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"CHARACTER" When you think of someone who has good "CHARACTER" what qualities do they posess? | |
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Honesty. I'm firmly planted in denial | |
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Integrity, and a great rack. Studies have shown the ass crack of the average Prince fan to be abnormally large. This explains the ease and frequency of their panties bunching up in it. |
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Respects others.
Will tell you the truth, even if it's not what you want to hear. Do what they say they will do. These are the biggies to me. | |
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Someone who is truly sincere and seems to be genuinely happy when others do well and are happy, even when things aren't going so well for themselves.
I've only known a couple of people like that in my life and, to me, they are incredible people. | |
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"Character," to me, suggests someone who is consistently true to self... and self-determined enough that "self" has some marked distinction from every other bozo around them.
Good character is subjective, of course. But I personally dig things like candor/honesty, critical thinking, charity, ambition and a great sense of aesthetic. Ὅσον ζῇς φαίνου
μηδὲν ὅλως σὺ λυποῦ πρὸς ὀλίγον ἐστὶ τὸ ζῆν τὸ τέλος ὁ χρόνος ἀπαιτεῖ.” | |
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To me, looks and the way people act are a part of their character, if they do it out of honesty and not drama-shit.
This is what I told a friend of mine yesterday, describing and woman that would amaze me: "erst einmal: kleine frauen mit langen haaren = wenn sie dann noch wissen wie man sich anzieht, einen schönen, weiblichen, graziösen, sanften, aufrechten gang haben, gut riechen, intelligent und lustig, edel aber verletzlich, sensibel und einfühlsam, aufgeschlossen aber geheimnisvoll, ehrlich und gutmütig, humorvoll, erotisch und kreativ sind, zuhören können und interessiert sind, aber auch selbst inspirieren und faszinieren können, gut küssen und berühren können, schöne augen, weiche lippen und einen schönen körper haben, dann ist das das absolut atemberaubendste, das ich mir vorstellen kann und würde mich so sehr bereichern, dass ich nichts anderes mehr wollen würde. aja, gut ficken wär natürlich auch nicht schlecht." Good qualities Translated: "First of all: Small women with long hair = If they also know how to dress up, if the way they walk is beautifully feminine, graceful, soft and upright, if they smell well, if they are intelligent and funny, noble, but vulnerable, sensitive and perceptive, open-minded, but mysterious, honest and sweet-tempered, humorous, erotic and creative, interested, but also able to inspire and fascinate others, if they can listen, kiss and touch, if they have beautiful eyes, soft lips and a beautiful body - then this would absolutely be the most breath-taking thing I could have ever imagined and would enrich so much I would not nead anything else anymore. Oh, by the way, a good fuck should be included, of course." | |
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What I absolutely despise, for instance, is people who are acting all the time. Drama-queens, looking for the perfect moment to say the perfect thing, no matter whether it is meant to be sincere or not. They just want to fit into Hollywood shit and I'm certainly not the one to join. I'm all for occasional romance and a nice, deep look into someone's eyes, but no dishonest, drama-acting shit. | |
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Dave1992 said: To me, looks and the way people act are a part of their character, if they do it out of honesty and not drama-shit.
This is what I told a friend of mine yesterday, describing and woman that would amaze me: "erst einmal: kleine frauen mit langen haaren = wenn sie dann noch wissen wie man sich anzieht, einen schönen, weiblichen, graziösen, sanften, aufrechten gang haben, gut riechen, intelligent und lustig, edel aber verletzlich, sensibel und einfühlsam, aufgeschlossen aber geheimnisvoll, ehrlich und gutmütig, humorvoll, erotisch und kreativ sind, zuhören können und interessiert sind, aber auch selbst inspirieren und faszinieren können, gut küssen und berühren können, schöne augen, weiche lippen und einen schönen körper haben, dann ist das das absolut atemberaubendste, das ich mir vorstellen kann und würde mich so sehr bereichern, dass ich nichts anderes mehr wollen würde. aja, gut ficken wär natürlich auch nicht schlecht." Good qualities Translated: "First of all: Small women with long hair = If they also know how to dress up, if the way they walk is beautifully feminine, graceful, soft and upright, if they smell well, if they are intelligent and funny, noble, but vulnerable, sensitive and perceptive, open-minded, but mysterious, honest and sweet-tempered, humorous, erotic and creative, interested, but also able to inspire and fascinate others, if they can listen, kiss and touch, if they have beautiful eyes, soft lips and a beautiful body - then this would absolutely be the most breath-taking thing I could have ever imagined and would enrich so much I would not nead anything else anymore. Oh, by the way, a good fuck should be included, of course." Der hat ja total mich beschrieben With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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Reliability
Wisdom Kind natured Non judgemental Ability and willingness to give constructive criticism if necessary. Selfless without being a walkover A person who walks the walk not just talks the talk. One minute they want peace……
Then do everything to make it go away. | |
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JOYJOY said: Ability and willingness to give constructive criticism if necessary Good one. Reminds me of a preference I forgot above: Ability and willingness to take and use constructive criticism if necessary. Ὅσον ζῇς φαίνου
μηδὲν ὅλως σὺ λυποῦ πρὸς ὀλίγον ἐστὶ τὸ ζῆν τὸ τέλος ὁ χρόνος ἀπαιτεῖ.” | |
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Serious said: Dave1992 said: To me, looks and the way people act are a part of their character, if they do it out of honesty and not drama-shit.
This is what I told a friend of mine yesterday, describing and woman that would amaze me: "erst einmal: kleine frauen mit langen haaren = wenn sie dann noch wissen wie man sich anzieht, einen schönen, weiblichen, graziösen, sanften, aufrechten gang haben, gut riechen, intelligent und lustig, edel aber verletzlich, sensibel und einfühlsam, aufgeschlossen aber geheimnisvoll, ehrlich und gutmütig, humorvoll, erotisch und kreativ sind, zuhören können und interessiert sind, aber auch selbst inspirieren und faszinieren können, gut küssen und berühren können, schöne augen, weiche lippen und einen schönen körper haben, dann ist das das absolut atemberaubendste, das ich mir vorstellen kann und würde mich so sehr bereichern, dass ich nichts anderes mehr wollen würde. aja, gut ficken wär natürlich auch nicht schlecht." Good qualities Translated: "First of all: Small women with long hair = If they also know how to dress up, if the way they walk is beautifully feminine, graceful, soft and upright, if they smell well, if they are intelligent and funny, noble, but vulnerable, sensitive and perceptive, open-minded, but mysterious, honest and sweet-tempered, humorous, erotic and creative, interested, but also able to inspire and fascinate others, if they can listen, kiss and touch, if they have beautiful eyes, soft lips and a beautiful body - then this would absolutely be the most breath-taking thing I could have ever imagined and would enrich so much I would not nead anything else anymore. Oh, by the way, a good fuck should be included, of course." Der hat ja total mich beschrieben Liebstes, das war meine eigene Beschreibung! Aber, Moment mal... | |
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Dave1992 said: Serious said: Der hat ja total mich beschrieben Liebstes, das war meine eigene Beschreibung! Aber, Moment mal... Shit ich habe bloß gelesen "a friend of mine" und dachte ein Freund von dir hat dir diese Beschreibung gegeben . Naja, das Alter kann es ja wenigstens nicht sein weil deine Sache mit dem Handyanruf bei deinem Vater war noch weit dämlicher . With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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Serious said: Dave1992 said: Liebstes, das war meine eigene Beschreibung! Aber, Moment mal... Shit ich habe bloß gelesen "a friend of mine" und dachte ein Freund von dir hat dir diese Beschreibung gegeben . Naja, das Alter kann es ja wenigstens nicht sein weil deine Sache mit dem Handyanruf bei deinem Vater war noch weit dämlicher . ICH STAND UNTER STRESS, OKAY?! | |
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Dave1992 said: Serious said: Shit ich habe bloß gelesen "a friend of mine" und dachte ein Freund von dir hat dir diese Beschreibung gegeben . Naja, das Alter kann es ja wenigstens nicht sein weil deine Sache mit dem Handyanruf bei deinem Vater war noch weit dämlicher . ICH STAND UNTER STRESS, OKAY?! ICH AUCH, OKAY! With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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JustErin said: Someone who is truly sincere and seems to be genuinely happy when others do well and are happy, even when things aren't going so well for themselves.
I've only known a couple of people like that in my life and, to me, they are incredible people. What she said. | |
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character, as I see it, isn't something that's advertised or worn on a persons sleeve...I think you generally see a persons true character when it's least convenient for them...I think we all know "good" people but that general disposition doesn't always speak of their character...I don't think it can be summed up by a list of adjectives describing their actions...it's more evident by what someone does...not how, why or how often they do it... | |
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Mach said: When you think of someone who has good "CHARACTER" what qualities do they posess?
1. Honesty - That's not to say they reveal everything about themselves, but that when they say they will do something, they will do it. 2. Respect - severely lacking right now in many people. 3. Someone who makes tough choices. Sometimes to my chagrin, but always with the intention of doing something for the betterment of all. 4. There's a Buddhist quote I wish I could remember, but essentially it boils down to doing right rather than saying right--People will judge you by your actions, not your words. You may have a heart of 'gold' but so does an egg. 5. Lastly, someone who knows who they are, and understands their weaknesses and strengths. Someone who is 'in touch' and uses this not just to his or her advantage, but to the advantage of those around him/her. They leave an impression. . 4 to 5 edit, as pointed out by thejason who succumbed to my doting charms; hence, the subdued and friendly tone of his delivery. [Edited 5/4/10 10:54am] | |
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thejason said: character, as I see it, isn't something that's advertised or worn on a persons sleeve...I think you generally see a persons true character when it's least convenient for them...I think we all know "good" people but that general disposition doesn't always speak of their character...I don't think it can be summed up by a list of adjectives describing their actions...it's more evident by what someone does...not how, why or how often they do it...
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TheVoid said: My love and respect for you as a man just keeps growing. thanks, Dan... and I was just about to make a smart ass remark about the two # 4's in your previous post... [Edited 5/4/10 10:52am] | |
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thejason said: TheVoid said: My love and respect for you as a man just keeps growing. thanks, Dan... and I was just about to make a smart ass remark about the two # 4's in your previous post... [Edited 5/4/10 10:52am] You had me at hello. You had me at hello. | |
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TheVoid said: thejason said: thanks, Dan... and I was just about to make a smart ass remark about the two # 4's in your previous post... [Edited 5/4/10 10:52am] You had me at hello. You had me at hello. Power tends to corrupt; absolute power corrupts absolutely. - Lord Acton | |
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cborgman said: TheVoid said: You had me at hello. You had me at hello. OMG, did you see the John Bon Jovi redub that Anxiety posted on facebook? | |
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Mach said: When you think of someone who has good "CHARACTER" what qualities do they posess?
I think of someone who does what needs to be done no matter how hard it is. Someone who rarely complains, and is always thinking of what they can do - for themselves, for those around them, or another's need that they've just noticed. "Character," to me, goes along with "grit" - that inner toughness that makes you get up and go to work, or help someone move, or keep a secret, or keep trying to get through to a difficult child, whatever it is, no matter how sick, tired, or unappreciated you feel. | |
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Thanx everyone
based on what has been said thus far ... I believe that the person that told me this weekend that I "should really work on my character" REALLY may have wrong about me | |
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Mach said: Thanx everyone
based on what has been said thus far ... I believe that the person that told me this weekend that I "should really work on my character" REALLY may have wrong about me Indeed! "Nobody makes me bleed my own blood...NOBODY!"
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ThreadCula said: Mach said: Thanx everyone
based on what has been said thus far ... I believe that the person that told me this weekend that I "should really work on my character" REALLY may have wrong about me Indeed! This was someone I have known for years it was not a joke and SOME drunk people can be so very rude | |
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Mach said: ThreadCula said: Indeed! This was someone I have known for years it was not a joke and SOME drunk people can be so very rude Now thats shocking! That statement is not true at all.You would be the last person I would think of that has to work on their character. "Nobody makes me bleed my own blood...NOBODY!"
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ThreadCula said: Mach said: This was someone I have known for years it was not a joke and SOME drunk people can be so very rude Now thats shocking! That statement is not true at all.You would be the last person I would think of that has to work on their character. I have thought about this statement and person for 4 days now ... and all I can come up with is perhaps an envy issues that they need to address maybe It really hurt my feelings ... thought edit [Edited 5/4/10 12:51pm] | |
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