I'm filing this one in the wet noodle department.

Whitnail said:

SodaShoes said:

I don't know what that means...I'm glad I uplifted you in some way...

Andy Allo posted that today on her facebook page, which by all means would suggest that she sleeps alone...1+1+1=?

That is very nice. Prince must have gave that guitar to her as a gift. She is a very fortunate girl.

I'm not envious of that...I don't play guitar, she deserves that kind of a present. I don't want anyone to think that I have a true mean bone in my body, because I don't. I've just reached the end of a 33 year old rope, that's all.

NiceNBreezy said:

I'm filing this one in the wet noodle department.

Have some sauce!

SodaShoes said:

Whitnail said:

Andy Allo posted that today on her facebook page, which by all means would suggest that she sleeps alone...1+1+1=?

That is very nice. Prince must have gave that guitar to her as a gift. She is a very fortunate girl.

I'm not envious of that...I don't play guitar, she deserves that kind of a present. I don't want anyone to think that I have a true mean bone in my body, because I don't. I've just reached the end of a 33 year old rope, that's all.

You joined Prince.org this year or not?

SodaShoes I aint mad at U! To each their own. But whats funny to me is you've been a Prince fan for so long is questioning Prince morality now! It seems backwards to me! U should've had these questions during the early year before he became a preacher! Back when he was STRAIGHT N UR FACE DIRTY, NASTY, FREAKY , DISGUSTING, & SATANIC! U know the Prince we all loved! Your about 20 years late!

Here's a morality question for you. Was claiming that you have outgrown porn just an excuse to talk about what is obviously your favorite subject? Porn? Because this is one of the filthiest posts I've ever read in a forum. Good God. The only thing that was missing was a condom avatar. Prince is not having sex with Andy. Shame on you.

Excuse me SodaShoes, what book are U referring to?

Do U have a instruction book which lists how an "adult" needs to dress?

I am mature, but still I like to wear some kind of "kickers" brand shoes, just because sometimes my feet hurt so much..those shoes look like children's shoes...

Sometimes, I like to wear high heels with a man's shirt and a belt..these don't make me feel less or more adult ???

SodaShoes said:

Tittypants said:

I personally feel that it shows a lack of maturity when you can only date [marry], & flirt with women that are young enough to be your daughter [or grand daughter], but hey, that's just me . I will admit that it is funny reading people's comments trying to defend Prince....for no reason as usual.

There are men that stay clear of the problems it causes with the women in their appropriate age group.

It's almost like you put up a barrier in your mind and you don't allow the thoughts to creep up on you.

I can't even fathom having sex with a man or boy, 30 years younger than I am. Even if it were just in my mind...I'm not gonna do it.

Out of curiosity, that age barrier. Where do you draw the line? When is a younger woman still okay? And does it make any difference when the woman is mature herself?

SodaShoes, might it be immoral to judge others? Only two emotions, love and fear rule the world. Sounds like you are fearful that Prince might love Andy. You can't force love or tell Prince who to love, it's either there or it isn't. The age of a person can't determine how someone thinks or what they're made of. Some people grow old with a youthful mind, and there are some young that have ancient thoughts and assumptions.

Why not focus on the fact that Prince seems happy working with Andy and be happy for him? We don't know what Prince and Andy do in private. Tuning into just the music that Prince and any other artist makes, free of fear and judgment, will allow you to enjoy the musical creation by itself.

I'm able to disregard some of the iffy lyrics/moves from Prince's past and I'm sure not going to condemn him now. Negative emotions do not decide what music I play and enjoy. Prince's music has an uplifting quality and deserves respect. We don't know what Prince does when he's off the stage, it's really not our business. But judging others takes precious time away from finding something or someone to love. Love God, others and yourself

colorblu said:

SodaShoes, might it be immoral to judge others? Only two emotions, love and fear rule the world. Sounds like you are fearful that Prince might love Andy. You can't force love or tell Prince who to love, it's either there or it isn't. The age of a person can't determine how someone thinks or what they're made of. Some people grow old with a youthful mind, and there are some young that have ancient thoughts and assumptions.

Why not focus on the fact that Prince seems happy working with Andy and be happy for him? We don't know what Prince and Andy do in private. Tuning into just the music that Prince and any other artist makes, free of fear and judgment, will allow you to enjoy the musical creation by itself.

I'm able to disregard some of the iffy lyrics/moves from Prince's past and I'm sure not going to condemn him now. Negative emotions do not decide what music I play and enjoy. Prince's music has an uplifting quality and deserves respect. We don't know what Prince does when he's off the stage, it's really not our business. But judging others takes precious time away from finding something or someone to love. Love God, others and yourself

somehow this all seems like you're mad that you can't be the new hoe in his bed

rdhull said:

somehow this all seems like you're mad that you can't be the new hoe in his bed

[Edited 10/2/11 10:05am]

I missed u too Tame

I listen to his music and what he does as long as both party is of legal age is his business not mine.

NiceNBreezy said:

Here's a morality question for you. Was claiming that you have outgrown porn just an excuse to talk about what is obviously your favorite subject? Porn? Because this is one of the filthiest posts I've ever read in a forum. Good God. The only thing that was missing was a condom avatar. Prince is not having sex with Andy. Shame on you.

Devotion is my favorite subject...and that includes a lot more than the body.

SodaShoes said:

OnlyNDaUsa said:

18 and ova....

Does this mean that you believe it would be wrong for Prince to sing "Let's get it on," with a 17 year old girl?

no. it is just a song. and 17 is legal in some states/countries.

catpark said:

Hmmm, I must admit I feel uneasy by the age gap, hes old enough to be her grandad. They think that all they need is music to get by, but hes gonna make her tainted and visa versa. Thats their problem.

I guess I'm not alone with the age gap thing...

ganesh said:

Excuse me SodaShoes, what book are U referring to?

Do U have a instruction book which lists how an "adult" needs to dress?

I am mature, but still I like to wear some kind of "kickers" brand shoes, just because sometimes my feet hurt so much..those shoes look like children's shoes...

Sometimes, I like to wear high heels with a man's shirt and a belt..these don't make me feel less or more adult ???

I guess it depends on where you go.

Riverman37 said:

As mad as a bag of monkeys...

Tremolina said:

SodaShoes said:

There are men that stay clear of the problems it causes with the women in their appropriate age group.

It's almost like you put up a barrier in your mind and you don't allow the thoughts to creep up on you.

I can't even fathom having sex with a man or boy, 30 years younger than I am. Even if it were just in my mind...I'm not gonna do it.

Out of curiosity, that age barrier. Where do you draw the line? When is a younger woman still okay? And does it make any difference when the woman is mature herself?

I think 11-14 years is enough of a gap to draw a basic line. When a girl is old enough to become a mother. It's just a personal feeling.

colorblu said:

SodaShoes, might it be immoral to judge others? Only two emotions, love and fear rule the world. Sounds like you are fearful that Prince might love Andy. You can't force love or tell Prince who to love, it's either there or it isn't. The age of a person can't determine how someone thinks or what they're made of. Some people grow old with a youthful mind, and there are some young that have ancient thoughts and assumptions.

Why not focus on the fact that Prince seems happy working with Andy and be happy for him? We don't know what Prince and Andy do in private. Tuning into just the music that Prince and any other artist makes, free of fear and judgment, will allow you to enjoy the musical creation by itself.

I'm able to disregard some of the iffy lyrics/moves from Prince's past and I'm sure not going to condemn him now. Negative emotions do not decide what music I play and enjoy. Prince's music has an uplifting quality and deserves respect. We don't know what Prince does when he's off the stage, it's really not our business. But judging others takes precious time away from finding something or someone to love. Love God, others and yourself

I personally feel it is alright to judge others. Iron sharpens iron. I can love someone and not like their behavior.

These are my personal feelings and I don't expect others to feel the way that I do.

I may be an extra sensitive person at this time in my life...but I didn't enjoy the interaction between Prince and Andy over the summer. That disappoints me. Prince and Andy aren't doing a gospel album as far as I can tell.

Negative emotions don't decide what music you play and enjoy? I do not believe that.

Have you ever changed the radio station because a song made you sad?

rdhull said:

somehow this all seems like you're mad that you can't be the new hoe in his bed

A deep long love is at the heart of what could have been a beautiful thing.

mzsadii said:

I listen to his music and what he does as long as both party is of legal age is his business not mine.

My mind understands this layer of thinking.

I have a biased opinion because I put Prince as a head of a Spiritual Table.

I looked at Prince's career filled with every kind of song that you can imagine, as if Prince was trying to change the world for the better. I could see that through sex and spirituality as well as equality and gathering souls was a purpose behind the music.

I respect the business endeavors he has made. The mentorship. The good lyrics and the bad lyrics. The rock-n-roll edge, the danceable, and the sweet love songs.

Aging with Prince has made me as one person...dependent on an invisible friend. 6 years ago when Prince went into celibacy...so did I. That was my own choice for my life, it had nothing to do with his choice to do that for God. However, I did look at the (possibility) of my celibacy being a great wedding present if a date was even possible with Prince. Just to know 4 sure if he and I could be happy. I don't care if people think this is a crazy thought...In over 30 years, I never have. In and out of the youth, In and out of the money...I just looked at Prince as a soul and me as a soul...covered in bodies like the rest of us.

Prince's behavior borderlines the hypocritical, in my opinion.

I'll be the first person to buy a cd that is made between Prince and Andy...and if there are sexually related songs on the record, I will no longer trust his endeavors as responsible in the eyes of the Church. If I cannot respect Prince any longer, I have no other choice but to resign from my desire to know him on a personal level.

These feelings I am having came as a shock to me.

OnlyNDaUsa said:

SodaShoes said:

Does this mean that you believe it would be wrong for Prince to sing "Let's get it on," with a 17 year old girl?

no. it is just a song. and 17 is legal in some states/countries.

Well, I'm having problems getting through Marvin Gaye's version at this time...because I don't enjoy the sexual implication between Prince and Andy. It may not appear wrong on the outside...It feels wrong on the inside.

On a serious note, I am intrigued abit about this thread, it has, as irish comedian Dylan Moran would say "Potential"

I showed this to my GF, who finds it alarming that someone would find an age gap an issue of morality. She is 17 yrs younger than me. My previous GF was 11 yrs younger, she now has a kid with and is engaged to a guy 21 yrs older than her.

My first proper GF was older than me, only by a yr, but when you are 17, a year is alot. Around that age I was always attracted more to older women, as I reached my late 20´s and that first relationship of 9 yrs ended, I noticed that I was seeing younger girls alot. In hindsight, I believe that has something to do with structures and rules.

Just to make sure I am understood correctly, my GF went after me, not coz I have a fancy car, super job and so on, she simply found me unique. I personally didnt see it coming, as I had given up on finding someone that I would share my life with, I didnt even see the advances she was making, mostly coz I didnt believe for 1 second that someone like her would have an interest in someone like me. In the end she had to spell it out for me, in a graveyard in Germany where Albert Speer is buried, at 5am, was abit crazy, but I soon realised i had found a soulmate.

As for porn, dont even get me started on that...

It's wonderful when you find love of any kind...Love has to share a parallel dream and paralell principles to make it through a lifetime happily. I hope that you do make it forever.

People are layered beings.

From the general, emotional-spiritual-and physical, to the daily moods people experience.

A lasting marriage, and a marriage that has a genuine smile to it are two different things.

When we have learned a broken heart doesn't feel good, we become exceptionally selective.