Spats said:

You should try it, do you have a pic of yourself, hot guys attract hot girls.
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Diva said:

yea, moonbeam is about to blow up , Might not know it now, but he's a star.

I like to TAPE MY SEXUAL ESCAPADES. I told my Boyfriends about this and they all FREAKED out. I wanted to put them in the Video stores..The Guys were Freaking out. What's wrong with TAPING YOURSELF and PUTTING it on DISPLAY? Why is it A NERVE WRACKING EXPERIENCE to have PEOPLE watch you have SEX? I Don't think so. But,I have NEVER met a GUY who would let ME Tape them....

I don't think i am hot looking.

I think it's COOL to Tape Everything... You can go back and Watch and Critique and do it again Better. I Tape Everything...I Like taping. Sounds and Actions are EXCITING....I like REACTIONS.... Get's me Off WATCHING SHIT....

A part of me would be worried as I do have a few things in my past that I'd rather not see the light of day.

If I cared enough perhaps I'd chance it.

TMPletz said:

So what'd she do to you? Did she have you paying her rent, car note, tuition? Did she treat you like a bitch in front of company? And you crawled back and took it? What did she do to you?

Yo, for real, since I think he says this to be syaing it, he really does have a girl that she treats like him man-biaatch and he comes here to vent. So THAT's whay you being sying stuff to be saying it!!!

Oh, and as far as the ORIGINAL question goes...

I think I'd have to have known him before he blew up. Many artists have wives that were there from the beginning. Fat Joe, The Rza, Rev Run, Ja Rule ( i know, bad example) MEthod Man (he's taken her thru some ishhhh, though) Denzel Washington, Anthony Anderson... and so on. All these guys are still married to the ones that were there before the spotlight. You know, even Lil Jon got married last year to a looooong time girlfriend. She totally staaaays out of the limelight. Some women do that diliberately. She's a perfect industry wife because no one knows who she is.

Everybody has Shit in the Closet so What. These Celebs have shit. I would be like take your pics and do the autograph shit. I would give people what they want. I wouldn't Change my Lifestyle for Anybody.....

yes yes yes yes yes....

Sweeny79 said:

The White Stripes

Lizzy7701 said:

MIGUELGOMEZ said:

Diva said:

This is one reason I adore you as much as I do...you get it when it comes to matters of the heart and soul. *smile* And I love that you've found someone who "gets" it as well.


Um, you ARE talking about Moonbeam, right??...

Spats said:

i hate the fact that everyone is feeding your jollies by responding to your assinine comments but even i couldn't help myself.

you are a small minded tool. period. i ask men out and have done so almost my whole life. i am not content to sit and wait for a man to get up the nerve so i take the bull by the horns and do it myself. don't generalize. i am sure there are many other women out there that are like this also.


grow up.

lillith said:

Congrats, Lilith. A woman with guts. But you are in the minority and i think you probably know it. How many women do you know who have done the proposing, the asking out, the first move when it came to physical contact compared to how many times the man does. The question is for every one. It's not about having to grow up. Most of the time the man does all of that.

Byron said:

Co-sign on both points there. My wife approached me, and for Lucy Lui I'd happily see all my dirty laundry in the media.

KatSkrizzle said:

Steady Spatsella.

I also must be the EXCEPTION to the Rule...I Have Asked out Guys,I have CLIMBED ON TOP of Them and I Have Proposed. SPATS.... BUt I DIDN"T GET MARRIED...

That's great that you did. I am all for women doing that. But women who make the first move in all of that are in the minority.

I'll post this here so I don't ruin the "he proposed" thread. But didn't i tell you. Another example of the guying doing it. Somebody shout out to me the next time you hear of the women getting down on one knee and proposing to the man. I will not be holding my breath. Women won't do it. And if they do they are the very small minority.

Spats said:

It's traditional you troglodyte.

What do you care anyway? You're never going to get to the point of proposal.

It's 2005. The "it's traditional" is a cop out. What happend to the women's movement? I am not holding my breath for a "she proposed" thread.

Spats said:

When men start taking on the woman's last name, women will start proposing...

yeah, sure, Women wouldn't even want that. It's not "traditional".

I have asked quite a few men out. I wasn't worried about getting shot down. if I did, then oh well. At least I was never left wondering "What if?" There are women out there that do ask men out. Men DO NOT always have to do the asking.

And to answer the originall question, yes I would if I was in love with the person.

Spats, what's your point?

Hot guys get approached ALL the time. You're not a hot guy, you're average, remember? So WHY do you expect chicks to be all over you?

I mean, use your own logic: you absolutely REFUSE to ask a plain girl out, yet you're bitching b/c women don't ask your plain ass out?? It's just stupid.

Accept that you're average. Get off your ass & put forth the effort for the meaningless sex you crave. You SHOULD have to work for it

You're not hot enough to be SO annoying

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