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Reply #570 posted 05/04/16 2:08pm

nelcp777

headtripparade said:

I don't think whoever drove him to Walgreens is at fault. An enabler? Sure, but also someone on the payroll who was on the clock. I think the fact that the team took it upon themselves to call the doctors in California is proof that they wanted to help, but it was out of their hands. Even if Prince knew he had a problem, there is still something that happens when you try to take the medication away from someone who has developed a problem. Just imagine a realistic scene in which the Walgreens driver says "I am not taking you to get more pills." I see that going as well as a scene where they refuse to leave him alone.

Very good points.

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Reply #571 posted 05/04/16 2:18pm

PeteSilas

nelcp777 said:

headtripparade said:

I don't think whoever drove him to Walgreens is at fault. An enabler? Sure, but also someone on the payroll who was on the clock. I think the fact that the team took it upon themselves to call the doctors in California is proof that they wanted to help, but it was out of their hands. Even if Prince knew he had a problem, there is still something that happens when you try to take the medication away from someone who has developed a problem. Just imagine a realistic scene in which the Walgreens driver says "I am not taking you to get more pills." I see that going as well as a scene where they refuse to leave him alone.

Very good points.

aren't they saying that they didn't find many scripts with p's name on them, haven't they also said a lady friend went in while p waited? if that's true, that's enbabling.

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Reply #572 posted 05/04/16 2:25pm

headtripparade

PeteSilas said:



nelcp777 said:




headtripparade said:


I don't think whoever drove him to Walgreens is at fault. An enabler? Sure, but also someone on the payroll who was on the clock. I think the fact that the team took it upon themselves to call the doctors in California is proof that they wanted to help, but it was out of their hands. Even if Prince knew he had a problem, there is still something that happens when you try to take the medication away from someone who has developed a problem. Just imagine a realistic scene in which the Walgreens driver says "I am not taking you to get more pills." I see that going as well as a scene where they refuse to leave him alone.

Very good points.



aren't they saying that they didn't find many scripts with p's name on them, haven't they also said a lady friend went in while p waited? if that's true, that's enbabling.



If a lady went inside while he waited then either A) the script wasn't for Percocet or B) one of the "fake names" was actually the name of this woman and therefore the woman and the doctor who knowingly wrote the script should be charged.

Walgreens is extremely strict on their controlled substance policy. You have to show ID and pick the drugs up yourself. I've never been to a Walgreens that wasn't so strict. Twice I'd just been released home from surgery and they wouldn't let me husband (who has the same last name and address and is the policy holder of our insurance) pick up my pain medication.
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Reply #573 posted 05/04/16 2:25pm

Eileen

nelcp777 said:

headtripparade said:

Just imagine a realistic scene in which the Walgreens driver says "I am not taking you to get more pills." I see that going as well as a scene where they refuse to leave him alone.

Very good points.


Exactly, thank you. Prince would have ended up at Walgreen's anyway, and he would have ended up back at Paisley Park anyway, and he would have been alone there, anyway.


All the personal protestations of "I wouldn't have allowed this to happen!", "How could they!", "I blame his handlers" are, sadly, fan nonsense. Let's not turn this into the MJ spectacle please. Let's not infantilize a grown man whose number one priority was keeping an iron grip over his own affairs as well as the activities of those around him.


From final RS interview: "Prince believes artists shouldn't have managers: "You should be a grown man, be able to man-age yourself.""

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Reply #574 posted 05/04/16 2:31pm

PeteSilas

that's where ethics come in, I wouldn't help anyone destroy themselves, I'll refuse my own brother money if he needs cigarettes (most of the time, sometimes he needs food too). Some people have no ethical character. I work for a dentist and every so often I'll ask (as i did recently about percocet) and both times he's responded with "why? are you looking?" nice guy but obviously someone who isn't that strong in that department. if it were me? I would just tell him that I can't do it, what would he do fire me? so what, i won't help someone destroy themselves, in fact, I feel guilty for even ever working at a grocery store and selling alcohol, wouldn't do it again.

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Reply #575 posted 05/04/16 2:34pm

Eileen

headtripparade said:

PeteSilas said:

aren't they saying that they didn't find many scripts with p's name on them, haven't they also said a lady friend went in while p waited? if that's true, that's enbabling.

If a lady went inside while he waited then either A) the script wasn't for Percocet or B) one of the "fake names" was actually the name of this woman and therefore the woman and the doctor who knowingly wrote the script should be charged.


That type of scenario, yes I would agree that's legally wrong. It's hard to say if it's completely wrong though if this was a name commonly used by Prince in his medical care, where all involved knew about it, to keep his medical records private. Then it may still be against the law but not "completely wrong" if that makes sense.

(It appears to be common in New York and CA and little seems to be done about unless the rare scapegoat is needed, so I haven't been sure what the laws are if any - on using an alias for medical care.)

But if it was someone using a false name/pretenses to get him extra pills against the advice of any decent doctor, that's a different story, a bad one.

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Reply #576 posted 05/04/16 2:35pm

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Some interesting info found on:

http://www.endo.com/File%20Library/Products/Prescribing%20Information/PERCOCET_prescribing_information.html

[Edited 5/5/16 1:13am]

Life Matters
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Reply #577 posted 05/04/16 2:49pm

lwr001

nelcp777 said:

nursev said:

I hope to God we never find out who drove him there... disbelief

I am curious about the driver of the Escalade. I think he was at the memorial service. He stood out as he had on tennis shoes. I do not know if it is the same guy, but the vehicle in the WalGreen photo and the video of the parking lot of the dude getting into the Escalade seemed the same.

My opinion and speculation.

kirk johnson

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Reply #578 posted 05/04/16 2:51pm

Eileen

CherryMoon57 said:

Some interesting info found on:

http://www.endo.com/File%20Library/Products/Prescribing%20Information/PERCOCET_prescribing_information.html


Not sure the point of what you were highlighting. Prince pacing in the Walgreen's parking lot already showed he didn't have the conditions referenced (not to mention, there's been no suggestions that he did). ??

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Reply #579 posted 05/04/16 2:52pm

spastic78

Eileen said:



headtripparade said:


PeteSilas said:


aren't they saying that they didn't find many scripts with p's name on them, haven't they also said a lady friend went in while p waited? if that's true, that's enbabling.



If a lady went inside while he waited then either A) the script wasn't for Percocet or B) one of the "fake names" was actually the name of this woman and therefore the woman and the doctor who knowingly wrote the script should be charged.



That type of scenario, yes I would agree that's legally wrong. It's hard to say if it's completely wrong though if this was a name commonly used by Prince in his medical care, where all involved knew about it, to keep his medical records private. Then it may still be against the law but not "completely wrong" if that makes sense.

(It appears to be common in New York and CA and little seems to be done about unless the rare scapegoat is needed, so I haven't been sure what the laws are if any - on using an alias for medical care.)

But if it was someone using a false name/pretenses to get him extra pills against the advice of any decent doctor, that's a different story, a bad one.



What's your source for the lady friend? I thought TMZ just released one photo of him pacing outside the Walgreens?
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Reply #580 posted 05/04/16 3:02pm

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Eileen said:

CherryMoon57 said:

Some interesting info found on:

http://www.endo.com/File%20Library/Products/Prescribing%20Information/PERCOCET_prescribing_information.html


Not sure the point of what you were highlighting. Prince pacing in the Walgreen's parking lot already showed he didn't have the conditions referenced (not to mention, there's been no suggestions that he did). ??

This part of the information makes it clear that there are high risks involved for the patients taking this medecine (and I haven't put all the info on here, feel free to see for yourself if you are not convinced) and that they should be closely monitered if they do. My point was that he had already had an overdose and therefore was at a higher risk and should have been more closely monitered - no matter what.

Life Matters
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Reply #581 posted 05/04/16 3:25pm

SteelPulse1

Yep that iron grip worked out pretty well.
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Reply #582 posted 05/04/16 4:01pm

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Dr. Drew is addressing this right now on CNN HLN, FYI.
[Edited 5/4/16 16:02pm]
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Reply #583 posted 05/04/16 4:26pm

nursev

tiggerlane said:

Dr. Drew is addressing this right now on CNN HLN, FYI. [Edited 5/4/16 16:02pm]

what did he say?

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Reply #584 posted 05/04/16 4:32pm

PeteSilas

spastic78 said:

Eileen said:


That type of scenario, yes I would agree that's legally wrong. It's hard to say if it's completely wrong though if this was a name commonly used by Prince in his medical care, where all involved knew about it, to keep his medical records private. Then it may still be against the law but not "completely wrong" if that makes sense.

(It appears to be common in New York and CA and little seems to be done about unless the rare scapegoat is needed, so I haven't been sure what the laws are if any - on using an alias for medical care.)

But if it was someone using a false name/pretenses to get him extra pills against the advice of any decent doctor, that's a different story, a bad one.

What's your source for the lady friend? I thought TMZ just released one photo of him pacing outside the Walgreens?

i think it was tmz, either way, nothing really reliable. I'm just mentioning that if it was true, that person had a lot to answer for.

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Reply #585 posted 05/04/16 4:38pm

tiggerlane

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nursev said:



tiggerlane said:


Dr. Drew is addressing this right now on CNN HLN, FYI. [Edited 5/4/16 16:02pm]

what did he say?



Dr. Drew is being very adamant that the save shot is not just for addicts. That is for anyone who is unresponsive. Mentioning that the doctors should have mandated care, and that there was a treatment center four miles from the home. Dr. Drew seems very cautious about calling Prince an addict. But the dang banner on the screen is horrible.
[Edited 5/4/16 16:39pm]
"I gave my love, I gave my life, I gave my body and mind..." - P
Thank you for the gifts - we will all meet again, dear Prince.
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Reply #586 posted 05/04/16 4:38pm

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nursev said:



tiggerlane said:


Dr. Drew is addressing this right now on CNN HLN, FYI. [Edited 5/4/16 16:02pm]

what did he say?


I would like to know too
It's a hurtful place, the world, in and of itself. We don't need to add to it. We all need one another. ~ PRN
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Reply #587 posted 05/04/16 4:41pm

fortuneandsere
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"Mauzy told the newspaper that Prince representatives called Kornfeld the night of 20 April because Prince “was dealing with a grave medical emergency”. Howard Kornfeld sent his son to explain how the confidential treatment would work, Mauzy said".

So given the truth of this, those closest to Prince were reacting to another bad situation - just like a week earlier on the plane - and probably had requested help without his consent: he had declined further medical assistance mere days before.

In summary, worst place to OD: on a plane without a doctor; and second, he's looking and feeling rough days later but exhorts? people to leave him well alone. After all, wouldn't you be concerned for his safety, enough to want to be around him for a while, if he's seen to be deteriorating again. There appears to be an inevitability to it all.

The world's problems like climate change can only be solved through strategic long-term thinking, not expediency. In other words all the govts. need sacking!

If you can add value to someone's life then why not. Especially if it colors their days...
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Reply #588 posted 05/04/16 4:41pm

nursev

tiggerlane said:

nursev said:

what did he say?

Dr. Drew is being very adamant that the save shot is not just for addicts. That is for anyone who is unresponsive. Mentioning that the doctors should have mandated care, and that there was a treatment center four miles from the home. Dr. Drew seems very cautious about calling Prince an addict. But the dang banner on the screen is horrible. [Edited 5/4/16 16:39pm]

Regardless to what he said you can't make someone get treatment unless theyre a danger to themselves or unconsious. On the plane sure, but once he was aware enough to say I wanna leave wasnt a damn thing any Dr or nurse could do sad

[Edited 5/4/16 16:42pm]

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Reply #589 posted 05/04/16 4:42pm

tiggerlane

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sonshine said:

nursev said:



tiggerlane said:


Dr. Drew is addressing this right now on CNN HLN, FYI. [Edited 5/4/16 16:02pm]

what did he say?


I would like to know too

I'm recording it so I can digest. He is saying now that his abandonment in early years may have led to the use of these opioids. Stressing use and not addiction. They are talking about possibility of someone giving him a sleeping pill that could have interacted. Mostly speculation.
"I gave my love, I gave my life, I gave my body and mind..." - P
Thank you for the gifts - we will all meet again, dear Prince.
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Reply #590 posted 05/04/16 4:44pm

nursev

tiggerlane said:

sonshine said:
I would like to know too
I'm recording it so I can digest. He is saying now that his abandonment in early years may have led to the use of these opioids. Stressing use and not addiction. They are talking about possibility of someone giving him a sleeping pill that could have interacted. Mostly speculation.

Really confused Damn now its because he was abandoned confused

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Reply #591 posted 05/04/16 4:45pm

morningsong

nursev said:

tiggerlane said:

sonshine said: I'm recording it so I can digest. He is saying now that his abandonment in early years may have led to the use of these opioids. Stressing use and not addiction. They are talking about possibility of someone giving him a sleeping pill that could have interacted. Mostly speculation.

Really confused Damn now its because he was abandoned confused

It's what Spike Lee brought up on the panel. I had a feeling we would hear echos of what was said on the panel popping up in the media. Did you watch it?







[Edited 5/4/16 16:47pm]

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Reply #592 posted 05/04/16 4:49pm

spastic78

PeteSilas said:



spastic78 said:


Eileen said:




That type of scenario, yes I would agree that's legally wrong. It's hard to say if it's completely wrong though if this was a name commonly used by Prince in his medical care, where all involved knew about it, to keep his medical records private. Then it may still be against the law but not "completely wrong" if that makes sense.

(It appears to be common in New York and CA and little seems to be done about unless the rare scapegoat is needed, so I haven't been sure what the laws are if any - on using an alias for medical care.)

But if it was someone using a false name/pretenses to get him extra pills against the advice of any decent doctor, that's a different story, a bad one.



What's your source for the lady friend? I thought TMZ just released one photo of him pacing outside the Walgreens?

i think it was tmz, either way, nothing really reliable. I'm just mentioning that if it was true, that person had a lot to answer for.




I don't know if I can agree. It's really hard to say no to someone in agonizing pain. Btw, Prince pacing is consistent with hip and knee pain -keep moving to keep the pain at bay. Sitting in cars antagonizes the pain.

I've been on pain meds for bone-on-bone arthritis since 2011; And it has got to the point where I can't run (used to do 10ks), dance or even do yoga. If my husband (as he has) told me he's not picking up my meds I'd go crazy. And so I once did OD and landed in the ER where I was advised to stay the night. Nope. No way. But since the doc explained that what happened to me was essentially what happened to MJ (it's called stacking) I freaked and decided to wean off the pain meds.

So to avoid pain I just lay on the couch all day. With flu-like symptoms. Someday soon I'll have another surgery to get moving again but now I'm scared shitless. And still my hubby and I would never consider me an addict/junkie...it's just chronic pain.
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Reply #593 posted 05/04/16 4:50pm

PeteSilas

i watched the earlier interview with pinsky, he and others just seemed to think (as I did) that prince wasn't a hardcore addict. Without being there though, how do we really know anything.

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Reply #594 posted 05/04/16 4:51pm

spastic78

tiggerlane said:

sonshine said:


I would like to know too

I'm recording it so I can digest. He is saying now that his abandonment in early years may have led to the use of these opioids. Stressing use and not addiction. They are talking about possibility of someone giving him a sleeping pill that could have interacted. Mostly speculation.


Dr Drew is an entertainment specialist/actor. Of course he needs viewers.
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Reply #595 posted 05/04/16 4:55pm

PeteSilas

spastic78 said:

PeteSilas said:

i think it was tmz, either way, nothing really reliable. I'm just mentioning that if it was true, that person had a lot to answer for.

I don't know if I can agree. It's really hard to say no to someone in agonizing pain. Btw, Prince pacing is consistent with hip and knee pain -keep moving to keep the pain at bay. Sitting in cars antagonizes the pain. I've been on pain meds for bone-on-bone arthritis since 2011; And it has got to the point where I can't run (used to do 10ks), dance or even do yoga. If my husband (as he has) told me he's not picking up my meds I'd go crazy. And so I once did OD and landed in the ER where I was advised to stay the night. Nope. No way. But since the doc explained that what happened to me was essentially what happened to MJ (it's called stacking) I freaked and decided to wean off the pain meds. So to avoid pain I just lay on the couch all day. With flu-like symptoms. Someday soon I'll have another surgery to get moving again but now I'm scared shitless. And still my hubby and I would never consider me an addict/junkie...it's just chronic pain.

sometimes the pain should just be endured I think. I had a horrible headache last night, but I didn't take anything with all this stuff on my mind. I've had some horrendous migraines, I'm thinking I'll just endure them from here on out. Yes it makes work difficult but I've done it. I wouldn't judge anyone else's pain only to say that I know it can humble anyone.

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Reply #596 posted 05/04/16 4:58pm

spastic78

nursev said:



tiggerlane said:


sonshine said:
I would like to know too

I'm recording it so I can digest. He is saying now that his abandonment in early years may have led to the use of these opioids. Stressing use and not addiction. They are talking about possibility of someone giving him a sleeping pill that could have interacted. Mostly speculation.

Really confused Damn now its because he was abandoned confused



Abandonment issues lead to opiod dependency?!? Wow! They are stretching! And shoot, the doctors in the hospital gave me an Ambien plus hydrocodone...not exactly an illegal practice.
[Edited 5/4/16 16:58pm]
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Reply #597 posted 05/04/16 5:00pm

tiggerlane

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morningsong said:



nursev said:




tiggerlane said:


sonshine said: I'm recording it so I can digest. He is saying now that his abandonment in early years may have led to the use of these opioids. Stressing use and not addiction. They are talking about possibility of someone giving him a sleeping pill that could have interacted. Mostly speculation.

Really confused Damn now its because he was abandoned confused



It's what Spike Lee brought up on the panel. I had a feeling we would hear echos of what was said on the panel popping up in the media. Did you watch it?







[Edited 5/4/16 16:47pm]



I haven't seen the panel...I will say that Dr. Drew does seem to be outlining different reasons someone might have a need to use these continually, and not be considered an addict or have addictive tendencies.

Just so heartbreaking, regardless.
[Edited 5/4/16 17:01pm]
"I gave my love, I gave my life, I gave my body and mind..." - P
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Reply #598 posted 05/04/16 5:01pm

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vandeluca said:

Thanks for sharing..



Selena4641 said:


I have a feeling that Prince passed due to being an addict. I know this because I was one too. It's called a functioning addict. To make my long story short, I'm a retired Mortician. I'm 5'2, weigh 115 pounds. My work caused me horrible back pain. My Dr. Started me on 4 Percocet 10 mg a day. Well after a few years, I decided I didn't want to take them anymore. I found out real quick what withdrawal was. withdrawal is like the Flu, but every nerve in your body is on fire. You will, puke and shit at the same time, you will be hot one minute and cold the next, your legs are restless. I wouldn't wish withdrawal on my worst enemy. Anyway, I started buying pills because I quit seeing my doctor. No one in my family had no idea I was buying and taking pills. That's why it's called a functioning addict. After 4 years of this, I heard of a medicine called Suboxone. Its a life saver. You take Suboxone until the doctor weens you off slowly. I was on it for 2 years. Everyone thinks that all addicts are like you see on tv, dirty, disheveled, stoned and begging people for money for drugs. Functioning addicts aren't like that. My family were in disbelief when I told them about why I was going to a Suboxone Doctor. I knew that Prince was probably hooked on something when I heard the news about the Narcan shot. I lost several of the people I used to buy pills from due to them overdosing. Prince was probably like me, he didn't take the pills to get fucked up and stoned, he took them for pain, and probably couldn't stand the agony of withdrawal. I bet when he got the Narcan shot, it threw him into withdrawal. He probably stopped his withdrawal by taking the pills again, and sadly overdosed. I don't think Prince was a Junkie, he was in genuine pain like I was, but couldn't stop because of withdrawal. If his death turns out to be due to overdose, please remember it can happen to anyone, and the way he died shouldn't diminish all he accomplished in his life. I don't understand why he didn't find a Suboxone Doctor in His city, or a nearby city. I found one in the phone book and I live in Nashville, Tn. I don't know why he wanted to go into full blown rehab facility. Maybe he didn't realize that he could go to a Suboxone Doctor and just get a script. Anyway, that's my long ass story. Sorry it was so long.


I have been saying this from the first murmurs about this tragedy being related to opiates. The withdrawl is brutal and for the individual on these pills it quickly becomes more about avoiding coming down than getting high. No matter if he was an addict or dependent or whatever he was no junkie. I can assure you no one wants to live that life if they have a choice. It's a horrible situation to be in, a horrible burden, and a horrible way to exist having your entire life revolve around the pills. My heart aches for him and what he was going thru for quite some time apparently. I wish he would have asked for help sooner. It's an incredibly hard habit to break but with his resources he had a better chance than most. Which leads me to believe he felt he wouldn't be the same creative genius without the pills. Perhaps they gave him the courage he needed to be who he was, or who he thought we all needed him to be. It's obvious he had some emotional scars from his childhood that were never dealt with appropriately. He like most other addicts turned to drugs to numb the pain. That's just my two cents but in the end I believe it goes back a long time and is much more complicated than we will ever really understand. None of it matters now anyway except as a lesson to others - both addicts and their caregivers.
It's a hurtful place, the world, in and of itself. We don't need to add to it. We all need one another. ~ PRN
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Reply #599 posted 05/04/16 5:04pm

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It looks like the reports from the Star Tribune are true. The story is on my local news with a local intervention connection reported. Too little too late. I'm watching it with the volume off. That's all I need to know. sad

"Music gives a soul to the universe, wings to the mind, flight to the imagination and life to everything." --Plato

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