I've never felt so hurt in my life. My new relationship just told me we are friends,

after making me feel that I was the most beautiful girl in the world for the last six months;

not only that, but he told me who he is really attracted to sexually. How do you guys

look at this.

Why do you make woman feel like this, and pop some silly response like the above?

I really don't understand............I want answers....

I wish I could tell you some legit answer, but I can't. I wouldn't do that, but, maybe he had a reason. You could have done something to turn him off [that's happened to me before].....

obsessed said:

I've never felt so hurt in my life. My new relationship just told me we are friends,

after making me feel that I was the most beautiful girl in the world for the last six months;

not only that, but he told me who he is really attracted to sexually. How do you guys

look at this.

Why do you make woman feel like this, and pop some silly response like the above?

I really don't understand............I want answers....

You expect men to actually give you a straight answer on why they do stuff like this?

I don't know if you did something or not, but though 6 months is quite awhile, it really isn't that long. And if there is a reason, and it's legit, it's better he backed out instead of sticking it out if it was dishonest and he didn't mean it. It sounds like you really cared for him though, so it's going to take awhile to accept it, so feel whatever you need to though also find a way of letting go.

Tittypants said:

I wish I could tell you some legit answer, but I can't. I wouldn't do that, but, maybe he had a reason. You could have done something to turn him off [that's happened to me before].....

Thank you for your honest and understanding response. I guess I must have said something

wrong. We talked for several hours tonight...he even gave me a beautiful gift, and then he

laid this on me. But then he said, "I don't want to lose you". What the hell was that?

Dren5 said:

obsessed said:

I've never felt so hurt in my life. My new relationship just told me we are friends,

after making me feel that I was the most beautiful girl in the world for the last six months;

not only that, but he told me who he is really attracted to sexually. How do you guys

look at this.

Why do you make woman feel like this, and pop some silly response like the above?

I really don't understand............I want answers....

You expect men to actually give you a straight answer on why they do stuff like this?

Yes, of course I do. Most of the men I've known in my life are very honest.

At least, I think they are.

alphastreet said:

I don't know if you did something or not, but though 6 months is quite awhile, it really isn't that long. And if there is a reason, and it's legit, it's better he backed out instead of sticking it out if it was dishonest and he didn't mean it. It sounds like you really cared for him though, so it's going to take awhile to accept it, so feel whatever you need to though also find a way of letting go.

He still wants me in his life, and I told him I don't really know if I can do that.

The gal he wants to shag is a good friend of mine...that's what makes it even harder.

obsessed said:

Tittypants said:

I wish I could tell you some legit answer, but I can't. I wouldn't do that, but, maybe he had a reason. You could have done something to turn him off [that's happened to me before].....

Thank you for your honest and understanding response. I guess I must have said something

wrong. We talked for several hours tonight...he even gave me a beautiful gift, and then he

laid this on me. But then he said, "I don't want to lose you". What the hell was that?

You're welcome. I've been turned off from women before for a number of reasons..... some good, some bad.

obsessed said:

Dren5 said:

You expect men to actually give you a straight answer on why they do stuff like this?

Yes, of course I do. Most of the men I've known in my life are very honest.

At least, I think they are.

This is like expecting Superman to tell you Kryptonite will fucking kill him .

cause women say it to guys. your it n then your shit ..

idk ..

Tittypants said:

obsessed said:

Thank you for your honest and understanding response. I guess I must have said something

wrong. We talked for several hours tonight...he even gave me a beautiful gift, and then he

laid this on me. But then he said, "I don't want to lose you". What the hell was that?

You're welcome. I've been turned off from women before for a number of reasons..... some good, some bad.

I've been turned off from men before for a number of reasons also....

it's not a one-way street, ya know.

But thanks anyway...

Dren5 said:

obsessed said:

Yes, of course I do. Most of the men I've known in my life are very honest.

At least, I think they are.

This is like expecting Superman to tell you Kryptonite will fucking kill him .

Well, maybe Kryptonite killed me...ever thought of it that way before?

jon1967 said:

cause women say it to guys. your it n then your shit ..

idk ..

I feel some honesty here, even if it is rather crass.

not meant to say it in a crass manner .. just sayin .. sorry your bummed n hurt.

jon1967 said:

not meant to say it in a crass manner .. just sayin .. sorry your bummed n hurt.

It's ok, I'll get over it. Thanks for the response.

obsessed said:

...after making me feel that I was the most beautiful girl in the world for the last six months...

How sweet of him

PANDURITO said:

obsessed said:

...after making me feel that I was the most beautiful girl in the world for the last six months...

How sweet of him

Right... what a smoozer, smooth talker...

however, I still believe in men.

They're not all that way...I'd like to believe that anyway.

does that mean your not beautiful anymore ?

jon1967 said:

does that mean your not beautiful anymore ?

Absolutely not! I'm just as beautiful as I was before.

damn str8 now go kick some ass .. : )

jon1967 said:

damn str8 now go kick some ass .. : )

No worries, I will

obsessed said:

alphastreet said:

I don't know if you did something or not, but though 6 months is quite awhile, it really isn't that long. And if there is a reason, and it's legit, it's better he backed out instead of sticking it out if it was dishonest and he didn't mean it. It sounds like you really cared for him though, so it's going to take awhile to accept it, so feel whatever you need to though also find a way of letting go.

He still wants me in his life, and I told him I don't really know if I can do that.

The gal he wants to shag is a good friend of mine...that's what makes it even harder.

This is ridiculous. Move on.

obsessed said:

I've never felt so hurt in my life. My new relationship just told me we are friends,

after making me feel that I was the most beautiful girl in the world for the last six months;

not only that, but he told me who he is really attracted to sexually. How do you guys

look at this.

Why do you make woman feel like this, and pop some silly response like the above?

I really don't understand............I want answers....

Are you sure he was into you as much as you were into him?

Just because he's is/was sweet to you and you felt special doesn't mean that he wanted you to be his woman for life. Not all men are interested in every woman they meet sexually.

dseann said:

obsessed said:

I've never felt so hurt in my life. My new relationship just told me we are friends,

after making me feel that I was the most beautiful girl in the world for the last six months;

not only that, but he told me who he is really attracted to sexually. How do you guys

look at this.

Why do you make woman feel like this, and pop some silly response like the above?

I really don't understand............I want answers....

Are you sure he was into you as much as you were into him?

Just because he's is/was sweet to you and you felt special doesn't mean that he wanted you to be his woman for life. Not all men are interested in every woman they meet sexually.

This.

Well, he probably didn't do that to intentionally make you sad, so...

I think it's possible to be friends with an ex-lover, or a person you thought was your lover,

as long as there's enough maturity and, in some cases, resistance.

He sounds like he's just being honest and maybe he's seen in you that you wanted more than he wants out of you guys relationship and then he just decided to tell you how he feels. If his actions doesn't change towards you then I'm guessing he was pretty sincere all along.

obsessed said:

I've never felt so hurt in my life. My new relationship just told me we are friends,

after making me feel that I was the most beautiful girl in the world for the last six months;

not only that, but he told me who he is really attracted to sexually. How do you guys

look at this.

Why do you make woman feel like this, and pop some silly response like the above?

I really don't understand............I want answers....

What do you mean by "relationship"?

Like you were actually having a monogamous sexual relationship or you were just basically friends spending time together and he finally let you know that you were only going to stay friends?

KidaDynamite said:

dseann said:

Are you sure he was into you as much as you were into him?

Just because he's is/was sweet to you and you felt special doesn't mean that he wanted you to be his woman for life. Not all men are interested in every woman they meet sexually.

This.

JustErin said:

obsessed said:

I've never felt so hurt in my life. My new relationship just told me we are friends,

after making me feel that I was the most beautiful girl in the world for the last six months;

not only that, but he told me who he is really attracted to sexually. How do you guys

look at this.

Why do you make woman feel like this, and pop some silly response like the above?

I really don't understand............I want answers....

What do you mean by "relationship"?

Like you were actually having a monogamous sexual relationship or you were just basically friends spending time together and he finally let you know that you were only going to stay friends?

No, This!