dJJ said:

Tittypants said:

If that's the case then, I'm doing a pretty good job.

Well, hello darling

okay if a man and woman are having sex and both of them are faking it, does it really count as sex?????

XxAxX said:

okay if a man and woman are having sex and both of them are faking it, does it really count as sex?????

No. It's bad amateur theatre, bad script and lousy performance. Even worse than porn movies.

dJJ said:

XxAxX said:

okay if a man and woman are having sex and both of them are faking it, does it really count as sex?????

No. It's bad amateur theatre, bad script and lousy performance. Even worse than porn movies.

Ah, you went to one of those 'exciting' live-sex shows, huh?

JustErin said:

Vendetta1 said:

JustErin said: if you're into that. I'm into getting off just like the guy is.

I've never not gotten off being the funbag.

I've never gotten off being the fuckbag. I guess if it was mutually decided I would be used like a whore, I probably would have gotten off, too.

Most of the men I have slept with didn't give a fuck about whether I was going to get off or not. That, was my own fault. Luckily, I grew up enough to put an end to it.

Vendetta1 said:

JustErin said:

I've never not gotten off being the funbag.

I've never gotten off being the fuckbag. I guess if it was mutually decided I would be used like a whore, I probably would have gotten off, too.

Most of the men I have slept with didn't give a fuck about whether I was going to get off or not. That, was my own fault. Luckily, I grew up enough to put an end to it.

Oh, I see. It's always a mutual thing with me.

armpit said:

If guys would do their job right they'd never have to worry about a girl faking it LOL.

Bingo!! I think some men's egos can't handle the truth.

ZombieKitten said:

armpit said:

If guys would do their job right they'd never have to worry about a girl faking it LOL.

But how will they learn if they are led to believe that what they are doing is right by girls who fake?

While I believe this, I also believe that if the guy is not doing his job if he's not talking to the woman he is sleeping with. there should be open communication on both sides. Some guys just go at it like they are trying to finish a fucking race.

Tittypants said:

dJJ said:

That is how you know she is not faking it.

If that's the case then, I'm doing a pretty good job.

I fake that shit, too.

I find it a bit disturbing that some men don't know what a female orgasm FEELS like.

JustErin said:

luv4u said:

A guy can make his sounds of having an orgasm and hold back and not cum in the woman if he chooses not to. And that's speaking from experience coz there was not a drop of of his cum leaking out, or on the bed sheets or even the smell of cum.

Why the fuck would any dude fake it???

This is why you can't let them jizz inside you, ladies. Make them shoot that load on your face!

I just love you.

XxAxX said:

okay if a man and woman are having sex and both of them are faking it, does it really count as sex?????

If eye fill her with cum....then yes:evillol:

Vendetta1 said:

Tittypants said:

If that's the case then, I'm doing a pretty good job.

I fake that shit, too.

I find it a bit disturbing that some men don't know what a female orgasm FEELS like.

You know. I always think the same thing.

But then again, you can even fake that shit too.

HermesReborn said:

I say the reasons men fake it can be immensely different then why women would fake it.

And that would mostly be because of upbringing.

I mean The female G-spot to this day is still being disputed of actually existing.

So many women never experience full orgasms, because maybe they're clits are too sensitive, or not sensitive enough.

Add onto the fact that women for decades have been indoctrinated with the bullshit philosophy that sex is for male enjoyment and procreation, they never explore their true sexual nature.

A lot of women resort to being fuck bags or fuck toys for male enjoyment.

Went to Japan and taught music there, and learned that it was still a very male dominated culture.

Women are expected to service men.

Was dating a girl was 31 years old and never had an orgasm.

Or a sex session that lasted more than 5 minutes.

It was rediculous...

Of course when I was through with her she didn't want to let me go.

But it wasn't because I'm some Don Juan Mandingo who oozes machismo (maybe a little hehe)

It was mostly because American culture is a little bit more considerate toward feminist sexuality.

Guys here want to make their girls cum.

That's not the case in Japan.

I can not cum and have my girl cum, many times.

and I wouldn't care, cause i did my job.

The hell they do.

Do most guys actually care or is their concern to bring a woman to orgasm really still about them?

You know, like look what I can do! hehe

Like, I care about getting the guy I'm with off first and foremost, but that's also really about me...cause it's what I get off on.

HermesReborn said:

ZombieKitten said:

But he doesn't do any sports he works with only women his best friend isn't getting any. He MUST be basing his info on very old conversations like from his 20s

I only ever met one penis which was a tiny bit below average but it still did the job

probably lol

Technically all you need is 4 inches

3 inches to the G spot, an inch thrust to make it happy.

Sadly it's gay guys (no offense my bros but you know its true)

that propel the size matters stereotype.

I disagree. Start a "does size matter" thread here on the org and it will be the women saying it does more than my rainbow brothers.

JustErin said:

Vendetta1 said:

I've never gotten off being the fuckbag. I guess if it was mutually decided I would be used like a whore, I probably would have gotten off, too.

Most of the men I have slept with didn't give a fuck about whether I was going to get off or not. That, was my own fault. Luckily, I grew up enough to put an end to it.

Oh, I see. It's always a mutual thing with me.

Yeah I wanted to come back and respond to you because I don't think my point came across clearly. I've had some really hot sex being a fuckbag so the term can be used with affection.

Vendetta1 said:

HermesReborn said:

probably lol

Technically all you need is 4 inches

3 inches to the G spot, an inch thrust to make it happy.

Sadly it's gay guys (no offense my bros but you know its true)

that propel the size matters stereotype.

I disagree. Start a "does size matter" thread here on the org and it will be the women saying it does more than my rainbow brothers.

Hahaha....I totally missed this originally.

I love when dudes think size doesn't matter to us, and love even more that they think size is about length.

johnart said:

Do most guys actually care or is their concern to bring a woman to orgasm really still about them?

You know, like look what I can do! hehe

Like, I care about getting the guy I'm with off first and foremost, but that's also really about me...cause it's what I get off on.

I think I am going to add you to my "fuck straight" list.

JustErin said:

Vendetta1 said:

I fake that shit, too.

I find it a bit disturbing that some men don't know what a female orgasm FEELS like.

You know. I always think the same thing.

But then again, you can even fake that shit too.

yeah, you can but you have to be a hell of an actress.

Vendetta1 said:

johnart said:

Do most guys actually care or is their concern to bring a woman to orgasm really still about them?

You know, like look what I can do! hehe

Like, I care about getting the guy I'm with off first and foremost, but that's also really about me...cause it's what I get off on.

I think I am going to add you to my "fuck straight" list.

HOT DIGGITY DAMN!

Vendetta1 said:

JustErin said:

You know. I always think the same thing.

But then again, you can even fake that shit too.

yeah, you can but you have to be a hell of an actress.

Oh, I dunno about that...you just have to know exactly what happens.

Vendetta1 said:

Tittypants said:

If that's the case then, I'm doing a pretty good job.

I fake that shit, too.

I find it a bit disturbing that some men don't know what a female orgasm FEELS like.

Is this the case when the woman's pussy starts to lose control and pound and squeeze really tight on your dick, while you can feel her juices running out, shje is moaning loud (or quietly hicking) and see her asshole gape a bit? (provided this happens in doggystyle position)

(This is what a woman once told me. Not that I would really know about stuff like this or anything )

[Edited 8/9/11 15:36pm]

Tremolina said:

Vendetta1 said:

I fake that shit, too.

I find it a bit disturbing that some men don't know what a female orgasm FEELS like.

Is this the case when the woman's pussy starts to lose control and pound and squeeze really tight on your dick, while you can feel her juices running out, shje is moaning loud (or quietly hicking) and see her asshole gape a bit? (provided this happens in doggystyle position)

(This is what a woman once told me. Not that I would really know about stuff like this or anything )

[Edited 8/9/11 15:36pm]

I guess. My orgasms are not like that. But okay.

Vendetta1 said:

Tremolina said:

Is this the case when the woman's pussy starts to lose control and pound and squeeze really tight on your dick, while you can feel her juices running out, shje is moaning loud (or quietly hicking) and see her asshole gape a bit? (provided this happens in doggystyle position)

(This is what a woman once told me. Not that I would really know about stuff like this or anything )

[Edited 8/9/11 15:36pm]

I guess. My orgasms are not like that. But okay.

I guess I was lied to then

So anyway, how are your orgasms and how can they be detected?

Fucked up that yall women up in here actually gotta fake it. Maybe yall should get some real men that can deliver and make that pussy cum. Or is your pussy dry cause your not cumming?

Tremolina said:

Vendetta1 said:

I guess. My orgasms are not like that. But okay.

I guess I was lied to then

So anyway, how are your orgasms and how can they be detected?

A series of strong contractions, lasting from about fifteen seconds to two minutes. My second orgasm is stronger than the first with subsequent orgasms having less strong ripplings but still very pleasurable.

Vendetta1 said:

A series of strong contractions, lasting from about fifteen seconds to two minutes.

right.

you know what that looks and feels like from the doggy pov?

Tremolina said:

Vendetta1 said:

A series of strong contractions, lasting from about fifteen seconds to two minutes.

right.

you know what that looks and feels like from the doggy pov?

No, I can't come from doggy position.

I guess it would look and feel as you described, ay?

Vendetta1 said:

Tremolina said:

I guess I was lied to then

So anyway, how are your orgasms and how can they be detected?

A series of strong contractions, lasting from about fifteen seconds to two minutes. My second orgasm is stronger than the first with subsequent orgasms having less strong ripplings but still very pleasurable.

That's it. That's exactly what the female orgasm is. Her cervix is contracting to scoop up your semen (whether it's there or not) - that is an orgasm. All that other stuff is an individual response to the pleasure...it's not the orgasm. If you're not feeling that contraction but getting all the other bells and whistles, she's faking.

I do find it interesting that not one dude explained this as his proof that he is getting her off.

Vendetta1 said:

I can think of several reasons but the one that comes immediately to mind is that the guy sucks in bed and the woman wants him to hurry up and get off her.

Ooooh, Ivy.