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Printablejone70 said: SCNDLS said: But what if he can't fuck? Let's be real, it's a lot more non-fucking mofos walking this Earth than dudes who know how to make you see stars. Waiting for 50 years is no guarantee that HE knows what he's doing or how to teach her about sex. I'm all for being true to your beliefs but sometimes you gotta kiss some toads to find a shoe that fits. Just sayin . . . the odds of mindblowing sex the first time out the gate are definitely not good. 
Could you imagine being yoked up for LIFE with the first dude you had sex with???  How will she know though? She has nothing to compare to. (I'm guessing she's not the type to watch pornos.)  My first couldn't fuck worth a damn, but I KNEW it, the first time. And over time if things weren't clicking with my partner I'd certainly be asking, "Is that IT???" 
Not to mention on the flip side that a 50 year old virgin may not be adventurous enough to satisfy a man with a sexual past. I'd say it's prolly easier if they're both virgins.  [Edited 12/9/09 11:00am] | |
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SCNDLS said: jone70 said: How will she know though? She has nothing to compare to. (I'm guessing she's not the type to watch pornos.) My first couldn't fuck worth a damn, but I KNEW it, the first time. And over time if things weren't clicking with my partner I'd certainly be asking, "Is that IT???"
Not to mention on the flip side that a 50 year old virgin may not be adventurous enough to satisfy a man with a sexual past. I'd say it's prolly easier if they're both virgins.
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SCNDLS said: Ottensen said: That sounds very nice. I'm very happy for your friend! While I don't know any virgins of advanced age, I will say that your friend Gale will have a lot to look forward to sexually having waited this long. Something changes physiologically in a woman's body as she ages and the sexual experience becomes very intensified...it's like nerve endings go haywire (in a good way). I had always heard about this, read about it, but never gave much though to it...until after I hit 35...and holy hot damn if sex didn't suddenly become like a space shuttle blast off . I tell you, if I knew in my 20's what I know now  ...I think I might not have ever married and could have been happy keeping myself locked under a chastity belt until 30, I swear to God. I've always been a very sexual being, but post 35 sex will knock the wind out of your chest on the first stroke and have you seeing stars. Your friend is going to enjoy conjugal connection with her new husband, indeed 
[Edited 12/8/09 23:43pm] But what if he can't fuck? Let's be real, it's a lot more non-fucking mofos walking this Earth than dudes who know how to make you see stars. Waiting for 50 years is no guarantee that HE knows what he's doing or how to teach her about sex. I'm all for being true to your beliefs but sometimes you gotta kiss some toads to find a shoe that fits. Just sayin . . . the odds of mindblowing sex the first time out the gate are definitely not good.
Could you imagine being yoked up for LIFE with the first dude you had sex with??? Dear God, NO   I never met you, but I LOVE you & I will forever!! Thank you for being YOU - my little Princey, the best to EVER do it | |
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I went to a wedding of two friends. Both of them revealed to the congregation that they were virgins. Their ages, he 28, she 25. This seemed very special to me that they found each other and fell in love.
As for me, I was a virgin until I was no longer a virgin. nuff said. 
In regard to the lady who chose to wait until she was 50. I admire her individuality in choice and her conviction to live up to what she believes in. Hopefully her first night will be wonderful, special and filled with compassionate love.  Live life as though each moment is as precious & beautiful as a rainbow after a spring rain. b positive, creative, kind, productive, resourceful & respectful of humankind, & feel free 2 know that U-R-A  . i can feel it when u shine on me  | |
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jone70 said: SCNDLS said: But what if he can't fuck? Let's be real, it's a lot more non-fucking mofos walking this Earth than dudes who know how to make you see stars. Waiting for 50 years is no guarantee that HE knows what he's doing or how to teach her about sex. I'm all for being true to your beliefs but sometimes you gotta kiss some toads to find a shoe that fits. Just sayin . . . the odds of mindblowing sex the first time out the gate are definitely not good.
Could you imagine being yoked up for LIFE with the first dude you had sex with??? How will she know though? She has nothing to compare to. (I'm guessing she's not the type to watch pornos.) Sex is just not important to some people, so they don't care if it's so called good or not. | |
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JustErin said: jone70 said: How will she know though? She has nothing to compare to. (I'm guessing she's not the type to watch pornos.) Sex is just not important to some people, so they don't care if it's so called good or not. Yea, & having waited 50 years proves sex isn't gonna be the priority or a deal-breaker. Hopefully they'll have decent sexual chemistry. I never met you, but I LOVE you & I will forever!! Thank you for being YOU - my little Princey, the best to EVER do it | |
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JustErin said: As far as I know, I don't know any adults that are virgins.
I waited until I was 19 to have sex. And sex is just physical to me...I'm sure people are tired of reading me say that on here.  | |
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SCNDLS said: Ottensen said: That sounds very nice. I'm very happy for your friend! While I don't know any virgins of advanced age, I will say that your friend Gale will have a lot to look forward to sexually having waited this long. Something changes physiologically in a woman's body as she ages and the sexual experience becomes very intensified...it's like nerve endings go haywire (in a good way). I had always heard about this, read about it, but never gave much though to it...until after I hit 35...and holy hot damn if sex didn't suddenly become like a space shuttle blast off . I tell you, if I knew in my 20's what I know now ...I think I might not have ever married and could have been happy keeping myself locked under a chastity belt until 30, I swear to God. I've always been a very sexual being, but post 35 sex will knock the wind out of your chest on the first stroke and have you seeing stars. Your friend is going to enjoy conjugal connection with her new husband, indeed
[Edited 12/8/09 23:43pm] But what if he can't fuck? Let's be real, it's a lot more non-fucking mofos walking this Earth than dudes who know how to make you see stars. Waiting for 50 years is no guarantee that HE knows what he's doing or how to teach her about sex. I'm all for being true to your beliefs but sometimes you gotta kiss some toads to find a shoe that fits. Just sayin . . . the odds of mindblowing sex the first time out the gate are definitely not good.
Could you imagine being yoked up for LIFE with the first dude you had sex with??? crazy gurl.... !!!! ..stop tellin all the secrets!!!THE B EST BE YOURSELF AS LONG AS YOUR SELF ISNT A DYCK[/r]
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myfavorite said: SCNDLS said: But what if he can't fuck? Let's be real, it's a lot more non-fucking mofos walking this Earth than dudes who know how to make you see stars. Waiting for 50 years is no guarantee that HE knows what he's doing or how to teach her about sex. I'm all for being true to your beliefs but sometimes you gotta kiss some toads to find a shoe that fits. Just sayin . . . the odds of mindblowing sex the first time out the gate are definitely not good.
Could you imagine being yoked up for LIFE with the first dude you had sex with??? crazy gurl.... !!!! ..stop tellin all the secrets!!!  | |
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y'all are trippin....he prolly got that Viagra and gonna rip her in two. but in any case...they have the rest of their old age to practice good sex with the one they love. I think it's cute.  but i might change my mind tomorrow. | |
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DesireeNevermind said: y'all are trippin....he prolly got that Viagra and gonna rip her in two. but in any case...they have the rest of their old age to practice good sex with the one they love. I think it's cute.
but i might change my mind tomorrow.Agreed. I think it's pretty cute too, and wish them the best of luck  | |
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I'd prolly die of a heart attack !!!!! THE B EST BE YOURSELF AS LONG AS YOUR SELF ISNT A DYCK[/r]
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The oldest virgin I knew was 22?
Albeit, I've known some 'born again' virgins who give up sex and start over, but that's more about lifestyle choice than a true line of demarcation isn't it?
Yeah, 22 was the oldest if I can recall.
I think 50 is just way to long to wait for sex. Not because sex is so damned wonderful, but I think people should experience it when they're relatively young--it's quite good if a bit awkward then. And you appreciate it as you age. I can't imagine stumbling through it at 50 for the first time. | |
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Imago said: The oldest virgin I knew was 22?
Albeit, I've known some 'born again' virgins who give up sex and start over, but that's more about lifestyle choice than a true line of demarcation isn't it?
Yeah, 22 was the oldest if I can recall.
I think 50 is just way to long to wait for sex. Not because sex is so damned wonderful, but I think people should experience it when they're relatively young--it's quite good if a bit awkward then. And you appreciate it as you age. I can't imagine stumbling through it at 50 for the first time. I don't think she'll be stumbling. But we stumble through it at 20, so why not 50? It's all perspective. 50 wasn't too long for her. This is the right time for her to be married, and to have a physical relationship (in that order). I was a virgin for the most part until I was 22. I had one oral experience w/ a girl when I was 19. Went down on her, and that was it (I think I mentioned all this). But I thought I'd never have sex again. I just never had the confidence. The guy I had when I was 22 was SO intense of a build up (over WEEKS it seemed), and it was explosive once we started. The relationship lasted about 6 months. God it was good. There's just one little hitch..... but that's in my book (although I think I've mentioned it on here, as to who that guy was.) | |
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ernestsewell said: Darwintheorgangrinder said: I found it odd that she waited so long to get married. The (very few) people I know who waited until marriage usually got married very young, and had short engagement periods (although I can't say much, I was only engaged for 3 months before getting married).
I explained that she wasn't going to have any sort of sexual contact until she was married. In about 10 days, she'll have finally achieved that. It's a rare, but not foreign, thing that some people still wait until marriage, even if it's at age 50. I respect that from her if anything, if she loves "The Lord" as you say then I wouldn't expect anything else from her. Good thread Peace ... & Stay Funky ...
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I wonder if people would be so understanding if it were a dude waiting til age 50 to have sex for the first time. | |
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I work with a guy who just turned 53 and is a virgin. He's had girlfriends but I'm not sure what he's done. I can't imagine much of anything. He still lives at home, his mom brings him to work, picks him up from work and they have Saturday lunch dates every week. It's all very bizarre to me. If he were my son I'd kick him out and get him a whore. | |
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CarrieLee said: I work with a guy who just turned 53 and is a virgin. He's had girlfriends but I'm not sure what he's done. I can't imagine much of anything. He still lives at home, his mom brings him to work, picks him up from work and they have Saturday lunch dates every week. It's all very bizarre to me. If he were my son I'd kick him out and get him a whore.
You'd be an awesome mom! | |
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unique said: thebumpsquad said:  you know they say we have the worst women in scotland, the worst sportsmen in scotland, and the worst drinkers in scotland, and who can blame them Uh hum... Unique, can't let you get away with that! I know many very beautiful Scottish women.... don't put your own country down!!!  [Edited 12/10/09 13:49pm] | |
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CarrieLee said: I work with a guy who just turned 53 and is a virgin. He's had girlfriends but I'm not sure what he's done. I can't imagine much of anything. He still lives at home, his mom brings him to work, picks him up from work and they have Saturday lunch dates every week. It's all very bizarre to me. If he were my son I'd kick him out and get him a whore.
that's the problem right there...his mom is coochie blocking! | |
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CarrieLee said: I work with a guy who just turned 53 and is a virgin. He's had girlfriends but I'm not sure what he's done. I can't imagine much of anything. He still lives at home, his mom brings him to work, picks him up from work and they have Saturday lunch dates every week. It's all very bizarre to me. If he were my son I'd kick him out and get him a whore.
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CarrieLee said: I work with a guy who just turned 53 and is a virgin. He's had girlfriends but I'm not sure what he's done. I can't imagine much of anything. He still lives at home, his mom brings him to work, picks him up from work and they have Saturday lunch dates every week. It's all very bizarre to me. If he were my son I'd kick him out and get him a whore.
It's ok if he's a virgin, but his mom is babying him. unlucky7 reincarnated | |
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Jeffiner said: unique said: you know they say we have the worst women in scotland, the worst sportsmen in scotland, and the worst drinkers in scotland, and who can blame them Uh hum... Unique, can't let you get away with that! I know many very beautiful Scottish women.... don't put your own country down!!!
[Edited 12/10/09 13:49pm] My father is from Scotland.  | |
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Define virginity, as I have never been anally penetrated as I refuse to be, but have done it to men and a woman. If taking it in the rear is seen as sex only and nothing else counts, then I am a 33 year old virgin.
50 is a bloody long time to be a virgin for, thats too long I eckon, if she hasn't lost her cherry by then, its too late. Her sex drive would have peaked at least a decade ago. So what are u going 2 do? R u just gonna sit there and watch? I'm not gonna stop until the war is over. Its gonna take a long time | |
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CarrieLee said: I work with a guy who just turned 53 and is a virgin. He's had girlfriends but I'm not sure what he's done. I can't imagine much of anything. He still lives at home, his mom brings him to work, picks him up from work and they have Saturday lunch dates every week. It's all very bizarre to me. If he were my son I'd kick him out and get him a whore.
& yes, it IS bizarre  I never met you, but I LOVE you & I will forever!! Thank you for being YOU - my little Princey, the best to EVER do it | |
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Huggiebear said: Define virginity, as I have never been anally penetrated as I refuse to be, but have done it to men and a woman. If taking it in the rear is seen as sex only and nothing else counts, then I am a 33 year old virgin.
50 is a bloody long time to be a virgin for, thats too long I eckon, if she hasn't lost her cherry by then, its too late. Her sex drive would have peaked at least a decade ago. First off, every person is different. 50 doesn't equal sexual death by any means. The girl still looks and acts like she's 30! No one would ever clock her at 50. Second, she's a full on virgin. She's never had ANY sort of sexual contact. The most she's had with a guy are a few kisses. No groping, no anal sex, no vaginal sex, no oral sex, no hand jobs, no dry humping, no vibrators..NOTHING. I'm excited for her, just that she's FINALLY getting married, and married to a wonderful man that she knows is for her, and that she'll finally be enjoying some naked time w/ a person God put in her life. | |
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JustErin said: Jeffiner said: Uh hum... Unique, can't let you get away with that! I know many very beautiful Scottish women.... don't put your own country down!!!
[Edited 12/10/09 13:49pm] My father is from Scotland. 
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ernestsewell said: Huggiebear said: Define virginity, as I have never been anally penetrated as I refuse to be, but have done it to men and a woman. If taking it in the rear is seen as sex only and nothing else counts, then I am a 33 year old virgin.
50 is a bloody long time to be a virgin for, thats too long I eckon, if she hasn't lost her cherry by then, its too late. Her sex drive would have peaked at least a decade ago. First off, every person is different. 50 doesn't equal sexual death by any means. The girl still looks and acts like she's 30! No one would ever clock her at 50. Second, she's a full on virgin. She's never had ANY sort of sexual contact. The most she's had with a guy are a few kisses. No groping, no anal sex, no vaginal sex, no oral sex, no hand jobs, no dry humping, no vibrators..NOTHING. I'm excited for her, just that she's FINALLY getting married, and married to a wonderful man that she knows is for her, and that she'll finally be enjoying some naked time w/ a person God put in her life. Does she experiment with herself? I have a friend in her thirties who is a virgin and has never masturbated or had an orgasm. | |
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sextonseven said: Does she experiment with herself? I have a friend in her thirties who is a virgin and has never masturbated or had an orgasm.
I honestly don't believe she ever has done that. She truly wanted to share that with the man she'd marry. | |
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