Has anybody heard about his presentation that got posted on the web? This girl did a powerpoint presentation on 13 of her past lovers and sent it to her friends. Eventually it got posted on the web. The story sounds hilarious. It was reported on the Today Show but most websites block out most of the presentation. Does anybody have the original link?

we were talking about his in the office today. Some people felt that 13 sexual partners for a women in 4 years of college was high. I didn't think so. I figured that average a little over 3 people are year. That's not many people. I give her credit talking about how many partners, most women won't talk in public and give numbers.

I don't think it's that high.

jaimestarr79 said:

Has anybody heard about his presentation that got posted on the web? This girl did a powerpoint presentation on 13 of her past lovers and sent it to her friends. Eventually it got posted on the web. The story sounds hilarious. It was reported on the Today Show but most websites block out most of the presentation. Does anybody have the original link?

Perv.

Can't you just download some porn like a normal person?

TotalANXiousNESS said:

jaimestarr79 said:

Has anybody heard about his presentation that got posted on the web? This girl did a powerpoint presentation on 13 of her past lovers and sent it to her friends. Eventually it got posted on the web. The story sounds hilarious. It was reported on the Today Show but most websites block out most of the presentation. Does anybody have the original link?

Perv.

Can't you just download some porn like a normal person?

People who have read it said it was more funny than graphic.

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wait... she posted actual names of the people?

Nothing funny about it imo... I have no problem with her talking to her friends about it... but whoever posted it on the web should be ashamed...

Some people like their privacy.

crazydoctor said:

wait... she posted actual names of the people?

Nothing funny about it imo... I have no problem with her talking to her friends about it... but whoever posted it on the web should be ashamed...

Some people like their privacy.

This girl was a student at Duke. She not only put them on blast by putting their names down. She did bar graphs on their performance,etc.

JustErin said:

I don't think it's that high.

So wouldn't you expect the average 30 year old woman to have around 30-40 partners by time she is 30?

jaimestarr79 said:

crazydoctor said:

wait... she posted actual names of the people?

Nothing funny about it imo... I have no problem with her talking to her friends about it... but whoever posted it on the web should be ashamed...

Some people like their privacy.

This girl was a student at Duke. She not only put them on blast by putting their names down. She did bar graphs on their performance,etc.

yeah, the reason why it's getting such press isn't the number of partners she had. 13 isn't high at all. it's the fact that she was very matter of fact that she was having sex for the fun of it (men do it, but when women do it for some reason it's a problem?) and the fact that she went so far as to rate the men on their performaces with a bar graph and their actual names and pictures.

she didn't do it intending for it to be made public. she sent it to 3 of her friends and someone put her on blast and now it's gone viral.

i don't see the problem with it, and more power to her and strong women like her.

ButterscotchPimp said:

yeah, the reason why it's getting such press isn't the number of partners she had. 13 isn't high at all. it's the fact that she was very matter of fact that she was having sex for the fun of it (men do it, but when women do it for some reason it's a problem?) and the fact that she went so far as to rate the men on their performaces with a bar graph and their actual names and pictures.

she didn't do it intending for it to be made public. she sent it to 3 of her friends and someone put her on blast and now it's gone viral.

i don't see the problem with it, and more power to her and strong women like her.

I think we are going to find out there is a lot more to this story...Remember that Lacross team at Duke that allegedly raped that girl and bragged about it. Most of these guys she slept with were supposed to be Duke Lacrosse Players. I think she meant for this to leak out to make a statement. She knew most girls couldn't keep a secret like this. all power to her.

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jaimestarr79 said:

JustErin said:

I don't think it's that high.

So wouldn't you expect the average 30 year old woman to have around 30-40 partners by time she is 30?

It might not be average, but I don't think 3 partners a year is high at all. And most people have more partners in their 20s then slow down when they get older, so it's not like she'll average 3 a year until she's 60 years old...or maybe she will. Who cares if she does?

JustErin said:

jaimestarr79 said:

So wouldn't you expect the average 30 year old woman to have around 30-40 partners by time she is 30?

It might not be average, but I don't think 3 partners a year is high at all. And most people have more partners in their 20s then slow down when they get older, so it's not like she'll average 3 a year until she's 60 years old...or maybe she will. Who cares if she does?

Your right who cares. It's something to talk about. I have more respect for women who are up front about it. Men have been doing stuff like this for years.

ButterscotchPimp said:

yeah, the reason why it's getting such press isn't the number of partners she had. 13 isn't high at all. it's the fact that she was very matter of fact that she was having sex for the fun of it (men do it, but when women do it for some reason it's a problem?) and the fact that she went so far as to rate the men on their performaces with a bar graph and their actual names and pictures.

she didn't do it intending for it to be made public. she sent it to 3 of her friends and someone put her on blast and now it's gone viral.

i don't see the problem with it, and more power to her and strong women like her.

The issue is that it was posted on the web. It's an invasion of privacy issue.

crazydoctor said:

ButterscotchPimp said:

yeah, the reason why it's getting such press isn't the number of partners she had. 13 isn't high at all. it's the fact that she was very matter of fact that she was having sex for the fun of it (men do it, but when women do it for some reason it's a problem?) and the fact that she went so far as to rate the men on their performaces with a bar graph and their actual names and pictures.

she didn't do it intending for it to be made public. she sent it to 3 of her friends and someone put her on blast and now it's gone viral.

i don't see the problem with it, and more power to her and strong women like her.

The issue is that it was posted on the web. It's an invasion of privacy issue.

Sure it is. If a guy did this, would it be getting as much press?

And the guys that got "10's" i'm sure aren't complaining. It's the "1's" who are whining about having their privacy violated.

Bottom line, it just goes to show a double standard in how men behave regarding sex and how women are "supposed to".

ButterscotchPimp said:

crazydoctor said:

The issue is that it was posted on the web. It's an invasion of privacy issue.

Sure it is. If a guy did this, would it be getting as much press?

Yes, I definitely think so. And people would not be nearly as sympathetic to him... It would be taken much more seriously... probably leading to criminal charges.

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crazydoctor said:

ButterscotchPimp said:

yeah, the reason why it's getting such press isn't the number of partners she had. 13 isn't high at all. it's the fact that she was very matter of fact that she was having sex for the fun of it (men do it, but when women do it for some reason it's a problem?) and the fact that she went so far as to rate the men on their performaces with a bar graph and their actual names and pictures.

she didn't do it intending for it to be made public. she sent it to 3 of her friends and someone put her on blast and now it's gone viral.

i don't see the problem with it, and more power to her and strong women like her.

The issue is that it was posted on the web. It's an invasion of privacy issue.

Which she didn’t do, and never intended to happen.

It’s horrible all around and a huge lesson in not putting out there what you wouldn’t want others to see. It’s a shame when someone can’t even trust his or her “friends”.

CarrieMpls said:

crazydoctor said:

The issue is that it was posted on the web. It's an invasion of privacy issue.

Which she didn’t do, and never intended to happen.

It’s horrible all around and a huge lesson in not putting out there what you wouldn’t want others to see. It’s a shame when someone can’t even trust his or her “friends”.

I don't know all the facts here. If she just shared it with her friends, I don't blame her at all. I would advise to be more careful in the future... whoever posted it online should be ashamed...

Posting it to 13 of her friends does seem reckless to me... 13 people and she trusted all of them not to share it?

crazydoctor said:

CarrieMpls said:

Which she didn’t do, and never intended to happen.

It’s horrible all around and a huge lesson in not putting out there what you wouldn’t want others to see. It’s a shame when someone can’t even trust his or her “friends”.

I don't know all the facts here. If she just shared it with her friends, I don't blame her at all. I would advise to be more careful in the future... whoever posted it online should be ashamed...

Posting it to 13 of her friends does seem reckless to me... 13 people and she trusted all of them not to share it?

According to what I read, she sent it to 3 friends. At least one of those friends forwarded it on and someone else forwarded it from there and so on until it showed up posted online.

13 is the number of men she "rated" in the report.

CarrieMpls said:

crazydoctor said:

I don't know all the facts here. If she just shared it with her friends, I don't blame her at all. I would advise to be more careful in the future... whoever posted it online should be ashamed...

Posting it to 13 of her friends does seem reckless to me... 13 people and she trusted all of them not to share it?

According to what I read, she sent it to 3 friends. At least one of those friends forwarded it on and someone else forwarded it from there and so on until it showed up posted online.

13 is the number of men she "rated" in the report.

Oh I see, you're right, my bad.

That's why you should never trust motherfuckers.

And for whoever posted it, shame shame shame on them.

I wouldn't even give a powerpoint presentation about pissing outside someone's yard let alone who I slept with. Fuck outta here.

CarrieMpls said:

crazydoctor said:

I don't know all the facts here. If she just shared it with her friends, I don't blame her at all. I would advise to be more careful in the future... whoever posted it online should be ashamed...

Posting it to 13 of her friends does seem reckless to me... 13 people and she trusted all of them not to share it?

According to what I read, she sent it to 3 friends. At least one of those friends forwarded it on and someone else forwarded it from there and so on until it showed up posted online.

13 is the number of men she "rated" in the report.

Even to 3 friends it's incredibly immature. Girl can fuck who ever she wants...but what she did was lame.

JustErin said:

CarrieMpls said:

According to what I read, she sent it to 3 friends. At least one of those friends forwarded it on and someone else forwarded it from there and so on until it showed up posted online.

13 is the number of men she "rated" in the report.

Even to 3 friends it's incredibly immature. Girl can fuck who ever she wants...but what she did was lame.

I think it was kinda creative/cool. Guys have done shit like this for years. Now, did she show poor judgment in trusting that the people she sent it to wouldn't pass it along? Maybe. I mean, if one of the 3 friends passed it along to another friend, would you honestly think that it would end up on CNN? I wouldn't. It just goes to show what a slow news cycle in the US will do.

This is why the media are vultures to these kind of news. Like I said, don't trust ANYBODY!

ButterscotchPimp said:

JustErin said:

Even to 3 friends it's incredibly immature. Girl can fuck who ever she wants...but what she did was lame.

I think it was kinda creative/cool. Guys have done shit like this for years. Now, did she show poor judgment in trusting that the people she sent it to wouldn't pass it along? Maybe. I mean, if one of the 3 friends passed it along to another friend, would you honestly think that it would end up on CNN? I wouldn't. It just goes to show what a slow news cycle in the US will do.

It's lame when dudes do it. It's just immature to me.

Yeah I wouldn't excuse it. I don't care if it was men or women, it ain't cool with either gender. I hate it when men brag about how much pussy or dick they get it's like "man keep it to yourself". It's just waiting for an invasion of privacy especially if someone takes it out to the streets.

JustErin said:

ButterscotchPimp said:

I think it was kinda creative/cool. Guys have done shit like this for years. Now, did she show poor judgment in trusting that the people she sent it to wouldn't pass it along? Maybe. I mean, if one of the 3 friends passed it along to another friend, would you honestly think that it would end up on CNN? I wouldn't. It just goes to show what a slow news cycle in the US will do.

It's lame when dudes do it. It's just immature to me.

Sure, it's lame either way. Not in the neighborhood of mature.

But isn't some small part of you like "hee hee, yeah. get em, girl." ?

JustErin said:

CarrieMpls said:

According to what I read, she sent it to 3 friends. At least one of those friends forwarded it on and someone else forwarded it from there and so on until it showed up posted online.

13 is the number of men she "rated" in the report.

Even to 3 friends it's incredibly immature. Girl can fuck who ever she wants...but what she did was lame.

Oh, agreed. 1000%. Agreed.

ButterscotchPimp said:

JustErin said:

It's lame when dudes do it. It's just immature to me.

Sure, it's lame either way. Not in the neighborhood of mature.

But isn't some small part of you like "hee hee, yeah. get em, girl." ?

But go get them at what? You mean, guys do it so chicks should too just to stick it to them?

Nah, that's not really my style.

I just think that taking the time to make what she made is weird. Hey, I'd rather be fucking than bragging and critiquing to such a degree about who I've fucked to my friends. It just seems so pointless.

ButterscotchPimp said:

crazydoctor said:

The issue is that it was posted on the web. It's an invasion of privacy issue.

Sure it is. If a guy did this, would it be getting as much press?

And the guys that got "10's" i'm sure aren't complaining. It's the "1's" who are whining about having their privacy violated.

Bottom line, it just goes to show a double standard in how men behave regarding sex and how women are "supposed to".

I agree with you that if a guy's PP presentation was posted online there wouldn't be as much interest. It might still be news, but people wouldn't be clamoring to see it and a thread would not be started about it here.