blackbob said:

ZombieKitten said:

so I googled…

and wtf is THIS??? a cat?

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WTF...!!!...WHAT END IS WHAT ?.....nah...andy wouldnt like those either...too baldy.. ..

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how can you ladies ( and some guys ) find balls attractive is beyond me...

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This can't be a cat, hairless or otherwise. Look at the feet or paws. Plus, a male cat's balls aren't that big. This to me looks like the back end of a giant mole. I really think it is something photoshopped or it's a stuffed animal.

Between people not believing that it's a hairless cat (those are not it's feet/paws, it's it's back legs bent) and djj being so obscenely attractive that all men want her and all women are insanely jealous and this burden of being so naturally and amazingly hot feels like rape to her I'm about to have an aneurysm from laughter.

dJJ said:

lavender1983 said:

dJJ maybe you wanna figure out a permanent and drastic way to make your self unattractive since it seems to be such a heavy cross to bear for you.

You cant stop people from looking at you.... it's human nature...hell I stare at hot guys too. Unless someone is invading your personal space and god forbid assaults you....it should be flattering in the case of either sex ..maybe annoying at best to some people....in my case sometimes annoying with cat calls cause I get embarrased but just looks? It really shouldn't be so traumatic.

I already once shave my head bold.

Wearing out of date baggy clothes.

Got fat. All the fat just went to the upperfront. Really didn't help.

No, it shouldn't be so traumatic. However, as a kid all the guys were in love with me (I was a tomboy ) and girls hating me for that. When I was 14, there was this guy who was picked out of the sea (I lived at the coast back then) because I didn't talk to him. I didn't even know this guy!

I once couldn't leave a club, and sat there till 9 in the morning (accompanied by the staff and it turned out in a great party) because some guy was slamming at the doors and shouting my name and throwing all this drama around. Again, I didn't even know who he was.

There have been a couple of fights. And I didn't even want to be involved with the guys. Why fight over someone who doesn't even want you?

I was escorted home every night by security after that incident.

I can get on and on. However, I hear you all.

I just should get over it. And for all the guys on this thread, it must be so great, they have women responding to me in their defense.

I'll stop confronting people with gawking men. They should be free to that to teenage girls, whenever they want, I guess.

And the girl just shouldn't complain about it.

Umm alrighty then.

I dont think that even women who are considered the most beautiful in the entire world would say they had to go to such extremes or experienced such extremes because their beauty was such a curse so to speak.

The point is it is not fair to accuse men of pedophillia or attempted rape simply because they looked at you. That is sooo extreme. This aint about us women coming to the guys defense...There are plenty of people who commit crimes and deserve the harsh words. Not poor guys who just happens to glance your way because he considers you attractive.

With that I'mma leave this one alone.

JustErin said:

Between people not believing that it's a hairless cat (those are not it's feet/paws, it's it's back legs bent) and djj being so obscenely attractive that all men want her and all women are insanely jealous and this burden of being so naturally and amazingly hot feels like rape to her I'm about to have an aneurysm from laughter.

Yeah, it is very funny to interpret these message as 'just DJJ seeking attention by stating she is such a beauty'. As if I'm posting, just to make sure that those people that I will never meet IRL, and will never have any bond with, know that it's about my beauty. Because, really that is what I'm really interested in. I want all these male orgers to know I'm beautiful

I'm a different person than you are. We don't have the same motivations for posting. I would apreciate it if you would try not to misinterpret my posts.

For me it's about discussing the boundaries in the street.

about men not realizing the consequences of their 'innocent' behaviour for their subjects of attention.

It's a discussion about what is harmless flirting and in what way beautiful girls have to endure constantly be looked at, whistled at and get male attention, and should not want to even discuss those boundaries.

The men who react are actually the ones who are open to discuss this subject. The females are more likely to attack me. Just an observation. Very similar IRL.

Your contribution to the discussion about harmless flirting vs feeling intimedated and preyed upon, really is of great value.

dJJ said:

JustErin said:

Between people not believing that it's a hairless cat (those are not it's feet/paws, it's it's back legs bent) and djj being so obscenely attractive that all men want her and all women are insanely jealous and this burden of being so naturally and amazingly hot feels like rape to her I'm about to have an aneurysm from laughter.

Yeah, it is very funny to interpret these message as 'just DJJ seeking attention by stating she is such a beauty'. As if I'm posting, just to make sure that those people that I will never meet IRL, and will never have any bond with, know that it's about my beauty. Because, really that is what I'm really interested in. I want all these male orgers to know I'm beautiful

I'm a different person than you are. We don't have the same motivations for posting. I would apreciate it if you would try not to misinterpret my posts.

For me it's about discussing the boundaries in the street.

about men not realizing the consequences of their 'innocent' behaviour for their subjects of attention.

It's a discussion about what is harmless flirting and in what way beautiful girls have to endure constantly be looked at, whistled at and get male attention, and should not want to even discuss those boundaries.

The men who react are actually the ones who are open to discuss this subject. The females are more likely to attack me. Just an observation. Very similar IRL.

Your contribution to the discussion about harmless flirting vs feeling intimedated and preyed upon, really is of great value.

No misinterpretation here, I simply posted the same things you did...but in my own words.

But it is very interesting that you got extremely defensive talking about your motivations behind your posts, something that I never even suggested.

It's also interesting how you feel my comments about intimidation and being preyed upon, particularly my comments on personal experiences with this topic have no "great value".

Maybe they don't to you and your la la land type posts about your reality...but I bet they held greater value to those that can actually personally relate to what I said.

sure

For those who think I'm in Lalaland and not living in reality, just check out this video.

Wait. Was that your man harmlessly checking out these girls while holding you in his arm?

[Edited 6/6/11 15:23pm]

dJJ said:

How can it be wrong if even Jesus is checking out ass?

It's just instinct, of course they are all looking at her ass. Try to prevent 99% of women from looking at a newborn baby.

Nature is not always fair, but it happens

PREDOMINANT said:

This is a great thread and a topic me and my Male friends recently discussed - I am 37. It does feel wrong, but then it feels wrong taking a sneeky peek anyway. To be honest I have been married for a while now and I look at pretty much anyone who is attrcative, women or men, young or old. I feel guilt when I stare at a girl who is young but what can you do. I saw a girl in a resteraunt the other day looked like a 16 year old Denise Richards and I was in awe of her beauty, thats where it ended though. I just thought WOW, then carried on eating my pasta, then WOW, ate my salad, then WOW while I ate my desert, then WOW while I had coffee. When we had drinks after I had to swap seats. I still had another look as we left though.

I think the question is do women like being looked at becasue they are attractiove to somebody else, the age then is irrelavent. I also suppose there is looking and and then

Predom, you are a boobist conversationalist

dJJ said:

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NDRU said:

It's just instinct, of course they are all looking at her ass. Try to prevent 99% of women from looking at a newborn baby.

Nature is not always fair, but it happens

JowiiCoco said:

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Your contribution to the discussion is very sophisticated, reasoned and clever.

dJJ said:

JowiiCoco said:

[img:$uid]http://img32.imageshack.us/img32/5974/dskcourtroom.jpg[/img:$uid]

Your contribution to the discussion is very sophisticated, reasoned and clever.

When someone is saying men are constantly are after her I know there's nothing I can say that will change her views. Meds might help, but words....not so much.

**nevermind edit**

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NDRU said:

**nevermind edit**

[Edited 6/6/11 16:26pm]

Damn, I missed it.

dJJ said:

PREDOMINANT said:

This is a great thread and a topic me and my Male friends recently discussed - I am 37. It does feel wrong, but then it feels wrong taking a sneeky peek anyway. To be honest I have been married for a while now and I look at pretty much anyone who is attrcative, women or men, young or old. I feel guilt when I stare at a girl who is young but what can you do. I saw a girl in a resteraunt the other day looked like a 16 year old Denise Richards and I was in awe of her beauty, thats where it ended though. I just thought WOW, then carried on eating my pasta, then WOW, ate my salad, then WOW while I ate my desert, then WOW while I had coffee. When we had drinks after I had to swap seats. I still had another look as we left though.

I think the question is do women like being looked at becasue they are attractiove to somebody else, the age then is irrelavent. I also suppose there is looking and and then

No.

Would you like to have the same looks by all the men in the restaurant that you (and the other men) give her? How would you feel walking around and having all these looks at you all day, by men who look at you and convey that they want to f*** you?

Flattered or indifferent.

So what if she THINKS I want to f___. If I haven't spoken to her, that's not my problem.

I guess the solution is if you are that attractive, stay inside.

I'd imagine celebrities have it worse.

dJJ said:

tinaz said:

I think I can speak for 95% of the women AND men here... Yes, we like to be looked at! I like to know I can still grab a mans glance... Its flattering... Ive had men whistle, make comments and stare like most everyone else here and I just smile and continue on my way with a smile on my face cuz at 43 years old I STILL got it..

Very rarely it has gotten creepy enough I got scared... You should stop making men here feel like creepy pedophiles for enjoying the looks of a women... You are NOT the norm here... We get your feelings, jumping down the throats of everyone here isnt going to change your fear and disgust with men... maybe you should get some help

Yeah. Good advice. Thank you Tinaz.

Me:

Doctor, can you please help me?

it upsets me when men giving me that prayer look when in a restaurant, in the subway, walking on the street. I just want them to leave me alone and not have their eyes all over me.

Doctor:

Stop complaining about it! Every other woman would be so happy to have men looking at her constantly in that way. You should be very thankfull for all the sexually loaded attention you get! You should be thankful for the stalkers and the jalous girls getting evil to you.

No, go back home and feel guilty about you critisism of all these men! They are free to give girls that look if they want to. Even if that girl gets that look every day, all the time.

Hush, go home.

They sure are free to look at her as long as she is in public.

If you don't want to be looked at, put on a burqa already.

No, all women don't like the attention that others find flattering, but how are men supposed to know?

Just not look at any women? Not even close to realistic.

I can look at you and speak to you in public. You don't have to respond. You can choose to respond positively or negatively.

But you can't tell me that I can't look at you in public because you don't like it.

PREDOMINANT said:

dJJ said:

No.

Would you like to have the same looks by all the men in the restaurant that you (and the other men) give her? How would you feel walking around and having all these looks at you all day, by men who look at you and convey that they want to f*** you?

I don't know how I would feel, except that when a woman takes a look at me, it makes me feel good, happy.

I never said I wanted to fuck her, just look at her. I also never think women who stare at me want to necesarily fuck me, I don't see the two as linked.

Wrong. Of course ALL men only want ONE thing from women . . . . . .

dJJ said:

lavender1983 said:

dJJ maybe you wanna figure out a permanent and drastic way to make your self unattractive since it seems to be such a heavy cross to bear for you.

You cant stop people from looking at you.... it's human nature...hell I stare at hot guys too. Unless someone is invading your personal space and god forbid assaults you....it should be flattering in the case of either sex ..maybe annoying at best to some people....in my case sometimes annoying with cat calls cause I get embarrased but just looks? It really shouldn't be so traumatic.

I already once shave my head bold.

Wearing out of date baggy clothes.

Got fat. All the fat just went to the upperfront. Really didn't help.

No, it shouldn't be so traumatic. However, as a kid all the guys were in love with me (I was a tomboy ) and girls hating me for that. When I was 14, there was this guy who was picked out of the sea (I lived at the coast back then) because I didn't talk to him. I didn't even know this guy!

I once couldn't leave a club, and sat there till 9 in the morning (accompanied by the staff and it turned out in a great party) because some guy was slamming at the doors and shouting my name and throwing all this drama around. Again, I didn't even know who he was.

There have been a couple of fights. And I didn't even want to be involved with the guys. Why fight over someone who doesn't even want you?

I was escorted home every night by security after that incident.

I can get on and on. However, I hear you all.

I just should get over it. And for all the guys on this thread, it must be so great, they have women responding to me in their defense.

I'll stop confronting people with gawking men. They should be free to that to teenage girls, whenever they want, I guess.

And the girl just shouldn't complain about it.

Notice the incidents you shared, all involve much more than staring.

There does seem to be a problem but it seems to start after staring.

So gawking men doesn't seem to be as big a problem as guys projecting whatever onto you.

JustErin said:

Between people not believing that it's a hairless cat (those are not it's feet/paws, it's it's back legs bent) and djj being so obscenely attractive that all men want her and all women are insanely jealous and this burden of being so naturally and amazingly hot feels like rape to her I'm about to have an aneurysm from laughter.

She needs to bond with Cindy Crawford who I am sure has had to deal with the same issue.

dJJ said:

JustErin said:

Between people not believing that it's a hairless cat (those are not it's feet/paws, it's it's back legs bent) and djj being so obscenely attractive that all men want her and all women are insanely jealous and this burden of being so naturally and amazingly hot feels like rape to her I'm about to have an aneurysm from laughter.

Yeah, it is very funny to interpret these message as 'just DJJ seeking attention by stating she is such a beauty'. As if I'm posting, just to make sure that those people that I will never meet IRL, and will never have any bond with, know that it's about my beauty. Because, really that is what I'm really interested in. I want all these male orgers to know I'm beautiful

I'm a different person than you are. We don't have the same motivations for posting. I would apreciate it if you would try not to misinterpret my posts.

For me it's about discussing the boundaries in the street.

about men not realizing the consequences of their 'innocent' behaviour for their subjects of attention.

It's a discussion about what is harmless flirting and in what way beautiful girls have to endure constantly be looked at, whistled at and get male attention, and should not want to even discuss those boundaries.

The men who react are actually the ones who are open to discuss this subject. The females are more likely to attack me. Just an observation. Very similar IRL.

Your contribution to the discussion about harmless flirting vs feeling intimedated and preyed upon, really is of great value.

Again, you are moving the goalposts.

What are talking about? Guys who oggle you or guys who flirt?

I am interested in discussing boundaries. What should they be?

If I am not speaking to you and say, wearing shades . . . is that permitted?

Is a compliment, with nothing more, allowed?

How does a guy looking at you make you feel intimidated and preyed upon? As a guy that's hard to conceptualize unless there's anger or something involved (criminal actrivity).

dJJ said:

JustErin said:

Between people not believing that it's a hairless cat (those are not it's feet/paws, it's it's back legs bent) and djj being so obscenely attractive that all men want her and all women are insanely jealous and this burden of being so naturally and amazingly hot feels like rape to her I'm about to have an aneurysm from laughter.

Yeah, it is very funny to interpret these message as 'just DJJ seeking attention by stating she is such a beauty'. As if I'm posting, just to make sure that those people that I will never meet IRL, and will never have any bond with, know that it's about my beauty. Because, really that is what I'm really interested in. I want all these male orgers to know I'm beautiful

I'm a different person than you are. We don't have the same motivations for posting. I would apreciate it if you would try not to misinterpret my posts.

For me it's about discussing the boundaries in the street.

about men not realizing the consequences of their 'innocent' behaviour for their subjects of attention.

It's a discussion about what is harmless flirting and in what way beautiful girls have to endure constantly be looked at, whistled at and get male attention, and should not want to even discuss those boundaries.

The men who react are actually the ones who are open to discuss this subject. The females are more likely to attack me. Just an observation. Very similar IRL.

Your contribution to the discussion about harmless flirting vs feeling intimedated and preyed upon, really is of great value.

i get what you're saying. i generally dislike being sexually objectified by some horny stranger. it can be sort of intrusive, being made aware of another person's unsatisfied need..

I'm 21, single, and I loooooooove me some older men. I get looks from'em all the time. But I do agree with International Lover..no creepy old men please!

But I like me a sophisticated, classy, sharp-dressed, older man. Mmmmhmmmmmm.

ThruTheEyesOfWonder said:

I'm 21, single, and I loooooooove me some older men. I get looks from'em all the time. But I do agree with International Lover..no creepy old men please!

But I like me a sophisticated, classy, sharp-dressed, older man. Mmmmhmmmmmm.

Could u plz elaborate on what creepy means 2u?? ta

davetherave6767 said:

ThruTheEyesOfWonder said:

I'm 21, single, and I loooooooove me some older men. I get looks from'em all the time. But I do agree with International Lover..no creepy old men please!

But I like me a sophisticated, classy, sharp-dressed, older man. Mmmmhmmmmmm.

Could u plz elaborate on what creepy means 2u?? ta

Exhibit A:

SUPRMAN said:

They sure are free to look at her as long as she is in public.

If you don't want to be looked at, put on a burqa already.

But you can't tell me that I can't look at you in public because you don't like it.

That's exactly the issue.

The op has mixed feelings about his reaction on young girls.

There is a slut parade going on in Europe, US and Canada by women conveying to men they want to be able to dress as they like, not having to adapt their lives to male instincts.

Or should women just wear burkas and be save from men?