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Thread started 06/03/11 1:44am

blackbob

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getting older and looking at the opposite sex...

well i am now in my early 40s...getting a bit rough around the edges but not bad for my age...i have always had an eye for the ladies...i see attractive women all the time and i suppose its natural to have a wee look..but the problem i have is that a lot of women i look at now are half my age or more.. eek ....of course i find them attractive but a wee part of me feels that i shouldnt be looking at them like that...you know...sexually ...i am old enough to be their father...does anyone else feel like this?...its a bit weird...

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do the org ladies in their late 30s, 40s feel like this as well...do you look at young guys and feel a bit gulity or do women tend not to find young guys attractive ?...

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Reply #1 posted 06/03/11 2:55am

virginie74

I am 37 and I don't find young ones attractive at all.

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Reply #2 posted 06/03/11 3:04am

blackbob

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virginie74 said:

I am 37 and I don't find young ones attractive at all.

maybe its mainly a male thing then...or maybe its just me....i find women near my own age attractive as well but i dont feel uncomfortable about that...i feel i shouldnt find young women attractive...early 20s...behave yourself robert.... biggrin

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Reply #3 posted 06/03/11 3:10am

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Well, I don't look for the opposite sex for anything except to compare tricks. But as far as men goes, I'm a whore, I'll have them all and ain't gonna turn no good looking man down regardless of his age. However, as far as preference goes, I prefer one near my age or a little older. The younger ones seem to have those tighter drawn up balls. I like the older ones because they've grown thicker bush over the years and their balls have dropped and hang lower. I like some hairy low hanging ball sacks. lol

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Reply #4 posted 06/03/11 3:20am

alphastreet

I'm 28 and get mistaken to be in my late teens and early 20's all the time, so I know I'll look younger when I'm around that age, but already it seems like the guys in my cohort group want to settle down, and I don't AT ALL! I'm too selfish and introverted for it and I hate compromise, and I don't want children at all cause I already know it will drive me insane, and I don't believe it is for everyone, I think it's selfish to bring people into this world when you know you're not capable physically, mentally or emotionally to take care of them. Anyways I'm so off topic now, but I used to look down on looking at younger guys, but now wouldn't mind dating a university masters grad or something, cause their goals would be different and more related to mine, cause I'm in a career and life slump myself. Around that age, I'm not sure how old the guys would be, but it's going to be weird being viewed as a cougar or MILF or something....

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Reply #5 posted 06/03/11 3:29am

ZombieKitten

I'm not really noticing anyone under the age of 30-35

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Reply #6 posted 06/03/11 3:30am

ZombieKitten

alphastreet said:

I'm 28 and get mistaken to be in my late teens and early 20's all the time, so I know I'll look younger when I'm around that age, but already it seems like the guys in my cohort group want to settle down, and I don't AT ALL! I'm too selfish and introverted for it and I hate compromise, and I don't want children at all cause I already know it will drive me insane, and I don't believe it is for everyone, I think it's selfish to bring people into this world when you know you're not capable physically, mentally or emotionally to take care of them. Anyways I'm so off topic now, but I used to look down on looking at younger guys, but now wouldn't mind dating a university masters grad or something, cause their goals would be different and more related to mine, cause I'm in a career and life slump myself. Around that age, I'm not sure how old the guys would be, but it's going to be weird being viewed as a cougar or MILF or something....

good! because they totally DO just look at me!!! nutty

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Reply #7 posted 06/03/11 3:32am

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interesting topic . my daughters are in a dance show and every year - there are girls older than they - like 17-18 that I am always watching dance .... and shaking my head !

they make themselves look so much like models etc ... and well ... i know exactly what you mean ... needless to say - I find myself more attracted to the 30s to 50 yr olds ... always love to see an older gal that looks great ...

but i do know what u mean ....neutral

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Reply #8 posted 06/03/11 3:36am

physco185

i feel bad about checking men out that r old enough to b my kids.... so i try not to do that smile

except... i notice them often gorking disbelief its a viscous circle shrug

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Reply #9 posted 06/03/11 3:37am

alphastreet

physco185 said:

i feel bad about checking men out that r old enough to b my kids.... so i try not to do that smile

except... i notice them often gorking disbelief its a viscous circle shrug

I get creeped out by older guys in real life if it's decades older....but I do tend to love older guys anyway. The last guy I dated was 7 years older than me, and when it comes to celebs, I have an affinity for the ones old enough to be my dad lol

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Reply #10 posted 06/03/11 3:47am

ZombieKitten

alphastreet said:

physco185 said:

i feel bad about checking men out that r old enough to b my kids.... so i try not to do that smile

except... i notice them often gorking disbelief its a viscous circle shrug

I get creeped out by older guys in real life if it's decades older....but I do tend to love older guys anyway. The last guy I dated was 7 years older than me, and when it comes to celebs, I have an affinity for the ones old enough to be my dad lol


I attract old guys in their 70s - there must be something about me! At the dinner dances they line up to dance with me confused

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Reply #11 posted 06/03/11 3:48am

alphastreet

ZombieKitten said:

alphastreet said:

I get creeped out by older guys in real life if it's decades older....but I do tend to love older guys anyway. The last guy I dated was 7 years older than me, and when it comes to celebs, I have an affinity for the ones old enough to be my dad lol


I attract old guys in their 70s - there must be something about me! At the dinner dances they line up to dance with me confused

Old people all drunk and hyper make me laugh so hard! lol

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Reply #12 posted 06/03/11 3:49am

physco185

ZombieKitten said:

alphastreet said:

I get creeped out by older guys in real life if it's decades older....but I do tend to love older guys anyway. The last guy I dated was 7 years older than me, and when it comes to celebs, I have an affinity for the ones old enough to be my dad lol


I attract old guys in their 70s - there must be something about me! At the dinner dances they line up to dance with me confused

it must b my boobs - cause those young boys r shocked

maybe i should cover em up a lill giggle

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Reply #13 posted 06/03/11 3:50am

alphastreet

yeah it's allllll your fault woman wink j/k

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Reply #14 posted 06/03/11 3:50am

ZombieKitten

alphastreet said:

ZombieKitten said:

I attract old guys in their 70s - there must be something about me! At the dinner dances they line up to dance with me confused

Old people all drunk and hyper make me laugh so hard! lol

I think at that age they call it sprightly, right? lol

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Reply #15 posted 06/03/11 3:52am

alphastreet

ZombieKitten said:

alphastreet said:

Old people all drunk and hyper make me laugh so hard! lol

I think at that age they call it sprightly, right? lol

I remember old men in their 70's singing baby one more time a few months ago at a restaurant with a dancefloor cause they wanted a song (not that one) to repeat and it was hilarious (not sexy though)

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Reply #16 posted 06/03/11 3:54am

ZombieKitten

alphastreet said:

ZombieKitten said:

I think at that age they call it sprightly, right? lol

I remember old men in their 70's singing baby one more time a few months ago at a restaurant with a dancefloor cause they wanted a song (not that one) to repeat and it was hilarious (not sexy though)

falloff it's fun to see them still having a blast! I hope to be all uninhibited and embarrassing when I'm older too! I was with my parents at our Rihanna Lady Gaga tribute show, and my mum was trying to do all the dance moves lol the singer told us she had to look away, because she'd have been unable to sing while looking at her from laughing too hard lol

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Reply #17 posted 06/03/11 3:55am

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blackbob said:

well i am now in my early 40s...getting a bit rough around the edges but not bad for my age...i have always had an eye for the ladies...i see attractive women all the time and i suppose its natural to have a wee look..but the problem i have is that a lot of women i look at now are half my age or more.. eek ....of course i find them attractive but a wee part of me feels that i shouldnt be looking at them like that...you know...sexually ...i am old enough to be their father...does anyone else feel like this?...its a bit weird...

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do the org ladies in their late 30s, 40s feel like this as well...do you look at young guys and feel a bit gulity or do women tend not to find young guys attractive ?...

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i can't say i'd want to put up with the relative immaturity of someone half my age. i don't at all find that attractive

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Reply #18 posted 06/03/11 3:56am

JowiiCoco

We're designed to find them attractive, nothing wrong with that. It's only natural.

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Reply #19 posted 06/03/11 4:27am

alphastreet

ZombieKitten said:

alphastreet said:

I remember old men in their 70's singing baby one more time a few months ago at a restaurant with a dancefloor cause they wanted a song (not that one) to repeat and it was hilarious (not sexy though)

falloff it's fun to see them still having a blast! I hope to be all uninhibited and embarrassing when I'm older too! I was with my parents at our Rihanna Lady Gaga tribute show, and my mum was trying to do all the dance moves lol the singer told us she had to look away, because she'd have been unable to sing while looking at her from laughing too hard lol

Sounds like fun smile I thought it was nice they were having fun, I just didn't see them as attractive like that, saw them as someone's husband or grandfather kicking it with their buddies. These were 60-70 year olds, most of the crowd at the place was 30+

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Reply #20 posted 06/03/11 5:00am

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vainandy said:

Well, I don't look for the opposite sex for anything except to compare tricks. But as far as men goes, I'm a whore, I'll have them all and ain't gonna turn no good looking man down regardless of his age. However, as far as preference goes, I prefer one near my age or a little older. The younger ones seem to have those tighter drawn up balls. I like the older ones because they've grown thicker bush over the years and their balls have dropped and hang lower. I like some hairy low hanging ball sacks. lol

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lol ...well you wouldnt like me then andy..wee bit too much information there...even i am blushing..... lol

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sorry ....maybe shouldnt have put opposite sex in headline..applys to whatever your sexual preference is....

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Reply #21 posted 06/03/11 5:10am

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I can look at a younger man and think he is good looking, but as far as thinking he is hot, no... I find a man 35 and up to be attractive... Its something about the rough around the edges look that is sexy!

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Reply #22 posted 06/03/11 5:14am

ZombieKitten

I like those tighter drawn up balls

not these ones

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Reply #23 posted 06/03/11 5:19am

blackbob

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ZombieKitten said:

I like those tighter drawn up balls

not these ones

yes ...andy likes those but i am not that bad....yet..

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Reply #24 posted 06/03/11 5:23am

ZombieKitten

so I googled…

and wtf is THIS??? a cat? confuse

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Reply #25 posted 06/03/11 5:24am

tinaz

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ZombieKitten said:

so I googled…

and wtf is THIS??? a cat? confuse

faint

That is the sickest thing ever... whatever it is! :lol":

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Reply #26 posted 06/03/11 5:25am

tinaz

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Im posting it on fb giggle

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Reply #27 posted 06/03/11 5:26am

ZombieKitten

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Im posting it on fb giggle

falloff it's a hairless cat, I did more research

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Reply #28 posted 06/03/11 5:29am

tinaz

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ZombieKitten said:

tinaz said:

Im posting it on fb giggle

falloff it's a hairless cat, I did more research

Its so ugly its loveable! lol

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Reply #29 posted 06/03/11 5:31am

ZombieKitten

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ZombieKitten said:

falloff it's a hairless cat, I did more research

Its so ugly its loveable! lol

you can say that just from seeing it's ASS? lol

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