SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

imago said:

Bitch please. Being 'hurt' and wanting to swat an annoying knat are two different things.

I think you're vile as all fuck, and I would appreciate you just simply commenting where

you'd be more useful...elsewhere.

Well I think you know that I will comment wherever I want to comment.

you.

are.

projecting.

Then don't be so suprised if I project at your vile ass.

imago said:

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Well I think you know that I will comment wherever I want to comment.

you.

are.

projecting.

Then don't be so suprised if I project at your vile ass.

Vile. I can live with that.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

imago said:

Then don't be so suprised if I project at your vile ass.

Vile. I can live with that.

Of course.

imago said:

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Vile. I can live with that.

Of course.

Are we gonna do the "last word" dance?

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

imago said:

Of course.

Are we gonna do the "last word" dance?

You're so discusting, Richard. Truly.

WHy are you still on this thread anyways?

What have you possibly contributed to it other than to be coniving and

your usual scabby self?

lawd, last word dance my ass.

imago said:

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Are we gonna do the "last word" dance?

You're so discusting, Richard. Truly.

WHy are you still on this thread anyways?

What have you possibly contributed to it other than to be coniving and

your usual scabby self?

lawd, last word dance my ass.

I can't imagine why you are so upset as I have done absolutely nothing to you. Whatever grievence you have is made up in your head.

Anyway, yes I have had an S.O flaunt an affair in my face. He only flaunted for 2 weeks because I broke up with him after seeing him out on a date when we were both taking time off to sort out our relationship.

There, I've contributed.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

imago said:

You're so discusting, Richard. Truly.

WHy are you still on this thread anyways?

What have you possibly contributed to it other than to be coniving and

your usual scabby self?

lawd, last word dance my ass.

I can't imagine why you are so upset as I have done absolutely nothing to you. Whatever grievence you have is made up in your head.

Anyway, yes I have had an S.O flaunt an affair in my face. He only flaunted for 2 weeks because I broke up with him after seeing him out on a date when we were both taking time off to sort out our relationship.

There, I've contributed.

I can live with that.

Flaunting an affair is ridiculous... period. And Brad & Angelina were very lowdown for doing that.

Clean up in aisle 5.

As for the thread, I've never seen anyone brazenly flaunt an affair. It's tacky and classless and all around awful.

Timmy84 said:

Flaunting an affair is ridiculous... period. And Brad & Angelina were very lowdown for doing that.

I agree.

At the time, I remember seeing those pics (after seeing the movie and NOTICING the obvious chemistry) and thinking to myself; "that is so wrong".

CarrieMpls said:

As for the thread, I've never seen anyone brazenly flaunt an affair. It's tacky and classless and all around awful.

If you think back maybe 3 years, I started (one of my first wildly popular) a thread titled "When a Friend Cheats WWYD?"

My buddy was having an affair that he was trying to keep on the downlow with a co-worker. It was so OBVIOUS at times, but they never flaunted it. It was always a "secret". 3 years later he's in the midst of his divorce and he & his lover/girlfriend are living "happily ever after" (well, until the honeymoon is over IMO at least).

What strikes me about someone flaunting an affair is that...BAD ENOUGH that you're doing it...but you're REALLY going to add insult to injury & shit on whatever there was between you two? It speaks volumes on how little you think of that person.

That's exactly what I told the ex. She took whatever we had, chewed it up, spit it out, stomped on it, shit on it, and repeated the process.

I have a sneaky suspicion that my buddy may one day realize that things weren't THAT bad with his wife. If he ever wants to reconcile, in my heart I think he has a chance.

Meanwhile...I'd beat Usain Bolt in a footrace before opening up that door again.

Does it count if you flaunted something that wasn't actually happening to teach your SO a lesson?

LadyCasanova said:

Does it count if you flaunted something that wasn't actually happening to teach your SO a lesson?

Interesting.

I don't know.

LadyCasanova said:

Does it count if you flaunted something that wasn't actually happening to teach your SO a lesson?

hmm, that seems pretty passive-aggressive to me.

Not the best way to handle it. Maybe not the worst, either.

LadyCasanova said:

Does it count if you flaunted something that wasn't actually happening to teach your SO a lesson?

Well that doesn't make no sense either way.

PurpleJedi said:

LadyCasanova said:

Does it count if you flaunted something that wasn't actually happening to teach your SO a lesson?

Interesting.

I don't know.

A guy I had dated for about 3 years had gone to a party, got drunk, and got a hand job from some

drunk woman. I heard about it a few weeks later after seeing some really odd passive-aggressive

facebook posts between my SO, some random chick, and his bestfriend/house mate.

I got the information out of the house mate and talked to my SO about it. I told him that fair was fair,

if he could get a hand job from someone else than so could I. In fact, since he opened the door for an open relationship I would just go right ahead and jump on that train.

A few nights later I came strolling out of his bestfriends room while he (my SO) was eating breakfast. His best and I started to act pretty much as if we were fuck buddies, even though nothing

was actually going on, and I went on being with my SO as well.

Having to watch that was killing him. After a little while we told him it was all faked and I reminded

him that if he wasn't ready to share me with someone else than he damn sure better keep his dick in his pants because I could always find someone else.

We stayed together after that and he calmed down on the drinking.

NDRU said:

LadyCasanova said:

Does it count if you flaunted something that wasn't actually happening to teach your SO a lesson?

hmm, that seems pretty passive-aggressive to me.

Not the best way to handle it. Maybe not the worst, either.

Wouldn't it depend non the lesson being taught and why LC felt the need to teach it?

Well why would you "teach" your former lover ANYTHING? I don't get it. If someone fucked up, you move on, you don't go "HA" or "see this is what would happen" because that'll be rubbing it in people's faces. I don't know, it just seems ignorant to me and it's like you have something to prove rather than you falling in love with that person. That's why I don't think that the "Brangelina" story is real. Now I'm hearing either Brad or Jolie are cheating on each other so that inadvertently is giving them a lesson: any bad thing you do will come back to you.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

NDRU said:

hmm, that seems pretty passive-aggressive to me.

Not the best way to handle it. Maybe not the worst, either.

Wouldn't it depend non the lesson being taught and why LC felt the need to teach it?

I suppose it depends on the situation, yes, I'm just saying that's definitely not the best first approach!

Timmy84 said:

Well why would you "teach" your former lover ANYTHING? I don't get it. If someone fucked up, you move on, you don't go "HA" or "see this is what would happen" because that'll be rubbing it in people's faces. I don't know, it just seems ignorant to me and it's like you have something to prove rather than you falling in love with that person. That's why I don't think that the "Brangelina" story is real. Now I'm hearing either Brad or Jolie are cheating on each other so that inadvertently is giving them a lesson: any bad thing you do will come back to you.

In Lady's case, they stayed together. She did put the shoe on the other foot. I think he needed to wear it

LadyCasanova said:

PurpleJedi said:

Interesting.

I don't know.

A guy I had dated for about 3 years had gone to a party, got drunk, and got a hand job from some

drunk woman. I heard about it a few weeks later after seeing some really odd passive-aggressive

facebook posts between my SO, some random chick, and his bestfriend/house mate.

I got the information out of the house mate and talked to my SO about it. I told him that fair was fair,

if he could get a hand job from someone else than so could I. In fact, since he opened the door for an open relationship I would just go right ahead and jump on that train.

A few nights later I came strolling out of his bestfriends room while he (my SO) was eating breakfast. His best and I started to act pretty much as if we were fuck buddies, even though nothing

was actually going on, and I went on being with my SO as well.

Having to watch that was killing him. After a little while we told him it was all faked and I reminded

him that if he wasn't ready to share me with someone else than he damn sure better keep his dick in his pants because I could always find someone else.

We stayed together after that and he calmed down on the drinking.

I get it.

I would say you're dealing with a totally different situation.

HE was the one "flaunting" an affair...and you pretty much gave him a taste of his medicine.

Now...if I may ask...how would have felt if your actions hadn't elicited the response that it did and he continued with the other chick?

PurpleJedi said:

LadyCasanova said:

A guy I had dated for about 3 years had gone to a party, got drunk, and got a hand job from some

drunk woman. I heard about it a few weeks later after seeing some really odd passive-aggressive

facebook posts between my SO, some random chick, and his bestfriend/house mate.

I got the information out of the house mate and talked to my SO about it. I told him that fair was fair,

if he could get a hand job from someone else than so could I. In fact, since he opened the door for an open relationship I would just go right ahead and jump on that train.

A few nights later I came strolling out of his bestfriends room while he (my SO) was eating breakfast. His best and I started to act pretty much as if we were fuck buddies, even though nothing

was actually going on, and I went on being with my SO as well.

Having to watch that was killing him. After a little while we told him it was all faked and I reminded

him that if he wasn't ready to share me with someone else than he damn sure better keep his dick in his pants because I could always find someone else.

We stayed together after that and he calmed down on the drinking.

I get it.

I would say you're dealing with a totally different situation.

HE was the one "flaunting" an affair...and you pretty much gave him a taste of his medicine.

Now...if I may ask...how would have felt if your actions hadn't elicited the response that it did and he continued with the other chick?

Timmy84 said:

Well why would you "teach" your former lover ANYTHING? I don't get it. If someone fucked up, you move on, you don't go "HA" or "see this is what would happen" because that'll be rubbing it in people's faces. I don't know, it just seems ignorant to me and it's like you have something to prove rather than you falling in love with that person. That's why I don't think that the "Brangelina" story is real. Now I'm hearing either Brad or Jolie are cheating on each other so that inadvertently is giving them a lesson: any bad thing you do will come back to you.

You try to "teach them a lesson" I guess, when you want to save the relationship instead of just walking away.

The easiest thing is to walk away.

As for Bradgelina...I dunno. IMO (and none of us is in their bedroom so it's all just opinions); they met, fell in lust (we need to make a thread about "lust" and "love"), and the rest is history. Kind of like my buddy and his girl.

Will it last? Who knows? Depends on how deep their connection is and what they're willing to do to make it work.

But when you just walk away, you're either damaged beyond repair or lost that lovin' feelin'.

In LC's case, it seemed (to me) like the "offense" was minor enough to warrant a "fix". In my case, the ship has sailed, run into a reef, exploded, and sunk into the abyss.

My 2¢

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

PurpleJedi said:

I get it.

I would say you're dealing with a totally different situation.

HE was the one "flaunting" an affair...and you pretty much gave him a taste of his medicine.

Now...if I may ask...how would have felt if your actions hadn't elicited the response that it did and he continued with the other chick?

PurpleJedi said:

LadyCasanova said:

A guy I had dated for about 3 years had gone to a party, got drunk, and got a hand job from some

drunk woman. I heard about it a few weeks later after seeing some really odd passive-aggressive

facebook posts between my SO, some random chick, and his bestfriend/house mate.

I got the information out of the house mate and talked to my SO about it. I told him that fair was fair,

if he could get a hand job from someone else than so could I. In fact, since he opened the door for an open relationship I would just go right ahead and jump on that train.

A few nights later I came strolling out of his bestfriends room while he (my SO) was eating breakfast. His best and I started to act pretty much as if we were fuck buddies, even though nothing

was actually going on, and I went on being with my SO as well.

Having to watch that was killing him. After a little while we told him it was all faked and I reminded

him that if he wasn't ready to share me with someone else than he damn sure better keep his dick in his pants because I could always find someone else.

We stayed together after that and he calmed down on the drinking.

I get it.

I would say you're dealing with a totally different situation.

HE was the one "flaunting" an affair...and you pretty much gave him a taste of his medicine.

Now...if I may ask...how would have felt if your actions hadn't elicited the response that it did and he continued with the other chick?

I knew going into it that anything could happen. So I made peace with that before his best and

I did what we did. To be totally honest, there were moments in our "play acting" when things got

tense between me and his best. As much as I would have fought it, I think he and I would have

set things on fire had my (now) ex decided that he didn't want to continue our relationship.

Had he decided to be with the other woman I would have actually felt better, because I would have

known that it was about more than just a drunk hand job, he would have only continued with the

other woman if he felt like she and he might have something more. As it stood, he was just

an idiot who couldn't control himself when fucked-up.

Things are still hard between this ex and myself to this day. About a year and a half later I decided

that I wasn't happy in our relationship and broke it off. Though he's getting married next month he

still says that he is in love with me and would call it all off if I said I would give us a second chance.

Kind of makes me hate him, because his wife-to-be really loves him.

LadyCasanova said:

PurpleJedi said:

I get it.

I would say you're dealing with a totally different situation.

HE was the one "flaunting" an affair...and you pretty much gave him a taste of his medicine.

Now...if I may ask...how would have felt if your actions hadn't elicited the response that it did and he continued with the other chick?

I knew going into it that anything could happen. So I made peace with that before his best and

I did what we did. To be totally honest, there were moments in our "play acting" when things got

tense between me and his best. As much as I would have fought it, I think he and I would have

set things on fire had my (now) ex decided that he didn't want to continue our relationship.

Had he decided to be with the other woman I would have actually felt better, because I would have

known that it was about more than just a drunk hand job, he would have only continued with the

other woman if he felt like she and he might have something more. As it stood, he was just

an idiot who couldn't control himself when fucked-up.

Things are still hard between this ex and myself to this day. About a year and a half later I decided

that I wasn't happy in our relationship and broke it off. Though he's getting married next month he

still says that he is in love with me and would call it all off if I said I would give us a second chance.

Kind of makes me hate him, because his wife-to-be really loves him.

...oh HIM then...

imago said:

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Are we gonna do the "last word" dance?

You're so discusting, Richard. Truly.

WHy are you still on this thread anyways?

What have you possibly contributed to it other than to be coniving and

your usual scabby self?

lawd, last word dance my ass.

He can't contribute to this thread. No one would ever date him, so how could they possibly cheat on him, let along flaunt it?

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errant said:

imago said:

You're so discusting, Richard. Truly.

WHy are you still on this thread anyways?

What have you possibly contributed to it other than to be coniving and

your usual scabby self?

lawd, last word dance my ass.

He can't contribute to this thread. No one would ever date him, so how could they possibly cheat on him, let along flaunt it?

[Edited 8/9/12 15:21pm]

It was only a matter of time before you showed up

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[Edited 8/9/12 17:21pm]

OK... so I will add my experience.

I dated a guy when I was young, he was young too... I taught him how to have a bit of chivalry.

He would embarrass me when we went out, was always broke and refused to tip the server and would get angry when I pulled out my cash to tip the server.

I would often pay for our dinners. I would force him out to decent placed to dine.

I held on to him for too long because I got pregnant by him and tried to salvage a normal relationship with this cheapskate.

I ended up breaking things off with him, he made it a point to let me know he his new girlfriend was a white woman. As if I were color struck.

He would then ask me for advice on how to impress her and which restaurants were the most romantic and which hotels were the best to stay in.

Meanwhile he complained on having to help me buy necessities for our son.

Oh and I had an ex tell me that a woman who was old enough to be my mother (and he was cheating on me with, also dumped me for) was and I quote....

"better than me in everyway"

Yeah, I'll never let that thoughtless ex forget saying that to me. I throw that back up in his face when ever the opportunity arises.

I sure know how to pick em don't I?