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Thread started 02/18/10 3:46pm

matthewgrant

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Do you go to bars/club alone?

hmmm I kinda wanna checkout some of the gay bars here this weekend but I don't have anyone to go with and I'm far too shy to ask my sister's/roommate's gay friend if he wants to come with me. yet i could probably have a few drinks at home and work up the courage to make my way downtown alone and dance it up with randoms on a dance floor.

So... have you/ do you gone out alone? what were your experiences? good and bad.
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Reply #1 posted 02/18/10 3:49pm

lazycrockett

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Go by yourself. I always have enjoyed going to places without others, cause it leaves me the freedom to do as I want and not feel the need to worry bout anyone else, specially if youre new to the area. Hell its easy to talk up strangers in gay bars. biggrin
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Reply #2 posted 02/18/10 3:54pm

paintedlady

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As a woman.... never.

Leaving a bar or club at in the wee hours of the morning by yourself after mingling with strangers that may have too much liquor in their system is not the safest thing to do... unless you leave before everyone else and you hop in a cab right outside the club. wink
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Reply #3 posted 02/18/10 3:54pm

Mach

I worked in a Bar from the age of 18 - 21

I never really had much interest in going to the bar or clubs after that

I have gone several times in the past 24 yrs though, usually to hear a local
( different friends ) bands nod sometimes I go alone and sometimes with a group I have a great time either way because I love the music


Not much help I know because I'm way past the dating/hooking up part of my expereince

Have fun and be safe hug
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Reply #4 posted 02/18/10 3:56pm

JustErin

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NEVER!

I don't even like to arrive alone to meet someone there immediately.
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Reply #5 posted 02/18/10 4:01pm

matthewgrant

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lazycrockett said:

Go by yourself. I always have enjoyed going to places without others, cause it leaves me the freedom to do as I want and not feel the need to worry bout anyone else, specially if youre new to the area. Hell its easy to talk up strangers in gay bars. biggrin

thanks biggrin
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Reply #6 posted 02/18/10 4:04pm

matthewgrant

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paintedlady said:

As a woman.... never.

Leaving a bar or club at in the wee hours of the morning by yourself after mingling with strangers that may have too much liquor in their system is not the safest thing to do... unless you leave before everyone else and you hop in a cab right outside the club. wink

goood point

I'm a small guy but i don't think I'd get raped in an allie. i would be leaving in a cab right outside tho. nod
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Reply #7 posted 02/18/10 4:05pm

matthewgrant

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Mach said:

I worked in a Bar from the age of 18 - 21

I never really had much interest in going to the bar or clubs after that

I have gone several times in the past 24 yrs though, usually to hear a local
( different friends ) bands nod sometimes I go alone and sometimes with a group I have a great time either way because I love the music


Not much help I know because I'm way past the dating/hooking up part of my expereince

Have fun and be safe hug

thanks hug

and you're lucky. I wish I already had a mate and didn't have to bother with all this stuff.
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Reply #8 posted 02/18/10 4:07pm

papaaisaway

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Rarely.

But when I do I always have a prepared answer for the moment a woman asks why I'm there alone.
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Reply #9 posted 02/18/10 4:07pm

Cuddles

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lazycrockett said:

Go by yourself. I always have enjoyed going to places without others, cause it leaves me the freedom to do as I want and not feel the need to worry bout anyone else, specially if youre new to the area. Hell its easy to talk up strangers in gay bars. biggrin




thumbs up! its so much better by yourself nod
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Reply #10 posted 02/18/10 4:10pm

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I rarely go out to bars or clubs even with people these days. lol

But once upon a time I'd go out by myself on occasion. Of course, this was during the days that I could go out to a group of places or club nights and be reasonably sure I'd run into someone I knew, even if it were only an aquaintance or someone I would hang out with "out" but wouldn't mecessarily make plans with.
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Reply #11 posted 02/18/10 4:12pm

matthewgrant

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JustErin said:

NEVER!

I don't even like to arrive alone to meet someone there immediately.

that just about made me spit out my drink. lol

I'm the same way tho I just gotta put myself out there or i'm going to go crazy staying in every weekend with the rare invites from my sister and her friends.
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Reply #12 posted 02/18/10 4:17pm

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I've never gone to a bar/club alone, but I would. I think you have more freedom that way; you don't have to worry about what the other person/people want to do. batting eyes
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Reply #13 posted 02/18/10 5:20pm

ZombieKitten

all my friends deserted once and left me by myself mad both groups of friends assumed the other was still there and that I wasn't left alone.

It was boring, I finished my drink and caught a cab neutral
the nice boy that talked to me the previous week wasn't there and nobody else looked even vaguely familiar.
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Reply #14 posted 02/18/10 5:23pm

SCNDLS

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All the time and I ALWAYS have a great time. shrug
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Reply #15 posted 02/18/10 5:42pm

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When you go out alone, you don't have to worry about someone ready to leave before you are or someone not ready to leave when you're ready to go. However, it is fun to go out with a friend if you have the right kind of friend because you double your chances of getting some dick that night. I have several friends who aren't stingy and if either one of us works some dick, we don't mind sharing it. lol
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Reply #16 posted 02/18/10 5:55pm

violett

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i dont like to do it....but i do it all the time....if its someone who i need to see dj wise...i will go alone no problem any day.

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Reply #17 posted 02/18/10 5:56pm

IstenSzek

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CarrieMpls said:

I rarely go out to bars or clubs even with people these days. lol


lol

same here tho.

i do go about once every 5 or 6 weeks and i used to only go with friends
but lately my best friend has been home bound through severe anxiety so,
i've been out on my own a few times and eventho i dreaded doing it when
i left the house, it turned into nice nights all 3 times.

i actually spoke to and got to know people when i went out alone, when
in the past if i was with my friend, i never hooked up with anyone.

my main problem tho is that there aren't any nice bars in my area so i
always have to go there in my car, thus i'm not able to drink before or
during, which is a major party poop.
and true love lives on lollipops and crisps
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Reply #18 posted 02/18/10 5:57pm

ZombieKitten

IstenSzek said:

CarrieMpls said:

I rarely go out to bars or clubs even with people these days. lol


lol

same here tho.

i do go about once every 5 or 6 weeks and i used to only go with friends
but lately my best friend has been home bound through severe anxiety so,
i've been out on my own a few times and eventho i dreaded doing it when
i left the house, it turned into nice nights all 3 times.

i actually spoke to and got to know people when i went out alone, when
in the past if i was with my friend, i never hooked up with anyone.

my main problem tho is that there aren't any nice bars in my area so i
always have to go there in my car, thus i'm not able to drink before or
during, which is a major party poop.


we are going to have to solve that problem somehow hmmm
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Reply #19 posted 02/18/10 5:59pm

matthewgrant

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vainandy said:

When you go out alone, you don't have to worry about someone ready to leave before you are or someone not ready to leave when you're ready to go. However, it is fun to go out with a friend if you have the right kind of friend because you double your chances of getting some dick that night. I have several friends who aren't stingy and if either one of us works some dick, we don't mind sharing it. lol

amazing lol
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Reply #20 posted 02/18/10 5:59pm

IstenSzek

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ZombieKitten said:

IstenSzek said:



lol

same here tho.

i do go about once every 5 or 6 weeks and i used to only go with friends
but lately my best friend has been home bound through severe anxiety so,
i've been out on my own a few times and eventho i dreaded doing it when
i left the house, it turned into nice nights all 3 times.

i actually spoke to and got to know people when i went out alone, when
in the past if i was with my friend, i never hooked up with anyone.

my main problem tho is that there aren't any nice bars in my area so i
always have to go there in my car, thus i'm not able to drink before or
during, which is a major party poop.


we are going to have to solve that problem somehow hmmm


i know. but don't worry, i'll think of something. there's always cabs
or cheap hotels, lol.
and true love lives on lollipops and crisps
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Reply #21 posted 02/18/10 6:03pm

ZombieKitten

IstenSzek said:

ZombieKitten said:



we are going to have to solve that problem somehow hmmm


i know. but don't worry, i'll think of something. there's always cabs
or cheap hotels, lol.

how far away is Herman's place from a good bar? hmmm
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Reply #22 posted 02/18/10 7:22pm

thekidsgirl

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I'll go to a club alone if I'm going to see a live show or something. It's no big deal because the purpose is more to enjoy the band than to socialize anyway...but of course it's funner to go with someone else.


There is this kind of industrial club around here that I really want to go to, but I know most of my friends wouldn't want to go, so I'm trying to work up the courage to go solo
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Reply #23 posted 02/18/10 7:25pm

Fauxie

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Nope.

I don't go to clubs anymore at all.

Bars I go to with the missus.
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Reply #24 posted 02/18/10 9:51pm

ZombieKitten

Fauxie said:

Nope.

I don't go to clubs anymore at all.

Bars I go to with the missus.


I'd go to bars with your missus too nod
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Reply #25 posted 02/18/10 9:56pm

Dave1992

Sometimes I do, when I really want to be left alone by people who know me and get to know someone completely new and then have anal sex.
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Reply #26 posted 02/18/10 10:01pm

Fauxie

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ZombieKitten said:

Fauxie said:

Nope.

I don't go to clubs anymore at all.

Bars I go to with the missus.


I'd go to bars with your missus too nod


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Reply #27 posted 02/18/10 10:04pm

FauxReal

No. I'd feel weird just sitting at a bar or club alone.
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Reply #28 posted 02/18/10 10:06pm

Dave1992

FauxReal said:

No. I'd feel weird just sitting at a bar or club alone.


You missed the whole point!


When you enter without a lady, you'll have thousand of others around your neck immediately. lol
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Reply #29 posted 02/18/10 10:09pm

FauxReal

I've entered without a lady in the past (just friends) and that hasn't happened...

Going to a bar alone seems almost like an alcoholic sort of thing to do.
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