't as tense, their posture is different and they don't get as wet. Its always amazed me to hear women friends talk about how oblivious their men are to these type of changes during sex/relationships. That shit is NOT hard to notice. But if you can't tell, how are you ever really going to please your woman?

I do think its important to note that all woman don't work the same way, either. Some women need clitoral stimulation, some don't. Some get off more from anal stimulation, while others don't want you even approaching that entrance... I mean area. Some women really do have a "spot" and you've got to work out what positions will best allow you access to it. Some women just need to have sex for longer than a lot of men will ever be able to accomplish, so things like serious foreplay, masturbation and possibly even toys become necessary. Sometimes its a combination of all of the above. But again, that all goes back to actually giving a shit, and I think its pretty clear that some men don't.

Lastly, through thousands of years of conditioning, both social and sexual, couples have become used to the idea that the man gets off and sex is over. Even now, for far more people than most would realize, sex is about procreation. It doesn't matter if the woman orgasms, so long as she's having babies to raise. Sex for the purpose of MUTUAL gratification is still not how most men are brought up, either. They're brought up on the movie version of sex, and the porn version. And guess what, those women are almost always faking it. So when a guy gets that in the bedroom, he thinks he's done his duty. .... so to speak.

Anyway... babble, babble... I've said too much again... ..... sliiiiides that way

Vendetta1 said:

Tremolina said:

good lawd... you ladies really need a reading class

Key word in my post was SQUEEZE (or "contract" but I am a lawyer so I immediately think of other things when I use that word).

You know, as a guy, when the pussy starts to squeeze uncontrollably, so hard that it makes YOU cum too, you know what time it is. It's just that some women (no I dont know who they are or anything) also start to POUND their pussies REAL hard on the dick at that point. because they like their orgasm like that. Makes the "contractions"more intens ya know....

You need a class on women.

Yes, a pussy can squeeze when it is orgasming. Squeezing and contracting are not the same thing, in my opinion. If you meant contractions, then that's what you should have said.

I can squeeze your dick without having an orgasm. I can't fake a pulsing contraction.

Oh lord, I better be quiet now.

I am not a native english speaker my dear, you should know that by now after so many years.

So when I say squeeze I mean "contract" (I just hate using that word because it means something entirely different in my book!)

Anyway: I imagine a woman being able to fake a LOT of things in bed, even those "contractions".

But contracting AND a pussy flooding with juices at the same time? I don't think so.

[Edited 8/9/11 16:34pm]

Cerebus said:

Vendetta1 said:

I do think this is what Trem meant when he said "pound". I imagine a jackhammer like sensation when he says it.

I haven't read the entire thread, because Ivy's fist comment cracked me the hell up and I couldn't really take it seriously. I could say a whole bunch, but I think I've already said plenty in the last couple weeks. In short, I can tell when a woman is faking, and not just orgasms. Its pretty obvious when most women aren't interested (or as interested as when you're having a really good mutual get-off). Their muscles aren't as tense, their posture is different and they don't get as wet. Its always amazed me to hear women friends talk about how oblivious their men are to these type of changes during sex/relationships. That shit is NOT hard to notice. But if you can't tell, how are you ever really going to please your woman?

I do think its important to note that all woman don't work the same way, either. Some women need clitoral stimulation, some don't. Some get off more from anal stimulation, while others don't want you even approaching that entrance... I mean area. Some women really do have a "spot" and you've got to work out what positions will best allow you access to it. Some women just need to have sex for longer than a lot of men will ever be able to accomplish, so things like serious foreplay, masturbation and possibly even toys become necessary. Sometimes its a combination of all of the above. But again, that all goes back to actually giving a shit, and I think its pretty clear that some men don't.

Lastly, through thousands of years of conditioning, both social and sexual, couples have become used to the idea that the man gets off and sex is over. Even now, for far more people than most would realize, sex is about procreation. It doesn't matter if the woman orgasms, so long as she's having babies to raise. Sex for the purpose of MUTUAL gratification is still not how most men are brought up, either. They're brought up on the movie version of sex, and the porn version. And guess what, those women are almost always faking it. So when a guy gets that in the bedroom, he thinks he's done his duty. .... so to speak.

Anyway... babble, babble... I've said too much again... ..... sliiiiides that way

Please marry me.

Oh, and uhh... why do women fake it? Because for whatever reason they don't want to discuss with their man they aren't getting off, I suppose. Because, really, that's the only way to change whatever he ain't doin' right.

Tremolina said:

Vendetta1 said:

You need a class on women.

Yes, a pussy can squeeze when it is orgasming. Squeezing and contracting are not the same thing, in my opinion. If you meant contractions, then that's what you should have said.

I can squeeze your dick without having an orgasm. I can't fake a pulsing contraction.

Oh lord, I better be quiet now.

I am not a native english speaker my dear, you should know that by now after so many years.

So when I say squeeze I mean "contract" (I just hate using that word because it means something entirely different in my book!)

Anyway: I imagine a woman being able to fake a LOT of things in bed, even those "contractions".

But contracting AND a pussy flooding with juices at the same time? I don't think so.

[Edited 8/9/11 16:34pm]

Master the English language then.

Vendetta1 said:

Cerebus said:

I haven't read the entire thread, because Ivy's fist comment cracked me the hell up and I couldn't really take it seriously. I could say a whole bunch, but I think I've already said plenty in the last couple weeks. In short, I can tell when a woman is faking, and not just orgasms. Its pretty obvious when most women aren't interested (or as interested as when you're having a really good mutual get-off). Their muscles aren't as tense, their posture is different and they don't get as wet. Its always amazed me to hear women friends talk about how oblivious their men are to these type of changes during sex/relationships. That shit is NOT hard to notice. But if you can't tell, how are you ever really going to please your woman?

I do think its important to note that all woman don't work the same way, either. Some women need clitoral stimulation, some don't. Some get off more from anal stimulation, while others don't want you even approaching that entrance... I mean area. Some women really do have a "spot" and you've got to work out what positions will best allow you access to it. Some women just need to have sex for longer than a lot of men will ever be able to accomplish, so things like serious foreplay, masturbation and possibly even toys become necessary. Sometimes its a combination of all of the above. But again, that all goes back to actually giving a shit, and I think its pretty clear that some men don't.

Lastly, through thousands of years of conditioning, both social and sexual, couples have become used to the idea that the man gets off and sex is over. Even now, for far more people than most would realize, sex is about procreation. It doesn't matter if the woman orgasms, so long as she's having babies to raise. Sex for the purpose of MUTUAL gratification is still not how most men are brought up, either. They're brought up on the movie version of sex, and the porn version. And guess what, those women are almost always faking it. So when a guy gets that in the bedroom, he thinks he's done his duty. .... so to speak.

Anyway... babble, babble... I've said too much again... ..... sliiiiides that way

Please marry me.

Can't we just fuck? You know how I feel about that marraige shit.

Vendetta1 said:

Tremolina said:

Oh lord, I better be quiet now.

I am not a native english speaker my dear, you should know that by now after so many years.

So when I say squeeze I mean "contract" (I just hate using that word because it means something entirely different in my book!)

Anyway: I imagine a woman being able to fake a LOT of things in bed, even those "contractions".

But contracting AND a pussy flooding with juices at the same time? I don't think so.

[Edited 8/9/11 16:34pm]

Master the English language then.

I'm TRYING!

Try mine first

Cerebus said:

Vendetta1 said:

Please marry me.

Can't we just fuck? You know how I feel about that marraige shit.

Oh cerebus... after all those beautiful, wise words, spoken from all that experience.

Tremolina said:

Cerebus said:

Can't we just fuck? You know how I feel about that marraige shit.

Oh cerebus... after all those beautiful, wise words, spoken from all that experience.

Its OK, Ivy and I go back a ways. I'm sure she wasn't offended, because she's said the same thing to me... more than once.

Cerebus said:

Tremolina said:

Oh cerebus... after all those beautiful, wise words, spoken from all that experience.

Its OK, Ivy and I go back a ways. I'm sure she wasn't offended, because she's said the same thing to me... more than once.

She did?! IVY???!!!

Vendetta1 said:

Tremolina said:

good lawd... you ladies really need a reading class

Key word in my post was SQUEEZE (or "contract" but I am a lawyer so I immediately think of other things when I use that word).

You know, as a guy, when the pussy starts to squeeze uncontrollably, so hard that it makes YOU cum too, you know what time it is. It's just that some women (no I dont know who they are or anything) also start to POUND their pussies REAL hard on the dick at that point. because they like their orgasm like that. Makes the "contractions"more intens ya know....

You need a class on women.

Yes, a pussy can squeeze when it is orgasming. Squeezing and contracting are not the same thing, in my opinion. If you meant contractions, then that's what you should have said.

I can squeeze your dick without having an orgasm. I can't fake a pulsing contraction.

Yeah, a women can easily fool a dude that her squeezing is her getting off...but you're right. It's really not the same thing. I imagine for a guy though, it would be more difficult to really spot the difference.

And enough with the eyerolls and deep tongue each other already.

Cerebus said:

Vendetta1 said:

Please marry me.

Can't we just fuck? You know how I feel about that marraige shit.

We sure can fuck.

JustErin said:

Vendetta1 said:

You need a class on women.

Yes, a pussy can squeeze when it is orgasming. Squeezing and contracting are not the same thing, in my opinion. If you meant contractions, then that's what you should have said.

I can squeeze your dick without having an orgasm. I can't fake a pulsing contraction.

Yeah, a women can easily fool a dude that her squeezing is her getting off...but you're right. It's really not the same thing. I imagine for a guy though, it would be more difficult to really spot the difference.

And enough with the eyerolls and deep tongue each other already.

I don't know, if you're really familiar with your partner, kegels do not an orgasm make. Maybe if it was someone new. But honestly, when you guys are breaking it down this far, in some cases, for some men (particularly those who believe the faking IS an orgasm), the only way for a him to know for sure is to ask. And that opens up a whole different can or worms.

Tremolina said:

Vendetta1 said:

Master the English language then.

I'm TRYING!

Try mine first

Hou je fokking bek.

Cerebus said:

JustErin said:

Yeah, a women can easily fool a dude that her squeezing is her getting off...but you're right. It's really not the same thing. I imagine for a guy though, it would be more difficult to really spot the difference.

And enough with the eyerolls and deep tongue each other already.

I don't know, if you're really familiar with your partner, kegels do not an orgasm make. Maybe if it was someone new. But honestly, when you guys are breaking it down this far, in some cases, for some men (particularly those who believe the faking IS an orgasm), the only way for a him to know for sure is to ask. And that opens up a whole different can or worms.

With every post I want to fuck you more.

Vendetta1 said:

Tremolina said:

I'm TRYING!

Try mine first

Hou je fokking bek.

Fook da wot?

Cerebus said:

Oh, and uhh... why do women fake it? Because for whatever reason they don't want to discuss with their man they aren't getting off, I suppose. Because, really, that's the only way to change whatever he ain't doin' right.

And you can tell a dude and he still not give a fuck.

The last guy I was with, we spent a helluva lot of time talking about what we were into and what would make the other person happy. It was the best sex of my life. It was HOT!!!

And now I won't settle for less.

Tittypants said:

I have no ego, & I'm trying to be the best "sex machine" I can be! If I know you're not satisfied, I'll try harder! So, Why lie? [I'm not sure how other men feel about this, but I wouldn't be mad if you told me you didn't orgasm, I'm all about learning when it comes to sex]

Cuz we gotta go to work in 5 minutes.

Vendetta1 said:

Tremolina said:

I'm TRYING!

Try mine first

Hou je fokking bek.

Cerebus said:

Vendetta1 said:

Hou je fokking bek.

Fook da wot?

she told me to shut my fucking mouth

why Ivy... WHY?!

[Edited 8/9/11 17:21pm]

Tremolina said:

Cerebus said:

Fook da wot?

she told me to shut my fucking mouth

why Ivy... WHY?!

[Edited 8/9/11 17:21pm]

Go in the kitchen and make me a sandwich.

Vendetta1 said:

Tremolina said:

she told me to shut my fucking mouth

why Ivy... WHY?!

[Edited 8/9/11 17:21pm]

Go in the kitchen and make me a sandwich.

[Edited 8/9/11 17:26pm]

Tremolina said:

Vendetta1 said:

Go in the kitchen and make me a sandwich.

[Edited 8/9/11 17:26pm]

Aww. I'm sorry pookie.

Vendetta1 said:

Tremolina said:

[Edited 8/9/11 17:26pm]

Aww. I'm sorry pookie.

sorry my ass. you ENJOY that shit

Tremolina said:

Vendetta1 said:

Aww. I'm sorry pookie.

sorry my ass. you ENJOY that shit

Vendetta1 said:

Tremolina said:

sorry my ass. you ENJOY that shit

evil woman

[Edited 8/9/11 17:46pm]

Tremolina said:

Vendetta1 said:

evil woman

[Edited 8/9/11 17:46pm]