I was with my friend at an outside burger joint close to West Hollywood.

And this old white guy comes up to my friend and say's ''Sorry about Vietnam'' 0_o and i think the dude was trying to flirt...

To which my friend replied '' I'm not Vietnamese and I'm sorry your a typical ignorant old white man'

I died laughing for a good hour but also was shaking my head at some ignorant shit people can say

I feel bad for my friend cause he actually get's a lot of stupid shit thrown his way... just last week some dude on okcupid emailed him asking ''do you do thai massages and how much is it''

I don't know if I should or

aardvark15 said:

I don't know if I should or

aardvark15 said:

I don't know if I should or

BOTH!

And on a real talk moment here...

I Do honestly feel sorry for my friend's who are Asian, Black, Latino, Middle Eastern etc. Cause although i do try to understand what they go through won't ever fully know cause i am just mixed and obviously identify as white. But i think it's awful how some people have these presumptions about gay men of color especially from old white men and i frankly think it's disgusting how some of them act. This is also not the worst thing i have heard an older white guy say to one of my Asian friend's either...

Gunsnhalen said:

This is also not the worst thing i have heard an older white guy say to one of my Asian friend's either...

Trust me, I've heard some really bad things said to Asians

aardvark15 said:

Gunsnhalen said:

This is also not the worst thing i have heard an older white guy say to one of my Asian friend's either...

Trust me, I've heard some really bad things said to Asians

And hey i have admited i am attracted to asian guys and my ex bf's except 1 were Asian.

But i love guys from every race

I'm talking about these predators who just want young asian boys and them only lord... they creep me the fuck out.

And they will say shit like '' I love anime or i love k-pop'' like that is going to make them wanna sleep with you? lord

Gunsnhalen said:

I'm talking about these predators who just want young asian boys and them only lord... they creep me the fuck out.

And they will say shit like '' I love anime or i love k-pop'' like that is going to make them wanna sleep with you? lord

Gunsnhalen said:

And this old white guy comes up to my friend and say's ''Sorry about Vietnam'' 0_o and i think the dude was trying to flirt...

To which my friend replied '' I'm not Vietnamese and I'm sorry your a typical ignorant old white man'

I died laughing for a good hour but also was shaking my head at some ignorant shit people can say

I feel bad for my friend cause he actually get's a lot of stupid shit thrown his way... just last week some dude on okcupid emailed him asking ''do you do thai massages and how much is it''

I feel bad for the 'Old ignorant white guy'. Bollocks to you and ya friend. You're feelin alright, obviously.

I wonder why he felt the need to apologise to anyone for anything? What if he's a vet or has some connection with Vietnam? After all, he's old. What if his head's so fucked because of what happened that he feels responsible in some way and he was trying to make good on something that wasn't his fault in the first place. Doesn't matter who to. He might have had to put up with a lot more shit than you or ya mates being offended by being called bignose or slitty-eyes.

Maybe he's just a mad old man and like some of us, if we're lucky or unlucky enough to get to his age, might appreciate a bit less ignorance.

No offense o course, just my old arsed white ignorant opinion.

Fonkyman said:

Gunsnhalen said:

And this old white guy comes up to my friend and say's ''Sorry about Vietnam'' 0_o and i think the dude was trying to flirt...

To which my friend replied '' I'm not Vietnamese and I'm sorry your a typical ignorant old white man'

I died laughing for a good hour but also was shaking my head at some ignorant shit people can say

I feel bad for my friend cause he actually get's a lot of stupid shit thrown his way... just last week some dude on okcupid emailed him asking ''do you do thai massages and how much is it''

I feel bad for the 'Old ignorant white guy'. Bollocks to you and ya friend. You're feelin alright, obviously.

I wonder why he felt the need to apologise to anyone for anything? What if he's a vet or has some connection with Vietnam? After all, he's old. What if his head's so fucked because of what happened that he feels responsible in some way and he was trying to make good on something that wasn't his fault in the first place. Doesn't matter who to. He might have had to put up with a lot more shit than you or ya mates being offended by being called bignose or slitty-eyes.

Maybe he's just a mad old man and like some of us, if we're lucky or unlucky enough to get to his age, might appreciate a bit less ignorance.

No offense o course, just my old arsed white ignorant opinion.

Psssh really? are your serious right now?

This dude was not fucked up and he was trying to flirt with my friend and the cleverest thing he thought to say was ''i'm sorry about vietnam'' this bitch even told us he was just flirting and meant no harm...

Who the fuck say's that shit when flirting? defend him all you want but that's ignorant on his part and i feel my friend was not in the wrong.

Besides that he's making a racist assumption my friend is Vietnamese as well when he's not

At least your friend is growing up in California.

I grew up in Alabama. ..... in the late 80s....

imagine that.

imago said:

At least your friend is growing up in California.

I grew up in Alabama. ..... in the late 80s....

imagine that.

Oh fuck damn what was that like?

And also according to some people on here you should just let white old men say racists thing's to you cause he might be a vet & deserves respect ya fuck.

Gunsnhalen said:

imago said:

At least your friend is growing up in California.

I grew up in Alabama. ..... in the late 80s....

imagine that.

Oh fuck damn what was that like?

And also according to some people on here you should just let white old men say racists thing's to you cause he might be a vet & deserves respect ya fuck.

It was weird, because I was fine as fuck back in those days, but folks didn't like Asians--so it confused folks when they fell for me.

Lawd

imago said:

Gunsnhalen said:

Oh fuck damn what was that like?

And also according to some people on here you should just let white old men say racists thing's to you cause he might be a vet & deserves respect ya fuck.

It was weird, because I was fine as fuck back in those days, but folks didn't like Asians--so it confused folks when they fell for me.

Lawd

The 80's saw a lot of bad shit for Asian Americans..

For one thing throughout the 80's many people were afraid that Vietnam still had POW's still hidden so they treated Vietnamese people like shit.

I read that a lot of people were afraid Chinese people were going to try to nuke America with the Russians so that was a no go in the scared people of the 80's.

I feel bad for ya Dan it must have sucked in those days :

And you were fine as fuck then! i would have rimmed you and fucked you aggresively for sure

Gunsnhalen said:

Psssh really? are your serious right now?

This dude was not fucked up and he was trying to flirt with my friend and the cleverest thing he thought to say was ''i'm sorry about vietnam'' this bitch even told us he was just flirting and meant no harm...

Who the fuck say's that shit when flirting? defend him all you want but that's ignorant on his part and i feel my friend was not in the wrong.

Besides that he's making a racist assumption my friend is Vietnamese as well when he's not

I'm not defending anyone. Apart from myself for posting when I was pissed up last night.

I'm not that serious either, I couldn't give a shit. What grabbed my attention was your ignorance. You're pissing and moaning about an old fella being racist and ignorant at the same time as being racist and ignorant yourself. What's a "Typical ignorant old white man"? Or don't you think that's racist? Course not.

So what if someone assumes your mate's Vietnamese and comes out with a load of bollocks? Not worth getting out of your pram about is it.

This is pointless. Have a fabulous day. Oh, and sorry about vietnam.

Ignorant stupid people say ignorant stupid things.

If it's not about skin colour, the'll make stupid remarks about gender, clothing style of whatever. It's a reflection of them, not you.

I always have a blast with my race.

Somehow, people get puzzled about where I come from.

They always ask me from which country I am.

Sometimes I get racist remarks, but they crack me up, because I'm white, proving how stupid judgemental these people are.

People think I'm Eastern European, Asian, South Europe, Mixed Middle East or whatever,

and I always love my answer:

Friesland, and all my great, great, great grandfathers and mothers come from Friesland too.

The surprised look never bores me.

For those who don't know what Friesland is;

it's a region in the North of Holland, where most are blond and have blue eyes. Doutzen Kroes is a good example:

dJJ said:

Ignorant stupid people say ignorant stupid things.

Very true. And so do drunk people.

I'd never heard of Friesland or Doutzen Kroes. It all looks lovely to me.

I say let's live and let live, if we can.

Fonkyman said:

dJJ said:

Ignorant stupid people say ignorant stupid things.

Very true. And so do drunk people.

I'd never heard of Friesland or Doutzen Kroes. It all looks lovely to me.

I say let's live and let live, if we can.

Yes, unmistakenly white people on Friesland. That's why I think it's so funny people assume I'm not white. Especially in the summer

Fonkyman said:

Gunsnhalen said:

Psssh really? are your serious right now?

This dude was not fucked up and he was trying to flirt with my friend and the cleverest thing he thought to say was ''i'm sorry about vietnam'' this bitch even told us he was just flirting and meant no harm...

Who the fuck say's that shit when flirting? defend him all you want but that's ignorant on his part and i feel my friend was not in the wrong.

Besides that he's making a racist assumption my friend is Vietnamese as well when he's not

I'm not defending anyone. Apart from myself for posting when I was pissed up last night.

I'm not that serious either, I couldn't give a shit. What grabbed my attention was your ignorance. You're pissing and moaning about an old fella being racist and ignorant at the same time as being racist and ignorant yourself. What's a "Typical ignorant old white man"? Or don't you think that's racist? Course not.

So what if someone assumes your mate's Vietnamese and comes out with a load of bollocks? Not worth getting out of your pram about is it.

This is pointless. Have a fabulous day. Oh, and sorry about vietnam.

Hmmm well for one i didn't say that my friend did.

And my friend get's a lot of racist shit said to him by old white gay men i mean geesh did you not read Imago's response? if you really think he was out of the wrong for that fine.

But it still sounds to me you find it ok for some random dude to be racists towards my friend and he's supposed to just take it sitting down fuck that shit.

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