This society does not appretiate submissive men very much. I have less than a minute to fix up this thread but I just want to say i love you submissive men!

No.

No, thanks.

JustErin said:

No.

Yes, ma'am

Well, if he has money and a big dick then aint nothing wrong with him being submissive. You could get sexed and then go shopping on his credit card- max the fucker out too. You could cheat on him and he wouldn't complain. You could tell him to get in the kitchen and make you some pancakes and he will ask if you'd prefer waffles. You could blast Hole and Nirvanna at 7 am on a Monday and when he asks you to turn it down you could tell him to fuck off and he actually would.

Dead...I think you're on to something.

sometimes maybe, sometimes maybe not

Uhhhh.. No

HOT.

I am!

JustErin said:

No.

Well I am not into women; maybe someone can start a submissive women appretiation thread next

First let me say it takes a lot of courage for a submissive man to admit he is such.

Most of the time he is bigger and stronger than the woman he submits to so he is doing it willingly vs being forced to "serve".

I am not putting down dominate men or submissive women.

That is sooooo NOT what this thread is about.

I just love a man who likes to have their face ridden until I have had enough.

A man willing to put my needs before his own.

I man who LOVES it when I take control and tell him exactly what I want.

Christianity and other religions make it seem as if ALL MEN are meant to be dominant and all women are meant to be submissive.

I have always attracted submissive men and they have urged me to unleash my more dominant self and assured me that they loved it. It took me a while to get it; but I am happy that I finally did!

HotGritz said:

Well, if he has money and a big dick then aint nothing wrong with him being submissive. You could get sexed and then go shopping on his credit card- max the fucker out too. You could cheat on him and he wouldn't complain. You could tell him to get in the kitchen and make you some pancakes and he will ask if you'd prefer waffles. You could blast Hole and Nirvanna at 7 am on a Monday and when he asks you to turn it down you could tell him to fuck off and he actually would.

Dead...I think you're on to something.

Many submissive men have money and power in the workplace. They also get turned on by being ordered around and given a list of demands. They like being pussy whipped in private. Society puts such men down so I am here to show some appretiation for their willingness to go against societies pressures.

i am honestly suprised that there are not more (quantity wise) possitive responses.

Have we all become more conservative around the org?

Sometimes I wonder

I am probably submissive by nature (or very early nurture) but I am less and less so as I get older.

I've learned it doesn't really serve me well to be submissive in life or in relationships.

during sex? Yeah, why not, there's a limit though...

relationships?? NO : mutual respect/understanding...basic...

in life? HELL NO FUCK NO. Nothing left to say here...

How about submissive when appropriate but otherwise aggressive (kinda-sorta-vers-but-really- mostly-bottom) bottoms? Huh? Huh?

johnart said:

How about submissive when appropriate but otherwise aggressive (kinda-sorta-vers-but-really- mostly-bottom) bottoms? Huh? Huh?

You mean a geek in the streets, and a freak in the sheets?

That ain't for me, but to each their own.

JoeTyler said:

during sex? Yeah, why not, there's a limit though...

relationships?? NO : mutual respect/understanding...basic...

in life? HELL NO FUCK NO. Nothing left to say here...

I think most people are not 100% pure submissives or dominants.

Many sexually submissive men are not submissive everywhere.

It would be exausting to dominate a person in every area of their life. I know that there are some extra freaky types that do this but I would need a break.

ScarletScandal said:

johnart said:

How about submissive when appropriate but otherwise aggressive (kinda-sorta-vers-but-really- mostly-bottom) bottoms? Huh? Huh?

You mean a geek in the streets, and a freak in the sheets?

This is deffinately my favorite!

NDRU said:

I am probably submissive by nature (or very early nurture) but I am less and less so as I get older.

I've learned it doesn't really serve me well to be submissive in life or in relationships.

I think I have always been pretty submissive in life. The good girl who makes no waves. I had a very domineering mother and older sister.

This may be why, in the bedroom, I can be bossy.

I’m kinda extreme. I either want a totally dom man who I have to be submissive

for, or a submissive man who knows I run shit and wouldn’t have it any other way. Generally,

I only tend to be in LTR’s with submissive men, as I am naturally dominant and can only play

the submissive game for a while, and generally only in the sack.

I think people get “submissive” confused with “weak.” I’ve dated plenty of submissive men who

are dominant in other spheres (their family, work, athletics etc). Just because he’s on his hands

and knees in my bedroom after hours, doesn’t mean he won’t rip your throat out if you break into our house.

But I like a man who is submissive in our relationship in general. You can be the boss

everywhere else, and we can even pretend in public if that’s what you need to protect

your masculinity, but we both know who the King is. That doesn’t mean I don’t care about

your needs or your desires, on the contrary, my ass will take out anyone who gets in my mans

way. The bills are paid baby, don’t sweat it. I already had the oil changed, dinner reservations

have been made, and your hair appointment is at 3pm, come sit on my lap and tell me how good

of a boy you’ve been.

I’ll do all that and spank you and cum in your mouth and be up and in my suit ready for work

in the morning. I don’t want a slave, but if you want to be my house bitch you don’t even have to work.

I am flexible but I love it when a man realizes how powerful I am and his eyes get big, his

mouth waters, and his dick starts to get hard.

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Deadflow3r said:

I just love a man who likes to have their face ridden until I have had enough.

A man willing to put my needs before his own.

I man who LOVES it when I take control and tell him exactly what I want.

No matter if it's the woman or the man who is dominant, I do think some kind of dominance/submission dynamic is often exciting during sex (I'm ok with either role). A perfectly equal act with carefully balanced giving and receiving of pleasure is often kind of vanilla.

we've been married a looong time, he's submissive, we rarely argue, he will go to the ends of the earth, he always lets me get the last word, he never sulks & lets me think i'm in charge. very occasionally i am wrong get put in my place, when it matters he is totally dominent. he's so perfect, these men do exist.

LadyCasanova said:

Deadflow3r said:

I just love a man who likes to have their face ridden until I have had enough.

A man willing to put my needs before his own.

I man who LOVES it when I take control and tell him exactly what I want.

I LOVE this person's art. I see it on tumblr. a lot.

ScarletScandal said:

johnart said:

How about submissive when appropriate but otherwise aggressive (kinda-sorta-vers-but-really- mostly-bottom) bottoms? Huh? Huh?

You mean a geek in the streets, and a freak in the sheets?

I don't know if I'd consider myself a geek in the streets.

johnart said:

I LOVE this person's art. I see it on tumblr. a lot.

I love his art as well, I've had the chance to see a lot of it.