chocolate1 said:

Hey Girl!

I was wondering where you were!

Yeah, been busy. But every now and then I come in and peek around.

paintedlady said:

Most of my lovers were horrble at giving oral sex... and so was I.

I learned how to give head with practice, I became more confident, and with that confidence I was able to "read" my partner better and actually be open to any criticism or pointers given.

I didn't know how to suck dick, I had to learn, so I use that approach with any new lover I have.

He has to "learn" my body because all pussies look different and just are. This is why many lovers fail at oral until they learn that lover's body.

Gotta know your partner and what feels good for them. Now I agree with Lady Cassanova and Chocolate1 about getting the job done right.

My current lover only gets better at this skill, but I had to be patient because when we first started out he would induce pain and not pleasure. Now he knows how to handle my pussy so it feels great.

Sometimes it takes time to learn to work a specific pussy or dick. The more head I give the better I get. I think that holds true for most things in life.

Not to brag, but the first dick I sucked, the guy got mad and told me I was lying when I told him he was the first. Okay, I am bragging.

Stymie said:

And let me add that I prefer to give than to receive. It's such a turn on to feel a man's body react to every little lick and suck you give him.

I very much prefer giving to receiving. And I very much prefer being penetrated to receiving oral. No matter how good a man is at it (my last bf was really good at it, but he enjoyed licking me much more than I did I think), it's not something I enjoy that much. For short periods of times it's okay but pretty much everything else is more fun for me.

[Edited 7/15/14 15:50pm]

paintedlady said:

chocolate1 said:

Hey Girl!

I was wondering where you were!

Yeah, been busy. But every now and then I come in and peek around.

And of course you knew you were needed on this thread

i just like to start by thinking of his organ as a nice big meatsicle and go from there

XxAxX said:

i just like to start by thinking of his organ as a nice big meatsicle and go from there

I usually chew my meat.

paintedlady said:

My current lover only gets better at this skill, but I had to be patient because when we first started out he would induce pain and not pleasure. Now he knows how to handle my pussy so it feels great.

I'm just glad he was willing to work at it, not everyone is.

hate oral sex, all that troughing on my nethers & then comes up to plant me a clungy kiss, ewww no ta.

Stymie said:

paintedlady said:

Most of my lovers were horrble at giving oral sex... and so was I.

I learned how to give head with practice, I became more confident, and with that confidence I was able to "read" my partner better and actually be open to any criticism or pointers given.

I didn't know how to suck dick, I had to learn, so I use that approach with any new lover I have.

He has to "learn" my body because all pussies look different and just are. This is why many lovers fail at oral until they learn that lover's body.

Gotta know your partner and what feels good for them. Now I agree with Lady Cassanova and Chocolate1 about getting the job done right.

My current lover only gets better at this skill, but I had to be patient because when we first started out he would induce pain and not pleasure. Now he knows how to handle my pussy so it feels great.

Sometimes it takes time to learn to work a specific pussy or dick. The more head I give the better I get. I think that holds true for most things in life.

Not to brag, but the first dick I sucked, the guy got mad and told me I was lying when I told him he was the first. Okay, I am bragging.

Some folks have a natural ability, easy for some. For me, its was a learning process. I was told by a few lovers (once I did learn) that they didn't like receiving head since the women they met didn't make them cum that way.

I fixed that issue!

LadyCasanova said:

paintedlady said:

My current lover only gets better at this skill, but I had to be patient because when we first started out he would induce pain and not pleasure. Now he knows how to handle my pussy so it feels great.

I'm just glad he was willing to work at it, not everyone is.

Yeah he would STAY sucking on just my clit. OUCH!

I would pull away and he got the hint, THANK GOD!!!! ZERO orgasm for me after two minutes of him vacumming my clit because it would go numb and stay that way.

Now he he gives good head, enough where I actually can ride through multiple orgasms on a good day.

Serious said:

paintedlady said:

Yeah, been busy. But every now and then I come in and peek around.

And of course you knew you were needed on this thread

Naw, ya'll had this one covered. I still thought I'd share my two rusty pennies.

LadyCasanova said:

XxAxX said:

i just like to start by thinking of his organ as a nice big meatsicle and go from there

I usually chew my meat.

paintedlady said:

Serious said:

And of course you knew you were needed on this thread

Naw, ya'll had this one covered. I still thought I'd share my two rusty pennies.

Glad you did!

Please use your hands while you're down there..that's all I ask!! And I don't mind sucking alll night long

Tokyo89 said:

Please use your hands while you're down there..that's all I ask!! And I don't mind sucking alll night long

MoBettaBliss said:

dJJ said:

Most men are incompetent.

most men?

wow

you sure must have had a lot of guys eat your pussy to be able to say that

not sure how you get anything done... i can understand how you can type on a message board with a guy's head between your legs... but how do you do the vacuuming?

and do you go to church?

the mind boggles

boggle boggle

What do church and vacuuming have to do with oral sex?

Tokyo89 said:

Please use your hands while you're down there..that's all I ask!! And I don't mind sucking alll night long

YES!!!!

Tokyo89 said:

Please use your hands while you're down there..that's all I ask!! And I don't mind sucking alll night long

Soft and gentle, though.


That is something I can't pinpoint enough.

It's getting hot in this thread.

dJJ said:

Tokyo89 said:

Please use your hands while you're down there..that's all I ask!! And I don't mind sucking alll night long

Soft and gentle, though.


That is something I can't pinpoint enough.

That too