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Printablebsk3601 said: audience1 said: I don't give a damn whether or not she's rich. Bottom line: she's got THREE kids by THREE different men! Anyone who grew up broke and in the hood and has half a brain can tell you how detrimental that can be. I've seen that shit too many times, and it's sickening. Raising a kid is hard enough, but raising them RIGHT under those circumstances is going to be a very uphill battle. So many extra things can go wrong in that situation. Just cause she ain't on welfare doesn't make that shit right.
My grandmother had 4 kids by 4 different men. She married them all... the shit didn't work out with any of them. All of you mofos who think just because she didn't marry the babies fathers are seriously jaded. All four of her children went to college (without fathers being a daily part of their lives) and became productive members of society. The bottom line is if Erykah is legally taking care of her children and if your money and time isn't required to keep her family afloat then it's none of your damn business. If you can't see that shit, then you are one of the self-righteous, judgmental folks that you were originally called. well yeah  2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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SCNDLS said: MuthaFunka said: Yup! Even at Grambling.  My childhood homegirl went to school with her at Grambling and I would see her at local poetry slams before she got signed and she's always repped that hoodish side of her. Doesn't make her a bad person, it is what it is.  As always, money doesn't buy class or common sense.nWo: bboy87 - Timmy84 - LittleBlueCorvette - MuthaFunka - phunkdaddy - Christopher
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Cinnie said: SCNDLS said: What about any of this makes you think this was planned? the other part that you didn't bold, the fact they were together for more than a minute Sheeeeit. I know TONS of people who were "together for a minute" but had a hostage together and they didn't plan on it. nWo: bboy87 - Timmy84 - LittleBlueCorvette - MuthaFunka - phunkdaddy - Christopher
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Graycap23 said: larksanders said: Exactly, judgemental mutherfuckers who act as if their shit doesn't stink. The only thing that matters is that her babies are being cared for and they know who their fathers are. Appaently both is happening, so what's the issue? I swear some of you people look for shit not to like about a person. Your lives must really be unfulfilling.... Nonsense. Anyone who thinks that having 3 kids from 3 different men and non of them your spouse is NOT very bright.  | |
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And we're ALL judgmental. It's natural. No way to avoid it. In fact, we wouldn't even be POSTING at ANY message board if we weren't judgmental. nWo: bboy87 - Timmy84 - LittleBlueCorvette - MuthaFunka - phunkdaddy - Christopher
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Vendetta1 said: Graycap23 said: Nonsense. Anyone who thinks that having 3 kids from 3 different men and non of them your spouse is NOT very bright. Thick as a phone book aint it? 
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audience1 said: I don't give a damn whether or not she's rich. Bottom line: she's got THREE kids by THREE different men! Anyone who grew up broke and in the hood and has half a brain can tell you how detrimental that can be. I've seen that shit too many times, and it's sickening. Raising a kid is hard enough, but raising them RIGHT under those circumstances is going to be a very uphill battle. So many extra things can go wrong in that situation. Just cause she ain't on welfare doesn't make that shit right. My mother: four kids, four dads. All four successful women. Raised on the roughest block in Englewood on the south side of Chicago.
We don't know Erykah's story. I personally don't care. all of know is it's fucked up to make a character call because someone chose to have children with multiple partners. Thank GOD Badu don't give a fuck what none of you think about what she's done. | |
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MuthaFunka said: And we're ALL judgmental. It's natural. No way to avoid it. In fact, we wouldn't even be POSTING at ANY message board if we weren't judgmental. Thinking and talking negative shit about someone when we all fucked up in some way is triflin'. Making a judgment call and being judgmental are two totally separate things. | |
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bsk3601 said: audience1 said: I don't give a damn whether or not she's rich. Bottom line: she's got THREE kids by THREE different men! Anyone who grew up broke and in the hood and has half a brain can tell you how detrimental that can be. I've seen that shit too many times, and it's sickening. Raising a kid is hard enough, but raising them RIGHT under those circumstances is going to be a very uphill battle. So many extra things can go wrong in that situation. Just cause she ain't on welfare doesn't make that shit right.
My grandmother had 4 kids by 4 different men. She married them all... the shit didn't work out with any of them. All of you mofos who think just because she didn't marry the babies fathers are seriously jaded. All four of her children went to college (without fathers being a daily part of their lives) and became productive members of society. The bottom line is if Erykah is legally taking care of her children and if your money and time isn't required to keep her family afloat then it's none of your damn business. If you can't see that shit, then you are one of the self-righteous, judgmental folks that you were originally called. My gripe isn't with the fact that she has three baby daddies. My gripe is that she acts like she doesn't know what birth control is. There isn't anything wrong with fucking as many people as you want to. Just be careful. And by careful, I'm not talking only about STD's. | |
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dseann said: bsk3601 said: My grandmother had 4 kids by 4 different men. She married them all... the shit didn't work out with any of them. All of you mofos who think just because she didn't marry the babies fathers are seriously jaded. All four of her children went to college (without fathers being a daily part of their lives) and became productive members of society. The bottom line is if Erykah is legally taking care of her children and if your money and time isn't required to keep her family afloat then it's none of your damn business. If you can't see that shit, then you are one of the self-righteous, judgmental folks that you were originally called. My gripe isn't with the fact that she has three baby daddies. My gripe is that she acts like she doesn't know what birth control is. There isn't anything wrong with fucking as many people as you want to. Just be careful. And by careful, I'm not talking only about STD's. maybe she wanted three kids  2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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dseann said: bsk3601 said: My grandmother had 4 kids by 4 different men. She married them all... the shit didn't work out with any of them. All of you mofos who think just because she didn't marry the babies fathers are seriously jaded. All four of her children went to college (without fathers being a daily part of their lives) and became productive members of society. The bottom line is if Erykah is legally taking care of her children and if your money and time isn't required to keep her family afloat then it's none of your damn business. If you can't see that shit, then you are one of the self-righteous, judgmental folks that you were originally called. My gripe isn't with the fact that she has three baby daddies. My gripe is that she acts like she doesn't know what birth control is. There isn't anything wrong with fucking as many people as you want to. Just be careful. And by careful, I'm not talking only about STD's. | |
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Vendetta1 said: MuthaFunka said: And we're ALL judgmental. It's natural. No way to avoid it. In fact, we wouldn't even be POSTING at ANY message board if we weren't judgmental. Thinking and talking negative shit about someone when we all fucked up in some way is triflin'. Making a judgment call and being judgmental are two totally separate things.No, I'm speaking exactly on being judgmental. We're ALL guilty of that. It just boils down to what side you're on once the 'judgments' come down. nWo: bboy87 - Timmy84 - LittleBlueCorvette - MuthaFunka - phunkdaddy - Christopher
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bsk3601 said: audience1 said: I don't give a damn whether or not she's rich. Bottom line: she's got THREE kids by THREE different men! Anyone who grew up broke and in the hood and has half a brain can tell you how detrimental that can be. I've seen that shit too many times, and it's sickening. Raising a kid is hard enough, but raising them RIGHT under those circumstances is going to be a very uphill battle. So many extra things can go wrong in that situation. Just cause she ain't on welfare doesn't make that shit right.
My grandmother had 4 kids by 4 different men. She married them all... the shit didn't work out with any of them. All of you mofos who think just because she didn't marry the babies fathers are seriously jaded. All four of her children went to college (without fathers being a daily part of their lives) and became productive members of society. The bottom line is if Erykah is legally taking care of her children and if your money and time isn't required to keep her family afloat then it's none of your damn business. If you can't see that shit, then you are one of the self-righteous, judgmental folks that you were originally called. Bullshit! Point blank: grandma was wrong! Just because it worked out for grandma doesn't mean it was right. Read the post - that kind situation makes it harder and much more difficult to raise kids RIGHT. For each success story I can show you 5 failures! Marriage status has nothing to do with it. Whether married or single - deluded is deluded. Don't make it harder on yourself, especially in this day and age. | |
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Vendetta1 said: dseann said: My gripe isn't with the fact that she has three baby daddies. My gripe is that she acts like she doesn't know what birth control is. There isn't anything wrong with fucking as many people as you want to. Just be careful. And by careful, I'm not talking only about STD's. To you and SupaFunky, if she wanted three kids, then I stand down. Like I said I have no problems with anyone fucking as many people as they want to. In my opinion, a ho is just a name a man calls a woman who wants to have sex one more time than he can manage. | |
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I think everyone is just jealous she has some babies by some hot ass men with some good dick who are good fathers that are able to take care of their offspring. i mean how much better could it get?[Edited 4/6/09 16:12pm] To make a thief, make an owner; to create crime, create laws. | |
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dseann said: Vendetta1 said: What if she wanted three kids? She could have thought at the time, that the guy she was with was the love of her life and wanted to have his kid. I don't get what the big fucking deal is other than people want to call her a ho. for all we know folks on this thread fuck way more and way more people than Badu has.
To you and SupaFunky, if she wanted three kids, then I stand down. Like I said I have no problems with anyone fucking as many people as they want to. In my opinion, a ho is just a name a man calls a woman who wants to have sex one more time than he can manage. She's a Pisces so it's very likely that the men just couldn't handle her grandness. Believe, me as a Pisces I can relate! 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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I know she still smokin, but I think her mind is right, unlike Lauryn Hill. | |
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Vendetta1 said: dseann said: My gripe isn't with the fact that she has three baby daddies. My gripe is that she acts like she doesn't know what birth control is. There isn't anything wrong with fucking as many people as you want to. Just be careful. And by careful, I'm not talking only about STD's. How many sexual partners she has or does not have is completely irrelevant. ANY woman that feels she needs to have a child with every man she "falls in love with," within months of meeting him has MAJOR self-esteem issues. Case closed. | |
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audience1 said: bsk3601 said: My grandmother had 4 kids by 4 different men. She married them all... the shit didn't work out with any of them. All of you mofos who think just because she didn't marry the babies fathers are seriously jaded. All four of her children went to college (without fathers being a daily part of their lives) and became productive members of society. The bottom line is if Erykah is legally taking care of her children and if your money and time isn't required to keep her family afloat then it's none of your damn business. If you can't see that shit, then you are one of the self-righteous, judgmental folks that you were originally called. Bullshit! Point blank: grandma was wrong! Just because it worked out for grandma doesn't mean it was right. Read the post - that kind situation makes it harder and much more difficult to raise kids RIGHT. For each success story I can show you 5 failures! Marriage status has nothing to do with it. Whether married or single - deluded is deluded. Don't make it harder on yourself, especially in this day and age. Say that! 
This is not an optimal situation to raise children today. Obviously she can do what she wants, just like I can chose to comment on it.  | |
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lilgish said: I know she still smokin, but I think her mind is right, unlike Lauryn Hill.
I doubt she smoked during the pregnancy, but Lauryn claims she doesn't get blunted and look at what happened there. Don't blame the ganja, don't knock it 'til you tried it.
Is anyone going to rag on Lauryn for having five kids with the same man and not marrying him? | |
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SCNDLS said: Vendetta1 said: What if she wanted three kids? She could have thought at the time, that the guy she was with was the love of her life and wanted to have his kid. I don't get what the big fucking deal is other than people want to call her a ho. for all we know folks on this thread fuck way more and way more people than Badu has.
How many sexual partners she has or does not have is completely irrelevant. ANY woman that feels she needs to have a child with every man she "falls in love with," within months of meeting him has MAJOR self-esteem issues. Case closed. well i would say the ones she has chosen to have a child with have been the cream of the crop in the genetics department. there's nothing stupid about that. To make a thief, make an owner; to create crime, create laws. | |
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Y'all better watch out.Erykah might come into this thread and put some of y'all on blast I remember when she went to Okayplayer last year and really spoke her mind.She'll tell you exactly what she thinks of your "opinions". | |
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SCNDLS said: audience1 said: Bullshit! Point blank: grandma was wrong! Just because it worked out for grandma doesn't mean it was right. Read the post - that kind situation makes it harder and much more difficult to raise kids RIGHT. For each success story I can show you 5 failures! Marriage status has nothing to do with it. Whether married or single - deluded is deluded. Don't make it harder on yourself, especially in this day and age. Say that!
This is not an optimal situation to raise children today. Obviously she can do what she wants, just like I can chose to comment on it. Damn girl. Just because you're not phuckin rappers for tracks doesn't mean you have to be so hateful and bitter  
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SoulAlive said: Y'all better watch out.Erykah might come into this thread and put some of y'all on blast
I remember when she went to Okayplayer last year and really spoke her mind.She'll tell you exactly what she thinks of your "opinions".I WISH
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SoulAlive said: Y'all better watch out.Erykah might come into this thread and put some of y'all on blast
I remember when she went to Okayplayer last year and really spoke her mind.She'll tell you exactly what she thinks of your "opinions".That's what I love about her. | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: SoulAlive said: Y'all better watch out.Erykah might come into this thread and put some of y'all on blast
I remember when she went to Okayplayer last year and really spoke her mind.She'll tell you exactly what she thinks of your "opinions".I WISH
Then I could openly worship her  To make a thief, make an owner; to create crime, create laws. | |
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Cuddles said: SCNDLS said: How many sexual partners she has or does not have is completely irrelevant. ANY woman that feels she needs to have a child with every man she "falls in love with," within months of meeting him has MAJOR self-esteem issues. Case closed. well i would say the ones she has chosen to have a child with have been the cream of the crop in the genetics department. there's nothing stupid about that. Cream of WHAT crop??? Oh so getting preggers just because a dude has good DNA is a good idea now???  Maybe that's how she decides.[Edited 4/6/09 16:22pm] | |
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SCNDLS said: Vendetta1 said: What if she wanted three kids? She could have thought at the time, that the guy she was with was the love of her life and wanted to have his kid. I don't get what the big fucking deal is other than people want to call her a ho. for all we know folks on this thread fuck way more and way more people than Badu has.
How many sexual partners she has or does not have is completely irrelevant. ANY woman that feels she needs to have a child with every man she "falls in love with," within months of meeting him has MAJOR self-esteem issues. Case closed. | |
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dseann said: lilgish said: I know she still smokin, but I think her mind is right, unlike Lauryn Hill.
I doubt she smoked during the pregnancy, but Lauryn claims she doesn't get blunted and look at what happened there. Don't blame the ganja, don't knock it 'til you tried it.
Is anyone going to rag on Lauryn for having five kids with the same man and not marrying him? How could she he was already married. | |
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SCNDLS said: Cuddles said: well i would say the ones she has chosen to have a child with have been the cream of the crop in the genetics department. there's nothing stupid about that. Cream of WHAT crop??? Oh so getting preggers just because a dude has good DNA is a good idea now??? Maybe that's how she decides.
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