F*** NO!

thats what im saying.....the real question is: would you fuck someone else........i probably should but all them bitches prolly got the same shyt i picked up from olde buddy so FUCK NO NASTY TRRRICK HOES...lol

..but uhhm,, we could, like, you know, go shoppin n shyt....lol

What for? I have "absolutely guaranteed insanely fantastic sex" with my sweetie.

physco185 said:

if he is an asshole... Yes

if he is a good man... No

No, I wouldn't cheat on my husband. I was cheated on in the past and it hurts like hell. I wouldn't want to inflict that pain on someone else.

I would never want to cheat on someone that I loved

now, in a situation where I had the blessing of the person that i loved (only a hypothetiocal situation of course) I might have a different answer

but no, why would I want to betray the person I loved?

I have never cheated on someone and I never will. I was cheated on once and it almost killed me! I never thought someone could be so selfish. I could never make somoene else feel that way. I may be sarcastic and moody sometimes but I feel terrible when I hurt someone.

StillGotIt said:

I you could cheat on your current partner....there is no way in hell they will ever know.....absolutely guaranteed insanely fantastic sex.....would you do it?

So everyone around me must have insanely fantastic sex because 90% of them cheats

I never cheated in my life. I've had chances, never used them. My partner being a good guy or a bad guy doesn't change that. You can fantasize about certain things but for me, that's as far as I want to go. I think it's sneaky to cheat behind someone else's back. It all has to do with trust and respect. I wouldn't want to be cheated on either, I would feel so sick.

I'm very simple, if I want to cheat I discuss first with my partner that things are crap and that I feel for someone else, he would always be informed or I would leave him and then do whatever it is I would want to do, I would certainly not hurt him so much and in such a disrespectful way.

Besides, I'm built that way that I would feel guilty forever, I can't put something like that aside, he would smell it like a thousand miles away.

StillGotIt said:

physco185 said:

if he is an asshole... Yes

if he is a good man... No

now...what if its a good man (pays the bills and shit) who is an asshole?

Then you're with him for the wrong reasons.

heybaby said:

Yep.

I think some people are ignoring part of the question. Granted it's hypothetiocal, but still, if I could have fantastically incredible sex with someone and know for absolutely certain that no one would ever find out, I think the answer would be yes. Otherwise I'd just have to find a way to get them together first (the two women, that is).

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I damn sure wouldn't stay with someone who wasn't giving me guaranteed insane fantastic sex.

Cerebus said:

heybaby said:

Yep.

I think some people are ignoring part of the question. Granted it's hypothetiocal, but still, if I could have fantastically incredible sex with someone and know for absolutely certain that no one would ever find out, I think the answer would be yes. Otherwise I'd just have to find a way to get them together first (the two women, that is).

I would add, providing the sex you are already getting isn't so fantastically incredible that you'd even entertain the though

No I would not.

shootindabreeze said:

With my current partner???.....hell yes!

I have never cheated in my life.....but I have looked back and wished I had.

Don't have a partner but I would never cheat. If I wanted to fuck around, I would just stay single

ZombieKitten said:

Cerebus said:

I think some people are ignoring part of the question. Granted it's hypothetiocal, but still, if I could have fantastically incredible sex with someone and know for absolutely certain that no one would ever find out, I think the answer would be yes. Otherwise I'd just have to find a way to get them together first (the two women, that is).

I would add, providing the sex you are already getting isn't so fantastically incredible that you'd even entertain the though

I still think the answer for me would be yes. Fantastically incredible sex is still fantastically incredible sex and variety is the spice of life.

Cerebus said:

heybaby said:

Yep.

I think some people are ignoring part of the question. Granted it's hypothetiocal, but still, if I could have fantastically incredible sex with someone and know for absolutely certain that no one would ever find out, I think the answer would be yes. Otherwise I'd just have to find a way to get them together first (the two women, that is).

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Even knowing my partner could never possibly find out I wouldn't want to. First because I'm only interested in having sex with my partner and second, I can't imagine doing something that would hurt him so badly. Even if he never found out I'd know, and I don't think I'd ever be able to get over that.

The only way I can even fathom it is if my partner actively WANTED me too. In which case, it wouldn't be cheating. And I wouldn't want to do that anyway.

Nope. No cheating for me.

the thing about it tho.....yall talk a good game...:-/

CarrieMpls said:

Cerebus said:

I think some people are ignoring part of the question. Granted it's hypothetiocal, but still, if I could have fantastically incredible sex with someone and know for absolutely certain that no one would ever find out, I think the answer would be yes. Otherwise I'd just have to find a way to get them together first (the two women, that is).

[Edited 3/17/11 14:56pm]

Even knowing my partner could never possibly find out I wouldn't want to. First because I'm only interested in having sex with my partner and second, I can't imagine doing something that would hurt him so badly. Even if he never found out I'd know, and I don't think I'd ever be able to get over that.

The only way I can even fathom it is if my partner actively WANTED me too. In which case, it wouldn't be cheating. And I wouldn't want to do that anyway.

Nope. No cheating for me.

Well ya see, the thing is, I have zero faith in humanity as a whole. So while I don't mean it at all personally, and I'm sure everyone who has said it has the absolute best intentions, I just don't believe that most people would actually be able to hold out if they knew they could have free, fabulous, never get caught sex with someone they're attracted to. Or maybe I just know I wouldn't. I honestly do think cheating is all kinds of messed up, and I wouldn't want to hurt my significant other, either. But if I'm honest with myself, I think I would do it.

I'm just sick of this dude im talking to right now, talking to me like came straight off the street, we been knowing each other for a while and thought he was pretty intelligent, but little off shyt he says drives me nuts...then he gets quiet and then i dont know him any more...smh.

fukkin men! they dont know imma my house my rules type a gal..im my daddy's child.

^ aw damn.

StillGotIt said:

I you could cheat on your current partner....there is no way in hell they will ever know.....absolutely guaranteed insanely fantastic sex.....would you do it?

i never considered it cheating in the past i would just enjoy it like a midnight snack/i believe my body is not owned by another...but this last lover truely worships the ground i walk on. so for the first time i would have to go against my alley cat morals and say- no i would not ''cheat"-

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NO, I COULDN'T

because I'm single, I'm free lol

Ok where are all you guys in the real world??

I easily could -- I'd think that most people could -- but, no, I wouldn't.

This place is so lucky to have such an unusually high number of people who don't cheat. I smell.............................

I've always believed that most men would if they knew positively, no way in hell they'd get caught. They'd be on that snatch like white on rice!

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Considering that I'm very satisfied with the relationship I am in, I don't think I would. I don't know how it'd be if I wasn't, but I think that if I really wanted to do something with someone other than my significant other, I'd just end it with them and then go for it. I don't think it's cool to betray someone like that.