luv4u said:

dJJ said:

How?

A guy can make his sounds of having an orgasm and hold back and not cum in the woman if he chooses not to. And that's speaking from experience coz there was not a drop of of his cum leaking out, or on the bed sheets or even the smell of cum.

Why the fuck would any dude fake it???

This is why you can't let them jizz inside you, ladies. Make them shoot that load on your face!

JustErin said:

luv4u said:

A guy can make his sounds of having an orgasm and hold back and not cum in the woman if he chooses not to. And that's speaking from experience coz there was not a drop of of his cum leaking out, or on the bed sheets or even the smell of cum.

Why the fuck would any dude fake it???

This is why you can't let them jizz inside you, ladies. Make them shoot that load on your face!

JustErin said:

This is why you can't let them jizz inside you, ladies. Make them shoot that load on your face!

JustErin said:

luv4u said:

A guy can make his sounds of having an orgasm and hold back and not cum in the woman if he chooses not to. And that's speaking from experience coz there was not a drop of of his cum leaking out, or on the bed sheets or even the smell of cum.

Why the fuck would any dude fake it???

This is why you can't let them jizz inside you, ladies. Make them shoot that load on your face!

...

I've faked it many times...

For a variety of reasons...

HermesReborn said:

JustErin said:

Why the fuck would any dude fake it???

This is why you can't let them jizz inside you, ladies. Make them shoot that load on your face!

...

I've faked it many times...

For a variety of reasons...

Such as?

HermesReborn said:

JustErin said:

Why the fuck would any dude fake it???

This is why you can't let them jizz inside you, ladies. Make them shoot that load on your face!

...

I've faked it many times...

For a variety of reasons...

Sometimes the condom won't let me cum,

Sometimes the women are just not... tight enough.

If I've masturbated prior to the sexual activity... Sometimes I can't cum.

Sometimes she's just a bad lay, and i lose interest in having sex with her.

I'm guy who needs a lot stimulation, visual and vocal.

I can't just fuck a limp body...

But It could really be anything.

HermesReborn said:

HermesReborn said:

...

I've faked it many times...

For a variety of reasons...

Sometimes the condom won't let me cum,

Sometimes the women are just not... tight enough.

If I've masturbated prior to the sexual activity... Sometimes I can't cum.

Sometimes she's just a bad lay, and i lose interest in having sex with her.

I'm guy who needs a lot stimulation, visual and vocal.

I can't just fuck a limp body...

But It could really be anything.

I guess if you don't have a steady partner those things could seem weird first time you were with someone. So you pretend to come so you won't be that weird guy they tell their girlfriends about? I'd still prefer NO faking and the opportunity to make it better NEXT time. The ones I've bolded I don't know why you would be reluctant to tell a partner.

I rubbed one out yesterday afternoon I shouldn't have, since I can be pretty rough with myself

I didn't fake it last night. He worked really hard and it was awesome. Sometimes I get overwhelmed with sensation and after so much activity get numb or sore. Doesn't mean he's doing a bad job or I like it any less, just means it's not gonna happen for me THAT time

As Ivy mentioned, to get the guy off an "out" if he's a bad-lay. I would think this is the number one reason women say I'm, i'm, iii, mmm... faking.

No, never faked it, for what reason? ZK' is correct, men can take the truth. Unless you're dealing with a selfish prick, it's been my experience most men are relieved if give them some direction. If fact, it makes the experience hotter....

Women fake it because we can.

TD3 said:

As Ivy mentioned, to get the guy off an "out" if he's a bad-lay. I would think this is the number one reason women say I'm, i'm, iii, mmm... faking.

No, never faked it, for what reason? ZK' is correct, men can take the truth. Unless you're dealing with a selfish prick, it's been my experience most men are relieved if give them some direction. If fact, it makes the experience hotter....

Maturity is probably a deciding factor in something like this. I guess an insecure and immature woman would be embarrassed at what she might perceive as her own dysfunction, compared with how she imagines HIS previous partners might have been, which if he isn't so experienced, wouldn't have had a much different experience to hers!

ZombieKitten said:

TD3 said:

As Ivy mentioned, to get the guy off an "out" if he's a bad-lay. I would think this is the number one reason women say I'm, i'm, iii, mmm... faking.

No, never faked it, for what reason? ZK' is correct, men can take the truth. Unless you're dealing with a selfish prick, it's been my experience most men are relieved if give them some direction. If fact, it makes the experience hotter....

Maturity is probably a deciding factor in something like this. I guess an insecure and immature woman would be embarrassed at what she might perceive as her own dysfunction, compared with how she imagines HIS previous partners might have been, which if he isn't so experienced, wouldn't have had a much different experience to hers!

That's true. You and I have spoken about women giving their daughters the vocabulary and encouraging confidence to know themselves and to say what they like, what they don't like or what pleases them or doesn't. Cuz life is too short to be someone's fuckbag... that's iwhy you have women damn near 40 and never had an orgasm.

I'm mean really, WFT?!

TD3 said:

ZombieKitten said:

Maturity is probably a deciding factor in something like this. I guess an insecure and immature woman would be embarrassed at what she might perceive as her own dysfunction, compared with how she imagines HIS previous partners might have been, which if he isn't so experienced, wouldn't have had a much different experience to hers!

That's true. You and I have spoken about women giving their daughters the vocabulary and encouraging confidence to know themselves and to say what they like, what they don't like or what pleases them or doesn't. Cuz life is too short to be someone's fuckbag... that's iwhy you have women damn near 40 and never had an orgasm.

I'm mean really, WFT?!

exactly

I object to "fuckbag" being used as a derogatory term.

JustErin said:

I object to "fuckbag" being used as a derogatory term.

I don't think you would enjoy being called that in a meek and mild way with sugar on top now would you?

ZombieKitten said:

JustErin said:

I object to "fuckbag" being used as a derogatory term.

I don't think you would enjoy being called that in a meek and mild way with sugar on top now would you?

I say the reasons men fake it can be immensely different then why women would fake it.

And that would mostly be because of upbringing.

I mean The female G-spot to this day is still being disputed of actually existing.

So many women never experience full orgasms, because maybe they're clits are too sensitive, or not sensitive enough.

Add onto the fact that women for decades have been indoctrinated with the bullshit philosophy that sex is for male enjoyment and procreation, they never explore their true sexual nature.

A lot of women resort to being fuck bags or fuck toys for male enjoyment.

Went to Japan and taught music there, and learned that it was still a very male dominated culture.

Women are expected to service men.

Was dating a girl was 31 years old and never had an orgasm.

Or a sex session that lasted more than 5 minutes.

It was rediculous...

Of course when I was through with her she didn't want to let me go.

But it wasn't because I'm some Don Juan Mandingo who oozes machismo (maybe a little hehe)

It was mostly because American culture is a little bit more considerate toward feminist sexuality.

Guys here want to make their girls cum.

That's not the case in Japan.

I can not cum and have my girl cum, many times.

and I wouldn't care, cause i did my job.

HermesReborn said:

I say the reasons men fake it can be immensely different then why women would fake it.

And that would mostly be because of upbringing.

I mean The female G-spot to this day is still being disputed of actually existing.

So many women never experience full orgasms, because maybe they're clits are too sensitive, or not sensitive enough.

Add onto the fact that women for decades have been indoctrinated with the bullshit philosophy that sex is for male enjoyment and procreation, they never explore their true sexual nature.

A lot of women resort to being fuck bags or fuck toys for male enjoyment.

Went to Japan and taught music there, and learned that it was still a very male dominated culture.

Women are expected to service men.

Was dating a girl was 31 years old and never had an orgasm.

Or a sex session that lasted more than 5 minutes.

It was rediculous...

Of course when I was through with her she didn't want to let me go.

But it wasn't because I'm some Don Juan Mandingo who oozes machismo (maybe a little hehe)

It was mostly because American culture is a little bit more considerate toward feminist sexuality.

Guys here want to make their girls cum.

That's not the case in Japan.

I can not cum and have my girl cum, many times.

and I wouldn't care, cause i did my job.

I did fake cumming one time. It was suppose to be a quickie [I had an appointment to get to], & 25 min. later, I was still hittin' it. So I looked at my watch, saw what time it was, fake came, clean myself off, & got the fuck outta there just in time to make it to my appointment....

JustErin said:

I object to "fuckbag" being used as a derogatory term.

It's a term of endearment!

JustErin said:

I object to "fuckbag" being used as a derogatory term.

"Fuckbag" sounds awful to me. I'd never call a women I sleep with that. But hey, to each his/her own...some ladies do like "foul talk" during secks....

Tittypants said:

JustErin said:

I object to "fuckbag" being used as a derogatory term.

"Fuckbag" sounds awful to me. I'd never call a women I sleep with that. But hey, to each his/her own...some ladies do like "foul talk" during secks....

What about Cum Dumpster? Does that excite you? Do you want

to be my soggy little cumdumpster?

LadyCasanova said:

Tittypants said:

"Fuckbag" sounds awful to me. I'd never call a women I sleep with that. But hey, to each his/her own...some ladies do like "foul talk" during secks....

What about Cum Dumpster? Does that excite you? Do you want

to be my soggy little cumdumpster?

no. I really don't call women out their name during secks anything all that nasty [unless by request, but most have never done that]. I don't even like calling the vagina a "box" like some do now days....

"filthy fucking slut" was a requested by one lady though...

Tittypants said:

LadyCasanova said:

What about Cum Dumpster? Does that excite you? Do you want

to be my soggy little cumdumpster?

no. I really don't call women out their name during secks anything all that nasty [unless by request, but most have never done that]. I don't even like calling the vagina a "box" like some do now days....

"filthy fucking slut" was a requested by one lady though...

I guess I know who I'm NOT inviting to the org-bang

(Quick, John, get a pen and paper and take notes )

There is another question circling here...

....do men care more about satisfying their woman, than a woman cares about satisfying her man??

Personally speaking, if I'm having sex with someone and I get the impression they aren't into it (hasn't happened that often thankfully! ) that's a big turn off for me....so I guess for selfish reasons I want to make sure my partner is enjoying herself. I've got a pretty good bullsh*t detector so I reckon I could tell if a woman was faking...

DaveT said:

There is another question circling here...

....do men care more about satisfying their woman, than a woman cares about satisfying her man??

Personally speaking, if I'm having sex with someone and I get the impression they aren't into it (hasn't happened that often thankfully! ) that's a big turn off for me....so I guess for selfish reasons I want to make sure my partner is enjoying herself. I've got a pretty good bullsh*t detector so I reckon I could tell if a woman was faking...

My husband seems to think that "most men" wouldn't know or don't care enough to see their partner through to orgasm. I don't know how he KNOWS this information - perhaps all the women he has slept with have told him all about all the other men they have slept with?

From my own paltry experience, seems approx 60% are interested or at least TRY.

I think women have it easy really, there isn't much they have to do except move around, enjoy it and happily provide a nice warm wet orifice or 3 For men there are less obvious mechanics that need to be figured out on a woman, but seems once they know where everything is, it's not too difficult

ZombieKitten said:

DaveT said:

There is another question circling here...

....do men care more about satisfying their woman, than a woman cares about satisfying her man??

Personally speaking, if I'm having sex with someone and I get the impression they aren't into it (hasn't happened that often thankfully! ) that's a big turn off for me....so I guess for selfish reasons I want to make sure my partner is enjoying herself. I've got a pretty good bullsh*t detector so I reckon I could tell if a woman was faking...

My husband seems to think that "most men" wouldn't know or don't care enough to see their partner through to orgasm. I don't know how he KNOWS this information - perhaps all the women he has slept with have told him all about all the other men they have slept with?

From my own paltry experience, seems approx 60% are interested or at least TRY.

I think women have it easy really, there isn't much they have to do except move around, enjoy it and happily provide a nice warm wet orifice or 3 For men there are less obvious mechanics that need to be figured out on a woman, but seems once they know where everything is, it's not too difficult

He knows that because of Locker room talk.

Men like to boast in a richard prior -esque

"I got mine, you get yours"

when in actuality they're highly insecure

I mean over 60 percent of men are insecure about the size of their penis...

that tells you everything...

HermesReborn said:

HermesReborn said:

...

I've faked it many times...

For a variety of reasons...

Sometimes the condom won't let me cum,

Really? It's the condom's fault? So, without a condom you would have come?

Young guys are adviced to masturbate with a condom on. So they get used to the feeling of it and conditioned to coming with a condom. You might want to try that. In stead of blaming it on the condom

Sometimes the women are just not... tight enough.

You mean, it's the women's fault that your dick isn't.....big enough?

If I've masturbated prior to the sexual activity... Sometimes I can't cum.

I don't know your age. That might play a part. It's been my experience that younger guys can come more than once during sexplay. On the other hand, not every body is the same, it might be true that your body works differently and it's harder for you to come more than once.

Sometimes she's just a bad lay, and i lose interest in having sex with her.

She's a bad lay? What about your not really making her feel good about herself or stimulating her in a way that turns her on? I truly believe that even an ice queen melts under the hands of someone who is interested in giving her pleasure! So, maybe you were just using her as a cumbag? And she wasn't one of those obedient, submissive girls who don't mind to be treated deragotary. Maybe she actually wants somebody who cares about how she feels?

I'm guy who needs a lot stimulation, visual and vocal.

So, if she doesn't meet your standard of beaty and vocals, why did you want to have sex with her in the beginning?

I can't just fuck a limp body...

Try stimulating her the way she likes to be stimulated

But It could really be anything.

Yeah, right

I'm not in a good mood, so sorry if my response is too harshn

HermesReborn said:

ZombieKitten said:

My husband seems to think that "most men" wouldn't know or don't care enough to see their partner through to orgasm. I don't know how he KNOWS this information - perhaps all the women he has slept with have told him all about all the other men they have slept with?

From my own paltry experience, seems approx 60% are interested or at least TRY.

I think women have it easy really, there isn't much they have to do except move around, enjoy it and happily provide a nice warm wet orifice or 3 For men there are less obvious mechanics that need to be figured out on a woman, but seems once they know where everything is, it's not too difficult

He knows that because of Locker room talk.

Men like to boast in a richard prior -esque

"I got mine, you get yours"

when in actuality they're highly insecure

I mean over 60 percent of men are insecure about the size of their penis...

that tells you everything...

But he doesn't do any sports he works with only women his best friend isn't getting any. He MUST be basing his info on very old conversations like from his 20s

I only ever met one penis which was a tiny bit below average but it still did the job

ZombieKitten said:

HermesReborn said:

He knows that because of Locker room talk.

Men like to boast in a richard prior -esque

"I got mine, you get yours"

when in actuality they're highly insecure

I mean over 60 percent of men are insecure about the size of their penis...

that tells you everything...

But he doesn't do any sports he works with only women his best friend isn't getting any. He MUST be basing his info on very old conversations like from his 20s

I only ever met one penis which was a tiny bit below average but it still did the job

probably lol

Technically all you need is 4 inches

3 inches to the G spot, an inch thrust to make it happy.

Sadly it's gay guys (no offense my bros but you know its true)

that propel the size matters stereotype.

LadyCasanova said:

Tittypants said:

no. I really don't call women out their name during secks anything all that nasty [unless by request, but most have never done that]. I don't even like calling the vagina a "box" like some do now days....

"filthy fucking slut" was a requested by one lady though...

I guess I know who I'm NOT inviting to the org-bang

(Quick, John, get a pen and paper and take notes )

That's cool. I prefer the "real" org-y bang myself.. JK

HermesReborn said:

ZombieKitten said:

But he doesn't do any sports he works with only women his best friend isn't getting any. He MUST be basing his info on very old conversations like from his 20s

I only ever met one penis which was a tiny bit below average but it still did the job

probably lol

Technically all you need is 4 inches

3 inches to the G spot, an inch thrust to make it happy.

Sadly it's gay guys (no offense my bros but you know its true)

that propel the size matters stereotype.

The only thing I'm not worried about is my wang....