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PurpleJedi

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When your S.O. flaunts an affair...

This pic is suddenly in the news because it's been recreated by the couple f...rette show;

We all remember it, don't we?

Brad was still married to Jennifer Anniston, and apparently it was HIS idea to shoot this theme in order to "promote their film" (Mr & Mrs Smith).

Pitt was actually the creative mastermind behind the whole thing. He teamed with photographer Steven Klein to explore what he called the “unidentifiable malaise” that often haunts a seemingly happy couple. “You don't know what’s wrong because the marriage is everything you signed up for,” he told the magazine. W ran a whopping 60 photos of Pitt and Jolie from the shoot, which was set in Pitt's birth year, 1963, and featured them as a husband and wife with a large brood of children.

Aniston – whose divorce from Pitt wasn't finalized until October of that year – was devastated by the magazine spread. “There’s a sensitivity chip that’s missing,” Aniston later said of Pitt's decision to flaunt his relationship with Jolie.

IMO...it's less likely that he was missing "sensitivity" as much as he was overwhelmed & intoxicated by the new relationship.

Reminds me of back when I was back-&-forth with the ex, trying to "work on it" by giving each other "space to do our own thing"...and while I didn't see pictures, the subtle Facebook posts were bad enough. Not only did she have her lover as a friend on Facebook, but the posts were pretty much a flaunt of what was going on. The one that finally got me to block her as a friend (before I moved out) was... "Why can't the good nights last forever?"

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So...what about YOU?

Assuming there's factors at play that prevent you from outright dumping them...

Have you ever had a significant other FLAUNT an affair?

What if they did?

Would YOU?!?!

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Reply #1 posted 08/09/12 8:56am

imago

yup. I have.

And, turned the story around to wear everyone more or less believed the lies.

Charm goes a loooooong fucking way towards what others view as legitimacy. lol

But luckily, facebook wasn't a problem as I was the one being blocked (without my

knowlege lol ), so I never saw the posts. I had to hear it from mutual IRL friends.

I guess it hurts a lot less when the person is hiding it from you? I mean, if it was

in-my-face flaunting, that shit would have been truly rank.

Have you considered going gay? I mean, there's so much less overhead in that you know.

Going bi doesn't solve much by way of simplicity.

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Reply #2 posted 08/09/12 9:02am

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imago said:

yup. I have.

And, turned the story around to wear everyone more or less believed the lies.

Charm goes a loooooong fucking way towards what others view as legitimacy. lol

But luckily, facebook wasn't a problem as I was the one being blocked (without my

knowlege lol ), so I never saw the posts. I had to hear it from mutual IRL friends.

I guess it hurts a lot less when the person is hiding it from you? I mean, if it was

in-my-face flaunting, that shit would have been truly rank.

Have you considered going gay? I mean, there's so much less overhead in that you know.

Going bi doesn't solve much by way of simplicity.

See now...

...you started off good, then end it with something worthy of a fishslap

rolleyes

..but just to clarify...when you said; "I have", does that mean that YOU were the one having & flaunting an affair???

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Reply #3 posted 08/09/12 9:08am

Mach

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~ Same as it ever was ...
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Reply #4 posted 08/09/12 9:09am

imago

PurpleJedi said:

imago said:

yup. I have.

And, turned the story around to wear everyone more or less believed the lies.

Charm goes a loooooong fucking way towards what others view as legitimacy. lol

But luckily, facebook wasn't a problem as I was the one being blocked (without my

knowlege lol ), so I never saw the posts. I had to hear it from mutual IRL friends.

I guess it hurts a lot less when the person is hiding it from you? I mean, if it was

in-my-face flaunting, that shit would have been truly rank.

Have you considered going gay? I mean, there's so much less overhead in that you know.

Going bi doesn't solve much by way of simplicity.

See now...

...you started off good, then end it with something worthy of a fishslap

rolleyes

..but just to clarify...when you said; "I have", does that mean that YOU were the one having & flaunting an affair???

No, I was cheated on.

But the flaunting was with everyone else but me.

In other words, there I was left out of the loop.

Which hurts, but is different than a person who is throwing it in your face.

..at least I think it is?

I deserve to be cheated on though, considering some of my....behavior then.

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Reply #5 posted 08/09/12 9:09am

imago

This thread is too much with the ghey.

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Reply #6 posted 08/09/12 9:20am

PurpleJedi

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Mach said:

lol

All kids of wrong Mach.

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Reply #7 posted 08/09/12 9:25am

XxAxX

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PurpleJedi said:

Mach said:

lol

All kids of wrong Mach.

i was going to say that lol

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Reply #8 posted 08/09/12 9:26am

PurpleJedi

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imago said:

No, I was cheated on.

But the flaunting was with everyone else but me.

In other words, there I was left out of the loop.

Which hurts, but is different than a person who is throwing it in your face.

..at least I think it is?

I deserve to be cheated on though, considering some of my....behavior then.

I don't think anyone really "deserves" it...it's my basic rule that if you decide it's time to move on, then just move on. Period.

Ignorance is bliss. So yeah, if you don't know about it, then it isn't like rubbing salt on your open wound.

I can only imagine that when Jennifer Anniston saw that "W" magazine spread, some things may have been thrown & broken around the house.

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Reply #9 posted 08/09/12 9:26am

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yes when i was 22 my SO decided he'd bang my best friend (at the time) behind my back. naturally, i ran like hell when i found out but that shit stings for a minute eh?

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Reply #10 posted 08/09/12 9:27am

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XxAxX said:

yes when i was 22 my SO decided he'd bang my best friend (at the time) behind my back. naturally, i ran like hell when i found out but that shit stings for a minute eh?

How did he flaunt it? And to whom?

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Reply #11 posted 08/09/12 9:29am

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PurpleJedi said:

XxAxX said:

yes when i was 22 my SO decided he'd bang my best friend (at the time) behind my back. naturally, i ran like hell when i found out but that shit stings for a minute eh?

How did he flaunt it? And to whom?

she flaunted it slyly, and he got around to flaunting it openly. we were graduates, sharing a house that summer and everyone living there knew what was up except for me sigh i was very naive and trusting back then

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Reply #12 posted 08/09/12 9:30am

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Kinda, I guess.

My ex slept with my best friend when we were still together and under the guise that they too were good friends they used to do stuff together all the time.

Funnily enough my "best friend" contacted me after not talking for about 14 years. She was in town so I met with her and sure enough, the first person she had met up with as soon as she arrived in town was my ex.

Guess I'll let another 14 years go by before talking again.

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Reply #13 posted 08/09/12 9:32am

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XxAxX said:

PurpleJedi said:

How did he flaunt it? And to whom?

she flaunted it slyly, and he got around to flaunting it openly. we were graduates, sharing a house that summer and everyone living there knew what was up except for me sigh i was very naive and trusting back then

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Reply #14 posted 08/09/12 9:33am

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PurpleJedi said:

imago said:

No, I was cheated on.

But the flaunting was with everyone else but me.

In other words, there I was left out of the loop.

Which hurts, but is different than a person who is throwing it in your face.

..at least I think it is?

I deserve to be cheated on though, considering some of my....behavior then.

I don't think anyone really "deserves" it...it's my basic rule that if you decide it's time to move on, then just move on. Period.

Ignorance is bliss. So yeah, if you don't know about it, then it isn't like rubbing salt on your open wound.

I can only imagine that when Jennifer Anniston saw that "W" magazine spread, some things may have been thrown & broken around the house.

nod

This remins me that I need to type out fantasy #3 on your appreciation thread.

Thanks for that.

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Reply #15 posted 08/09/12 9:33am

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JustErin said:

Kinda, I guess.

My ex slept with my best friend when we were still together and under the guise that they too were good friends they used to do stuff together all the time.

Funnily enough my "best friend" contacted me after not talking for about 14 years. She was in town so I met with her and sure enough, the first person she had met up with as soon as she arrived in town was my ex.

Guess I'll let another 14 years go by before talking again.

disbelief

So he just openly admitted it to you, but passed it off as just something "they did"???

faint

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Reply #16 posted 08/09/12 9:34am

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imago said:

PurpleJedi said:

I don't think anyone really "deserves" it...it's my basic rule that if you decide it's time to move on, then just move on. Period.

Ignorance is bliss. So yeah, if you don't know about it, then it isn't like rubbing salt on your open wound.

I can only imagine that when Jennifer Anniston saw that "W" magazine spread, some things may have been thrown & broken around the house.

nod

This remins me that I need to type out fantasy #3 on your appreciation thread.

Thanks for that.

fishslap

disbelief

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Reply #17 posted 08/09/12 9:35am

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PurpleJedi said:

JustErin said:

Kinda, I guess.

My ex slept with my best friend when we were still together and under the guise that they too were good friends they used to do stuff together all the time.

Funnily enough my "best friend" contacted me after not talking for about 14 years. She was in town so I met with her and sure enough, the first person she had met up with as soon as she arrived in town was my ex.

Guess I'll let another 14 years go by before talking again.

disbelief

So he just openly admitted it to you, but passed it off as just something "they did"???

faint

She told me, and then tried to tell me that they had become close and were friends...but they were still fucking.

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Reply #18 posted 08/09/12 9:35am

XxAxX

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PurpleJedi said:

XxAxX said:

she flaunted it slyly, and he got around to flaunting it openly. we were graduates, sharing a house that summer and everyone living there knew what was up except for me sigh i was very naive and trusting back then

pat

hug thank you dear. it did suck at the time

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Reply #19 posted 08/09/12 9:36am

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JustErin said:

PurpleJedi said:

disbelief

So he just openly admitted it to you, but passed it off as just something "they did"???

faint

She told me, and then tried to tell me that they had become close and were friends...but they were still fucking.

...and exactly how many teeth is she missing now...?

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Reply #20 posted 08/09/12 9:40am

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PurpleJedi said:

JustErin said:

She told me, and then tried to tell me that they had become close and were friends...but they were still fucking.

...and exactly how many teeth is she missing now...?

Naw, I'm not like that....and back then I took shit like this out on myself - not them.

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Reply #21 posted 08/09/12 9:41am

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Still waiting to hear from any Orger brazen enough to admit they'd flaunt an affair...

...and just to be clear, this thread deals with the act of FLAUNTING the deed, not just doing it, but rather posting pics or openly flirting or whatever, either to your face or behind your back (although "to your face" is more what I was referring to).

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Reply #22 posted 08/09/12 9:42am

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JustErin said:

PurpleJedi said:

...and exactly how many teeth is she missing now...?

Naw, I'm not like that....and back then I took shit like this out on myself - not them.

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...yeah, actually I can relate in a way...

disbelief

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Reply #23 posted 08/09/12 10:22am

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PurpleJedi said:

imago said:

yup. I have.

And, turned the story around to wear everyone more or less believed the lies.

Charm goes a loooooong fucking way towards what others view as legitimacy. lol

But luckily, facebook wasn't a problem as I was the one being blocked (without my

knowlege lol ), so I never saw the posts. I had to hear it from mutual IRL friends.

I guess it hurts a lot less when the person is hiding it from you? I mean, if it was

in-my-face flaunting, that shit would have been truly rank.

Have you considered going gay? I mean, there's so much less overhead in that you know.

Going bi doesn't solve much by way of simplicity.

See now...

...you started off good, then end it with something worthy of a fishslap

rolleyes

..but just to clarify...when you said; "I have", does that mean that YOU were the one having & flaunting an affair???

yes

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Reply #24 posted 08/09/12 10:46am

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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

PurpleJedi said:

See now...

...you started off good, then end it with something worthy of a fishslap

rolleyes

..but just to clarify...when you said; "I have", does that mean that YOU were the one having & flaunting an affair???

yes

You're so vile sometimes.

It never fails to astound me how nasty you can be. rolleyes

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Reply #25 posted 08/09/12 10:51am

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imago said:

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

yes

You're so vile sometimes.

It never fails to astound me how nasty you can be. rolleyes

falloff It's just a ghey joke lol

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Reply #26 posted 08/09/12 10:52am

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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

imago said:

You're so vile sometimes.

It never fails to astound me how nasty you can be. rolleyes

falloff It's just a ghey joke lol

Oh please.

I'm not joking, so save your weasily posts for someone else rolleyes

I ignore your coniving ass as much as I can, but this shit gets old.

flit your ass over to someone else's damne conversation. rolleyes

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Reply #27 posted 08/09/12 11:04am

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imago said:

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

falloff It's just a ghey joke lol

Oh please.

I'm not joking, so save your weasily posts for someone else rolleyes

I ignore your coniving ass as much as I can, but this shit gets old.

flit your ass over to someone else's damne conversation. rolleyes

Someone made an observation and I simply commented on it. Not sure why you're hurt.

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Reply #28 posted 08/09/12 11:09am

imago

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

imago said:

Oh please.

I'm not joking, so save your weasily posts for someone else rolleyes

I ignore your coniving ass as much as I can, but this shit gets old.

flit your ass over to someone else's damne conversation. rolleyes

Someone made an observation and I simply commented on it. Not sure why you're hurt.

Bitch please. Being 'hurt' and wanting to swat an annoying knat are two different things.

I think you're vile as all fuck, and I would appreciate you just simply commenting where

you'd be more useful...elsewhere. rolleyes

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Reply #29 posted 08/09/12 11:10am

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imago said:

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Someone made an observation and I simply commented on it. Not sure why you're hurt.

Bitch please. Being 'hurt' and wanting to swat an annoying knat are two different things.

I think you're vile as all fuck, and I would appreciate you just simply commenting where

you'd be more useful...elsewhere. rolleyes

Well I think you know that I will comment wherever I want to comment. lol

you.

are.

projecting.

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