Okay, I'm new here and I'm also about to leave, just heard there was an org stalker, freaked me out my account's bout to be deleted; but before I go......One last topic:

How long can a woman still be considered hot? I'll be 30 in a few weeks and at one time I found this depressing but now I kind of feel that women are staying hotter much longer. Can we still be hot in our 40's? 50's? Men, be honest! I know it depends on the woman but if your a 40 year old man, do you want a 40 year old woman? Or do you just want the 20 year old?

I've always been mostly attracted to women my own age. It's something about being on the same wavelength and having shared frames of reference I guess. It would bore me out of my skull to be some young woman's "mentor".

retina said:

I've always been mostly attracted to women my own age. It's something about being on the same wavelength and having shared frames of reference I guess. It would bore me out of my skull to be some young woman's "mentor".

I agree. But you see it so much, men with young girls who you know they have not one thing in common with except for sex!

You will be considered hot, as long as you stay hot.

KidaDynamite said:

You will be considered hot, as long as you stay hot.

Good to know!

So, no matter the age, if a woman's hot she's hot?

Just today I saw a woman in yoga pants looking totally hot, and she turned around and had to be at least 60!

lauralevesque said:

KidaDynamite said:

You will be considered hot, as long as you stay hot.

Good to know!

So, no matter the age, if a woman's hot she's hot?

Yesiree!

lauralevesque said:

retina said:

I've always been mostly attracted to women my own age. It's something about being on the same wavelength and having shared frames of reference I guess. It would bore me out of my skull to be some young woman's "mentor".

I agree. But you see it so much, men with young girls who you know they have not one thing in common with except for sex!

Yeah, well if that's what floats their boat they might as well go ahead (assuming they're both consenting adults of course). If they really want to pursue a relationship though, I think they'll run into problems pretty fast.

I am in my mid 40s and I am still hot . Not as hot as I used to be, but still hot .

NDRU said:

Just today I saw a woman in yoga pants looking totally hot, and she turned around and had to be at least 60!

So did the turning around kill it for you?

KidaDynamite said:

You will be considered hot, as long as you stay hot.

Yup.

retina said:

NDRU said:

Just today I saw a woman in yoga pants looking totally hot, and she turned around and had to be at least 60!

So did the turning around kill it for you?

She wasn't a bad looking woman, but it was a bit of a shock!

I work near a university, I seriously expected her to be 20.

NDRU said:

retina said:

So did the turning around kill it for you?

She wasn't a bad looking woman, but it was a bit of a shock!

I work near a university, I seriously expected her to be 20.

I notice that sometimes when men turn around and look at me from the front after having payed attention to what I look like from the back and they are surprised about my age when they see my face .

NDRU said:

retina said:

So did the turning around kill it for you?

She wasn't a bad looking woman, but it was a bit of a shock!

I work near a university, I seriously expected her to be 20.

Yeah, then it's like swallowing Campari when expecting it to be strawberry lemonade. It doesn't matter how tasty Campari might normally be, you'll spit it it out. lol

'til she ain't

Hello.

Forever.

Goodbye.

JustErin said:

It's all over after 35.

I have never, ever seen anyone so desperate for compliments or attention as you are.

JustErin said:

It's all over after 35.

no it's not at all

JustErin said:

It's all over after 35.

No!

JustErin said:

It's all over after 35.

I don't think so!

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LET'S BURN THE BLASPHEMOUS ERIN!!!

(Edit: the witch made the picture disappear!)

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Almost 40 and still hot. Get a lot of attention from a wide age range.

I like men of my own age the best to be with for a relationship. Just a matter of understanding.

I like young men for wild sex. Young bodies are just more sexy.

MoniGram said:

JustErin said:

It's all over after 35.

I don't think so!

Really? Do you really look at yourself after age 35 and be like, "Yeah! Everything is looking so much better as I age"?

Seriously, after 35 everything starts to go downhill, that's just a fact of life.

retina said:

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LET'S BURN THE BLASPHEMOUS ERIN!!!

Like I really give a fuck.

Helen Mirren would still get it from me.

So it depends on the lady, methinks.

<--- 40, fat and having the best sex of her life right now.

"hot" is a relative term and you are only as sexy as you feel.

So many people do not have to think you are "hot"... just the right person.

paintedlady said:

"hot" is a relative term and you are only as sexy as you feel.

So many people do not have to think you are "hot"... just the right person.

Well put.

JustErin said:

MoniGram said:

I don't think so!

Really? Do you really look at yourself after age 35 and be like, "Yeah! Everything is looking so much better as I age"?

Seriously, after 35 everything starts to go downhill, that's just a fact of life.

Not for everyone.

Yes, things change, but not everything is downhill.

(There are people under 35 who have an uphill battle...)

With age (for some) comes a more refined sense of taste, and the resources to "make it happen".

I was out reecently and ran into someone I went to high school with. He didn't recognize me because he said that I look way better than I did back then...

Even with the extra pounds, gray hair, and other "things", I am more confident and self-assured... which translates into "hot".

But like painted said, "So many people do not have to think you are "hot"... just the right person."

JustErin said:

MoniGram said:

I don't think so!

Really? Do you really look at yourself after age 35 and be like, "Yeah! Everything is looking so much better as I age"?

Seriously, after 35 everything starts to go downhill, that's just a fact of life.

I don't think anyone is saying that but also just because you are over 35 doesn't make you automatically hideous and undesirable either.